I'm legit watching this for highschool because I don't want to be that anti social dude in school Edit: I graduated highschool and am now in college haha, thank you all for the support! I updated in this comment thread my overall highschool experience
Thanks man. I actually kind of like someone at work and don't know how to start a good conversation. You know we say hi to each other but we really don't know what to talk about. I'll try your tips.
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You forgot one crucial,make sure you look OK. Most people whether they like to admit it or not judge a book by its cover. If they don't like the cover, then there'll be no reply or any conversion will be cut short. You could try wearing something that can be a conversation starter or by carrying something that's in vogue ,like the latest popular mobile phone.
Right, and make sure not to make small talk with strangers when you know you're not gonna see each other again. It doesn't make sense. Small talk should only be happening when meeting people for the first time like family and co workers, or if you're trying to get to know people. Outside of that, small talk has no significant purpose. Customer: we're here from San Diego. That's my mother and my sister. Cashier: oh Their not gonna see each other again. So what's the point in making that irrelevant small talk. The cashier don't care anyway. What exactly is he suppose to do with that information. What is he getting out of it now that he knows their from San Diego Second scenario: Customer: we're from Houston. We stay at the Marriott hotel around the corner. We're leaving next Friday morning. Cashier: oh, okay Again, more irrelevant babble. Just pay for the food and drinks and then get the stepping. It's that simple. I don't know what I hate more, listening to small talk or engaging in small talk. 3rd scenario: Cashier: what school do you go to Customer: city college. I been going for 2 years. Cashier: oh Customer: your son is in college, right? Cashier: yeah, he's in his 3rd year. My daughter is in her first year. Customer: when I graduate I'm gonna visit Bora Bora Cashier: oh, very good Customer: yeah Cashier: ok, bye bye, good night Customer: good night, bye. Once again, more useless babble. Small talk is stupid. At times it's necessary but for the most part, it's stupid.
I can make excellent small talk with strangers, girls and guys alike, thats not the issue. The real issue is with friends whom i see everyday. Bcz we already know everything about each other, whats left to talk about???
You get the chance to get closer to them, now you can experience new things with them instead of talking to them about your past experiences Also talk about ongoing common interests such as a new series of a tv show for example
My pastor: "how's it going?" Me: "great, I spent all day studying every day this week. It felt great!" That'll start a conversation all right. I think he would just be weirded out though. Most teens hate studying and avoid it when they can.
With friends I already have I’m the funny out going person out of the group but then other times I’m the awkward doesn’t wanna talk dude of the group ;_;
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why this? There have even been autists who became badass with women... something which is in stark contradiction to many genetic theories... we are more than we think we are... keep going, MAN!
@@Chris-nn3vu are u sure Chris? As far as I understood it’s just a processing disorder. But if a processing disorder affects learning more or socializing, depends on the individual. Some of my autistic students are much more impaired in learning (Asperger guy in my class has an IQ between 74 and 79) than in socializing (he is able to even speak diplomatically about things that bother him).
Bro it's your perspective, you have interesting life don't worry about it... Try to change your routine, and make yourself Happy. Your life will automatically will be interesting...
@@kavundora5639 dude hi , firstly stop being on internet all day life is way more than that, go try something stupid and talk about it, try finding happiness everywhere (even in smallest things) Enjoy your moments like it's your last one Peace☮️
Of course not. I'd suggest to be open and honest. If you did nothing that day, just give them an honest answer and say you didn't do anything, because maybe you felt tired or felt like being lazy. Most people can relate to that. No need to make up stuff or do pointless things just to get the conversation rolling.
You should work on your accent. Your accent makes u unnatural and pretending. Infact, you should first prepare your accent, than worry about small & Long talks. Thanks
I politely advice you that you should ask him more nicely to imrpove, but I appreciate your conceen for him and I agree well that his voice should be improved base from your observations.
