If depression had a sound, this's its sound. I honestly can't listen to Summer Daze without having flashbacks of myself years ago, i fell really hard inot the depression hole, and lost all of what i could gain. Friends, career, love, and academic scores, the losses were enormous. now after becoming stronger and wiser, i still suffer from the traces and the chances i missed.. the road is much longer now, much harder and all i can do is to suck the pain up and keep going, because at last, i actually can move on.
How do you keep going? I'm currently going through this right now.. it feels like I'm sinking and i'll never find a way out. I never felt THIS bad before. I'm scared I'll never find my way..
@@dixienormous6969 there is no magical way to leave the depression and become free of its horrific pain. All i can say to you is based on my experience which i am 100% sure is completely different from yours. So what i did is irrelevant as we are experiencing depression differently. All i can say is live, please. Somedays you wouldn't be able of getting yourself up from the bed, that's fine.. other days you will feel the whole world weight is glued on your shoulder.. you can handle it.. just pass the days, day after day.. because depression is malicious, it came off as a very rational way of viewing the world, the thoughts appear in your mind as if they were real and logical conclusions. But in fact they are not thoughts, they are a disease that is consuming you and everything it creates inside of your head is an illusion disguised with a realistic perception. So here are some suggestions that might help a little. dont stay alone. if you can afford a therapy go for it. read some good self help books but don't be pressured to finish them. Start a hobby but first remove from you mind the need to master it. hang out with easy going and funny people, not necessarily friends, just people you would occasionally meet and never meet them again, like in tourism groups or volunteering campaigns.. etc. And finally give yourself time.. healing is a process not a to-do task you can accomplish during one day. I promise you, it will get better.
Me and my fiance listened to this song 2 years ago at a parking spot with sunset hitting our faces and it was such a beautiful sensation.... i remember how she looked at me after opening a box of tiny sandwiches which she has made for me and smiled and said "are you sure you're not hungry?" Time has passed..... now she's happily married to another man. I like to remember this time as one of the best in my life.
same for me man...2 years ago i met someone special lived with her and then lost it all...this song was always on my mind for few months keep your head up 👍🏻
we never knew how precious that was... and how cruel it is, never to be able to do it again... they did everything for us and we were a pain in the ass...
@@koubrrr Dude that's really not good. Even if it's not something "you do" you should tell him you need one. Bottling up your feelings is gonna hurt you in the long run
@@tbhon ive had multiple breakdowns in front of him. ive tried to explain to him. we come from south asian conservative country. he doesnt get 'mental health'. no parent does. barely any adult sees a therapist, let alone a teenager
I remember telling 14 year old me to keep going because things would eventually get better. I turn 22 in a few months. It never did get better and it's not going to. I'm done.
I bought a Remington 870 almost five years ago now in preparation to end my life to this song. Five years later, that Remington 870 is used for recreation target practice with my band of brothers, and this song is a reminder to me about how I prevail. Stay strong everyone, never give in. Be unwavering to the storm no matter how hard it gets. That curtain will close when it's time, until then focus on chasing the sunset behind it. I love you all
It'll inevitably hit you like a full-fledged freight train one day anyway so make sure that 870 of yours or any ammo is not anywhere near you when the time comes. Memento Mori.
Honestly what I tell people is this, Before suicide try drugs.....Hear me out, If you are depressed to the point of suicidal ideation what do you have to lose? You may catch an addiction but you will be happy again and at least not dead!!! I will tell you funnily enough that shooting Heroin saved my life, I wanted to die and was going to OD on Heroin and never had done it, Had a friend come and show me how to shoot it but I wanted to say goodbye to alot of people first so I just did a small shot......I immediately cried and stopped wanting to die. Life felt like it had purpose again and I did get caught in a whirlwind for awhile but I came out of it knowing drugs can make you want to live again. Although I would suggest LSD or Ketamine not what I did.....
@@koffinkat666 I've been wanting to try H for quite a while now.. I'm just scared I'll get addicted first try. I've tried other drugs like Mary Jane & disco dust etc. But never something as intense as H... I've been interested in it since around the age of 14 when I used to watch so many druggie movies at the time. But if someone were to offer me some, I probably wouldn't decline.. I don't know where to find any where I'm from though.. mostly I just do xanax now, I try not to do so much on a regular basis since the withdrawal from it is fatal but ummm yeah around where I'm from my plugs never sell H. I'd definitely have to search deeper but it's probably best if I don't. There must be another way out from this neverending dreadful despair I am feeling every single day. I don't like drugs.. I really don't. I almost OD'd on disco dust. I was so stupid. I regret that. I just don't want for drugs to be my crutch all the time for whenever something goes wrong or I'm feeling lonely and depressed. I don't want that as my crutch. I'm glad H saved you though, that's quite something to say haha that H actually saved your life, usually it's the opposite. I write too damn much lmao if you didn't read it all, I don't blame you but if you did, thanks.
@@dixienormous6969 No worries, Disco dust? Is that Cocaine or? The thing about H is it seems so much more scarier than it is as long as it is real H and not phentanyl. Of course you don't start shooting it you smoke or snort it and it is an instant warm blanket of happiness, Yah the problem is some of us may get better or some not as far as being depressed so.....Trust me I wouldn't try H unless you are literally at the end and are thinking about suicide THEN it will save you like it did me but it was hell to get off of. Funny thing is you can use H the rest of your life and not die from it ONLY by overdose.
@@koffinkat666 Yeah disco dust is cocaine haha it's my favorite name for it among all the other ways to call it. I used to do it quite a lot especially in high school just so I can be and feel more confident.. so sad looking back on it now. I don't like to tell anyone about it unless it's online here and nobody I know will find this comment which I really hope they don't lol but yeah that stuff didn't help at all in the long run. I bet it caused some brain damaged for sure, not only brain but other organs. I just wanted to love myself and I always choose the wrong ways to try and feel good and be okay. I still don't love myself at all but I'm trying to work on it.. currently seeing a therapist. And yeah H seems so intimidating.. the thought of injecting it seems so much more terrifying than snorting and smoking it. The movie Requiem for a dream kinda scarred me so maybe that's a good thing but I still feel like I'd try it if someone were to offer me it, just so I can feel this "warmest blanket feeling" and "feeling so unbelievably loved" feeling people say you feel when you're high on it and if that's true, if that's how it actually feels, well then, I'd for sure get addicted because that's exactly how I want to feel now and how I've always wanted to feel ever since I was a wee lass. How bad were the withdrawals from H? Were they as bad as they movies portrayed them? How long did it take you to finally overcome the addiction? I honestly don't think that an addiction that intense will ever leave you, I feel like in some way you'll always crave it, just not as much but it'll always be there in the back of your mind. At least that's how my addictions are.
I know it's selfish but i wish this song will stay a hidden gem and won't be overused. Heard first on SoundCloud drowning my sorrows with weed on the beach. It was a very "in-tune with self" moment for me. Still fighting the same struggles, still hurdling my tiny fucking ship over those troubled water of life. Like all, sometimes wishing i had given in and finished it all and then reminded by myself that i'm even too weak or coward to do that, and swayed by the beauty of those sad sounds... Reminded there are still dreams to live for. Rest here by me, fellow human being whom life beat down a little too harshly. I'm here with you.
I have control over my stupid little life yet I want to end it. It wouldn’t be national news, no one but my community would even care. It’s so insignificant and fragile.
Tha3rdworldghost the fact that I didn’t know what this phobia is until I googled it, only to realize I may have this condition really ducked with my head
Hey, I don't know what you've been going through- life is tough at this age for sure, but I heard your cover of Pachelbel's Canon in D, and it was seriously good. If all else fails, you have serious talent, and I hope you continue to put out more music. You're still young, there's sooooooo much time to turn the boat around- i'm stilllll working towards my goals right now and i'll be turning 25 this year
Talk to friends, family, those you trust. Things are rough now but it will get better. There will always be someone to offer a shoulder for you to rest your head on.
@Endi The only thing that I am tired of is romanticizing shit like mental illnesses and the aesthetics of "doomerism", which is just shallow cynicism. Also, most of these people stem from incel communities and just piss me off. I assume there are some people here who actually talk about their feelings, but most of the comments are just platitutes.
Lyrics Made sure I won't know. Know the lie you were told, that you know. All the time I was not sure, All you've seek it was love Summer daze on the seven of March, Then I'd think, you waited long Its sure love, weren't beautiful like when I said hello And if were lullaby let your life dive on And if were lost of life know way all we go Its in more delight all they seek is fall in this love A some of day that will get you gather an although glass of that Summer daze under open light and I hoped it will dime No, I know it will pass for shine like a gold Let I throw your love, Let you hide down here And nothing here to know, I throw my heart down here
@@ISawTheSun_ Gotcha, I gathered as much watching other lyric videos and many of them have conflicting words, We all hear what our inner voice thinks is right when we don't know the true lyrics which is beautiful in a way, That is why I like Early Grimes Records because she said she will never give out lyrics because she loves hearing what other's minds eye captures from the audio. TY Be well.
This is somehow the musical equivalent to how I feel when I'm alone? I'm able to push it away when I'm around other people just so I can act normal. But when I'm alone this is exactly how I feel. It's like the musical equivalent to sitting in my room on my bed staring at my wall wishing my life was different but being too exhausted, too numb, too furious at myself to do anything about it. "Dreams fade quietly, but their absence is deafening."
idk if anybody’s even reading this, but I’m tired. I want to give up. The closest person I’d call a friend doesn’t even seem like they give a shit about me anymore. It’s just me anxious and pretending that they do care when at the end of the day I’m irrelevant to them. I’m irrelevant to everybody, nobody seems to want to care or tries to, my days just seem so mind numbingly sad, some days I think, why am I even here? For that person that ‘cares? What’s wrong with me, I’ve gone past rock bottom, I fucking hate this, I hate my life. I’ve been depressed for a year and a half, and nothing’s gotten better, being on medication hasn’t done anything. I wish I was valued, I wish I was important, I wish I had meaning.
I feel you man. I'm so worthless and pathetic why do i even exist? Just to fail again and again at everything disappoint everyone including myself? What is the point of such a useless pathetic life.... I'm still alive just because i don't want to hurt those that are still close to me, i want to believe it will get better and that i will do something with my life....
You ok? I know it probably doesn’t seem like it but people _do_ care about you. What about your family? What about everyone you’ve ever met? Please consider seeing a therapist.
Hey. I value you. I don't know who you are but to put what you're really feeling deep down inside onto the public is a very brazen thing to do so I admire you for being so open. I really hope you're still here and haven't given up. Don't you feel like you deserve to give yourself a chance? Imagine all of the things you can do.. you don't even know what great things you're capable of. I know all of this might sound cliché but it's very true. I think you owe it to yourself to try and try again. It feels like I'm writing this to myself as I'm also going through the shittiest darkest time in my life right now. I've just about given up on myself.. so maybe I am a hypocrite typing this all out when I can't even do any of this but I at least want you to get better or try to. I think a beautiful person like yourself deserves to be happy so please, do not give up on yourself because I think your future self would be pretty happy that you kept going. Don't you think?
Lyrics: Made sure I won't know Know the lie you'd told, that you know All the time I was not sure All that you've seek it was love Summer daze on the seven of March Then I'd think, you waited too long Its sure love, weren't beautiful like when I said hello [Chorus] And if were lullaby let your life dive on And if were lost of life know way all we go Lay Bankz Breaks Down the Meaning of “Tell Ur Girlfriend” | Genius Verified [Verse] Its in more delight all they seek is fall in this love A some of day that will get you gather an although glass of that Summer daze under open light and I hoped it will dime No, i know it will pass for shine like a gold [Chorus] Let i throw your love Let you hide down here And nothing here to know I throw my heart down here
Made sure I won't know. Know the lie you'd told, that you know. All the time I was not sure, All that you've seek it was love Summer daze on the seven of March, Then I'd think, you waited too long Its sure love, weren't beautiful like when I said hello And if were lullaby let your life dive on And if were lost of life know way all we go Its in more delight all they seek is fall in this love A some of day that will get you gather an although glass of that Summer daze under open light and I hoped it will dime No, i know it will pass for shine like a gold Let i throw your love, Let you hide down here And nothing here to know, I throw my heart down here
Wonderful.. I'm still doing it.. since nearly 20 years.. This song took me through some tough times, I can't believe I am so old now... Sometimes I thought about suicide but then I thought about how meaningless life is and that it doesn't matter. So I just lived and lived.. going with Slowdive I wish you the best, man. Your comment made me really feel about life and how time passed
Made sure I won't know. Know the lie you were told, that you know. All the time I was not sure, All you've seek it was love Summer daze on the seven of March, Then I'd think, you waited long Its sure love, weren't beautiful like when I said hello And if were lullaby let your life dive on And if were lost of life know way all we go Its in more delight all they seek is fall in this love A some of day that will get you gather an although glass of that Summer daze under open light and I hoped it will dime No, I know it will pass for shine like a gold Let I throw your love, Let you hide down here And nothing here to know, I throw my heart down here
i’m spending the ‘best times of my life’ in doors because i don’t know anyone near me. my friends don’t talk to me much anymore and my online friends are 6 hours behind me so we can rarely ever hang out. life is nothing but pain now. it has been for years. now that i have all this time alone i finally realise that. if god exsists he has a cruel sense of humour. if he exsists i’d like to ask him why he made me. i used to be christian as a kid, i stoped going to church when i started getting bullied. i remember staying up late at night praying to god that i wouldn’t have to go to school the next day. once i prayed i wouldn’t wake up. time goes by and the more i think about life the less i want to take part in it. the more time passes the more i realise i am not going to be remembered in 50, 60 years. that scares me more than death. when the body dies the soul lives on in other people. when the soul finally dies, there is nothing.
❤ I couldn't relate much better.. Stay strong brother. I still live.. after some suicide attempts, but I've never made it. Life is as meaningless as the death so decide what is the best for you. Summer daze will keep in my heart until that one day when I am no longer here..
Honestly it doesn't matter to me who remembers me Or who doesn't. Nothingness doesn't scare me anynmore. . .. At this point I only wish for my pain to end. .
If you need marriage and popping kids out to be happy, it'll never work. You need to find your own meaning that isn't burdening children by creating them so you yourself will finally hope to be satisfied
"There are two types of people. The ones who spend their lives trying to build their future. And the other ones who spend their lives trying to rebuild the past."
I dont feel sad listening to this, so i have a hard time relating to people in the comments. this song is just beautiful for me, like a fading, distant memory
I feel like I've never listened like Slowdive before. Like another kind of music. Another world. A world far from you. But it goes deep into you and touches you. I've never felt this way with any song before. Thanks for the coincidence that made this song exist in this world.
hayatimda hicbir seyin degismedigi her seyin ayni kaldigi sacma bir donemde boyle bir grubu, boyle bir sarkiyi buldugum icin asiri sansli hissediyorum kendimi.
hi it's correct lyrics i guess(sorry no good eng) ----------------------------------------- its sure i want know know the lie you were told, that you know all the time i was not sure all that you've seek it was love summer daze on the seven may then i think that you too know its sure love, weren't beautiful like when I said hello and if were lullaby let your life dive on and if were lost of life know way all we goits in more delight all they seek is fall in this love some of day that will get you gatheral though glass of that summer daze under open light and I hoped it will dime no, i know it will pass for shine like a gold let I throw your love let you hide down here and nothing here to know I throw my heart down here
Hey depressed teens, a message from a 45 y/o music lover that tends to depression also. It never gets better, it never goes away. You just have to live with it, and keep pushing. Music actually helps a ton. Nobody cares so stop crying. Do what you have to do, do the best with what you have
This is horrible advice, shame on you for even putting this out here. Your mental failures does not have to be everyone else’s fate. There is hope for everyone, sorry you didn’t get the help you needed. Other folks, keep pushin. I’m not there yet either but it’s possible. I know it is, and even if you have to cry about it sometimes, it will never make u weak.
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