SINGLE MOMS ARGUE ABOUT MEN NOT WANTING THEM 

Elle is a Realistic person this other chick is delusional 😂😂

She is sooooo wrong... not one man in the world looks at a woman n say "oh she treats her kids so good, let me wife that up"

She trippin we live in different times ain't nobody tryna be no step dad

Elle speaking facts, GG lost in space! Ain't no solid dude want to deal with raising someone else kid. Make it make sense.

There’s a lot of great guys who make $50k - $100k but women here (a lot) tend to not want that and treat them like they’re losers.

😂😂 the attitudes between the two women are intense. 😅

These two chicks are gonna end up with each other.

Why does he have to be rich ? That's the problem with society/woman now & days.

That's not true. I married my wife and she had a kid. Who are the guy's you dating? Give Mr. Nice guy a chance and stop turning him down. This is the problem with modern women now, they worry about a man making 100k and up and get mad when he treat you like shit, but average joe will break his back to give you the world.

Man, this conversation is so good on so many levels! What really gets me, off rip, is how contrasting your perspectives are as two friends. The way y’all respect each other is pretty dope, in my opinion! I can understand the perspective of both women though. What separates the two is hope. That’s what I see. I met my man at 29 and I had 4 year old twins from another man. He opened his heart to all of us, even though he didn’t have any children. We now have a child together and he’s the most amazing/hands on father. We are all entitled to our perspective and preferences so I hope everyone gets what they’re looking for!

Women giving women the worst advice possible. “Whatever u want u can have”…..incorrect my sista. If that were the case she wouldn’t be a SINGLE mom. She’s lucky she still looks decent, most men will still use her for that, but will never ever commit, especially the type of men she’s after. This will only get harder the older she becomes. If either of them want to find a man, with their baggage, it’s gonna first start with changing there mindset.

22:57 Kevin Samuels is rolling around in his grave !

No man sees how loving a woman is to their child as thinks “yeah I wanna be w her”

You are all a BOSS!!!! Keep the vids coming.

Single moms are never the prize. There's no benefit of being with them only unessary responsibility. I'm good ill pass on that. 😂😂😂

They want Tupac in a suit they want a thug dude who wants to reform into a stand up citizen and stepdad😂

The way she just glossed over 3 men in her family are not the biological father of the child and don’t know

Elle is speaking FACTS 💯 many people are too afraid to see reality for what it is, she's not willing to remain living in a delusion. & Unless you're in a similar position, you would not understand.

If you wait until you’re both perfect to be in a relationship, you’re gonna be waiting forever

She’s said she’s too nice but can’t see how combative and uncooperative she is. Yeah she’s fine but she seems high maintenance.

If this isnt a example for young ladies, that this is what happens when you give up your goods frivolously. Its fun when your young. You get older. Have kids with boyfriends not husbands. And believe when you turn 30 you deserve a man that is willing to treat you like your young with no kids. This is the story of the 30 plus year old american female.

The young lady in the jacket is self aware and unfortunately know what men want and don't want

Here's some questions and tips that can help both ladies, especially Elle: A) Knowing the concerns that the kind of men you want have about marrying or being in a committed relationship with a single mother, what compromises are you willing to make or have made to lessen those concerns? B) What are you offering him that would be advantageous to him or that sweetens the package despite your baggage? C) A man getting with a single mother in long term relationship puts himself at a huge disadvantage right off the bat. What assurances do you offer that would affirm to him that he'll not be biting more than he wants to chew? In other words, how do you reduce the effect of the following on his relationship with you? 1) He is immediately thrust into a position of responsibility without authority for a kid or kids that aren't his 2) He is bound in that relationship with another man (her baby's father) that he'd rather not see 3) One of the major reasons why a man would want a wife is because he wants kids. He might not have the option of getting his own kids from her either because of age or some other reason that she'll come up with. How do you reconcile that? 4) Her time, right off the bat, is 100% dedicated to her kids 5) The kind of man that they're looking for, would want a woman that would get on his program and vision, who isn't too opinionated/quarrelsome or with trust issues because of her past experience with her exes and, or baby daddy. 6) Expecting him to take on the responsibility of getting her a baby sitter while still dating (this right here, tells the man that he'll never be a priority for her: a huge red flag. If you're going on a date in hope of building a long term relationship with a man, get yourself a baby sitter without involving him, especially since you're both just getting to know each other) Until you can offer remedies to the above the difficulty would most likely remain or get worse. Relationships are a give and take. The reason a lot of women, especially single mothers have a difficulty getting men to commit to them is because most of them only think of what they're getting from the man and how he's able to solve their problems or check all their boxes without considering what the man they're looking for wants in a woman and how they can make themselves that woman. It's disingenuous to say "I'm healing" or "I'm working" on myself while you're looking for a man who's already worked on himself or is already made. Any single mother who doesn't want to have more kids would have a better shot with a single father. It would be unrealistic, unreasonable and cruel to want a single man who doesn't have kids of his own to commit to you with all his attention and resources and yet doesn't get even one kid of his own from you. Come on! Let's be realistic and reasonable. If you find yourself in a challenging situation, you'll need to repackage what you're offering, including whatever comes as a baggage with you, in a way that doesn't make the other party feel like they'll be at a huge disadvantage if they choose to be in a long-term relationship with you. It's either they make adjustments and compromises that reduces these concerns for a potential suitor, thereby increasing their chances of getting the marriage/relationship that they desire or, like Elle said, get some horses and cats and live your life as you have it, or continue to believe, like Elle's friend that some simp would be dumb enough to commit without considering the enormous challenges that comes with a single mother's baggage. (Nb: No disrespect intended, just trying to offer a helpful perspective)

Where is the Vince dao video? That's what I'm waiting for

I love ypur videos! Good job, girl!

Elle is just looking for a HIGH VALUE MAN !

This is a great conversation tho... so many point of views

Green jacket lives in a realistic world, blk shirt gone hit 80 talking bout there’s still 1 man out there for me.

The older you become male or female the smaller the pool of people that do not have children. If you are a successful person single with children and you enter into a relationship with a young person without children do not expect the young person to want the responsibilities of children. After 35 you should not care!

Lady on the left is definitely RP aware. The other chick is masculine and is doomed to deal with pookies and ray ray’s for the rest of her days. Host is definitely ready to simp 😂

Elle is a smart woman. The other girl really thinks she's "special".

this gay man trying to talk to heterosexual relationships smh

One is realistic and did her research. The other is uninformed and delusional 🙄

Both are a headache 😅

The Latina has somewhat self awareness but the black woman is out of touch and it’s crazy

This is a great platform. I love Elle's honesty.

I love being a trad wife ❤ also tp avoid all of this … DONT HAVE CHILDREN WITH SOMEONE YOURE NOT WILLING TO STAY WITH THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! ITLL AVOID ALL THIS BS!

So...we're just going to ignore the fact that her male relatives are unknowingly raising kids that are not their own.

She can get a og in his late 50s

3 people who will likely die alone.

It sucks that she made a bad decision but it sucks that homies are in prison for their bad decisions. What we gonna do about it?

Moral of the story is if you're a women with kids that want a high value man (which is a combination of at least 2 of those traits: good looks, money and status), you have to make more effort to convince that man that you're the one because at face value you may look like a liability. Thats the simple honest truth.

They exist, you're not attracted to them! Silly rabbit

Elle is so beautiful... too bad she has a child.

A lot of the "Good-looking" are shallow which is ok if you're also shallow as a woman. But some of them will also be narcissistic which for anyone is something to avoid.

Please interview this couple: Adrianna & Michael Onubogu - Michael married her as a single mother and talks about his mindset towards that.

You don't need any girlfriends if you have a wife, she's your best friend. That's why he cut you off

It's not coming🤣🤣🤣

No need to get angry about it Babe but you are correct there is nothing out there, or too few to notice ,But this was foretold in the time of the end.

Not one man says I want a girl with 100k in student loan debt. But that didn’t stop three guys from wanting to marry me. The guy can like the girl with baggage and prefer her to a girl without baggage

Calling him in Gigi! ❤

Girl on the left been took dat redpill and she seeing the harsh reality; but she seem like she a nice person at heart, she can defo find a single dad or an older man who had kids already to deal wid her

He's wrong... he's only speaking of getting over a serious situation.. but being the better version of yourself has nothing to do with doing it solo. The only way to know the best version of yourself is to do it with ppl cuz thats how you know the true version of yourself.

Is Elle from New York? Just listening to that accent. kind of Brooklyn, JLo ish. Also Mike did the right thing to cut Elle off because that's his wife. This dude want his wife talkin to some dude? Folks have absolutely NO RESPECT for marriage anymore. Who said SHE dictated that move maybe Mike said out of RESPECT for my wife I'm going to cut this off. MIKE IS A GOOD HUSBAND!!!! A GOOD HUSBAND!!!! Listening to this dude he butthurt because people don't want drama in their relationship. This dude need healing, he sounds like a hurt brotha. A marriage is between a MAN and his WIFE NO ONE ELSE MATTERS!!!!

First time watcher glad I did everything Elle was saying was 100% correct, with her mentality she will find somebody, te other girl is just plain delusional

Hopeful vs Hopeless. Very interesting!

"Alone by choice" is a fallacy, if the man of your dreams came along you'd be with him. It's not "choice" when you can't find that man. It's like a fat, unemployed dude saying I'm celibate by choice. Naw, you just can't find what you want

Single ppl and married ppl do not mix...especially for long term success for a marriage. The host is wrong...some ppl have to be cut off. Average married ppl that are successful, keep the circles tiny...keep the nonsense out

Elle need some deep therapy.

The friend is 🔥

I'm confused.... Shouldnt raising you child & coparenting to the best of your ability be your number one objective??? So why ya'll baby mommas always tryna find a new step daddy. You already struck out. Pour Into your child, so they don't end up like you.

I dnt want no step dad for my kids . They have a father n no other man can take his place. Im good to be by myslef n its just me n my kids. I dnt bring ni men around any if my kids they cant name no men or say they even seen me w a men. Men come n go like under wear. Also i dnt trust no men around any of my kids thats me really i dnt trust no one w my kids. My kids dnt sleep no where but home or my moms only.

I'm married to my 1st EVERYTHING. We met when I was 11 yrs old and he was my 1st boyfriend 1st kiss all that. Our oldest is now 21 and I've been a stay at home mother. I recently learned how to drive... That's how old school we are. Other men try so hard especially when they hear my situation. But i don't necessarily think it's for my true self. People want to take others happiness. My husband and I have worked hard for years to build a private happy life! Men think... Well all the hard work is done so now I could steal her and have instant gratification. I barely have friends because other females think the same way. I don't have a perfect life but I work hard to stay happy. I had a good father but I didn't have a mother. She only talked to me when she was all out of attention from men. Every female in my family is not good examples as ah damn person in general. Andrew Tate is a horrible human being!!! I wouldn't want my son's to grow up and be like him! Money isn't happiness. Hard working for the people you love equals happiness.

Man I can see exactly why these two women are where they are in their love life. They need to truly heal.

Are shoulder pads back? Lol

This bih just said “in acient times women stayed home and took cate of the house and children” lady that was but FIFTY YEARS AGO

My husband is adopting my son I had on my own. I agree with Gigi. You have to be open to your match. Focus on what you want not in what you don’t want. Allow kindness in. Don’t lose faith, there are still beautiful, genuine gentlemen out there. And I’m over 40, my dad wasn’t in my life and my husband is someone I met by chance at an amusement park

Support system?? 😂😂😂

Does she mean. The Law😂

Say away from these women

Also, this guy knows what hes talking about. Everything he is saying is fact's.

Hopefully, he has enough money to afford a babysitter for my kid.

I see why this whole panel sucks at relationships

Delusion off the charts, and the guy just smiles and nods.... Jesus Christ dude...

She needs to listen to Kevin Samuels everyone knows in general long distance relationships do not work you have to build a intimate connection

How do these type of guy exist the world my mans live in good show tho it’s needed u get to see both sides

Sebastian and GG are lost and need to find them selfs this enterveiw put it all out there L is the one who is very intune she will likely have and find love before they will just going off mental health

Men is not running from a woman that have one child

A thief will justify their actions, and a d boy will justify why what they do is their truth. Everyone will make an excuse, quantify, or tell themselves whatever makes sense. A person who can only afford a used car can only afford a used car; if your credit is jacked up, you have a bad job, you have no cash. That is a reality. No matter why you are in that position, that has nothing to do with anyone else. A man who can't get what they want must settle for what they can get. If he doesn't have a good job, bad credit is fat, short, little pee-pee, he will have to deal with a woman who may not be who he really wants if he doesn't want to be alone, and a woman who can't qualify for what she wants will settle regardless of what they tell themselves eventually. That is why so many are in bad relationships, single, and get exploited. If you have never been wealthy, you can't speak about what wealthy people do because you don't even know what goes into becoming and staying wealthy; you are from the outside looking in. You get what you qualify for if you want a Mansion, but you never had the money, credit, or job and have never been through the process. How can you even speak about it? And listening to people who haven't either. In life, they shame the elite 1%, but the reason they do is because most will never be in that 1%, so it is easier to demonize; some will dream of being there. Is the possibility there that you could? Yes, is the PROBABILITY that you will - NO. If you screwed up your credit in the past, you would have to work 10x harder than someone that didn't just to get to the basics, your 500 credit score may allow you to buy a Benz, but your price will be much higher than someone that has a 700 credit score. Any excuse you provide is irrelevant. Your credit is your history, all the things you have done will add up and you will have to deal with the consequences which may be being single, dealing with trash people OR if you have put in the work required and then you may qualify some day, but the thing is most don't do or want to do the work, they will talk a big game, tell them whatever makes them feel good and paint a pretty picture but faith without work is dead!

Elle is right. It does not exist. Especially once a woman already has a child. That’s no disrespect but it’s the truth. Does not mean you not pretty or any of that but men at the at level ain’t gonna settle for an older woman with a child. The homie is trying to live life on the rules of exception. They’d not realistically thinking. That’s a setup for failure.

I was damn near understanding her until she hit me with the Andrew Tate. Shit that my boi but that’s the man you want yea you gotta work on yourself 💯 too hurt

Blame feminism. They wanted women to work therefore prices were raised by gov to require everyone to live a two income lifestyle

That’s a different generation that did that

Elle is a lesbian, if anyone noticed.

Dont be snippy to your guest girl ❤

I can see why the co-host dude is gone now. 😴

Gigi should buy the dog now😂😂 she thinks shes sweet but you can sense the combative attitude

Men and women cannot be friends unless there is a purpose behind it. Other than that there’s no point, we can’t be friends just to be friends

GG ❤ speaking facts!! An she’s so beautiful.. GG you need a podcast.. The man does exist a lot of times we don’t tell these man up front what we want so we waste our time.. I’m a single mom an on the first date he offered to pay for the sitter. Life is how you look at it.. Age doesn’t matter it’s how you carry yourself honestly.

22:55 so that's your fault.

She just wants her BD back and that’s all

Sorry but no man has ever said he wants to be with a woman because of how she treats her child. The days of black Men being expected to be step dads are also over.

Delusional

The entitlement from women is crazy🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

24:17 what do you think "gorgeous " women do??

😂😂😂😂

Homegirl is delusional lol

When des females hit 30 and anit wit they babydaddy or married they be cranky and want they bills paid first day y’all meet gotta get a young tender 😂😂😂

Men and women cannot be friends. the new wife is not wrong all female friends have to go and I’m a man

32:13 😂😂😂😂