When a woman says she’s sleeping with a man strictly for sex but he and she doesn’t want a relationship…9 times outta 10 it’s the guy who doesn’t want the relationship but she’s making it look like it’s a mutual thing. The fact that that man gets your body is all that the next man hears. And another thing, a mistake is unintentional and you try your very best not to repeat it. But you’re sleeping with that man numerous times but on the other hand want a God fearing man.
10 times out of 10. One of the reasons I stoped having “situationships” which actually worked well for me at the time was because the women kept getting attached and falling in love.
Casual sex is disgusting for whom?. For the girl to have needs, and finding her designated itch scratcher to hit it for her; I find that quite interesting.
Tessa was talking a lot of shit. As a woman, I’m glad that Kendra is holding women accountable. We all aren’t crazy with unrealistic expectations. This lady is a HARD 40, that presents more like 60. She’s 13 years younger than me and could damn near pass for my mother. She’s overweight and has 6 kids with 3 fathers. Just look for a nice man who treats you well and don’t worry about the money. And a 35 year old man making $75K isn’t going anywhere near her. That’s a TOP TIER young man and he’ll be looking for his match to start his own family.
Can you tell these older women that again? None of the men I know are looking for older women at all and I'm 35. All my friends are 34 to 36 and make close to 6 or well over 6 figures. Not looking for older washed women. 😂
Qualina perfect example of the BS men have to deal with today. Letting some random Pookie take her joy riding for free while requiring other guys to pay new car prices. Then got the nerve to say she's god-fearing? As Kevin Samuels used to say you can't make this s*** up.
I just had to explain to my wife why that wasn’t ok in man logic she had a face of frustration the whole time,she still didn’t like the logic of letting a man hit for nothing no work versus letting the man you want to be with forever have to jump to the moon to get the same prize it frustrated me almost why my wife couldn’t get this through her head 🤦🏿♂️
I'm so sick of everyone wanting God-fearing and then justify sexual promiscuity. The Bible is extremely clear on this. Those who practice sexual immortality WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD.
And she kept saying 3 times the rent. That’s 3 times YOUR rent. He may have a 1 bed 1 bath apartment and pays 1200 a month. That’s 43,200 a year. So what is she expecting him to come in and take over her rent payment? But she also said “a lot of women are looking for someone to help financially” 🙄 that’s exactly what she is asking for. She is no different.
1:04:32 “I feel for my black sisters”…..hmmm….Let’s be very honest, on this show, you’re mostly talking about women that made horrible life choices. Tessa made horrible life choices and is now dealing with the ramifications of them. This isn’t a “lack of quality black men” thing, this is a marry before you carry thing.
The man have it worst, all thats left in the wake are single baby mothers, most overweight, and normally sleeping around frequently while waiting on the next man to save em
Qualina: I don't want no freaky man Kendra: when was the last time you were intimate with someone Qualina: two days ago Kendra: why you can't be with him And why are you sleeping with someone you’re not going to be in a relationship with Qualina: for sex unbelievable smh
I thought she said that she didn't want a man acting freaky when they just met. I may have missed the part where she said she did not want a freaky man.
@@kymob803 right now at this moment she's sleeping with a man just for sex with no commitment that's freaky 😂😂 but know you wanna act like mother Teresa on here 😂
I think people lie about it being there first time seeing/hearing about the show. They often say that when Kendra says it's camera time. The church lasy said that it's her first time yet she already had her profile up! I feel like it's a bit of a defense mechanism.
I like that KG is giving push back to the first caller.... for the 100th time ladies Sleeping with a dude that you view isn't "good enough" to be in a relationship WHILE looking for a man is one of the biggest issues in modern dating. Thinking the "perfect" guy getting "all of you" is a reward just isn't how guys view it.... "All of you" is typically paying for dates, listening to you, dealing with your issues, your families issues, paying for all the bills, you feeling "comfortable" around him(aka not dressing sexy), hearing you're too "tried for sex" or "you don't like that".... THIS ISN'T A REWARD The guy that gets to pop up for only the fun times = actually getting the reward.... while not dealing with any of the negatives.
Another thing I have been married for over 20 years and trust me listening to your mate and dealing with issues is a every single day thing and it takes patience 😂women really have no idea how much mental energy those 2 things take 🤷🏿♂️
Oh I couldn’t agree more. Same exact reasoning and words goes for men with women. Why are you having a spiritual energy exchange with someone you don’t even consider worthy of commitment and consistency? It’s disgusting!
@melaninandaura9713 yeah it really works both ways It's really sad that this is what modern dating is now Have sex with people you won't commit to whole waiting for this perfect unicorn to appear AND be so great you cut everyone else off
Ladies no man walking the earth is "intimidated" by a women with multiply kids.... please please please stop using that word when men decide there are better options. Men just don't want to deal with it.... once it past 1 or 2, its not worth it.
Some men may in fact be intimidated and there's no shame in that. It's a lot to take on, multiple kids, multiple baby daddies, increased financial burden, less time with the mom, etc. May God bless and strengthen the men who do. And thanks to the ones who know themselves well enough to know it would be too much for them. It's all good.
@@M.T.-qm4rt That is not intimidation The juice isn't worth the squeeze A men not wanting to deal with all the "extra" is a smart men, not a scared one.
@@M.T.-qm4rt I'm saying using the term "intimidated" is not correct. No reasonable men worth anything would be willing to deal with 6 kids that aren't his.... this is some hot take or some crazy take A men didn't work his butt off, to take care of another men kids
11:23 Qualina: It’s simple, the man she’s sleeping with doesn’t want to be with her. She probably wants him, but the feeling isn’t mutual. They’re fck buddies.
I also get the feeling she did this so he would see it and that’s why she didn’t want to say too much about him…. Hoping he might want to lock her down🙄😂
"Because I'm human" I repeatedly and intentionally sin -Qualina. The human excuse is the #1 lack of accountability go-to. There are levels to humanity. You can be a horrible human or a human who exercises discipline and sticks to your values-we have free will.
Exactly! I had never expected a man that I was dating to pay my bills! The nerve of these low hanging fruit women, actually they are all rotten fruit at this point!
I’m divorced and make $200K, 2 kids from my divorce. I am with a man who asked me to pay 10%, I agreed😂😂😂. He makes more than me, but honey I was doing it alone before😂😂😂.
I don’t understand how people don’t want to help at all when they are able. Whesther it’s 10% 30% or 50% why not help the person you claim to love. I personally don’t need 50/50 but make some kind of real contribution so that I know it’s real. 🤷🏽♂️
If your kids live with you most of the time and his don’t, you should be paying most of the bills because you and your family will create most of the bills PLUS you s/b getting child support. But hey, there’s a simp/step dummy born everyday 😂😂 My integrity wouldn’t allow me to be unfair to someone I claimed to love. SMH
She should be paying exactly the 10% that he has asked. Its apparent in yall comments it shows your average earners & he is not. You are with a good man, very happy to hear ❤🎉
Miss G, I am only listening to John without seeing him but I knew immediately that he is looking for a man! 🙈 Perhaps you should start asking what kind of partner are you looking for because that will eliminate the confusion of whether your callers want a man or a woman. Bye! ❤ from Sweden
The sad part is, renita is in the acceptable range physically. Put her mindset is so completely off. I find myself thinking when I meet people in public that I wish I saw them on this show so I could hear their answers to these questions. It's not like the questions are perfect and I wouldn't switch out the questions if given an opportunity. But you learned so much about the mindset of the person answering by not just what they say but also how they say it.
How is my mind set off? I was just speaking from MY experience and I keep encountering men that seem to always need some type of help. Which is why I am still single. I answered her questions to the best of my ability. She asked what type of man I want but I made it clear that the money part is NOT a deal breaker.
@@renitajohnson8524 when you're speaking about men that operate in lack. For instance I believe you mentioned about living in your mother's home. That tells us the level of man you're used to dealing with. And you may not be ready or prepared for dealing with a man who does not operate in lack.
@@TruthFLA Not true. I always give men a fair chance. I have run into men that still live at home and it didn’t work out for me. That was just me not judging, doing something that I don’t usually do and giving it a chance. So I only stated my desire. If that makes sense.
One love to the Kendra fans watching at 7:30 AM, the morning after, on the treadmill. You know you need to increase that step goal to 12,000 daily, but you keep thinking you can level up staying at the same level. That’s not how this works. Tighten up.
It’s 5am on the west coast and yes indeed I am walking around the park working on my steps. I guess I’ll do 12,000 today since you said something 😅 lol
Ky-Asia was the only good pick until she said she expects a man who was not married to pay for her bills. #disqualified But your SPOUSE is supposed to help/take care of the bills and if y'all want to do 50-50,100-0, etc. that's your business . I said it once I said it twice whether I make $50K or $500K it doesn't matter because if we are not married my only job is to respect you and take you out on the dates I can comfortably afford. If you are NOT married, my child, or my parent nobody should be paying your bills. Men please don't pay anybody bills you are not married to and if you do make sure they have a very strong history of ALWAYS paying you back.
I agree Men shouldn’t pay a woman’s bills he’s not married too. And a woman should not have sex til marriage either. Ppl need to get back to the way God made it to be.
@@Rashaadthegr8 I totally agree, and I just had the same conversation with my significant other. We are not married yet, and we have separate households. We can sustain each household individually, and it is not expected from either of us to support each other‘s bills. Once the marriage is official we will delegate expenses,but until then we keep everything separate.
Kendra loves this “I feel bad for Black women because there’s not enough of the men you want out there” routine when in reality there are tons. Women get the men they want when they qualify. Enough of this “woe is the Black woman” nonsense..
Call in have good light great sound and make sure your background for the Kendra can is clean. It’s so embarrassing seeing these messy houses and bedrooms. Yet you all want a relationship you need to clean up. Cleanliness is next to godliness.
When you know it’s a sin and you continue to do it there is no grace and mercy from God for that sin. That’s the only way you can show God that you love him, to be obedient to him.
That’s what I love about your god, all you have to do is “really mean it” the next time. 😂😂😂😂 You can’t judge her, there is no state apparatus to judge her, so it is free for all.
I swear if I hear another women say that they are the table!!! That ain't worth NOTHING, then ur table comes with a load or plates and it wobbles 🤦🏾♂️
It’s the god concept, that’s the whole point of it. If you have enough votes, money, or ammo, your god can be, do, or say anything you want him to say.
Faith, 1. Claims to by God fearing, 2. Has children out of wedlock, 3. Has recently had sex although she is "waiting for marriage to have sex." 4. Has fake (filtered) photos but wants honesty, and 5. Is a pastor, but picks and chooses which parts of the Bible she will practice.
Asking a friend, do Kendra contestants exist in real life cos in years since the pandemic, I have yet to run into these folks or am I living a sheltered life‼️
Qualina is a whole preschool teacher. She teaching the kids yall! 😭 If my child was in her class I'd pull them immediately. Something wrong wit her. Slooooow 🚌 Not sure why you came on Kendra at 2am. You should have just went to sleep sis.
I used to work in Education after college and you’d be surprised how many bad early education teachers their are. I was in a teacher credential program with a Latino brother who literally struggled on 100% of the assignments. I remember speaking with someone after hours from the class where they told me the following saying, “those who can’t, Teach.” Supposedly that is a common saying in education. 🤷🏽♂️
@@10_door_tycoon I guarantee you that the people who say those who can't, teach, have no idea who coined that phrase and where it's from. It's meant as an insult to teachers. Anybody who believes that is a fool. Without teachers there would be no progress because everyone would have to learn everything by experience.
@@Coolsnacker Superbly said! That whole insult exists because of people not being in jobs/careers suitable to their gifts and because of company protocols that allow you a position you don't fit/qualify for simply because you have a degree in something (even if it's unrelated). Also, when people get laid off or if there's a recession, etc. they use those unrelated degrees to get jobs teaching (which is always in demand) so they'll have an income. Never mind the fact that they hate kids, don't know HOW to teach, don't want to be there and don't necessarily understand what they're teaching. And when they inevitably do a bad job, it reflects poorly on and is counted against actual teachers! Ugh.
To all my high value men NEVER let a woman tell you that you have to do something to be with them! You are the prize and Kendra G show proves why every time it comes on! They up at 3am looking for you! Also never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too! BF/GF isn’t honored by GOD!
You hv a deep problem. You are not in position to tell men what not to do. Another ting, you up late on kG, too, where is your concubine? Keep your opinión to yourself..
Seems like you're routinely up at 3am following these women since you can vouch for what the show "proves every time it comes on." Why are you over here, Mr. Prize? And why would all the "high value men" you're calling out to on this page be here in the first place? You're desperate for men to think the way you do. You know you don't speak for all of them and that triggers you. Men aren't stupid and they can see red flags just like you can. And since you're quoting what's honored by God, where does it say, "Never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too!" Further, boyfriends and girlfriends didn't exist in biblical days so for you to say that they're not honored by God doesn't even make sense. . . 😩
Renita said she was the "table"🙄🙄. The "table" represents the relationship. So " what do you bring to the relationship?" I am the relationship 🙄 Narcissism at its finest
The income of the men were you were younger and prettier doesn't really matter because you're older and a lesser version than the person you were when you were younger. No man with sense making six figures is going to take his hard-earned money and invest it in another man's children. That man will all the sudden go from living comfortably to living paycheck to paycheck because he's an investing in children that are not his
Qualina wants a Provider, but just slept with a guy "A few days ago" SMH. Ky-Asia's attitude is HORRIBLE. She is definitely argumentative and combative.
i wouldn’t date Ky-asia if she was the last woman in the galaxy, also she on here talking mad crazy, girl u not that goid looking and you in chicago, for every 1 of you there are 5-6 better options
Every time I watch this show, im enlighten on the ignorance so many people here around dating. What I've learned can only be explained in a BOOK! But to get to the point of this episode... ladies ladies ladies clean-up the narrative. If yoir single seeking a relationship that doesn't resembles your past. You need to present yourself better. 6 kids 3 men never married, sexing someone young but seeking a relationship where the man has no relationship or interaction with your kids sounds like a SITUATIONSHIP. Is he rolling in after 10pm and rolling out by 7am? How do you intentionally choose to date and the person NOT be socially involved with your children. This is senseless. "I take care of my kids" a partner may not financially support your kids but wouldn't you want someone that can provide guidance, leadership, structure, consistency, etc...
All that talking to Nicole is she don’t even have the app hell no we need to change that up. They gotta show Kendra the app first then they can get on the show.
Perhaps that should be apart of the intro... show the room and the app... but the problem you dont want to make the show to hard for ppl to come on... adding to many barriers means alot less ppl in the queue
It seems like a lot of people who call in want people who come without any flaws or room for growth. Not everyone makes 6 figures,but that doesn’t mean they won’t one day. I wonder if some of these people watch their interviews over to see how bad they come off. I mean if I were a man I would not reach out to any of the women from tonight. Some of them were really rude. Keep thinking money is more important and end up with some scammers or a man who presents themselves like they got a lot of money. I mean I know some men who do that. Sadly I’m related to them and surprisingly it’s not hard for them to pull women or girls I should say. SMH
I think a lot of the women come with a list of ideals that they know deep down they won't get, but they're shooting for the stars anyway. As time passes and no one quite measures up, they'll realize men's potential for growth that you mentioned and will also probably see more of their own flaws. Hopefully that understanding will bring balance and they'll end up equally yoked with their mate.
@@M.T.-qm4rt I think men and women tend to do this. It’s just human nature I guess. Everyone wants perfection,but that’s just isn’t how the world works. People are meant to grow and change.
Question: Why do people say liars are a dealbreaker? Liars are gonna lie and not say, "Hi, I'm John, I'm a liar" That's just something you will find out as you get to know them. Then you'll know, don't get serious and give of yourself too much before you gather if the person is a person of integrity.
Yep, this is true in general, too. Pay attention to what people say and ask questions. It's part of vetting people for any relationship, really. And you're right, if it's their nature to lie, asking for an honest person up front won't help! 😂
Ky-Asia, any adult would expect that you can afford your own light bill and other utilities, because how were you paying them before he showed up? Ma'ma make it make sense, the question is "IN DATING " this is a totally unrealistic exception for anyone. What if he only takes you out on 3 dates? Does he paid your electric bill that month? Is it prorated? 😂😂😂 Now I see why men ask what do you bring to the table? Women are out here leading with FINANCE. Paying bills is definitely a conversation to have when you both are committing to be exclusive.
Women with poverty mindsets are the main ones that do this. I would be embarrassed as hellz if my daughter said this to a man. It basically shows that she had a TERRIBLE upbringing.
Why does Kendra cut people off if they don’t do Zodiac signs and NOT ALLOW them just say their damn birthday? I rather know someone’s ACTUAL BIRTHDAY OVER THEIR SIGN. She only asks their ACTUAL BIRTHDAY if they are a Taurus.
I think even if they don’t believe in zodiac signs . I do so I want to hear it. she could say, although you don’t believe in zodiac signs what is your sign because some people may wanna know.
Ya'll stop being so petty. Ya'll can't even have a decent conversation with one person, and Kendra is talking to 100's of people every week. She's good at what she does. Let her do her thing.. Yall petty as hell.
A lot of women get on this show and expect and demand a man pay their bills, but don't have a problem paying their own right currently. These people are delusional.
Whew child I guess I am very weak then. I never wanted to be a single mother. I mean you have the kids, take care of them alone, and all that drama. I still wish you the best sista Tessa.
Disclaimer! Any woman with multiple kids (when asked) what does she bring to the table, and her reply is “I am the table” is the biggest red flag ever, run away from these women, with the quickness, you will thank me later.
It's giving "sponsor" or escort 😬 like this is not a normal arrangement. Covering someone else's expense is a nice gesture but when it's a requirement, it turns into another dynamic.
