It is just a matter of time before he actually cheats and not just ogle women. Wait to divorce him if you want a larger settlement, but know that the pain of betrayal will be significant and brutal.
My goodness. If you want to be a strong independent woman don't expect to be pampered by your husband. It's hypocritical to want to be pampered when you claim your a go-getter.
In this story,under normal circumstances she's independent. However, OP is having an extremely rough pregnancy. She's looking for help from her hubby because of how sick she is. She's suffering a lot of pain and nausea. This actually has nothing to do with being independent. Of course hubby having an affair only makes her pregnancy worse. Don't get me wrong. There does seem to be a difference in women being pregnant today. I call it princess pregnancy. Definition: A woman having a perfectly normal pregnancy, no complications, no restrictions automatically can't/won't do anything from the moment they find out. They expect their partner to do everything. Work, shopping, all of the house chores , wait on them hand to foot, jump at the moment they have a craving (regardless of the time of day). IMO, all of this is unnecessary, insulting and pathetic. The trend that I've been seeing here recently that absolutely pisses me off and disgusts me to almost rage is this: The ignorant, selfish , entitled bishes who tell their partner, who IS THE BABY DADDY that they don't want/are not going to Allow him in the delivery room. Now these are good partners. No abuse or betrayal or anything of that nature. They are going to have their Mommy/Sissy/BFF in the delivery. Then these brain dead twats come on Reddit asking AITAH. Or come to Reddit crying and whining about their partner leaving them. Going for full custody. "I don't know why he is treating me so badly.". "What do I do to get him back.". I can't respond to those women. My comments would get me banned for life from RU-vid and Reddit.
So in the update op says they got in his phone then they had an argument the next morning but in the original post they said they found out via email because he ALWAYS had his phone 🤔
1:52 =My dad right there. He only cares for mum when his relatives comes around... And he had 3 chances... The only time he cared (For a while) was with me. The rest? Not much... He was a serial cheater...
