Keah my dear you are phenomenal! I am a black woman giving you your flowers! You are worthy of love and commitment! You will find someone to love you and your precious Daughter! Just because you are mom does not mean you are counted out.. Well wishes to you and your future endeavors.. ❤
I like how cool, calm, and collective Keah handles herself. Very becoming and attractive. When she said “this is where I hold myself accountable” I almost bust one. 🤷🏾♂️ You don’t hear that from women often….pretty much ever. She presented herself well with great qualities and reasonable standards for a man. She got yammich too. Wife this woman up.
People like TJ needs to acknowledge that the women that reaches out is his equal. People often think that they deserve better than their option. Anytime people come back to redo the show, they are in denial of their option.
Totally agree. The fact that he said he received "upwards of 100" women reaching out after his first time on tells a lot! That number is really low for this show. 😬 Sounds like he wants a baddie that doesn't act like a baddie. He wants a beautiful, baddie, boss/professional woman, but most of those women seem to want a $200k man! 😂 I wish him luck, though. ❤
Married and divorced, don’t know why, but it’s probably the ex-husband’s fault, he was a narcissist. Then became a baby mama to a dude who isn’t a provider. Is this an example of “got it together” well I guess some people definition is different from others.
Yall be acting like yall are perfect and don’t have a past 😂 smh the REAL flex is going through life and in spite of what you go through keep your bank account in the green and yourself together with a smile because life isn’t easy. Keya, is beautiful and for the most part has her shit together..I don’t understand why all of the hate and jealousy! ❤ Keya keep doing you while these mfs hate in the 💬
@@SteveB381so you men have a problem that had a baby outside of wedlock and inside of marriage ? Weirdos just say you have a problem with women wanting anything you cannot provide. Men of high value are not in comments spewing nonsense
Keah attitude and outlook on things is a breath of fresh air. She’s impressive. Well spoken. At peace. Beautiful. Natural. I’d be happy to provide for her if she didn’t have kids. ❤❤She’ll do great.
TJ talks too much. He should have said a dealbreaker for him is a woman who talks a lot because he needs time to talk you to death. Both of y'all cant be talkers ..
You missed the red flag 🚩 she said a man could not physically discipline her child. Unless you are totally ignorant to the truth we as rational adults all know that young people go through that phase were they like to rebel due to peer pressure and social media. I’m give you and others a scenario you married this woman that you find genuine and her daughter. The daughter breaks curfew and you remind her about that instead of being accountable or explaining herself she tells you to go blank off. In your home that you’re paying for. You brings this to Keah she ignores it and you. Instant divorce and I’m not going no where near her. Have it been horror stories in the past involving step dad or bfs taking the life of the child yes. But the single mom can not draw all men in the same breath better yet stop saying it was the biological dad fault the reason your single mom how about the choices you made in men
@@GradyBrown-i3m She's banking on finding a man who can't recognize a chameleon and truth is: she will probably find a FEW! Brothers in this country are just as lost as the women...
@@GradyBrown-i3m she said PHYSICALLY. Why would you want to put your hands on a girl at any age? From toddler to teen? As a form of discipline? My father never whooped us! We knew he meant business by his energy and voice alone! You feeling the NEED to discipline a girl shows more of your red flag than hers..
Foolish women not recognizing cause and effect. The daughter is 4 now, yet will grow into a young adult lacking order because you were forced to by her mother to walk on eggshells in a household where you are the head. The deal is horrible for anyone with common sense...
Keya reminds me of a young Iyanla Vanzant. Beautiful smile, very well spoken, seems grounded, and wise beyond her years. Wishing you the absolute best! Christine: even in stating her flaws she hyped herself up. To be such a humble and mature woman, you'd think it wouldn't be difficult to do some real introspection.
But he wanted to act like he was all that when he first started talking. When you talk long enough the truth will come out…I call bs on all that he’s faithful and loyal stuff.
Yep 😁 Guilty as charged.This is why I don't pursue a serious relationship.After 15 years,she will always be in my life sex or not.I don't hide this from any woman.
Thats right TJ, stand your grounds, I like the fact you are concern whom be around your daughter. I wish you could meet my daughter,,shes a sagg, also with all those attributes, country raising.
Keah is beautiful and has her head on straight. In my best Darius Lovehall voice: "I'm digging her like a grave." I can tell a good woman that understands what it means to have balance in a relationship and support a man. She strikes me as that. She has the ABILITY to hold things down when and if she needs to, but she wants balance and wants a man to step into/own that side of the relationship because she feels it brings balance (it does). As a man, we have to know our role too. Hell, I rock with Keah. We as men gotta make our minds up...damn! Do we NOT care how much a woman makes because "we got it"? Or are we worried about her wanting our money and/or matching our work and bring something to the table (which usually means money to most dudes, but they'll lie and name feminine characteristics so they don't seem like a mf'er that can't provide). But women were not put here to do what we do as men. Men and women were made to be capatible, not equal. If you understand that, then you get Keah when she says that she wants a provider. And she doesn't want a provider just to take care of her daughter. Clearly, she's doing that. So if you're a guy that doesn't care about what a woman makes, then what do you want from a woman? Ask yourself that. As a man, you gotta know the answer to that before f'ing with them...at least the good ones anyway. Best of luck to Keah and much love to my H-town women.
@sene1000 - Based on a few of the comments, it seems that it's easier for some to understand than others. Just off her mentality alone you can tell she's a good woman/catch.
Keah don’t let none of those comments dim your light. I don’t understand why when a brown skinned woman who has it together, earns over six figures and is full of positive feminine energy has all these negative comments???!!!! Didn’t no one have these comments for the light skinned Brit who is in her late thirties, single and without child… no one asked why is she single? She could have said the same things Keah said, and she did, and dudes were tripping over themselves trying to get at her. Keah has been married so clearly she’s doing something right. Good luck sis! It’s not wrong for black women to want to stay home and be taken care of. And LII NEEDS TO GET A LIFE! Come on the show since you got all that mouth
I may not always agree with Kendra’s approach, she butchers people’s names, she forgets quickly and she may even have ADD 😂 BUT you cannot deny her hustle AND drive! I’m so incredibly proud of her. She has worked so hard to get where she’s at and the skies the limit for her. I think we’re about to witness some amazing things for our sister! I see her doing tv & movies, media etc! Congratulations Kendra! Your success is deserving ❤
Ms Keah..you already know what type of man is for YOU!! Don’t allow them to try and “humble” you. You are beautiful and more than capable. Great job mom 👏🏽👏🏽💃🏽💃🏽♥️♥️
Now that was petty about some damn pictures on a wall.Keah lives there how in the hell would pictures on a wall speak of her character.Just worry about the Dollar General pictures on your wall Sir.
1:18:10. Her response was smart, wise, and intelligent... No need to challenge her on it. You asked her to respond AND SHE DID! She said what she said.
I’m not understanding Keah’s position. She doesn’t want to work as much - but 2/3rds of her generated income is already passive (allegedly- no shade). Why wouldn’t you quit working within the school system? I don’t understand how a man could relinquish that responsibility when you have the power to do it yourself. $7k from the military is right at $84k/yr 5 rental property’s - undisclosed School district income - undisclosed If you feel making six figures isn’t enough to maintain your lifestyle (shown by your multiple streams) - you’ve indicated you wanted to scale back - how does wanting a man that makes $70k reasonable?
It seems like only us thinking men do the math on these things. I don’t know why it is so hard for women to understand the economic ramifications of these requests. …..wait….I thought your name was Terrance…..my bad sis. Since women can’t do the math, what man taught you to think things through in this depth? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m kidding….stop throwing things at me, it was a joke…. Ok ok…no mas, no mas. 😂😂😂
❤yeah she is beautiful so I don’t even know why she just won’t be a stay home mom and actually make time to raise her child and build up her business. That’s more than enough. This just shows that today’s modern woman it’s just never enough. I bet she ran off every due that possibly truly loved her. Now she got married then divorce and then become a single mother and then get passed around from many other men….. No no no no 😂. She belongs in Houston not Dallas TX. She is good for the guy that has multiple baby mommies. Simps only 😅
“Scale” can mean up or down. From how she stated scale, it sounded like she was trying to build the business up, and she needed to use as much resources as possible to do so. That’s how I took it anyway.
I’m torn. I’m of an older generation and we believe the kids’ appearance should be as good as or better than the parents. The mom has every hair in place and the child did not have her hair attended to at all. Something is good but something is off.
Mannn TJ definitely from the 757 with that lingo. .I know my people..😂😂 But on the real...I hope he gets healing before pursuing another relationship because he still sounds embittered about the ex cheating..
Christine at your seasoned age and following Hardly Initiated IS NOT A P(LUG) or as the younger generation says, "Flex.". 🤦🏾 Thank each of you for comments as they help me to fast forward. This show continues to reveal the state of not only dating but people in general. Hand clap for everyone who shows up for being added to the Matrix files of these platforms. Now your family (children), friends, neighbors and outside your community knows your business. Don't ask for privacy later when you made the decision to be in front of the light, camera and action for attention. Sad times.
No man wants a woman that thinks they r above everyone! Ur no better than anyone! That attitude is a turn off! How can they put up with someone who talks about themselves all the time! I’m this lm that!!!! Stop it!
If you need help most women go from liking you to loving you because it make them feel needed like they are the reason that man is successful but if they meet you all ready successful they know they had nothing to do with it 😅
Um the first guy is talking about how he's grown but he want someone 25 compared to his age which is 40 is too young and he doesn't knw how to talk grown with all that cussing smh... I hate men that try ro act like they have something to offer but yet talk like this
@@prose6827 I agree, grown folks should not cuss during a normal conversation, it's so tacky and lame. We are not in Highschool anymore and you are not a teen that doesn't know better 😂 they need to grow up and become adults
Good morning! I’m just giving you your flowers if no else have done so yet. I must let you know you’re actually doing a great job here even though some folks may be weird of what they seeking when you look at them but you never gave up. Keep it up! I’m a fan of the show definitely.
1:46:40 Limerence means having an intense longing for another person even when they don't fully reciprocate. I have never heard this term before, but think I've experienced it😢
Sometimes kendra make the show very annoying to watch,...by entertaining a long talk from people,......something she'll not do with foreign guests. damn it 🤦🤦🤦🤦
@@vincentmartin1863 my dear, being an african, i can't remember how many times kendra have block me becuz of these same thing I've complained about, but i just wonder why she's dating african but at the same time she despise african so much like that. I just don't know if she has personal issue with me or not 😏😒🤨🤔🤔🤔🤔......hmmmmm
Keah- baby mama always call in talking wanting a provider. This means you dated men who weren't providers because all men you dated should be providers.
Modern women are so dazed and confused. To them, being a provider is only about financial. Couldn't be more wrong. Same for how they incorrectly use the term "equally yoked" 😑
Keah you “retired” from the military and you’re 33? Just say you collect disability and was medically retired. Don’t lead people to think you did 20 years
TJ you need a listener not a talker. Have to shutup sometimes. The ex went back to the ex because she only parted ways with him because he went overseas, TJ just filled the void for the moment
36:49 Provider: If you want a provider, you need to have a plan for that from the time you graduate high school. You need to do your research and be extremely deliberate in your pursuit of that kind of man. Trying to get one after you have a child by another man is like shooting yourself in the foot and then trying to run a marathon. I provide for my wife and children. It’s in my DNA to do so. You bringing another man’s child is a liability to me, not an asset. My children are my legacy, not someone else’s.
Geez Keah, have you not seen the show? Damn!!??? And you want to be a stay-at-home wife but he has to take care of your kid as well as maybe future kids. So why in the world would he be 50/50 with you when you need to be taking care of your own child? So 60/40 sounds pretty good to me!
Great video! I enjoyed the first interaction.. It is amazing how when someone feels understood what that does. And the end of it all it was simply about love and understanding.
That's not true. A woman can still go back to the ex because she's still in love..and that's whether the current guy is putting it down or not. A relationship is not all about how good the sex is..
One thing about people who don’t make six figures - they have no financial sense- talking about painting on the walls or decorating the wall. I will tell you I make six figures and my walls are blank- we are not consume with that petty stuff lol. READ the millionaire next door! Y’all are on a different class- you don’t understand! Period!
Interesting that keaha has her daughter in private school learning different languages, but she's still wears a diaper at 4yrs old and also her daughter is not dressed in her pj's and looks like her hair hasn't been combed in awhile 🤔 while Keah is Ocd, then why would she not be Ocd about those things? And also, having some pictures on the walls & some type of decor helps you and your daughter mental state and helps others who come in contact with you see your personality in some of the things you like as a person. I don't get it 🤔 so many people, especially women come on here and don't have wall art any pictures , curtains or anything that represents their personality 🤔 However, I can say she speaks very well communicating her stance that you'll forget to take a look at her lack of personality and how she presents herself with her 4yr old daughter that's in diapers, and her bare looking home, like she just moved there with only a couch with a couple of pillows on it. SMH! Again interesting! I say!
Keah said she spoils her man but admits she's spoiled and wants a provider and he pay all or majority of the bills. Ahhhh she's been in the military 🪖 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
My comments is for Theresa ford , she can read down the list for the men and she is not wanting to do her part, she is going to be single for a long time, I hope she goes back and listen to herself
With Keah, only chaos and calamity awaits! No order, No structure and NO DISCIPLINE!!! And he's expected to pay the way, at that... Maybe one of these single dads finds something he wants there but nothing for a man of value!
Keah is attractive, well spoken, and seems nice, but don't put lipstick on a pig and try to tell me it's a super model. Let's be real about what reality is. You having a child is a positive to a select FEW men....likely an older man that wanted kids but couldn't have any himself. Otherwise, it's not a positive. The issue that men had with her is that she is calling herself traditional and has a strong belief in family while being a single mother. That math doesn't add up. I don't want to see what kind of mother you are going to be with another man's child. What that man feels is acceptable vs. what I think is acceptable might not align. So now we have two different standards for YOUR child and OUR child in one house. It's not an ideal situation. At the end of the day, the provider husband will never have full authority in his own house in that situation.
I was confused a man that don’t want kids don’t want kids around her bringing a kid will upset that man she only have one target audience and that’s men with kids and she will get what’s left after he provide for them kids afterwards
Even the men with kids is doing a disservice to himself dealing with her. It's never good to have multiple standards of structure and discipline under one roof, when you're supposed to be dictating said structure.
@@GETBIG4WARD I said a man that WANTED kids but COULD NOT have them. Meaning, maybe he never had the chance, or his sperm ain't swimming right. That man might welcome a young child. Men with kids are not necessarily her target audience, because those men have their own standards with their own kids. Her child is really young too. If her and her daughter come into HIS house and he is paying all the bills, but he doesn't have authority over her child, that's a problem. He has to deal with that baby's father as well. He can discipline his children, but he can't discipline her child, even though that child is living under his roof. Her best bet is a guy that WANTS a child, not just has some of his own.
I don't think she said she was willing to leave her 6 figure income because the six figures are made up over multiple income streams. She will still have income coming in.
35:09 Kendra: have you ever been married? Keah: I have 47:54: What can she offer to the next man that she hasn’t already given to any other man Keah: long term.. longevity… *I’m looking for a husband* But she already had a husband and divorced him! She’s a liar. 41:45 She said she’s living in a rental 42:24 She owns 5 real estate properties. So she makes 6 figures, owns FIVE rental properties, has multiple jobs, and still lives in a rental? She’s giving scammer vibes.
The guys she didn't want years ago are supposed to provide for a kid that isn't theirs. Fuck that, I speak for most men when I say I'm not cleaning that mess up.
She got with a pookie sperm donor. She just wanted a baby. She didn’t think through the implications for her daughter or her not being able to get the kind and caliber of man she would want later. In her mind her butt and income were all that she needed to get a man. She was wrong.
