tamtamtyrell here...Thank you everyone for the positive comments. Yes! I was super nervous! I am not good at public speaking (add it to my list of flaws) The negative comments unfortunately are a given on this show ( I laughed at most of them because I have a sense of humor ...but I hope ya'll heal. My place isn't empty, it's called a hallway. I do have pictures on the hallway wall and other rooms. Just because my kitchen is clean doesn't mean I can't cook. To the men making negative comments about my age or wanting a provider...this is what I mean about tearing women down...I am just not for you. (Always think about your mother, grandmother, sisters, aunts and daughters) and men speaking down on them because of their age, looks, race, body type, class, etc. May God awaken you.
Ida and her husband dusty and goofy, soon as the kousins get in their inboxes and start saying crazy sh*t to them they gonna come back mad and whining. Kendra you allowed them back on after they clearly took up time acting childish. I saw 3 🤡s while all that was happening.
@@idajs4006 this ain’t the show for that go somewhere else and do that. Don’t come on hear acting stupid when there’s people who’s been waiting for months to find love, that’s waiting in line. Like I said childish dusty and goofy both of y’all.
It's 2024, any women that expects there partner to pay 100% of the bills is a clown.... lets stop sugarcoating it, lets stop pretending it, that is simply clown behavior That should be an instant no for any reasonable men. I don't care about how much money a person makes, its the attitude around it
How is being a father a benefit to a woman when it's not her child. Smh these dudes embarrassing af. Too many of us out here without kids for women to put up with that.
If he is a good father to his child it demonstrates that he has a noble character and takes care of his responsibilities. It’s a foreshadow that he is most likely going to continue to be a good dad with the woman he falls in love with and marries.
I always wonder this, and the same applies to the women who say they would be a good partner because they take care of their kids. Okay, you're doing what you're supposed to do as a parent.
Why should a man be a provider when women fought for the right to make their own money and provide themselves and they do?! Any man that falls for that 100% provider stuff is not smart.
I just was saying this last week most of the women's that been coming on the show lately been saying they are looking for a provider I truly agree with you
Robert, the woman who LOVES YOU will LOVE ALL OF YOU. Tattoos ain't the problem. You're on your knees right now bro. Stop beggin for love. STAND UP my brother. Your self esteem is gettin a beatdown. Never allow ANYONE to DEFINE WHO YOU ARE. You are a KING👑 There's about 15 to 20% marriageable black women out here. The rest of this is bullshit and time wasting. These people have no creditability to critique anything about you. Make sure YOU are a MAN everyday, and stay in your masculine frame.🪟 Make YOUR OWN decisions that are beneficial to your LIFE. You gotta LEAD bro. Don't ever follow a woman anywhere. Women don't respect weak Men. Change your MENTALITY, change your BODY, and then change your ENVIRONMENT. You're saying ALL the RIGHT THINGS, but you're talking to the WRONG PEOPLE. Good luck bro.
😂😂😂😂baby girl we both work hard all week why not get drunk on a good friday n enjoy ourselves TOGETHER a whole family over here we triple straight sitting back tripping on y’all mfs out here looking for love 😂😢awww
@vincentmartin1863 mhm nobody is gonna take you seriously with all that get up and distraction on your face but all over your body too cause he had tats all over his neck arms hands fingers etc plus the piercings smh
It's hilarious how many people think Naomi is struggling. Folks, she's on maternity leave in a country that takes steps to help its people. It is not even close to what you're used to in good ol' America.
It's not funny, most of these Americans are dumb as a rock.. look at this channel, the comments, the host...now they must choose between Harris or Trunp smh
Ida and her husband are perfect for each other. Neither speaks in complete sentences, incoherent, and giggle incessantly. Why return though? The response you got is wtf it is.
Speaking of incomplete sentences; This man reminds me of a 34 time convicted FELON who speaks in INCOMPLETE sentences and currently to escape PRISON, sorry my bad, I mean running to become a president of this country 🇺🇸🇺🇸
I would like to tell all the ladies if a person don't treat you right talk to you right and ain't self-sufficient ain't loyal ain't respectful ain't honest move on but make sure you give yourself some space to clear your mindset and you could step into your beauty it won't be feeling bitter miserable about how somebody treated you or did you wrong I didn't validate you
It's so interesting how average women think that they are too good for average men. If a woman want's a top of the line man, she has to be top of the line herself. As Kendra say, you can want what you want. But does that person want you back.?
@@charlesedward5216 I'm not average at all. My body is real, and I know how to treat men and go out on a regular basis. I just haven't found my person. I am casting a wider net. Thank you!
The woman rob was dealing with had a problem with his image, a lot of women won’t date a man with tattoos all over the face, plus the nose and lip rings. There’s somebody for him, just might take awhile.
Yes, there is definitely some for him regardless of his face, tattoos and piercings. He seems like a really cool person. And I do agree once you start hearing him talk he seems like a really good guy. I think the girl that was texting him from different numbers, confused herself, and she should kick rocks
he needs a woman who works for herself and is a free spirit where image doesn't matter in her lifestyle like a hairstylist, small shop owner, or online business owner.
She referred to it as welfare herself. You're right that some people are just haters but she didn't do herself any favours, she doesn't seem very smart
@@boorhaave5880 She actually called it a welfare system, which it is. People just don't have the range to understand that welfare isn't just food stamps.
Princess Davis just call yourself a typical masculine lesbian looking for fellow lesbians and call it a day period stop trying to confuse people and waste their time thanks
Mind your own business and leave people alone. You can’t tell people what to call themselves, not confusing at all they know exactly who and what they were looking for. Stfu
@lindseynero1000 agreed this is getting out of hand like the first 4 women on the show like get it together you are on a live platform for millions to see get it together and present yourself it's not that difficult
She doesn’t have to satisfy you, it’s NOT your life. What makes you people think you have the right to tell someone how they should identify? The NERVE
Divine Photos was on point with his comment. The manosphere concept promotes masculinity, encourages men to become a better version of themselves, and directs us to seek feminine, fit and cooperative women. I don’t see a problem with that idea.
@@pearlpearl3806 honey I don’t care what you think. You don’t dictate what I want and what I will and won’t go for, girl please the nerve of you bitches.. You can’t do what I do. I get anything I want out of these fucking Africans. KISS my ass. I answered all of her questions honestly, and I don’t give a damn what none of y’all think. It wasn’t all over the place. It was actually a nice conversation. I don’t have to live by your fucking societal rules, kiss my motherfucking ass bitch. You can’t cam up to show your SpongeBob SquarePants built body and unattractive face. You have to watch that’s about it.😂
Always count on the sisterhood to come save their very own, no matter if they are pretty, 57, never married, no kids, and wants the world. If she foul have what she is asking for, she would have had it a long time ago SISTERHOOD! The men were teeing you all “She is a chameleon, w typical “Sprinkle Sprinkle “ aka Working woman. She admitted to another she ain’t a maid for a man cooking and cleaning but said she would be doing those things previously lol. She is basically a walking 🚩that’s just betting to manipulate a man out of some coins and move along as she has been doing for years lol. 😊
Tam is an example of a Modern WN wanting a Traditional MN. Wants a Provider who pays all the bills. But when someone brought up cooking and cleaning. They got told that they were looking for a maid. Cant make this ish up 😂😂
I don't recall saying they were looking for a maid. There are hundreds of thousands of women willing to go 50/50..I just so happen to be not one of them. I said I was nurturing (what is understood doesn't need to be spelled out) There is a difference in auditioning and positioning. I am positioning myself for the right man. Good luck with your search, if you don't have someone.
@@_astraeus_9045You know The Sistahood will Cosign her. Now imagine the reaction if a MN came on demanding a Traditional WN. While not expecting to be a Traditional MN.
As long as he's a good father, that's all, and he has your respect? You don't even know him, and you don't even respect the women that have been good to you. Crazy. I understand why ya'll be getting messed up now. It doesn't make any sense
Ok tamtam ima give it to you plain mens options are crazy yours are really limited because of your age its just reality love take your feelings out of it now this is gonna hurt theres multiple 23 yr version of you thats fun and drama free and they can procreate and dont complain start listening to men...therapy you need feedback on your thought process relationships are the key to life of course your beautiful but it doesnt make you more deserving of anything love....its ok baby girl after you let all the bs go youll get with that guy you been turning down for however long❤ life is short
I skipped, he had the same depressing, dry energy in the same depressing dark room as his first interview. He may be a wonderful partner but I don’t see how his energy will attract a positive person..
Ida and her husband piss me off every single time. I kinda feel bad for Ida though bc he seems like an alcoholic and she seems trapped in a toxic relationship with him. Either way, they're annoying ah every single time.
Ida appeared very immature and her husband was drunk. I would not have come back to them, and he is to loud . Why is it he can hear but she kept saying she can't hear.o😮
Yeah, I remember them from before. They were looking for a poly addition to their marriage and now they’re back so obviously the poly is not working and they just need to get a divorce.
Ida seems to be a lil touched😕 and to be MARRIED WITH KIDS IS HONESTLY INSANE!!🤯 Also, Kendra you are wayyyy better than me!! I would’ve hung up as soon as she was watching you on another phone loud af😭
Women saying that they cook and clean has become as much a mantra as women using the word narcissist on this show. Ladies what does cooking and cleaning mean to you? Are you cooking your man at least two meals a day 7 days a week? When you say you clean, what are you doing? With today's moderns cleaning aids, it's not as if you are going to be doing that everyday unless y'all some messy folks. Just what does that mean?
Has society is the way it is if a person come off as arrogant conceited self-centered cocky condescending aggressive move on but give yourself time give yourself space and keep your hands up and look above for a new chapter of better chapter with your next dating experience you don't have to stay with someone that don't validate you as a woman can someone that does not respect you as a human being
I’m moving to New Zealand!!! 🎉 Leave in other countries is waaaay different in the US. I have employees in many countries who have MUCH better benefits than we do here 🎉
Naomi Grey says she got pregnant from a guy she was just hooking up with? So why doesn’t she just keep hooking up with him? A baby shouldn’t stop her hookup culture with this guy
We are allowed to do what the fuck we want. Everyone is their own individual. Bitch I’m not in a fucking cult. I was born in the land of the free, so I will do what in the fuck I want to do, kiss my motherfucking ass.
I don't hang in Desoto. We live in the same 25 mile radius but chances are we will never cross paths our entire life time. Some of ya'll men don't use logic...there is more to partnering than living in the same metroplex
These grown folks don’t know what they want or looking for smdh ion know you you put up with some and he just sound drunk good luck to finding anyone that wants to join this ish .
Yes indeed, I don’t have to conform to you, peasants expectations the nerve of you bitches to think I should conform to the way you think I should. Y’all look for approval within a man bitch, I am the approval. What I say goes, and I like it like that. You guys hate that I’m not giving anyone control. This is my life, fuck y’all.
“Kendra it’s been a year since I been on your show and I still haven’t found a man, most of the men that hit me up was short, even though they met the credit score, financial, no child, own house, car etc requirement they was short Kendra! There was one tall guy but he was gay, I didn’t believe he was gay so I dated him just to really see and Kendra he really was!! Kendra help I need a man girl!”
1:12:01 TamTam: For those wondering how such a beautiful woman that seems to have so much going for her ends up at 47 with no man and looking for a provider, Just watch the 27 yr old woman that came on after here. Young women with pretty faces, nice bodies, but little focus and no guidance think all of those assets will keep bringing “the boys to the yard”. I wish TamTam the best. My twenty something was taught early on to focus on finding a husband. Brains stay, beauty fades, but family is forever.
Oh, I have plenty of guidance. I don’t need no fucking man to guide me, bitch I guide his barefoot stick fighting ass straight to the bank for a withdrawal. Fuck what yall are talking about. I don’t have to live by your rules, and I don’t give a damn what you think. Obviously… I came on the live and said all of that. Your disapproval on what the fuck I’m doing in my life that I have control over, means nothing. Your need to be validated by another means you’re mad because no one‘s looking for validation from you. You want that so bad. I would never give you peasants control over me to care about what the fuck y’all think. Fuck y’all. 😂 You piss poor peasants are not my Heavenly Father. You all can kiss my ass. I’ll do what I want. It’s my life and I have only 1 to live. 💅🏾🇺🇸
@@tamarathomas9479Granny, I'm in Dallas, I know a lot of guys in the income bracket you described. They've all been married for over 10 years. Myself included. They all got married before they started making real 💰.
Yeah she’s on one she got too much to say ! Tam men don’t to deal with a combative woman period it doesn’t bring peace it brings calamity. Men want peace, love , loyalty, respect, nurturing and someone to follow simple instructions! Everything isn’t a debate or battle but it is when it’s two captains steering the ship !
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