@BlackWomenExposedByCrimsonCure You can’t speak for what I’ve seen in my lifetime, I’m soon to be 57 and I’ve seen a lot of Tom Foolery from men and women.
Them the ones I usually go for. Not them chicks with the ig model start up kit. BBL, weird eye lashes, and lace front hair hats. Give me a natural woman any day of the week.
That woman knows the real💯 I remember this one feminine down to earth lady I tried to holla at turned me down gently but she was so sweet about it she even hooked me up with her homegirl Notice I said ONE because they are hard to find these days I have never been so happy after being rejected on that day😂
One of the main reasons I avoided the popular girls. To me, popular means tainted and drama. Ironically, ignoring them somewhat makes them approach you. At least in my experience. 😅
No disrespect but I don't believe that happened like that always, there are good women out there who were in a relationship with a man who turned into monsters and vice versa. I watched documentaries about things like that. So I don't believe that's always true.
Proverbs 5:3-8 son stay away from that adulterous woman. Her lips drip honey but her heart is bitter. She chooses death over life. Her foot steps lead to the grave.
"27For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. 28She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men." (PROVERBS 23:27-28)
She has developed an attitude plus she can’t be trusted when you’re not around and she shows no interest in covering up and dressing tasteful conservative.
I get what she's saying but it's not that we don't want a sexy woman because the cute modest lady is still sexy. We just don't want an over sexualized look/vibe that draws the wrong attention.
Proverbs 31:11-12,30-31 [11]The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. [12]She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. [30]Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. [31]Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
But it's not fair. Those men like Wild 'n out with the 304s. Then after they've got it all in, now they wanna nice clean decent girl. No. Stay there. Leave the decent girl for a decent man. You can't have your cake and eat it too. No. It's no different to a man that won't wanna be with a woman even though she WAS a 304 but changed her life. He gets no passes either.
Unc is speaking true facts. Sleeping with and wifing are completely different. Many times women radiate beauty but the heart/mind/soul do not match the exterior. Shadow work/inner work and character and value development will bind a man to a woman even after the natural beauty departs.
Well one day God Almighty Yah put this quote on my mind and I will not forget it. "A none virtuous woman has about as much value as a wooden penny at best and detrimental at worst." When I ask women are they truly virtuous women they could not honestly say yes.
She’s right but the problem is: 1, there aren’t enough cute and feminine woman to begin with, 2, the ones that do exist are taken by the time they’re 25 years old, and 3, the ones who aren’t taken have too many walls up and emotional expectations (opposite of the materialistic expectations the party girls have.)
Nah, you finding a partner has more to do with what life has in store for you. You finding a GOOD partner depends on your karma. All this other ish is insecurities. Because you can dress plain as hell and still attract attention. You can be sexy and have a great personality to go with it at well. This is just perception.
People are too superficial. All they want to do is surgery to beautify the flesh. But that demon is still within. Get rid of your demon and become more modest. It will suit you better in life, in your spiritual faith, and in partnerships.
We tell them this all the time but they always ignore what we men say. Welp there bitter old an alone now. Shouldn't have been prideful an foolish wasting your years
Correct but how much attention she gets matters less if she has a history of handling the it in a graceful manner. Is she grounded by life in the midst of said attention?
Pretty ones that get all the attention don't have nothing to think with majority of them are short term thinker don't think about the road ahead a lot of them just think for the moment
Wow, this video hits home! As a woman, I've always wondered about this 'attention' factor in relationships. I want to hear this woman's insights and gain some clarity on what really goes on in our heads when it comes to commitment. Let's dive in
4:55 As a woman No lies found here ☝🏽 He said it….. “Get a therapist” Internal authentic beauty is better than the exterior facade that many women focus on.
I didn't fully grasp this until I matured. My mentor's advice when I was younger was, "Enjoy yourself, but when you're ready to commit, aim for a solid 7." It's remarkably accurate. A perfect 10 might not be so easy to work with-they often think they know it all. A 6 or 7, however, is receptive to coaching and stunning when dressed up. The allure of the girl next door is what most men truly desire.
Ecclesiasticus 36:22-23 [22]The beauty of a woman cheereth the countenance, and a man loveth nothing better. [23]If there be kindness, meekness, and comfort, in her tongue, then is not her husband like other men. COMMENT: beauty will get a man but will not keep a man. Verse 23 says a kind-acting, obedient, and kind speaking woman is the one that will keep a husband.
I know women who do this to men. They don’t want the hot cheating bad guy but the fearless assertive dominant guy. Not the nice guy either, nobody wants a pushover.
Also , if a man if self aware and understands his own worth, will fall back and observe how his lady handles that. Try stay on his build but it will open a void for another woman. Let the other woman keep the attention of others and step out of that spot. We call it ghosting now. Like what’s understood, don’t need to be explained.
Textbook crazy/hot scale. Men have been telling women this for YEARS. All that girlboss hot girl summer stuff isn't gonna fly with high value provider men
