You forgot one of the BIGGEST issues with our sistas: dressing in a manner that respects your mate and does not give off signals that you are “taking applications”!!
@@325ariel And again that is why yall remain single, because you don’t listen. You can’t tell me what men think. We have these conversations every damn day.
I loveeeeeee me a black woman. But, I also love PEACE ☮️ I plan on staying single for a very long time and I don’t have no issue with it. Fellas know your WORTH!!!!!
So black women and no peace are synonymous? Too many bm are very self hating and look for any excuse to denigrate stereotype and make overall general assumptions about your own race of women just to be with non black women and it’s disgusting.
My issue is too many women in our community use the wrong bait. They think they’re all 10s and all Queens and all deserve a small percentage of the top tier men. I see these women on the dating shows all the time. They come with all this attitude and baggage and well past their prime ready to settle down with a well established, god-fearing man. They want new Bentley prices for a 12 year old Chevy that was a rental car.
My issue is why is finding a "good" black man even a conversation??? Look at the news,community stats etc black males aren't showing up that valuable 😒 not even to themselves. It's a weird conversation for the demographic of males ijs
@@bruceleeroy8302 the way black males tell the world they hate black women I can't see what could be worst than black males for black women 😕 it's hard over there with yall for them look the comments who would want black men after this open revelation ???
Yep, black women looking for half decent black men is like sifting through garbage. If she finds anything of value she better consider herself blessed.
My ex had the unmitigated gall after 8years of separation to tell me I'm been thinking 🤔 about us. I told her keep on thinking 🤔 you thought it was something better out their. I'm out l✈️ ✈️ 🌴.......
Damn, it's too late for me I guess. It took a woman from another race to show me how caring and compassionate a person can be. But, I am glad some BW are realizing how often they fumble a good BM.
You can't tell these women nothing most of them will listen to their jealous friends and get in their heads and the next thing u know they ready to divorce their husband, it is what it is.
There are women these days who hear that they look pretty and who start acting up with all the masculine attitudes in a dash. That's just down right crazy.
SHE AIN'T LYING BECAUSE GLOCKTAVIOUS AND JAIL-TAVIOUS IS WAITING FOR Y'ALL LOVELY LADIES. GLOCKTAVIOUS DEAZ HOAZ WANT Y'ALL IN MY DENNIS SPURRLING VOICE 😂😂😂😂
That says alot about black males when the lowest of you is the representative of the collective😢it says even more when you believe that is women's fault
It’s like what Chris Rock said back in the 90’s: Black man gets no respect coming out of Penn State with a masters but brothers coming out of the state pen get mad respect from brothers and sisters.
@@S1lverspikeyeah I picked that up too..that lie has been debunked multiple times...they think that way because the men they love to sleep with were Pookiez and Ray Ray nem who's in and out the prison system!
Nah at this point it's pretty much known that they will sabotage everything and play the victim afterwards. - Let me not start about the inconsistency they have.
Britain left Ghana richer than Singapore, look today. You were better than Asians after Jim crow, look today. A bunch of useless vampires... Please exit africa and all regions were my sisters live. Nothing more useless than a BM on this earth
I just left my girl because I’m turning 30 in November and I turn to her and say jokingly, “damn, me turning 30 got me a little depressed, and I laughed. She been weird asf for the pass 2 days. I literally watched her change within days. I straight up left.
I don't know why "30" is such a depressing age. I had an ex that seriously got depressed when he turned 30 like life was over for him. Like he lost his mojo. I didn't understand bc he was still young. Years later we talked about it and laughed but he admitted that it really did bother him
It's crazy that they want a good BM but then they call them soft or squares but yall want to date them pookies and ray rays I guess it's a wake up call now.
Feminine, fit, and friendly. That’s all I ask for. I had masculine woman that only wanted resources and then move on to next guy with resources. After a couple years Guess who is back in my DM asking how I’m doing.
That's why we should never trip when a thot leaves. They ALWAYS come back. Getting the last laugh is the biggest victory man can get after feeling played or finally on top of his game. That's God right there 🙏
Mom and sometimes Grandma in the club with the young ladies they should be grooming/coaching. They think that “paycheck” baller they meet Saturday night at the club is better than the dude they see go to work day after day, year after year. We are tolerated by women when we are with them and missed and admired when we gone.
My grandmother and father raised me. My grandmother would always ask me am I taking care of my husbands needs. She told me to watch my mouth and give him peace. I'm grateful for her wisdom, she passed away at 98 years old.
You are sooo right Phil. I mean what is better than a man with good character who loves you, what else does a woman need. Whatever it is that she is fantasizing about can be created with her spouse, that to me would make the fantasy even better when acted out.
Unfortunately so many have been hurt so much in the past, they are not prepared for a "Good" black man. Therapy is slepted on in our community but it's needed after any hurtful breakup!
Therapy is garbage. If you aren't raised right you're screwed today. There's no time nor tolerance for mediocrity in today's society. It's all about good character and that comes from knowing the Holy Spirit, not some quack.
Fellaz don't get too excited about getting your passports. I am from South Africa and the quality of BW have decreased. In SA, BW consume a lot of what is happening in the States and apply it in real life.
Reminds me of Tia. Admitted that her husband was doing everything right, but now shes out here complaining about noone "properly" courting her. Meanwhile shes now a 45yo divorcee with 2 kids. Smdh
Oh brotha Phil this lady is probably being attacked like she done stirred up a hornet's nest. And peace to her, but because of so many bad examples that I see from others and from my own personal experiences, it's very hard for me to believe that this woman's words are sincere...
They shun the good men and go to Pookie and Ray Rays have babies and try getting a square they turned down and want him to take care of someone else children 🤷🏿♂️
According to an ABC Nightline report on Unmarried Black Women (yes, it’s on RU-vid), there are 12 million black women but only 5 Million ELIGIBLE Black Men. Now some of that ELIGIBLE have move overseas. So maybe it’s 4 Million left.
Yooo Patrice O'Neal said this same thing back in 2010 on Black Phillip/ Opie and Anthony. OMG😱 if a woman finds a good man it's like scratching a lucky lotto ticket 😂
I would love for us to focus on creating more good black men and reducing our numbers in prison. This will help us make improvements for the next several generations so that we have more options in our race. We also need to support education and trade skill development in young black men- affording them the opportunity to make a living wage and compete with men of other cultures. Our culture needs to promote and encourage healthy lifestyles both physically and mentally and we need to address the rampant trauma that exists in our communities across the nation. Healthy people who can attract other healthy people.
I saw her speak on this before but decades ago Natalie Cole warned black women about this on her song I'm Catching Hell and they didn't listen to her so the Sistahood of Tampax WILL NOT listen to this message.
