She may be looking for a normal guy, but after seeing what's out here, a lot of normal guys have checked out. Dating other races, or trying to be a Passport Bro with no time for dating games that lead to nowhere.
EXACTLY. Which means, even for me, I don't date women who even try that.... If that's the type of men you like, I'm definitely NOT a man for you. Have a good one
Are these women slow? Every week I see a story about black women on TikTok crying about black men not approaching them, let alone date them and they ask why as if they don’t know the answer.
1:03 maybe just maybe, that’s part of the problem? Making negative videos for 2 years and wondering why you’ve been single for 2 years. The lack of self-awareness is amazing.
The High Maintenance attitude is usually associated with extreme selfishness.... All of the expensive things she buys herself she can afford to take herself out to these high-end restaurants. She has actually priced herself out.... and of course the selfish attitude doesn't make it any better.
She’s a pretty woman, so it’s definitely her attitude and personality that must be making dudes run. I can tell she only dates ones who make 200k+, drive an Audi or BMW, and are 6+ feet tall.
Damn right. Plus she's making videos constantly and clearly this method isn't working. Why not try some other way? Why not try to make yourself attractive for the men you seek? I guess this takes discipline and commitment that most young (mainly Black women) don't want to engage.
Men didnt make that theory up. Women formulated that in their own minds and tried to push it as fact. It all boils down to "it must be him because it certainly isnt me". Women hardly want to face reality that they are the problem so "he must be intimidated, he cant handle a strong independent woman, hes insecure, narcissistic" etc.
@@thumbsaloft Never understood why so many dudes say that. If men weren't intimidated by certain women, there wouldn't be such a thing as a simp or approach anxiety. Lot of rationalizing going on
I remember her, she made a video few months ago saying that she is a 10 and she is tired of dusty men approaching her. She is beautiful but anytime she opens her mouth she comes across arrogant especially in her previous video
Anyone a woman says that that makes her less than Average regardless of looks. That’s a very ugly thing to say. Lol and she wonder La why nobody taking her out.
Come on bruh, everybody knows the black woman is perfect and should be worshipped like God almighty. Something must be wrong with men if women don’t get the results they desire. Hence this video.
Whereas men do self reflect and we are more introspective than women. If we say the wrong sentence a woman will dump you, if you open a door for a woman or don't open a door for a woman she will dump you, if you are "too nice" she will dump you. So we go into dates knowing we have to act a certain way to stand a chance. Whereas women go into dates like they are all 10s and they do not give a damn how we perceive them. Also, have you ever tried to give a modern woman constructive criticism? They will respond with rage and call you sexist. They are incapable of improving because they lack accountability.
Men don’t want to have to spend $300 on a date for a Woman who isn’t his. Also, the way you use certain tones to seemingly talk down to certain groups of men.
I’ve never ever ever ever heard a man of any race or ethnicity say they’re intimidated by any woman. I really wish people would stop saying that. Maybe they’re just not attracted to you and your personality.
Also for us “local brothers”; she said she previously went out with brothers that were incarcerated w/ 10 kids, in other words Tyrone’s. You lay down with dogs, you get up with flees. Local HV men will judge you based on who you use to date . Just saying
Because the only black men they date are Pookies. When they get an Urkel or Carlton they lead him on to finese him while giving it away to Pookies for free. So now Urkel and Carlton have takfn their talents to other races of women.
Seems like a her problem but she trying to generalize it. It's you love. You see the shade she threw at black men too talking about 10 kids .... That's why no one taking you out on dates. It's just you sweetheart
Got 'em! She told on herself with that one. Instead of being able to attract middle class earners without children she can't seem to stop attracting Ray & Pook. The disconnect is she's complaining as if she's in the running for a slot at a prestigious IVY League college despite her G.P.A. only qualifying her for Junior College. KS would say, "Ma'am, for what you bring into the dating market your asking price is too high."
I considered myself broke making 75 annually in SWFL, while working on obtaining my Master’s & I wouldn’t even take some of these women at a Popeyes drive-thru due to most of them being eff up in the head.
How is 75k broke? Maybe in Cali or NY that’s considered broke but not every county/state is expensive to live in like the internet wants us to believe.
@@Agentunderfire I mentioned broke cause somewhere along the line a BW would've “Called me out. & you are right 75 isn't broke if you live within your means depending on the area my monthly bills are just under 3K.
@@Kevmora93 Right, and if you single with no kids, you’re definitely not broke. I wish I made 75k. Gotta stop letting women dictate what’s enough and what’s not enough. If they don’t like it, let them date each other 🤷🏽
Why don't y'all ask the bears out on a date?. Don't y'all always say y'all are "strong and independent and don't need no man"? Take yourself out on dates. They take others out on dates. Just not a lot of y'all. 😂
Dating should be 50/50 ! That protects the man and the woman! Every man has the fear of being used, every woman has the fear of " expectations "! Since the true purpose of the date is to talk and get to know one another, going 50/50 removes all fears and expectations and gets down to connecting!
In this case, speaking as a single black woman, I’m on the side of the guys on this one. Just too freaking much of everything going on with this lady.😅
@@sbolden123 I think you are confusing average and median. One person can earn $1,000,000 and 24 people can earn $0 and the average would be $40,000. The median income (50th percentile) is usually lower than the average income.
In America, the only men who take women on dates are the guys who have no other choice. Let's be real, no one would willingly spend $100 on an entitled stranger at Ruth Chris for usually nothing in return. She doesn't want the guys who resort to that.
Same reason I've been single a Lil over 20 years. I'm happier single and no woman has shown me otherwise. I sacrifice my happiness, peace and quiet for no one.
Men are starting to get its not worth it. If you are a man with an athletic or buff build you already know you can get most women for free without trying.
We finally tapped into "there's more fish in the sea" concept and quickly realized that it's true. Only this catch is softer, nicer, more feminine, more willing to help with less attitude.
Everything else is true but talking about "attractive", black women in this country are some of the most beautiful and attractive in the world. The attitude is the problem!
Phil is right. Impression = high maintenance Being highly active on social media, indicating that you won't keep interaction amongst the two of you to yourself. (Talk/tell too much). No offense.... The way you speak may not match the presentation. "They be doing..." "Tho" Polish the way you speak to match the presentation and feminity.
She is inquiring to know are black men taking females on dates? Nope! The decent black men are working on themselves, building their lives up and keeping their peace. Also, some of us are choosing not to date or like myself we have gone overseas.
Phil man listening is a skill although we tell them what we want the still don’t listen. It’s sad because they’re our #1 choice and will forever be, but we need love too and fortunately or unfortunately we look the other way.
women, please consider not flipping out at Walmart or Mcdonalds, you know, don't tear up the place because you are offended for some reason, and quite throwing blows!
She seems to live her life on her phone. Who wants to be around that. The moment you do something she doesn’t like she’s putting your whole information on the internet.
They get in the dm and ask just to see if she says yea sometimes guys just want to see if we still got it we really don’t want to put the time in for most women out here
