Singles return to in-person mingling after dating app burnout 

So you met your wife at a dancing event or at a night club where people dance? I have always thought dancing is a good way to meet someone

@@christiany4169 dancing lesson place. Not a night club

Weak

Same bro. Except it was my current boyfriend

I commend you for even taking that extra step for therapy and to learn more about YOU. I found so many create these imaginary lists when they don't even know themselves or what they even would bring to a relationship.

Expired women

@@jokerpilled2535please stay home wanking to a computer screen 😅

@@Native722 so what? At least they are having fun.

@@jokerpilled2535 you'd be lucky to get a date with them.

Theres massive social change happening on the ground with young men today that the mainstream is ignoring because it’s not politically correct. Many men are not dating seriously anymore, I’ve never seen the sentiment to be as it is now before. There’s deep seated problems, and every attempt to sweep these under the carpet is just driving men further away. It will continue to happen until the underlying issues are addressed

You have to be smarter than the app otherwise it’ll frustrate you

It's all about the profits. 💰

Us as humans need to touch grass and communicate with eachother again. Social media has separated us from eachother and even reality as well,

Yes! Job search and dating.

As zombies we aren't clicking regrettably:)

Every female swiping on the same top tier 10% of guys. Rejecting the other 90%.

Keep swiping left on anyone under 6 ft 🤡

@@jokerpilled2535 I'll keep swiping on people who use clown emojis lol.

@@neoevans7833 lol

@@alicialynnette9889 thank God, hopefully they match with someone better looking.

😂😂😂

Online dating gives the illusion of abundance which makes the daters become unrealistically picky. The guys are cheap and just want hook ups.

@@ashley.taylor174 Exactly.

Lots of bread crumbs

That’s because OLD nearly 20yrs ago was designed to meet someone and spend your life with them. Cutting out the match maker or friends of friend set ups. It use to be 3-4 photos, extensive long bios, with everything under the Sun being asked to fill out your profile. You had to spend 10-15mins sitting there answering questions. They didn’t kid around with this back then. Now? 10-15 photos, 400 word count capped bios, and paying to get the most attention in the dating pool. Dating apps are now designed for hookup culture, not relationships because it’s treated as such since Tinder went full blown hookup and ditched its dating requirements, that other apps have followed suit.

yeah wait till men figure out that the NFL = WWE

Stay away

SIMPS ONLY

We don’t care what you want 😅😴

@@gailainsley6939 Obviously you do?

Facts💯!!!!!!!!!!

@@gailainsley6939 Doesnt seem that way

This isn’t an excuse for women, but I feel a lot of us feel jaded because for centuries that’s a question we had never received. And that’s why a lot of them are testing out their newly developed audacity. But I do think that it is selfish to completely ignore a man’s desires in a relationship…I thought the whole point was for both to be happy?

@@Daikibby143 women’s selfishness will destroy civilization.

@@RustyShackleford2000 lol men’s already has, so I guess it’s our turn.

@@Daikibby143 bullshit, men built civilization, but we won’t maintain it for selfish and ungrateful women.

We don’t have to ask you all voice it no matter what and mostly it’s lies

Bad box 😂🥳

Facts !

​@@dcookou damn 🤣

Facts💯!!!!!!!!

What's a bad box? 😢📦

Yup. Yet every single video like this always have jaded men in the comments. The irony 😂😂

​@@gailainsley6939Jaded. You mean smart men who don't want 🏃‍♀️through women. Pass....

We are watching a mass delusion happening right in front of your eyes

​@@gailainsley6939Yes! It takes men to have a relationship. This is the problem. You want relationships but don't care about what men are saying. It's insanity at its best.

​@@gailainsley6939I dont think you understand what the word irony means. Theres nothing weird or ironic about men participating in the discussion. See this is actually one of yalls biggest problems. You keep trying to ignore and exclude men from everything somehow forgetting that men are the other half of a relationship. You forget that you have to understand and meet mens preferences just like they have to understand and meet yours. Until yall get that through your thick skulls this is all going to continue to get worse as we all drift in opposite directions. So yeah, it totally makes sense that men would be participating in a discussion on relationships.

Cool story. A monk on YT

@@VendieSolde buddhist monks actually have access to the internet now .

Smart Man.

Bro honestly waste of time getting social hobbies is much better I think.

Men don't have a problem meeting women. Men see thousands of women every week. We can approach every last one if we like. Men just don't want what they are seeing.

@@Stanley-k7u Facts Bro

We have a matchmaker for free anyway. You know when your mom or sister says "she's really nice...." Yeah, probably because her looks make it a necessity.

Not 25% of girls, in fact lots of tinder experiments show that about 80% of women are swiping only on about 5% of guys who mostly look like male models. These guys are mostly not on apps to find long term love and most women on apps overvalue to their looks as these guys would probably never date them in real life

Its 70% of women dating the same 10% of guys. Its why theres so many "Are we dating the same guy" online grouos for women

@@jamalwilburn228 💯 agreed . But us guys are equally to blame. If a girl is not viewed as attractive or at least somewhat sexy then she is ignored. Many minority men have it even worse as they have great difficulty getting women outside of their race while the most beautiful women in their own race are attracted to white men.

Game over man. Game over.

Being attractive is the whole point of online dating. It’s very superficial.

As if you go and date fat homely women.

Another reason why social media is literally bad for you. You aren’t supposed to have such a wide reach. That casting such a wide net allows you to pull in people and emotions that you wouldn’t or shouldn’t have access to in past social settings. Not everyone is ready for that. It’s like the people that hit the lottery and end up broke. If you couldn’t manage having $100 dollars, you won’t do better with $1000000. If people can’t manage their emotions and the emotions of the people in their everyday lives, adding millions more won’t help the situation.

Tell me you can't get a woman because you have no self awareness. Oh, you just did.

@@RossDeGrate Well said, good sir, well said.

That's why you don't see those chad in the video. They most likely have a wife or a girlfriend already.

You need prozac

​@@PennyMsElite I can see that the reality check he tried to give you bounced off your man hater ego. Whine about it for me, honey:

They said they didn’t need us so men are pulling back lol

@LordSlag Clearly, you need help. Sorry about your broken heart. Meds and therapy can do you some good.

@@Maybemaybexyz What individual said that to you personally?

majority of modern men want prostitutes so they wouldnt be at an event like this

1000% brother. We definitely did check out ...when we became nothing but a tool for wealth extraction, disrespected by feminists and run over by family courts. why should we bother? better be alone and respected and protected

You're a bit delusional. There will always be desperate women and/or women who still believe they will find love & have no problem putting themselves out there. A lot of women have already abandoned dating & dating apps for their own reasons but most are relatable. Im actually glad not too many males showed up either for whatever reason. You guys are finally getting it

wtf have u all endured please tell me if anything you guys have benefited for years of women’s delusions, low self-esteem, and poor morals wtf are u all complaining about

Maybe men should stop focusing on outwardly appearance and focus on personality.😊

Yeah men have dropped out of dating...high risk low reward. Women think about dating as a whole way more than men do.

​@@ladybug3380there was a woman in the story who cited wearing heels as a means to justify her height requirement.

@@ladybug3380we do, that’s why if ur personality or character isn’t good he’ll hit but not commit. Just being honest.

@@ladybug3380 also women should stop focusing only on money and height as well 💰

But bruv a man’s got to have standards and boundaries

You 5'8 ?

Only women are allowed to voice their preferences.

320 pounds probably wants a girl thats 110

Also no man wants a taller girl than him u used a tall height should of said 5'2

You just described 99% of wymin.

women do this all the time and thats why dating is broken.

A lot of men just don’t want a stomach or a person much sizable than them, I think that’s understandable I’m an average size man . I’ve laid with bigger women (not necessarily obese) it’s almost unmanageable with thicker thighs to maneuver them in the bedroom, still a good time wish I was bigger but I’m average size …and in any case men are still marrying the bigger women . Meanwhile there’s 5’5 women on the net rejecting men My height and I’m Average height …I just want function over form like most men . Women want form over relevant function. I could understand if bigger men served a much more useful utility . But no, after a certain height the top shelf at the grocery store is attainable and the mason jars open for men of all heights . They’re not looking for love they’re looking to brag to their friends and fulfill their Mickey Mouse dreams.

Yeah, we want to be attracted to the people we want a relationship with. What is wrong with that?

@@Gabster1990 The problem with that is women are increasingly only attracted to fewer and fewer men leaving more men alone. We used to have guardrails in society that helped account for this so more men could find someone. Without those guardrails, we will get a very massive number of men alone and checked out or pissed off and society will decay

Younger, but similar. But there's also the realization that, with consideration to the self-absorbed, ghosting men on apps, I so much prefer my own company (and my family, friends). You reach a point where dating just becomes repulsive.

You guys can’t give up. When you least expect it, change your energy ❤️‍🔥

​@@WinstonOnBoard You're sweet. But you're coming from the perspective that relationships are better. Whereas I've just realized they're not.

Pick up a sport and get to know people

Do not give up and try to finde someone in your own milieu 😊

There are many many relationships and marriages that started from apps, so this is false.

Well said. The dating app paradox.

This is so on point!!!!

Lol, you bitter pill guys are always crying. It gives off beta energy which repels women. Men are picky too and most want sexual benefits without commitment.

Well let those women have those “top” men. They can’t say anything when he cheats on them with other women.

Dating apps also give women an abundance mentality since so many men are trying to match with them. Most women are so picky they will end up with nothing.

Not all men dear. Where are you looking for men??

A woman thats full circle and doesnt want to adapt to what men want..(intimate affection) ? There's nothing there but a friendzone. Women are extremely hard to please in these times. Not worth the squeeze.

Most Men only want sex because that's all the vast majority of females have to offer. That and unnecessary stress.

In that regard, it’s probably not going to get much better in real life. Monogamy and commitment are dead, although it is not men who killed them

Especially since most women are looking for the same type of man.

exactly my ex husband kept the house, vehicles, etc... my kids and i had to start over with nothing. ill never risk that again

@@up-uw4op Who bought the house and the vehicles?

@@LORD_HYBRID I bought the vehicles and they were in my name. When married both own the vehicles and house. We split the house payments. I think the one with the kids should keep the house so kids don't have to be homeless

@@up-uw4op Government involvement in marriage is the problem. Why does the government get to say who gets what? If my house is in my name and she can leave my house. If the cars are in her name then she can take her cars.

@@LORD_HYBRID that's for sure. I sure wish I had known that before getting married. I learned my lesson

Only women are overwhelmed by choices on apps

Well, every woman is a 10 now, right? 😂

Women can be fat and out of shape ,she will think that she deserves the best good looking man

you could say the same for men. Men tend to go for the same profile of woman, ignoring the women that would truly suit them

Stop lying. Only The Top 10% of men have options. Only they have the option of picking and choosing .The average man is only getting women by if he has money or a nice car or basically something that most women don’t have. But its not genuine attraction. They just want someone to provide for them because they lazy. Average Regular Men HAVE NO REAL OPTIONS Unless they go Overseas or have lots of money or get famous. They are no real options and genuine attraction for regular men.

under 6 figures isn't enough to raise kids

​@@up-uw4op most men don't make 6 figures, thus you will be alone.

@@jutsu1 fine by me. I'm not raising more kids in poverty

@@up-uw4op total agreement, why should kids be brought up in that environment. You will be alone and men don't have to take care of women who ain't owned a 6 figure man. Women now offer next to nothing for men.

@@jutsu1they need to stop going after those type of women

I want the same thing you’re saying most men want, plus love. Unfortunately, I think dating to find love is actually the hardest part because it’s easy for a person to behave, but to love deeply is extremely rare. In my opinion, that’s why dating is hard.

Women judge more on looks than men

Normal 30 years ago maybe

Try being a male on there

Your cousins?

​@@PennyMsEliteHit dogs holla 🐕

Dont forget jose and ahmed.

The irony is they won’t come, ever!

The irony is that they don't need to come.

You meet real people in real life, not online.

OkCupid circa 2009

@kenofken9458 where? How? Idk where to meet the normal single men in their 30s

@@princess_maya_ First of all, forget about "normal". No one even knows what that means anymore. And normal people are boring. Focus on high functioning, and good spirited people. The only thing I've found that worked to find the right partners is to stop looking for them. Counter-intuitive I know, but the worst way to find a good mate is to look for them the way you'd hire someone for some managerial position at a company or opening auditions for a role in some production. That guarantees a miserable low success rate and having to sift though mountains of rejects. Don't look for a partner. Look to surround yourself with good people, with no other agenda than that in mind. Build a real-world social circle, in places where real humans get together for no other reason than some shared hobby or interest. Fitness, book clubs, whatever it is millennials do these days. Just cultivate a network of good, positive people. Don't worry if none seem like good candidates for a match. Just be among solid people and be a solid person to them. Forget about deadlines or time lines. If you surround yourself with these people and make time for them, the right person will emerge. I'm polyamorous, which isn't "normal" but the point is I've had nothing but excellent people in my life since I took that route. I don't try to fit anyone into a role. The good person I get to know today might, in six months or a year, become one of my best loving life partners. Or maybe an FWB, or maybe just a really good friend (I hate the connotation of "just" as if a friend is nothing more than a consolation prize for a failed romance). I've never found a good person in any capacity through online anything. You find great people through other great people.

Mutual friends, join clubs, learn a skill, join a running club for example. Not guaranteed but hope it at least gets you out there

Cities are still better because most women flock there to meet higher earning men. If you're in the typical red states or town, you have less women to choose from because they flocked to cities. That's why these men have higher rates of drug use and suicide.

This is definitely in the top 10 reasons dating is difficult these days. The less social a person is, the harder it can be for them to do a sort of cold call approach to dating in bars, restaurants, coffee shops, etc… and introduce themselves politely to a complete stranger they find attractive out in public. All I can say is if you have a fearless confident friend with you, have then go introduce for the cold calling for the more introverted friend to the person as a way to break the ice. Often this is the easiest way in the book because a person is more warm and open when it’s the FRIEND doing the introduction for the interested party than a solo attempted at cold calling. Hence why wingmen/wing women should come back into style so that people can have an easier time getting back into dating.

its been like this long before that. the biggest reasons are murder, rape, and domestic abuse

Exactly, all of them want tall, rich, handsome and brilliant. They are all waiting for a customized partner made for them from the sky.

@@Davi-rxMen are just as picky too. Y’all want a woman to be under 25, thin, works, but do all the domestic stuff at home, no kids, submissive, sexual but a virgin. 😂

A lot of people do

Chad and Tyrone never commit.

These simps are too desperate 😅😅

The simps will women while you beta males will grow old and alone

spot on OP

These events aren’t the worst thing if you can pull ;)

Would not date a women with a waistline larger than 25 inches

Yeah you caught that very well. Women are the ones with the most vocal complaints of being overwhelmed on dating apps. How are you exhausted by options and still single?!?! These ladies are the problem. Men are ok for the most part if they're not going out on weekly dates.

Right! I hear a lack of accountability in the comments which explains why they’re single and lonely. 😂

One of the most well balanced takes in this comment thread! If I could upvote more, I would!

@@ashley.taylor174 Yea I really need to take accountability for being born too short. Give me a break.

@@ohjay7612 I know plenty of short kings that get more women than taller guys. I dated some and they got me because of their PERSONALITY. They were not entitled and whiny. They had real alpha energy. Not that fake misogynistic “alpha” attitude that Andrew Tate tries to manufacture.

Now where is your self-improvement pep talk about these fluffy females that were interviewed?

There is no "the one" lol that's the issue with most women.

Now that we’re in the post-Me 2 era of sexual McCarthyism, men are more hesitant to approach you than ever. If you want to meet people in person, and men in particular, you’re going to have to take more initiative. It might be a little scary at first, but I can say with as much certitude as I possess that you will be treated better than the average guy is when he approaches. You will not be creep-shamed or Me 2d as we are

As a man I can say there are countless amounts of women that give off this man repellant look on their face, where they don’t seem approachable and highly discourage men from going up to them and sparking a conversation. I see this all the time especially if you walk past a girl on the street and she refuses to make any kind of contact which also happens a lot. Why would a man approach if this is happening everywhere all the time 🤷🏾‍♂️

From my and my friends' experiences, millennial and younger men almost never make the effort. Something was lost on these generations.

Change your location 🤷‍♀

A lot of men are tired of being used for drinks & and meal. I know you’ll claim that you’ve never done this, but too many other females are doing this. In this meetoo era why don’t you strike up a conversation & let than man take it from there? Most men are walking on eggshells out here & women did this.

Yes, but no. Society should teach children from a young age that it's great to find someone but that they will be OK if they are alone too.

The women in the thumbnail are gorgeous. You probably have a small D.

who do you resemble?

​@@Jeanshendo his comment definitely struck a nerve with you😂