It pisses me off so badly when a man continually denies a baby and does NOTHING for them, but then as soon as he find out it IS HIS BABY he claims he wants full custody.
So many quotables😂 "I ignored her existence" "the lines were fainted" "skew me ya honor" " I went to the hospital to make sure she was pregnant" "the test was non produce-able" 🤣 😞 smh. I can't with these ppl..
All answers from women. As long as you are a woman and you have the capacity to conceive any of you can be in the same situation. You and the god-whatever there acting as a witness are the same.
He doesn't care about the baby. He just doesn't want to pay child support. If he did get custody of her, he'd probably just hand her over the his momma and let Grandma raise her.
L V I believe it i very obvious that he didn't care in the first place, lol. Even if he wasn't the he should have been interested in his daughters life. Or at least contacted the mother... TRIED to reach out. xD
@@lv6524 nah, he just feeling vindictive and isn't man enough to put his anger aside to raise his child properly. His rather wallow in his anger and hold that in like its going to help someone
lol especially since he didnt want a relationship, he shud of made sure he used a lifejacket cause who is to say she didnt want a kid or relationship with him
What drives me crazy is people thinking raising children is a 18 year responsibility. I'm sorry kids grow up and have more milestones. Graduations, weddings, children, holidays and ect. Not like kids celebrate things and what their family all there. Its ridiculous to think your duty ends at 18. My oldest is 20 almost 21 and yes I'm still doing my job as a mother to this day because she still wants and needs me there. (Yes she lives on her own, works full time and goes to school full time).
Completely agree! I'm 32 and still sometimes need my folks for help. Same with my 29 year old sister and my 26 year old brother. They went to my sisters college graduation (mine was the same day so they missed mine), was there when my brother went off to the military, they were there for my second wedding as well as my brother's wedding, they go to my children's school functions, and watch my kids all the time so my husband and I can have date night once in a while or so we can run errands child free lol Parents are supose to be parents for LIFE! The legal obligation ends at 18 but the practical and loving obligation never ends
Fast forward a few years and I'm doin the same thing right now. Just got a shower, put clean jammies on not drinkin some hot sleepy tea and watchin PC. 😌
I can't stand when men say they're gonna try and get full custody when the child turns out to be theirs. It's only now you've realised you can't stand the mother so you want to avoid her? The mother you slept with unprotected... many times. Makes no sense😒
I think it could be about the child support rather than anything. My guess is, if he got his way he'd get custody of all his kids, drop them at his mother's door and live off child support from the mothers.
Judge was so done she didn't say JACK about resources or counseling available, nor did she hope they took advantage of them, nor did she wish them the best!!!
ME TOO. IT WAS RECOMMENDED FOR ME AND I KEPT IGNORING SO MONDAY AFTER LOVE AD HIP HOP NEW YORK THERE WAS NOTHING ELSE I WAS INTERESTED IN SO I GOT ON MY LAPTOP AND IVE BEEN BINGE WATCHING EVERY SINCE.
This is one where mom gambled and won. That sigh of relief was that it WASN’T the other dude. From the testimony, you can tell mom is vindictive. Good luck, dad. You’re going to need it.
@@dnicety3964 Yeah, regardless of what he says he does have an issue with paying child support. That's why as soon it was announced that he war the father he jumped to wanting full custody.
She triffling. But what is up with all these so called family members coming on the show giving they "opinion" about they family member's business? Go somewhere and have ALL the seats! Then he talking about he won't custody, 😂😂😂😂. Sit down!
@@rashardstallworth9240no he doesn’t. He kept denying, he kept saying he wanted nothing to do with her, and he doesn’t want to pay child support. She’s ghetto and he’s irresponsible and immature
Good enough to jump, but bad enough to dump...Judge Lake is probably one of the BEST judges on the web today....So honest and totally fair and calls it like it is!!!
These two are what's wrong with the black community. Making up words, mispronouncing the rest while trying to explaining why they're sleeping around. I'm embarrassed for all of us...looks like the judge was in agreement. "Non-producible." Smh.
MuurPortal, right I thinking he was looking to say "Nonexistent". You can put a suit and tie on a Brutha, but it doesn't make him a Motivational Speaker, lol!
AND as a MAN you have the right to raise the kid & have custody. If you feel you’re a better parent or have a better situation raise your kid, put HER on child support! statistic show that single dads make the best parents💎
Hey there, HAPPY FRIDAY. Look at this mess today. Lol. He kept screwing her without protection and now wondering how he got himself in the precarious position. She is a fool, birth control is available girlll...
Was she supposed to wait until the baby could testify at the hearing before she requested child support? Did the baby need shelter and food to eat in the first 3 weeks? 🧐
" I have to deal with that for the next 18 years" Well you should have thought about that when you was "kicking it" with her. Condoms, have you heard of them? Sad all the way around.
Um is there a waiting period you’re supposed to observe before putting someone on child support? Babies cost money before they even pop out... So am I missing something? If you’re not in a relationship with the other biological parent, isn’t it best to get things settled in the beginning? We’ve seen tons of parents come to PC with THOUSANDS of dollars of back child support owed. Wouldn’t you rather start with small payments from the start? When Judge Lake is ruling on cases where the mom is suing for expenses for the child, she rules on EVERYTHING that there’s evidence of... strollers, car seat, food, diapers, doctors’ visits.... and some of it is from BEFORE the child is born. Ridiculous. Just pay the support. You’re the dad.
What y’all fell to realize is we knew b4 the show he was the dad why else was his name on her birth certificate free Vacation free clout and free money don't over think it