Inside The Trend Of Older Women Dating Younger Men 

Thank you! I caught that too. "going after"...oh please. It sounded a bit degrading.

Some of them do

Yes

Got that right!!

And half of the younger men go for older women for the intimacy experience and the other half are extremely mature so no one their age suits them

People are not updated. My mom is older than my dad inky for 3 yrs. But dating a younger man is not really new.

Hi

That’s fantastic! Congratulations! 🎉

I saw this on threes company, so it's not new.

woww

Tysm, that's beautiful. Happy 100th bday to your mom!!!

How does it feel to be 100 years old? Wow that’s sounds legendary!

WHOA!!!!!!!!!!!! What a story

God bless her and may your father Rest In Peace🤍

I prefer younger women so I can future proof mylife lol

Congratulations.

ah the guy I am dating is same gap, he's probably the most mature too and I've dated 15 years older before lol. Age does not equal emotional maturity.

@Jose Red Santiago 40-28

@@sajjadnasir1120 this is why it’s kind of good to have a younger guy you know they genuinely have feelings for you irrespective of what society thinks and a deep connection rather than wanting you as a carer/ arm candy blah blah blah I defo wouldn’t want a guy who only wanted a younger woman for some selfish reasons, that’s not love.

That's beautiful 😃

🥰

That is so lovely to hear. I'm 43 and met a 30 year old. I didn't know he was that much younger as we had been getting to know each other informally over time but we have been falling for each other ❤

Gross. He's God.

Five years or so doesn't make much of a difference, but much beyond that does. Obviously a big difference between a 25 year old man and a 35 year old woman.

@@alfredhermansen4787 Nah... That's Fine

It's sexism and perpetuating 'patriarchy'

@@alfredhermansen4787 not really much different even then bud

If 90 % of men are open to dating older women...then it can't be men that have a problem with men dating older women

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So who's the loser in this story? Sounds like him. Add to that, he's a Simp 😂

Divorced twice? Then you must be the problem

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

❤❤❤

Hey dear how are you doing

Same here I wasn’t looking for a younger man 8 year gap

Same for me. 9.5yrs gap. Most harmonious relationship I've ever been in

7 to ten years is not really a big deal. If you talk about 20,30 or more ......than it's questionable.

Same as me and my husband. 14 years gap.

Your relationship sounds so much like my husband and I. We have a 19 years age gap. We have been together almost daily from the first day we met. We just clicked instantly.

That click is everything, we can't help when we were born but the satisfaction of real love is for eternity💯♥️♥️🙏✨️

How's going your relationship with her?😊

@@Erica0200 we joined a church and attend every Sunday now. We are planning to get married in the next year or so once we become full members.

That’s fantastic. I’ve always liked women around 10 to 12 yrs older than myself. (56 now). I never had kids. Doesn’t sound like the two of you have them. Maybe that makes those relationships work better.

Bless you both 💕

Really

Wish you both always happy together

Are you still single?

hope you are still together

you lie!

You should

I have no reason to lie.

Nice to meet you

You should know that you are sexually stronger than any age man; and your ability to please any age man don’t decrease with age at all; a man can’t tell the difference in the looks or tastes or feel of a healthy 70 or 80 year old woman’s kitty & a 40 year old woman.. the feeling is the same. Enjoy-your completeness of sexuality.. seduce men 20-40 years younger everyday.. you are a sexual being ..a woman... and most men of any age are your toys💪🏾

Hey dear how are you doing

So you single?

Hello Babe

Greethings from panama

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Sounds exactly like the situation a guy I know is getting into. How common is this

My husband was 7 years younger then me we were married for 36 years

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hi Deb happiness matters so i tell people age is a number what do you think?

Wow he was 24 young and naive to sign that paper that solidifies his chain and gown to you. The right one doesn’t need to have papers to claim love.

Hope you two have kids together

Yes I think this is the point you need to just be a match with your energy, what you like to do in life etc etc I think a very young spirited partner is going to naturally be attracted to younger people as it’s going to be very hard and the pool is going to be very small to find like-minded people once they get older. A much older person who acts their age with a much younger person probably isn’t going to work as one person is going to feel like they have to sacrifice too much. I have a friend in her mid 50s and she’s just pretty much the same as in her late 20s and looks amazing for her age for her to find 60+-year-old guy on a level with her is a tiny pool I don’t think she’s ever dated anyone her own age to be honest. Personally I would date an older guy and have but they would need to also be energetically young.

@@MrBreeze313 gosh I have 5 friends here in London who gave birth to their first child in their early 40s, every one of them perfectly healthy and no ivf or anything. I would definitely be open to having my first child then too, it’s pretty common these days, not rly an issue for most. Never wanted more than one anyways. Lost of ppl these days don’t even want Kids, known a few younger guys just decide it’s not for them. Point is there is someone for everyone and everyone should just let ppl get on with dating who they want to. If someone flat out refuses to date older or younger it’s always an ego reason and nothing to do with true love, best to avoid those ppl anyways.

Do it! Get married to her omg.

@@MrBreeze313 Many people are not trying to reincarnate back to this planet. Check the stats so many people are not trying to bring children to this world in its current state.

Your dog is the cutest thing ever!

Of course you do. What viral and energetic young guy is going to marry a woman 15 years older? Those type of guys get snatched up by young women.

@@nattypatty3667 Are you jealous or something?

@@NIKOLAP7 he’s all over the comment section hating on women who are older than their husbands. How much do you wanna bet that he’s a lonely single old man who never felt a woman’s touch?

@@lanaherrera5659 Probably some incel.

U go girl. I'm 40 and my wife is 41. Been married for 3 years now and very happy together. No as much a big gap compared to yours and the rest, but the point is, as long as you're happy that's the most important thing.

Hello how're you doing hope you and your family are safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?

That’s awesome.. if it doesn’t work out tho, feel free to slide in my DM’s🙊

Smile...

@@FrankTheGuy hahaha you are comparing your 1 year age gap to her 14 year age gap?

That’s soooo inspiring!!!!!! Mine is 19 years younger

Beautiful! Congratulations!

This gives me hope

My boyfriend is 21 years younger.. Younger than my own son..

You give me hope! My boyfriend is 17 years younger as well. People think we’re around the same age too. Our connection is super intense. I never experienced a connection this intense in my life.

Hey dear how are you doing

Young man energy for back breaking in the bed

@@Underyourbedeyes hey how are you doing

Mine, too! We have been together for 30 years, married for 25 years.

What is your ethnicity?

Prophet Muhammad was even younger than his first wife. That’s why I’m ok with dating younger men

@@NANA-jh8gs exactly

Actually, I'm surprised to hear that. I thought marriages were mostly arranged in the middle east and it was about producing children not really love. Are we talking a country that has multiple wives, though?

Yes, the Prophet of Islam was 15 years younger than his first wife Khadija. She was a widow and they also had children together.

have the same eb=nergy when a guy does it, weirdo...your ways are weird afff

Hey dear how are you doing

What is your ethnicity?

@@Skinny_Pimp Hispanic and my husband is Ukrainian

wow how does it feels?

It's nice to have women see just how toxic and vile many "feminists" are towards relationships that they don't personally approve of. They try to control your body and take your agency, it should be downright shameful.

Theres always some balance. I see all these insulting comments and if sh was always that narrow

Yup because the guys who are 10 years younger than you aren't hot enough for you to justify it. Gotta find a guy that makes you feel like you're dating a kid.

Thank you I'm in a age gap relationship I'm 55 and he's 30 all I can say is it's wonderful being with him we have a lot in common he is free spirted so am that works for me. 😁

Absolutely true

Hello how're you doing hope you and your family are safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?

Hello Babe greethings from panama

80😳😳? It's impossible i'll give you 70 or less.

Hello

hi Samantha, you are my kind of woman it is what it is lol i love them older than i am lol.

@@garymorrison3285 hey

Good for you

Exactly

Hey I'm 51 I'm secretly dating 29 yrs old kkkk

you're basically his mom.

You are entitled to your opinion

Were you married before?

@ Sallymwasi I'm 40 and my husband is 28 and it is the best relationship I've ever had as well. 12 to 14 years isn't a big deal but for some reason because we have younger husbands everybody has something to say, wouldnt be that way if it was a younger woman and older man!! Smh

@@P03ticJustice lol. I shouldn't laugh cuz I'm like trying to date someone with same stats

I know how it is man. Dont worry. Jesus christ is real and also your moms spirit exists as well. She is alive except as her spirit only seperate from the flesh. Its all real ive seen it.

❤

@JIM DIM female..not buddy. And it's true what I commented. Believe it or not😁

Aww 🥰! Well I am sure they had a happy marriage.

@@chenaim23 Actually they fought all the time. I hated growing up in that stressed environment. My hubby and I don't fight like my parent's did. Having Jesus as our foundation helps us a lot. It's ALL FOR GODs GLORY!!

it's crazy how women judge other women for dating younger guys but have no problem dating men old enough to be their dad's. my girl friend is 32 but looks my age (22) she get's more judgement from her friends who are in relationships with men who are 15,26, and 20 yrs older than them. The double standards are real

I agree. It just sucks with the judgement. Especially from my family. Other than that I feel it's the best relationship I have ever had. I don't feel afraid and constantly having to be the one that is in charge or "be a man" and bring gifts and give surprises.

It's a natural reaction people get because they know it's not what both genders naturally look for in partners. It's like saying you won't have a natural inclination to judge a woman married to a man 3 inches shorter, or a female doctor marrying a male nurse, or a beautiful model marrying an ugly man. Why should any of that matter if they love the person? The reality is these situations don't happen often because what women look for in partners is far different than what men do, and when one party can act on their natural preferences they usually do because it brings internal equilibrium. Innately we know these are not partner scenarios that foster an environment optimal for the development and growth of the strongest humans. To briefly summarize, and this has been scientifically proven, the male mating/partner strategy is to spread his genetics with the most amount of fertile attractive women to ensure the best outcome for his offspring and genetic legacy. Men are the lesser monogamous gender by far. Obviously times are different, but the male wiring isn't. So on a subconscious level as humans, we know for him to give up sexual variety and abundance, not only for one woman, but an older one who's fertility and beauty window is far smaller, if there is any left, is going strongly against his innate wiring. Not only that, but we know women are the more hypergamous gender that typically mates and partners with males equal or higher in status and resources that exude masculine qualities such as dominance and competence, as women bear the greater reproductive cost and are the more physically vulnerable gender. Again, we know on a subconscious level for a woman to partner with a man of lower status and resources, she is taking on a huge risk when it comes to survival and reproductive success. And we know younger men tend to not have higher status, resources, competence, etc. that fully allow a woman to be in her femininity. This is generally why older woman younger men is met with resistance not only from women, but society as well because it is not the most optimal scenario to grow and strengthen the human species.

@@tobiaslawrence8928 I always hated those types of women who see no problem dating guys like twice their age, but lose their minds when a woman decides to date a guy younger than her, a guy shorter than her, or a guy who makes less money than her. I figured it’s because they’re either insecure or jealous, and their ego is being “shattered”.

I think they're just jealous.

@I I Hmm, good point. Maybe that is why they used to say a lady never tells her age. :)

@I I I just thought that too!

@@benthread HELLO beautiful Queen How are you

Feeling sad for you, Can i ask something? I know it's personal but

That's so sad. i don't understand why people care so much about age. If you are in love and it clicks with someone, why can't it be ok? I always dated man younger than me from a yeay to 9 years younger. I never felt my age, and honestly I never noticed the difference when I was with them. Age really is just a number ... well unless the person is minor LOL

Will you ever marry him again if you come across him?

@@AnnieIsaLau Why is it when an older man is with a younger woman it's always only because he's got money, but when it's the other way around it's "age is just a number"? Age matters because men are biologically wired to seek youth, beauty, and fertility as it ensures the greatest likelihood of many healthy offspring, and a man feels he is wisely investing his resources and provisioning for a greater return. Whether he actually wants to have kids or not, men are subconsciously only attracted to signs of fertility. Women over 30 really starts losing these signs. You cant build much with an older woman, so the guys that go after older women are usually lower economic status guys that younger women don't want because they cannot provide. Younger women 18-24 are universally desired by men of all ages so they are in very high demand. Also men are naturally leaders of tribes and dominant, so when he seeks an older woman he is signaling he is deficient in these areas and is coupling with an older woman to assist. Essentially signaling he is a lower status male. Women are hypergamous meaning they naturally date up in status and resources, which when older women date younger are usually dating men with lower status and resources than them. It goes against primal instincts on every level from both genders. That's why it's usually frowned upon.

This is sad

7 years is nothing.

but 8 years this is nothing 🙏 I wish you happiness and remember problem has problem in relation not because of age gap 🙏

You guys don’t feel like 7 years is a lot? I’m like freaking out

Ya'll ever think about the future when you're older and you hit menopause, look like a granny, or need to rely on your partner when you're older to take care of you?

Why you make judgment and Sexism ? why older man can do it and don't care and woman can't when she is happy and her husband happy ? what the problem ?

@@nattypatty3667 Sadly. I am 20something and I noticed so many women that are over 45 preferring younger men in their 20s. Even when I was 18 , My 17 year old brother had 23 and 25 year old women hitting on him. I once had a 41 year old with a 19 year old daughter wanting to date my 17 year old brother.

​@@holyempressw8531 Why would a guy in his 20s date or partner with a woman over 45? They did a study and found that 66% of women over 45 felt invisible when they walked into a room and 80% of women over 50 felt completely invisible. Type that into a search engine. Most women over 40 are not attractive. They've lost all their fertility cues. The ones that still have relevancy are pumped full of silicon, botox, dye, and estrogen/progesterone. You think some guy in his 20s is going to be head over heals for a women that's infertile, grey, sagging, wrinkling, and thinning over a woman his age? That's stupid. You're talking as if women are still selectors and can choose who they want at 45, which is obviously not the case. Also most guys that are 45 are also going to find women in their 20s more attractive.

How much more money do you make than him?

I was thinking the same thing. 😂😁

they're only 6 years apart though

Black don't crack unless they do crack.

@@MP-ul1vf nice play on words or nice pun

@@MP-ul1vf dead😂😂😂

Honestly I think the new generation don't stick to what it's seems as norm, but go out their to get what they want and if you get younger men hitting on you then you've got to be looking amazingly stunning.

hi Kailee, at times is not about the age your happiness matter age they say is a number what do you think?

32 isn't old so the men you hang around are just stupid. If you have younger men after you I say go for it. Forget about what other people think

handsome men only date younger women 😃.

Younger = more fertile

I love it! I'm 36 and I could never pull guys my own age, even in high school and college. I'm just now starting to accept the fact that I may be happier with someone much younger.

Even his parents/fam like me. All like you're the best for him. 🥴- this is my new face

That study is straight BS. I'm a 34 year old guy and I've never known a guy interested in women that much older. All my friends are/have dated women their age or younger. These are pharmacists, physical therapists, MDs, luxury real estate agents, etc. in good shape. Guys aren't looking to build and be with older women with decreased beauty and fertility. If you look at dating app studies you'll find older women especially after 35 become highly undesirable as a whole. The profiles are likes less than 15% on average. Keep coping.

@@nattypatty3667 been dumped by a woman recently clearly. Chin up dude, you’ll recover. Me 39, partner 23, very happy. He wants to get married, I’m the one saying no. Hope you get over her soon dude 🤙

@@katsoriano9262 That's a horrible age compatibility. You're almost infertile if you aren't already. Plus you're in the danger zone of being perimenopausal. He's not getting much utility out of you. The only guys that pair with a woman that much older are guys with minimal options with women their age and are of lower socioeconomic backgrounds.

Yes because maturity is greatly a mindstate and some men/women stay in a 15 years old mindstate their whole lives. It's silly to think maturity comes with age it can but only with a healthy mindset

That's cool,l like old women

*plays organ because you're preaching*

How old was he when you met him? I’m 34 and always turn the younger guys away, maybe I should be more open minded. Anyways wishing you and hubby the best!

@@Ash2beauty I’m 36 and I swallowed my pride and gave a guy who is 11 years younger. I don’t regret it at all !!

@@slimgrande4666 Are you 2 still together? Ooh the thought of dating a guy dramatically younger gives me anxiety 😥.

@@Ash2beauty Yes. I didn’t rush anything with him and kept things pure. Took time to get to know him and asked a lot of questions. I fell in love with his character and how he took care of his family because his Father died when he was young. He taught me a few things and encouraged me in many ways. He got that good fruit !!!

@@slimgrande4666 My husband is 13 years younger but acts older than me.

I'm really much impressed about your profile and personalities. I also admire your good sense of humor on here. I don't normally write in the comment section, but I think you deserve this complement.how're you doing over there

You're right, it isn't new it's just taboos against it aren't as prevalent anymore.

Wow!!! ❤️

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have the same energy when it comes to a guy then

Hello Mellissa are you single. Young man looking for one. 24 years old. Age for is just a number

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@@dalladi HELLO

She looks mid 30's lol

She looks as young as her bf because six years isn't much of an age gap, and she's clearly in her 30s, not 50s. If she was 15-20 years older, you'd see the difference.

It's only 6 yrs..

@@ilovegoodsax lol exactly

I was about to say the samething!

Hey dear how are you doing

I agree! Many young woman can’t get married and having children fast enough! Often too fast! I know two young women, who wanted to get married and have children after 6 months of dating a man.

From the woman or the society?

Bingo! Also, society has shifted. People are becoming interested in enjoying their lives to the fullest rather than reproducing. An older woman helps that.

@@lavender6500 That's BS. Older women likely have obligations that are restrictive like children, work, mortgage, etc. that also weigh heavily on their finances. Most older women are set in their routine/ways. Also older women are not financially generous with men so they're not funding a younger man's "experiences" in life as he builds himself. Ya'll are a bunch of delusional dorks.

@@nattypatty3667 You are SO triggered. It's hilarious.

hi Tatzy, let's talk about this what do you think?

It’s true 5-10 is nothing.

Do you want to give it a shot with me

I ❤ this comment. Congratulations to your grandparents. 🎉

Bingo!

Yes! Never thought of that!

@@AnnieIsaLau My late great grandfather was 6 years younger than my late great grandmother. In my country that was the norm in the villages in my country before WW2.

Women live longer because men tend to engage in riskier behavior that can end life sooner or reduce it, and tend to take on more of the financial and physical burdens of life that can compromise health. A lot of this allows women to enjoy the "safety nets" and modern conveniences. However, in these modern times women are now facing those risks and stressors at the same rate as men, if not more, so in the very near future that disparity will lessen. This is according to the NIH: "Women who had to work more than 10 hours of overtime per week had a higher risk of heart attacks than other women, whereas men who worked the same amount of overtime were at lower risk. Moreover, women's level of negative stress increased at the end if the day, whereas men's level of negative stress decreased considerably." Just because women lived longer doesn't mean men need to pair with an older woman so they can die at the same time. That's an asinine argument. What about the fact men have longer fertility windows? Can optimize hormones naturally for much longer? Are the more visual gender? Also there are studies that have gathered women that marry younger men die sooner and men that marry younger women live longer.

@@nattypatty3667 Older women have a good chance to conceive if the man is younger. Younger men have fewer sperm mutations.

Lets be honest, it's a main driver in why those younger guys are with older women. All were breadwinners. A lot of young guys can't get young women because a lot of younger women make more money than them and won't date them because women are hypergamous. Older women are more accepting because their options of men are more limited. However, once a younger man begins making solid money and starts getting on the radar of younger women there's a very high probability he's ditching the older for the younger more age compatible woman. Guys don't go battle in the world to go home and bring those resources to an old, infertile woman who's in perimenopause with grey hair that has to die it every two weeks!

@@nattypatty3667 if your logic is correct it means the young women also have few options too…… most older men with money are already married and same age/younger men have no money. Having been a very attractive younger woman not too long ago, that was the situation for me and my successful girlfriends. Many broke same age guys and even less successful older, available men. Young attractive women prefer successful, same age guys, of which there are few. The older, successful guy is her always second choice. Numerous older guys lose interest in their same age wives and start hoping for a younger replacement. Most can’t afford their fantasy. Young women mostly want money from older guys. So if young men want money from older women, what’s the difference?

@@Earthomo Your analysis is pretty accurate. It depends on what your criteria for older man is. Seems like for men it seems to be 45+. In that case, yes he must generally be pretty wealthy and somewhat still attractive for his age to be able to have a chance with a younger woman especially in the United States. However, many of the older men go international as the threshold requirement is much lower. You could easily argue younger women tend to like a little older especially if they are successful as hypergamy becomes stronger, and a lot will consider a man 5-15 years older as they still have their attractiveness and are more financially established. Not uncommon to find a 25 year old woman seriously dating guys in their 30s. At 40 plus it starts to become relatively uncommon. 50 plus and you're basically only a sugar daddy. But yes as a whole women tend to prefer men closer to their age until they reach around 40 then prefer younger, but at that point their marketability for relationships is low across the board. At 40 there are 15-20% more single women than men. The difference is older men tend to be more generous financially and will be a provider while still offering fertility that can last well into his 60s if he's healthy. Studies have shown vitamin c, e, zinc, and folate prevent sperm DNA damage, and observed men in their 40s with adequate intake had similar fertility to men in their 20s. However, older women do not naturally want to provide for their partners, and have very limited if no fertility in their 40s. Essentially with an older man you can build a family still while being provisioned for, but with an older woman she will less likely be a provider and cannot offer an extended fertility window to build a family with. 75-80% of men would one day like children, and most guys that are attractive or have resources will want to continue their genetic legacy.

Yes! I don't care about money, if the guy treats me with respect, loves me, cares for me and is honest, I don't care about the rest. As long as he does something with his life.

Older men contribute much more to birth defects than older women. A young woman takes a big risk by reproducing with an older man. The ultimate “get” for her would be to marry the older guy, get pregnant by a guy her own age, and pass the baby off as her husbands.

HELLO beautiful Queen How are you . Single man no kids looking for one Seriously.

I love older woman

I'm 23 and the girl is 31. I also worry what my friends will think who are my age

@@vivaeuropa If you are worried about the opinions of others, then you are not ready to do anything.

I like older women.

I love this. Sending you both lots of good wishes!

gross dude

Congratulations. May you two have a happy life together

That 💯 percent true

They want other men's children even less.

@@sunfish4095 that’s not true w all men either!

Invitro

The main purpose of monogamy is to have children. If you can't continue a man's genetic line you're more than likely just going to be a companion at best. How often do you see a good looking guy or one with resources that hasn't had a kid by 40? Exactly. Guys that don't want children either lack good genetics or resources, so have fun with your options.

My bf is 24 and I'm 39. He told me once he loves me so much becuase I make him feel special and express appreciation. He said his younger gfs never did that.

Thats lovely

Can we be friends?

I agree my husband and I are the same!

My bf was 22 years older than me I was with him for 6 years he acted like a 17 year old ..it doesn't matter the age in finding out it's all about the maturity level. He never put a ring on my finger..I'm ok with dating someone 4 years younger than me if he is mature enough I'm 31 years old.

@@courtneyjames8223 get rid of that boyfriend

Awww I’m so happy for you 🥰

Do you guys have kids?

The age gap is fine tho but you aren't a girl tho at 64. You are woman. I am a 22 year old male btw and my crushes are within 19-24 age range.

Preaaachh🥳🥳 this gives me good chills down my spine!

yeah...no cap , tired of being in the shadows for something that aint even wrong , its bout time they set us free

It really bums me out that there is such a negative view of these relationships. I'm very much drawn to younger men because I feel younger than I am and I look younger too. I wish society would stop frowning on this. If both are mature adults then nothing wrong with it.

Hey dear how are you doing

6 years difference is not that big of a difference. After a 10+ years difference, is when it borderlines on fetishism.

@@Blondie727 like dicapro going for fresh bods

​@@mysterio5837women date younger men for different reasons than men who date younger women..

@@Blondie727 You guys don't understand the meaning of fetishism.

Hey dear how are you doing

Exactly 💯💯!! Power and love to you Claudia 💓❤️♾️

@@rickyjames4594 not good. Lol

I concur with your sentiment 100% Australia.

You absolutely nailed it! I hope it works out for you guys

It's not vulnerability, it's naivety. They don't understand the big picture and the repercussions of dating/marrying a woman 20 years older which makes them easier targets for manipulation. What's an accomplished guy 20 years younger going to build with you especially with you already being married for 30 years?

@@nattypatty3667 bitter much?? Unsure how old you are but manipulation is not a tactic I engage in and you obviously are speaking from a past experience of yours quite possibly. Have a good day regardless.

@@nattypatty3667 if men is an adult he can do as he pleases

Age is just a number as long as both are over 18.

Hi Natalie, That’s so thoughtful of you, Hope my comment isn’t seen as a form of invasions of privacy, I’m here to make friends, Happy new year to you, How are you and how’s the weather over there?

Natalie are you single?

🗣

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hi Brenda

@@jonathanmorris5304 Stolen photo with a fake name profile. No thanks, SCAMMER!

@@FreeSpirit47 what are you saying... are you scammer?

Hey dear how are you doing

@@vivaeuropa awesome! I’m 42 soon to be 43 and he turned 34 recently

@@SummerBaby728 amazing!! I'm super happy for you, I'm turning 40 years old this week and I hope I'll meet the right person soon

@@xw6475 keep imagining it and praying for it and I know it will happen for you!!!!

@@SummerBaby728 thank you so much my dear!! I'll, I'll ❤️ You stay healthy, happy and stay gorgeous as you've been ❤️ live your best life to the fullest

It's a double standard for a reason. It goes against a man's primal biological instinct in a few ways. Men like variety and are not monogamous by nature, so to give that up generally requires a woman to be exceptional in the youth, beauty, and fertility department. After all, monogamy exists to build families and tribes, not solely companionship. So, when a man forgoes his biological desire for youth, beauty and fertility to spread his genes far and wide, he is signaling he is a lower status male that cannot exercise his true desire. It's been proven scientifically men are aroused by youthful feminine features that signal fertility whether they want to actively reproduce or not. Studies find 75-80% of men want to have children. Older women either already have or can't have children any longer, which makes them a bad bet for continuing a man's genetic legacy. Not only that, but men like most things in nature want to mitigate risk, and by going with younger women there is a far higher probability of multiple offspring that will be healthy. Most men don't want a woman in her 40s carrying and raising an infant that requires high energy, it's a young woman's game which is why nature shuts off reproductive capabilities for women around 40-45. At 40 there's a 40% chance of a spontaneous abortion and 80% at 45. The trend is really only for women that have money and have invested in their appearance naturally. For the average woman that's 5'4" 170 lbs and makes 45k, it's only a dream unless she wants a younger man that's no woman wants because any young man that has options via looks or resources is not going with that. Keep in mind, 70% of women are overweight and the older women get the more they weigh compared to their younger counterparts. The odds are really stacked against most older women.

@@nattypatty3667 Not a good reason though. And it doesn't apply equally to everyone.

@@nattypatty3667 it’s a biological instinct to poop, but you don’t see us pooping everywhere. This isn’t the Stone Age and we aren’t cavemen anymore. Times are changing, and so are humans. Natural selection will evolve to fit with the current times. That’s how it’s always been with every species. The age of menopause is starting to be pushed back and women who are 40+ are conceiving naturally more than ever. Get used to it because it’s gonna keep changing.

​@@lanaherrera5659 Terrible analogy. There is no biological programming to poop anywhere specifically, and as long as you poop you are eliminating toxic waste which is your bodies goal. It doesn't matter if it's on grass or concrete, you will not have any adverse reaction because there is no gene selection involved. If you really believe in natural selection, you would never get or advocate for any type of body modification or put makeup on because you are artificially altering your image to portray different genetics than what your DNA really displays, and natural selection will weed out the worst genetics. So let a man select you based off your real appearance, but I'm sure you're too scared to allow natural selection to really take place and walk out of your house without makeup because it's a brutal world, and you know your ability to attract men will greatly diminish. Also, if you really believe in natural selection you wouldn't advocate for older women to have babies using artificial means such as freezing eggs and IVF because there's nothing natural about it. It's not naturally possible if you need science to make it happen. Why are you still attracted to taller men? Why are you still attracted to broad shoulders? Why are you still attracted to strong jawlines? Why are you still attracted to masculine qualities? The same reason men are STILL attracted to youth, beauty and fertility. Times are different and there plenty of younger men that are overweight and have man boobs compared to prior generations. You should get used to being attracted to it because at this rate there are going to be a lot of young guys like this that are going to want to procreate. You should just accept the fact that young men are becoming less masculine and their testosterone levels are dropping every decade. Sounds ridiculous right? That's how you sound with your statement. Men in their 50s in the 1970s had higher testosterone levels than men do in their 20s today. Oh wait! I forgot, men should only be accommodative to women's dating and mating strategies but not the other way around. Silly me... How is the age of menopause being pushed back? Biology hasn't changed only science has. However, the biggest factor you're discounting is men generally are not attracted to nor do not want to take on the risks of impregnating a woman in her 40s ESPECIALLY if she wasn't with him for a long time. At 40 there is a 40% chance of spontaneous abortion and at 45 it's 80%. At 45 it's virtually impossible naturally. No, men don't want to spend $50k plus to help impregnate an old woman when they can get one that's 25-35 with much lower risk. 66% of women around 45 years old felt they were ENTIRELY unnoticed by men when they entered a room and 80% of women over 50 felt invisible. There are 20% more available single women than men at 40. Women over 40 are the most likely demographic of women to be on antidepressants. Does this look like the future for older women in the sexual marketplace is optimistic? You need to stop looking at celebrities because they live in a different realm than your woman living in the real world with average income and average looks. This is the natural selection you claim to advocate that is moving away from older women that cannot procreate or have a higher chance of birth defects and miscarriages. Time to face reality baby, you are on a short time clock and men are very attuned to it because NATURAL SELECTION.

@@nattypatty3667 I don’t wear makeup because makeup is bad for a the skin. It actually makes the skin age faster due to clogged pours from the oil and chemicals in the makeup products, so I avoid it at all costs. I’m big on skin care. And I think IVF is horrible because many lives are lost in the process. Fertilized eggs even from young women die all the time in IVF/vitro fertilization so I am highly against it for all women. Natural selection happens to all mammals to ensure that the species lives on. If and when more and more women start to wait to have kids until their 30’s and 40’s, natural selection will push back fertility declination. Natural selection occurs in all of the animal kingdom…

Shake off the insecurity and be loved. The whole world is sick of love deprivation. Enjoy it full out.

I think somehow I'll still manage to look younger than him. Even more healthy.

@@ahhwe-any7434 if a man likes older women, you don't need to look young darling

Ofc you’ll traded in, lady

6 years is nothing. I've heard people 10, 15, 20, 30, and even more years apart, married and still happy. Life is short. Be grateful you each found someone to share your time with. Older or younger, in life, it's all about the journey, and making those awesome memories. Don't be afraid, enjoy the journey! ⚘️

Sure

Maybe that's because women make it all about finances unless they're dating a younger guy in his 20s.

Right mam

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Adrienne, for real!!

As a guy they're really not that attractive. Maybe for their age but relative to women those guys' age not at all. Blonde definitely had a lot of work done and is the only reason she's getting any attention. Their "attractiveness" will only last a bit longer and then the 15-20 year age gap will really become evident from a physical, sexual, and life style perspective especially when the big MENOPAUSE comes knockin.

PERFECT comment and ABSOLUTELY true! 👍

@@nattypatty3667 I agree with you too. GREAT point!

Agreed Adrienne 👏🏾

Depends what are you look for in the relationship. I am 31 years old, but like women over 30 but up to 40.

@@NIKOLAP7 You don't represent every guy, just your own opinion on what you prefer

Your Delusional handsome men only date younger women 😃.

@@AroundTheWorld418 HELLO beautiful Queen How are you. Are you single. 24 years old I m looking my soulmate age is not important in a relationship it s a question of fellings fellings fellings fellings fellings fellings fellings fellings

@@AroundTheWorld418 I use only Whatsapp can we talk more?

What about poor older women dating younger men?

Lucky. I am a 21 year old guy and I never had a girlfriend either. Got rejected by 3 girls so far(2 from my college and another from a dating app who insulted me too). I tried following some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school but only 3 of them followed me back and I still didn't message them yet as idk what to write and they are all 20-22 year olds. But I am sad that the girl named Britney didn't accept my follow request yet. She was my classmate in 6th to 10th grade and I had a crush on her when we were in 9th and 10th grade. She is also 21 or maybe even 22 now and she is very pretty and I wish she follow me back because I think I again got a crush on her just seeing her profile pic on IG and she is even prettier now at 21.

@@manosijroy8282maybe you’re acting to clingy to this girl..? What country are you in..?

I find similar, the younger men I have dated have all been more emotionally mature, maybe as they were spiritual/following spiritual path.

@Jose Red Santiago I would date anybody and I’ve dated people 15 years older and 15 years younger if I felt a spiritual connection but I’ve only had happy relationships with guys 10+ years younger than myself. I can’t honestly say exactly why that is but I have some ideas.

Really??

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thats amazing!!! @dalladi could you tell your beauty secrets?😊 And also, how did the reproductive aspect worked out? Sending warm wishes❤

For sure, they will comment, but I think it's more common than the opposite so we tend to accept it more I feel.

My ex married a woman 19 1/2 years younger than him. I don't think it's working out like he thought it would. With her pulling purse and puppet strings, that's hard to take when he can't be in control. Touché, Karma found him!

hi Mary