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Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 800,000 subscribers on RU-vid. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
Shane and Hannah have been together for over four years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.

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Комментарии : 832   
@willcookmakeup
@willcookmakeup 2 года назад
Hannah’s so gorgeous I cannot. You two are so perfect for each other. I need to find a guy who makes me laugh like Shane does for you
@JustaMentalNote
@JustaMentalNote 3 года назад
I got married in late 2019 and the only thing I wish I knew beforehand is that I would shortly after become disabled. I’ve always had health issues but never ones that have stopped me from working, so I thought I’d always be okay. I can’t work now and trying to find programs I qualify for as a married person is really difficult. If I had known what would happen to my health prior to getting married I don’t know if we would have gone through with a legal wedding simply because sit cuts off so many possible benefits. Still so happy to have a man to stand by me through all of my ups and downs. 💙
@powderandpaint14
@powderandpaint14 3 года назад
It's not only unfair, it's dangerous! People who are disabled and find themselves in a domestic violence situation have no income of their own to enable them to leave.
@MagnoliaPantherWoman
@MagnoliaPantherWoman 3 года назад
So true. It's difficult to find resources and qualify for them.
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 3 года назад
@@powderandpaint14 exactly. It literally traps people in abuse because they can't save money so they have no way of getting out. It's inhumane.
@aurorafun8f732
@aurorafun8f732 3 года назад
You guys are hilarious! I never miss a video, and I’m your parents’ ages. The true love and support you have for each other is just beautiful. Can’t wait to see the photos from your wedding celebration. I hope it is a day that you will remember fondly.💖💖
@susanrnbc
@susanrnbc 3 года назад
Eager to see the video of your wedding/party! Hannah is going to be a beautiful bride, and seeing Shane in a suit instead of a t-shirt will be awesome!
@Andrew-jv2qj
@Andrew-jv2qj 3 года назад
Hi Susan
@melissapalmer1839
@melissapalmer1839 3 года назад
Your comment about the joint income affecting your benefits really saddens me. I had been engaged to a wonderful disabled man, we lived together and really wanted to be married. Unfortunately, we were never able to get married because, together, we earned about $25 above the cut off( so basically we were dirt poor.) We couldn't risk him losing his medical benefits, obviously, so we were never married. He died a few years later. I will always consider him my first husband, but it just feels like such discrimination to me. Something needs to be done about this; it's just not right. God bless both of you. I love your channel.
@dawnmroz2627
@dawnmroz2627 3 года назад
It’s definitely discriminatory and needs to be changed!!!
@ladybuglover4eva52
@ladybuglover4eva52 3 года назад
That's so sad, I'm glad you had such a wonderful relationship, & I wish there wasn't such difficulty to marry & still maintain benefits.
@carriepadgett2743
@carriepadgett2743 3 года назад
I know , it's horrible :( not everyone has millions of dollars like these 2 and it's much more difficult to get by. Things need to change
@marshasmith9062
@marshasmith9062 3 года назад
I have disabilities and it sucks that to get benefits I have to be poor. It would be great to have benefits based more in how much care costs verses only how much you earn.
@katechapple5870
@katechapple5870 3 года назад
My husband and I are legally married and we both have cerebral palsy. At first we didn't thank we could get legally married due to income limits so we just had a comment ceremony. However, we had an lawyer who specialize disability issue research if we could legally and still make a reasonable income. Turns out we could so we did! I know the income limits it varies from state to state. We live in Texas.
@consuelacovington8169
@consuelacovington8169 3 года назад
I couldn't stop laughing when Shane was telling his joke. I love the sense of humor between them.
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
They did too 👈 History repeats itself.
@AmanGupta-jt8xy
@AmanGupta-jt8xy 3 года назад
Marring for money Power of money can make a beautiful girl to marry a dìsabled 🤣🤣
@eddierios1068
@eddierios1068 2 года назад
@@AmanGupta-jt8xy I wish i
@eddierios1068
@eddierios1068 2 года назад
@@AmanGupta-jt8xy I wish I had a girlfriend like Hannah that cares about my condition
@musicgal1710
@musicgal1710 3 месяца назад
​@@AmanGupta-jt8xyDissing a couple based on looks and ability points to an inner disability
@mikedistel5860
@mikedistel5860 3 года назад
The two of you will be the most important people at your wedding. Your guests enjoying your wedding will bring you happiness. Their happiness makes it more special for you.
@hotcoffee8819
@hotcoffee8819 3 года назад
Lol!!!
@rawilson7768
@rawilson7768 3 года назад
Boy that new mic sounds great! Hannah now has a “radio voice” that sounds great on that mic.
@tinaandre9905
@tinaandre9905 3 года назад
So endearing Hannah how you look at Shane. You can tell how much you love him.. you two are such a sweet couple!
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@LaTerfaMexicana Bro she married him for money and good lifestyle only .. and now saying that she love him .. no beautiful girl can love such a men .. i know many disabled men in my society they are still unmarried and the only reason of their being unmarried is that they do not earn a single coin they are superpoor
@ladybuglover4eva52
@ladybuglover4eva52 3 года назад
@@TheTruth-xe1kt you're hateful, as well as wrong.
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@ladybuglover4eva52 if I am hateful and wrong then tell me Will you will ready to marry your sister to such a disabled man ?? If yes then you are more hateful than me If no then where is your kindness now ??
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@ladybuglover4eva52 if I am hateful and wrong then tell me Will you be ready to marry your sister to such a disabled man ?? If yes then you are more hateful than me If no then where is your kindness now ??
@KCGLivingInGray
@KCGLivingInGray 3 года назад
@@TheTruth-xe1kt If my sister loves a man with a disability, I absolutely 💯 would support them!!!
@dabailey1000
@dabailey1000 3 года назад
You two are hysterical. “ A secret closet” 🤣😂 full of nerds. FYI: Really liking Shane’s haircut. Unused sauces 🤣😂
@SheerBibliophile
@SheerBibliophile 3 года назад
I love them 😂 I love how he was like...she didn't think I could get up those stairs...but little did she know... And he made his way up there and discovered with horror that their marriage was a Lie! Nerds....nerds! EVERYWHEREEE
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
Hannah Alyward is the third woman he's paid contract agreements partnership with Shane Burkaw.
@SanSpooky
@SanSpooky 3 года назад
@@froggytruth9062 Get a life
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
Marring for moñey Power of money can make a beautiful girl to marry a dìsabled 🤣🤣
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
@@SanSpooky Looked it up yourself ! Ya Putz
@ks2994
@ks2994 3 года назад
Shane is absolutely the funniest guy ever. Y'all are goals.
@kirstyl1372
@kirstyl1372 3 года назад
We had a lovely ceremony in a hotel with less than 30 people. Then we had afternoon tea and went home. I don’t regret not having a party for my extended family at all.
@stinkyjett
@stinkyjett 3 года назад
Hannah, that color pink looks great on you! Especially with your tan! You’re gorgeous
@dickrichards9650
@dickrichards9650 3 года назад
First it was being a "wheelchair digger", and now you discover, that she's a " Nerds digger". Have you no shame Hannah??? I'm still laughing about the "wheelchair digger", episode..
@teresewoltz8627
@teresewoltz8627 3 года назад
She is really gorgeous, and I ...... you all know
@musicgal1710
@musicgal1710 3 месяца назад
Saame!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@laurabatton
@laurabatton 3 года назад
The genuine humor that Hannah found around Shane’s Nerd story had me laughing out loud.
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
Your being fooled.
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
She married this man for moñey only🤣🤣
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@froggytruth9062 i think this women is a hypocrite she married this disàbled men only for money 🤣🤣
@laurabatton
@laurabatton 3 года назад
@@froggytruth9062 ok
@laurabatton
@laurabatton 3 года назад
@@TheTruth-xe1kt ok
@ninajekel8784
@ninajekel8784 3 года назад
You two have got to be the funniest, most genuine people on this app
@Mr.Caring
@Mr.Caring 3 года назад
Your sweet
@juliejacobs9424
@juliejacobs9424 3 года назад
How Shane managed to keep a straight face through the nerd story had me in histerics. I don't know if i could keep a serious face. I'd be like Hannah. So funny. 😂 ❤️
@qabrona9776
@qabrona9776 3 года назад
I wouldn't be able to keep straight face during a fake story while pretending to be a couple either
@tessaw55
@tessaw55 3 года назад
Right!? Shane's ability to keep those straight faces (during many of his comedic commentaries) is next level. I'm with you, I know for sure I'd not be able to keep a straight face.
@CARNELIANTURQUOISE
@CARNELIANTURQUOISE 2 года назад
Hysteric
@katherineraven6381
@katherineraven6381 2 года назад
@@qabrona9776 better not do that then 🤷🏻‍♀️ sour 🍇 go away now
@sionandjess
@sionandjess 3 года назад
We had a meat loaf impersonator as we both love his music, it was the first thing we talked about when we met and I really didn’t care if everyone else enjoyed it but they loved him!! Also we aren’t religious so just wanted a big old party and that’s why we were so relaxed and kept the budget quite low. We still had the best time, enjoy your second best day and can’t wait to see pics!!!
@berthagreen1620
@berthagreen1620 3 года назад
So unfair to punish disabled people to lose income for finding a partner and happiness.
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
It's not punishment it the rules and rules to be fallowed and yet laws are laws yet Hannah and Shane are not above the rules and laws .
@simonferocious868
@simonferocious868 3 года назад
@@froggytruth9062 yeah, for sure. Disabled people should pick between love and survival. (Sarcasm)
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
@@simonferocious868 Yet Hannah and Shane don't .
@simonferocious868
@simonferocious868 3 года назад
@@froggytruth9062 they don't because they're paying out the ass for medical care and insurance (I assume because as an abled body person I pay a lot for health insurance). If they couldn't afford private insurance, they would have to choose.
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
@@simonferocious868 They have no clue and make you have no clue of what your comments mean yet by rule of law a Judge will figure it out ! Therefore still Shane and Hannah are still on the loose like wilde kids that would steal from a baby .
@baileywengerherrera6185
@baileywengerherrera6185 3 года назад
We eloped (us, 5 immediate family members, and the officiant) and we've never regretted it! We were able to gave a stress-free day that was about US and our commitment rather than guests. It was affordable and beautiful and we still had a photographer and videographer to document the memory. Best decision ever.
@singingtwinkletoes2206
@singingtwinkletoes2206 3 года назад
Thanks for just being normal people who love sharing their sense of humor. I appreciate it!
@ReebaD
@ReebaD 3 года назад
“Your wedding ends up being about what your guests will enjoy, not what you will enjoy.” YUP. 🤦🏼‍♀️
@catloverKD
@catloverKD 3 года назад
Honestly, if I ever get married (would definitely like to, just not sure it'll happen), I'm tempted to just go to the courthouse with the most important people, and then do like a cookout at home with anybody else who wants to come. Nothing about the wedding itself appeals to me, except maybe walking down the aisle. I say, save the money for the honeymoon.
@billcunninghame8554
@billcunninghame8554 3 года назад
Another fun video. Thanks. Enjoy your celebration. When my now husband and I got married (after 18 years) we were pleasantly surprised that we both felt closer and more committed to each other. Be well.
@lceec7012
@lceec7012 3 года назад
I think it’s nice you are having a celebration of your marriage with your family. My husband and I did a very similar thing almost 28 years ago. We ran off and eloped in Las Vegas. Mainly because I was very shy and the thought of standing in front of everyone and talking terrified me. When we got back from the elopement, we had a lovely party with all our love ones that did NOT include me having to make a grand entrance. I have special memories from that day without the dread. Hoping your celebration is all you want to be! You two bring a lot of joy to people with your adorable videos! Congratulations!
@MackWaldrup
@MackWaldrup 3 месяца назад
Shane’s ability to keep a straight face during his more elaborate jokes is extremely impressive. The way he told the Nerds story without laughing for like two minutes while Hannah was dying laughing next to him… I wouldn’t be able to do it LOL. Love y’all’s channel!
@stacy1857
@stacy1857 3 года назад
Jellybean Green Sent Me 🥰 Blessings to you can't wait to check out your channel. Hope you hit a million soon💗
@morgannewood
@morgannewood 2 года назад
The care giver stuff is so frustrating. My grandparents were only allowed a care giver for a certain amount of years, so my gramma used her years first and the insurance was paying $18/hr, then when her benefits ran out, they planned to keep the care giver they had for years when they switched to my grandfathers benefits, but his insurance only paid $9/hr, so to keep the same care giver, they had to pay the extra amount out of pocket, because they didn’t want to lose the care giver they trusted. And obviously they were both retired and had very little income. It’s truly unfair.
@Heather_Lynn
@Heather_Lynn 3 года назад
I think lots of people got married last year and then are having a reception or renewal of vows this summer.
@lawrencehoward8565
@lawrencehoward8565 3 года назад
I'm glad you two found each other may God watch over you two
@Andrew-jv2qj
@Andrew-jv2qj 3 года назад
Hi Lawrence
@qabrona9776
@qabrona9776 3 года назад
You know it's fake Right,? She's his caretaker 😂 they are not really married. It's all a show
@jonesnbones
@jonesnbones 3 года назад
I love this channel. Thank you for so much the positive energy. It helps so much.
@geraldineaherne9763
@geraldineaherne9763 3 года назад
Have a great wedding reception. Relax and enjoy. Lots of Love, luck and laughter ( and hopefully paid caregivers) for the years ahead.
@Moonlightgirl8787
@Moonlightgirl8787 3 года назад
As someone with disability. Your RU-vid is inspired to me
@fsemple
@fsemple 3 года назад
Shane: My shirt ALSO has a built-in bra. Hannah: No it doesn't Shane: My shoulder straps have a built-in bra
@CactusJinx
@CactusJinx 3 года назад
I got married on Feb 29 2020. I can relate to a lot of your feelings about being newly married. Love watching you guys! 🥳🥰 lol I certainly hope I can get to your goat rescue one day 🥰
@kristi7858
@kristi7858 3 года назад
Loved this video. Y’all are so funny. Loved the Nerds story. Can’t wait to see video of wedding party.
@sshepard5222
@sshepard5222 3 года назад
Totally with you guys, getting married nothing changed. My husband also has two shelves in the fridge dedicated to hot sauces, a exploding spice cupboard and many, many, many craft beers.
@tammylewis9324
@tammylewis9324 3 года назад
Shane collects sauces like I collect teas. I probably have 30-35 boxes of tea. Some for pleasure, some medicinal
@Andrew-jv2qj
@Andrew-jv2qj 3 года назад
Hi Tammy
@waffles3629
@waffles3629 3 года назад
I don't have quite that many but same. Yum.
@willemvdspek
@willemvdspek 2 года назад
me and my wife have been married also two times! in the same year! first in januari when she came over from canada to live here in holland for the law,simple and fast,small dinner with family and in sept the same year ,my wife wanted a church wedding and a after party in the evening..well always must do what they want to make them happy, i pick her up for going to church and i found a carrige with two beautiful horses and she didn,t know,big suprice! people calling and smiling as we drive to town and i keep screeming HELP !! hahahha but we are 12 years further and we still happy,
@lauravitaliani9666
@lauravitaliani9666 3 года назад
Shane is hilarious. Omg Hannah NERDS 😂😂😂😂😂 lol
@johngoldthorpe1226
@johngoldthorpe1226 3 года назад
Good to see you safe, and enjoy your outings and how it affects people that are disabled ,and how to overcome these issues .Lots of Love from New Zealand as we are in lockdown at the moment .
@jennifermassie7227
@jennifermassie7227 3 года назад
I'm so sorry you guys are in lockdown!! I live in Ontario Canada and we are well on our way to yet another lockdown!!! We just got out of one a month and a bit ago!! So F#*KING depressing!!!🤬😥🤬😥
@johngoldthorpe1226
@johngoldthorpe1226 3 года назад
@@jennifermassie7227 Most of the country will drop a level on tueday but Auckland will Lvl 4 for abit longer.
@Ash_0525
@Ash_0525 3 года назад
How Shane keeps a straight face when telling jokes lmao 😂 I’m literally dying 💀😂🤣🤣😂
@alegnadraw7504
@alegnadraw7504 3 года назад
I so enjoy watching your videos and look forward to every one. I’ve also realised I sit here watching with a stupid grin on my face. Thank you.
@JoshRazauskas
@JoshRazauskas 3 года назад
I hope you guys feel better! Enjoy your celebration! ❤️
@GothamCitizen99
@GothamCitizen99 3 года назад
Hannah: I wish that I had known the extent of Shane’s sauce collection. Shane: This is another serious one. 😂 🤣
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
Bro she married him for money and good lifestyle only .. and now saying that she love him .. no beautiful girl can love such a men .. i know many disabled men in my society they are still unmarried and the only reason of there being unmarried is that they do not earn a single coin they are superpoor
@amypettit7608
@amypettit7608 3 года назад
Yes! Love you guys! Been waiting for a new one :)
@BabsBBee
@BabsBBee 3 года назад
Oh my gosh! Shane is so hilarious 😂. $10 million Nerds!
@marjielalonde3875
@marjielalonde3875 3 года назад
You guys have such a great sense of humour, I don`t think I`d be able to handle all that negativity thrown at me! Kudos for trolling the trolls! lol
@cookies7719
@cookies7719 3 года назад
I love their videos! They are not obnoxious youtubers ! So Informative and fun to watch :)
@mamashell2340
@mamashell2340 3 года назад
My husband and I have been together for almost 15 yrs (since right before my 19th bday) we just got married Nov 2020. We had a very small wedding at a friend's cabin. We didn't want "normal" because we are far from that. So we played cards against humanity ate and had some drinks. Also my dress was black which my father hated. The disability issue is just sad and shows how the USA cares for its people. It makes me worry more for my sons future (autism) and all I can do is hope and help push for our country to do better.
@trenarichardson690
@trenarichardson690 3 года назад
One of the main things I love about your guys channel, people think that if you’re in a wheelchair you’re not smart you don’t or can’t do anything. and Shane you are so smart and such a fun person to watch and listen to. You and Hannah both complement each other very well
@froggytruth9062
@froggytruth9062 3 года назад
👈Really..
@lauraleebaird9729
@lauraleebaird9729 3 года назад
My husband and I got married in January, 2002 and had the wedding in June, 2002. His family couldn't make it to the wedding, so we decided to go ahead and get married and then have a wedding later. It worked out and truly, the only ones affected was us. I love ya'lls banter back and forth. Nerds will always remind me of ya'll now.
@missionquestthing
@missionquestthing 3 года назад
My husband and I had each been married once before (widow) and had no interest in doing the proper wedding thing again. We eloped and then had a back yard reception for the family (pizza and donuts) it was perfect and there were no headaches. I highly recommend Skipping out on a big ceremony
@claireisacamel
@claireisacamel 3 года назад
Shane: “No, shhh!” Hannah: 👀👀 🤣🤣🤣🤣 how you guys didn’t break character and start cackling during the presentation - the ultimate professionals!
@PurplePuppy85
@PurplePuppy85 3 года назад
I've had a really crazy, busy day at work today and have just lay down and saw your video .... it has brightened my day so much! Thank you!
@JamaicanRain
@JamaicanRain 3 года назад
Relatable comment. 😁
@karlandowhipps9102
@karlandowhipps9102 3 года назад
You guys crack me up and give me so much light in my day I'm a C4 quadriplegic that lives down in Rochester I hope someday to find love like you guys have
@dk2614
@dk2614 3 года назад
We are all worthy of love. I too hope you find it!
@jeff2tc99
@jeff2tc99 3 года назад
Great video - that SquareSpace add was the best and most thorough I have ever sat through. Great job.
@krissyfindley1388
@krissyfindley1388 2 года назад
I love you Hannah and Shane!!!! True love I can see it! Been following for over a year now. I believe in you two! You have got me out of my depression from watching your happiness! Much love from Faribault Mn!
@crystalrathwell8618
@crystalrathwell8618 3 года назад
For several reasons my husband and I did not have dancing at our wedding...43 years ago in October. We had a trio perform some songs, we had an illusionist perform some illusions and a comedian. .We also had guests share memories, some where funny, some embarrassing and some reflective. . We all had a blast and some still talk about it....almost 43 years later..
@carlyfasoldt
@carlyfasoldt 3 года назад
“Wow that was a waste of time” when I tell you I DIED laughing at that 😂
@teresakiner9877
@teresakiner9877 3 года назад
Dear Squirmy and Grubs, Bless you both for traversing the pandemic while planning your great celebration with your beloved family and friends. I’m positive that you will not regret having this celebration, as they are all coming to celebrate The pair of YOU💞. When the sparkly dust settles and the candelabras are all snuffed out, you will be so thankful that you did go through with it. Also, you will have beautiful pictures and so many memories and stories to share with your children for years to come!!! Congratulations once again! I still totally adore you both! Your devoted Kentucky viewer💞Tere
@Andrew-jv2qj
@Andrew-jv2qj 3 года назад
Hi Teresa
@markgubbins1958
@markgubbins1958 3 года назад
You two would probably make a great comedy act. You are just so much fun to listen to.
@theaspirationalhuman1348
@theaspirationalhuman1348 3 года назад
Omg everyone says "when you get married you'll feel different, it has a different weight to it." But I've been committed to my partner for almost four years now and living together for two. We really want to get married and will soon but it's interesting to hear that it didn't change much from you all. I thought the same thing.
@mygirldarby
@mygirldarby 3 года назад
I guess people have different experiences. My husband and I moved in together when we got engaged. We lived together for a year before getting married. It was a totally different relationship after we got married. It changed everything. For one, a "husband" is so much more than a "boyfriend." Those labels, husband and wife, bring different expectations and bring a different level of commitment. We've been married over 23 years now, btw. We went through some rough patches early in our marriage. Had we not been married during that time, we might not have made it as a couple, but because marriage itself was very meaningful for both of us, we worked through those hard times and it ultimately strengthened our relationship.
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@mygirldarby Bro she married him for money and good lifestyle only .. and now saying that she love him .. no beautiful girl can love such a men .. i know many disabled men in my society they are still unmarried and the only reason of there being unmarried is that they do not earn a single coin they are superpoor
@ladybuglover4eva52
@ladybuglover4eva52 3 года назад
@@TheTruth-xe1kt hmmm, you keep copying & pasting this same comment throughout the thread... you have some serious jealousy towards them and their happy life together
@TheTruth-xe1kt
@TheTruth-xe1kt 3 года назад
@@ladybuglover4eva52 bro first of all they are not living happy life ,, only this men is using the women but the women is living a sad and horrible life .. she does his all work like a worker .. she is over worked women she is living a pity life with him only for the money that he provide her Even a servent cannot do what this women is doing for this men .. she is living a very sad and pity life
@LiamMagan
@LiamMagan 3 года назад
I agree! I’ve always felt fully committed to my spouse from the beginning. I don’t feel any different after being legally wed vs before. We were already living together and combining our lives so not much changed overall.
@jsr20634
@jsr20634 3 года назад
Behind every jest there is a bit of truth...
@ashleychanelle1997
@ashleychanelle1997 2 года назад
I figured out fast that a wedding is what your mother in law wants and shut it down and we went to the courthouse! Not spending a bunch of money to have people upset anyways, may as well have them upset and save the money. BUT…. no one gets you a present if you don’t give them an event. So that’s sad. 😂😂😂
@normadennis1655
@normadennis1655 3 года назад
I liked your backyard wedding. Hannah’s dress, which was her mother’s, was beautiful. A celebration of your marriage will be fun and memorable for friends and family.
@rmlrl1971
@rmlrl1971 3 года назад
For my 50th birthday, next Wednesday, I am doing a fundraiser for, Laughing at my Nightmare.
@ReginaSBoone
@ReginaSBoone 3 года назад
You know what ? Put Shane on stage with a microphone and he would attract such a large audience , you would for sure become millionairs !! He is so funny ....
@bobsaget338
@bobsaget338 3 года назад
They are already millionaires? They love to talk about how expensive stuff is for the 30 year old man baby but just bought a 2 million dollar house and still ask for donations from people who make a fraction of what they do. Stop living under a rock 🙄
@imissutz
@imissutz 3 года назад
Oh god the gold-digger gag was… GOLD! 🤣 Keep feeding the trolls. I love it!!! Also Hanna’s sass re Shane’s mayonnaise preferences lol.
@ih82r8
@ih82r8 3 года назад
Next time we see you, you will be even...more...married! Lol this was hilarious guys.
@alexcrane6552
@alexcrane6552 3 года назад
the sound quality😤 so good.
@reneriva9196
@reneriva9196 3 года назад
Hello family, my name is Renata and I'm Italian, I signed up right now and I'm happy, you are two wonderful people, your intelligence and irony I really like because life is to be lived just like that ... you have so much strength and love that you could lend some to us all ... congratulations and good life ... I hug you tightly 🇮🇹🙋🏻‍♀️😘🌺
@tinacollins2055
@tinacollins2055 3 года назад
I watched your videos off and on for over a year. I'm not watching now because I want to see them in date order, not mixed dates. I don't want to look for your newest post and find some from a month ago , a year ago or even more. I want to watch each episode in the order that they are made. I do miss you two. You are very special.
@UNKA757
@UNKA757 2 года назад
Hannah looks good in Pink/Pastel Colors...the Brighter the better.
@karenforbes2081
@karenforbes2081 2 года назад
Shane and Hannah, if you want a good taco or burrito go to South Minneapolis and check out any Mexican restaurant on Lake Street.
@odonovan
@odonovan 3 года назад
17:12 - HANNAH, you should probably have just told everyone this was to be a "renewal of vows:" ceremony. That would clue-in most of the oblivious ones.
@hotcoffee8819
@hotcoffee8819 3 года назад
Why couldn't they be honest from their beginning and yet no worries they don't use the rules of "Realism".
@emilya.
@emilya. 3 года назад
Ha! I'm literally watching this video while eating hot honey 😂. I completely understand the sauce collection, Shane.
@stinkerbell7834
@stinkerbell7834 2 года назад
Love your ad for sq space. Always entertaining 😁
@kit-kat9466
@kit-kat9466 2 года назад
How can anyone ever question their authenticity. Look at how she looks at him (especially when he's being funny). That's a woman in deep, deep love.
@kristinminiscalco5592
@kristinminiscalco5592 3 года назад
I love shane when he laughs💙💙💙💙💙💙he looks handsome, hannah beautiful as always👌💗
@robincole5958
@robincole5958 3 года назад
Common Law marriage. In some states its when you lived together for seven years.
@tamborineman4704
@tamborineman4704 3 года назад
In Canada it's one year for "normal" people, and only six months for us disableds.
@tonyzboo
@tonyzboo 3 года назад
I get tired you have to keep repeating yourselves lol. When I discovered your channel, I started at the BEGINNING and watched EVERY video in order! (I'm almost caught up after only about 2 weeks!!) Love you guys!!
@FindJustMarty
@FindJustMarty 3 года назад
Y’all are so refreshing! God Bless and lots of happiness!
@MsXyz-gp1ex
@MsXyz-gp1ex 3 года назад
I love the humour and the honesty - your thoughts on marriage are shared by many!
@mariannecaverley6564
@mariannecaverley6564 3 года назад
I am going to a wedding next weekend that had to be cancel a year ago due to Covid. They also ended up getting married at that time but the celebration will be next week.
@stevelafave560
@stevelafave560 3 года назад
"As the sauce master...." 🤣🤣🤣
@anthonyowsley8286
@anthonyowsley8286 3 года назад
I wish I had known better than to get married period. Everyone including my ex father in law told me I was making a HUGE mistake.
@winterchevalier7090
@winterchevalier7090 3 года назад
I love your content and I'm getting married next month!!
@starflower703
@starflower703 3 года назад
When I married my husband 35 years ago, we wanted a very small, intimate wedding. My family was on board, but my mil-to-be was horrified. She had a very prestigious job at an insurance company and she saw it as an opportunity to hob-knob. My husband-to-be was determined we would have the wedding we wanted. So he had already planned ahead by proposing in the parking lot of my family church in a very small town. He also made it clear that’s where he wanted us to get married. We chose no music at the reception and no alcohol. Again my mil-to-be was horrified; but it prevented problems with those who have difficulties limiting their intake. We had exactly what we wanted. It definitely set the tone for our marriage and I am so glad we stuck to what we wanted.
@moe9265
@moe9265 3 года назад
I’m so distracted by your pictures frames. How in the world did you get them so perfect! You guys are so much fun to follow!!
@deannawalsh6215
@deannawalsh6215 3 года назад
That’s hilarious! I was just wondering if I was the only one looking at those and wondering what the pictures were of lol
@jennifern2805
@jennifern2805 3 года назад
You can buy laser levels at hardware stores.
@gailhowe3015
@gailhowe3015 3 года назад
Love watching you two. Love the playfulness going back and forth. HEY, I thought you were already married!!! Kidding!!! Gotcha!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@AlanPearson-d3u
@AlanPearson-d3u Месяц назад
Hannah if you are having this wedding reception you’ve got to have dancing because all fathers want to dance with their daughters at their wedding
@overtlygrrl4850
@overtlygrrl4850 2 года назад
The gold digger comment got me. I was dying inside. Im sitting in silent study library on campus and trying to hold in my insurmountable laughter
@louise6666
@louise6666 3 года назад
OMG!! Every person should have a partner with such a great sense of humor. Someone who makes you laugh every day is a wonderful gift. 🤗☺️☀️
@pip333333
@pip333333 3 года назад
Hi guys, I love watching you two, but I wish you would do videos more regularly because, recently, there seems to be a long time between them!!
@snoqualmieval
@snoqualmieval 3 года назад
Try Mikes Hot Honey (Amazon carries it) on a slice of pizza!
@susanwitkowski5802
@susanwitkowski5802 3 года назад
I am so excited for you two and hopefully to see some of your wedding celebration! Sending you both warm wishes and good vibes for the big day. It will be beautiful!! Bunches of love to you guys!!!❤❤
@lindafett1826
@lindafett1826 2 года назад
I look forward to your video's and trying to catch up with your past video's 🙃
@LP-km7gj
@LP-km7gj 3 года назад
My friends went through the same thing! Their wedding was supposed to be October 2020 but obviously they had to cancel so they got married in my back yard anyway and rescheduled the party for June 2021…then she got deployed and they had to cancel a second time 😞
@paulajarman9314
@paulajarman9314 3 года назад
I'm cracking up about the nerd candy.
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