Ummm, no? Im NOT going to watch your affair child, the one you had with my fiancee, for any amount of time. Doing it once is just an invitation for more times in the future. This woman is not the AH.
She should’ve moved on from it? Then they should move on out of her house because you’re not gonna disrespect somebody’s trauma and then proceeded to live in the house.
and the brat shows up as an adult blaming OP? tell her she was an entitled little C and they sure didn't make it easy. she is just looking for a scapegoat for HER failings. poor little girl.
With that entitled of a sister, you give an inch, they take a mile. Bet it wasn't actually a work emergency and she was having a quickie cheating on her affair partner husband.
#2. never get involved with a childed person. just looking for a babysitter with benefits. that is why he was so pressuring for op to move in and get involved. never get involved with a childed person.
That 3rd story from the comments I was laughing so hard. It's a lot harder to put yourself out there in comparison to just saying no to someone asking you out.
People telling OP she did the wrong thing and should have just watched the affair baby, well good news, you've just volunteeree yourself to be unpaid babysitters for sister in the future, OP should give sister their contact info and tell her these people have no issue watching her affair baby with no prior notice or agreement. Edit..... hey this applies to story 2, inform SIL that you're sorry she picked the one person who wasn't ok with being forced into being a free babysister for the party when she should of, and should in the future, pick X, Y or Z. Also then you can tell your parents you apologizes to her and if she doesn't like the apology, well she's just being ungrateful.
#2 your brother and Sil are the AHoles. You were tricked into something you would not agree to. Tell the others to watch their own brats it’s not your job. You were invited to a party not as a babysitter but as the aunt to the new baby.
Not the AH. but maybe an idiot. What you should have done is taken Emily in and told her what her father and mother did to you expressly saying she should be better than both her cheating lying parents. I guess that will stop lily from these abandonments😊
The comments and story 4 are too funny and stupid they really call the OP stupid because he asked a woman out on a date olat her job I get the average regular don't date but Jesus Christ
For story 4, everyone's at fault IMO. Being an older person, he obviously might not have realized that the dating space has changed from when he met his wife and just did what he did cause she looked like someone he felt comfortable with, which is still not an excuse for what seems like a really bad approach. On the other hand, saying no isn't a big deal. Instead, the waitress took a route that made him look like a creep for a seemingly innocent request. This is what men mean when they say they'd rather ask a lady out just cause being alone is better than allowing a woman to label them as a creep or a pervert The risks outweigh the benefits Last story: graduation is a big deal but meal plans shouldn't break or make it. The parents don't seem miserly as OP didn't mention being denied a lot of necessities and more. People may not realize how much one can save by cooking. If OP wants to have a celebration in a restaurant, offer to pay for it. I was denied a lot of unnecessary stuff when growing up and thought it was stupid back rhen, but now realize it was for the best
