Here's my latest video on how to stop drinking, where I go over 2 really good strategies to Start Sobriety: - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tS7TzMKa5FA.html - Also, thanks for being here, it really means a lot! ☺ If you want to continue the journey to a better life together, be sure to Subscribe to the channel, Peace!😘
God job. I haven't had a drink since November 2021. This is the longest I've gone without a drink since my early 20s. I'm in my mid-50s now. I don't see myself drinking again. My mental and physical health has dramatically improved.
That's amazing to hear Rick! Both your mental and physical health are definitely super thankful for your decision to go sober for so long. I send you my best wishes & hope you are having a fantastic day!
Well done. I’ve been contemplating quitting for a few years and stopped recently. I was drinking too much and using it as a crutch I think. Do you drink AF beers or anything like that? Not sure what to do.
Thank you for sharing - I’m in the throws of 48 years of alcohol abuse with never gets better it just gots worse. You have helped me, my story is not unique, I started having fun but always, always keep drinking once I started. 😢 this has helped me …. ✌️
@@joyconnell1318 I can't explain how happy this makes me that this video helped you ☺ Be sure to check out my latest video I made - It's about triggers and viewing alcohol as it is. It could definitely keep you on track! I hope you are having a wonderful day ☺!
Thank you so much for sharing your story! This is my second time on the path to sobriety. I'm currently 4 days sober. Im getting sober for my daughter who recently turned 1. She deserves a sober mom and I deserve the joy of sobriety.
Thanks for the lovely comment! I'm rooting for you, your daughter definitely deserves a sober mom ☺ I'm actually currently doing a video on triggers and relapsing, so stay tuned if you think it would help you out! I genuinely wish you all the best😉
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Hi!! It's so wonderful to read your note. And yes I am totally fine with you using my comment. I'm so happy to hear it moved you. I'm proud to say that I am still committed to my sobriety and being the best mom to my 1 year old daughter. I did 120 days sober then drank over the holidays and New Year which was a bad idea. Then things got out of hand but I'm back stronger, learned from that, and haven't drank in about 3 weeks. 😊 I hope you are doing well!
@@RainBow-fq1oq So happy you are back on track. We have a saying in Estonia for mistakes that happen to people that do stuff "tegijal juhtub" ... meaning the person who does things, will get mistakes along the way". But this is a good thing. Your daughter definitely has a strong willpowered mom for sure, and surely looks up to you with pride☺It makes me so happy that you are okay with using your comment & I'm super thankful for you being a part of this community. Best of luck to you! ☺
I was cop. I don't have an issue with drinking, but I have dealt with lots of people who were alcoholics. I use to follow up with them, and made sure they could get the help they needed. Your story is very similar to the hundreds of alcoholics I've dealt with over the years. They're usually being offered alcohol by family to taste/sip at a young age, being around family who drank heavily, at around age they start 14 drinking full servings, drinking for the purpose to get a buzz/high, usually purchasing hard liquor when they can legally purchase it on their own, drinking increases heavily when they have their first job. Behavior tends be great within an area that has alcohol (e.g. bar) and has a steady supply of it (e.g. not closing down for the night in 30 minutes). Elsewhere, they're the complete opposite. A lot of my aforementioned can be delayed and brought out during times in the military, where the culture almost makes it a requirement you drink. Alcohol is one of those drugs where you can literally die during detox if your alcoholism is severe. Going off alcohol cold turkey is something that shouldn't be attempted alone if you're an alcoholic. A good doctor can create a treatment plan that will help you get off alcohol better. It can take a few years before your brain chemistry changes, and your brain starts to rewire itself. You're probably going to experience new emotions you've never felt before. It may scare you (e.g. being genuinely sad) cause you never experienced the emotion without alcohol. This may want you to drink again. Some things I've noticed that helps is a really great diet: 1) Exercising vigorously at regular times. By vigorously, I mean dripping sweat. 2) Replacing your drinking times with exercise. 3) Practicing mindfulness 1-3x times every day. Sitting up in your chair, hands on knees, closed eyes and focusing on breathing in and out for 5-10 minutes. I'd recommend the book '10% Happier' by Dan Harris. When I was a cop, I did the aforementioned with a decent amount of suspects I arrested and that got sentenced. The results were pretty amazing. It'll be a long and difficult journey. You may have times where you may be tempted or drink again. You don't have to do this alone, and there are people who care about you during this process. If you keep at it, it'll be a rewarding journey. You can do it.
Wow, Thank you so much for this comment. I wish I heard all of it when I was starting out. I'm actually doing all of those things on a regular basis now. Also you are super true about the fact that, previous drinkers have trouble dealing with emotions. For me good emotions, bad ones and even dealing with situations like dating have always got me thinking about drinking a bit. But lately I have gotten rid of it. I will definitely read that book by Dan Harris, it seems super interesting. But thank you so much for your kind words, you truly made my morning so beautiful with them. I Hope you are having a lovely day! ☺
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Congratulations on your sobriety. One day at a time. Your family sounds like mine. We Russians are all alcoholics...lol. I'm celebrating 10 years of continuous sobriety this past April. I drank for 35 years.
Dude! Well done with 10 years, that's an amazing achievement! You are not all alcoholics lol 😄, I know quite a lot of Russians and you are very nice people!
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Wow, Congratulations! That's a huge number to be really proud of. The funny thing what I discovered after reaching the 1 year mark was that once you get more comfortable with yourself and not relying on alcohol with your social issues etc., drinking just seems like a massive waste of life and time. I wish you all the best and happiness towards your future! ☺
@@BjornSummer Could not agree more I always look back now thinking what the hell was I doing in my life and I drank for 32 years..I wish you all the best too brother 🙏🙏🙏
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Thank you for your great testimony, and congrats on your sobriety. I recently ditched beer for 2 months, hadnt gone that long since my late 20s (53 yo now), but have been drinking on and off again. I plan on quitting again for at least 30 days, and to eventually quit for good. It doesnt seem like moderation is very realistic for me. Best wishes 🙏
Thank you! It totally depends, some people can handle small amounts with it not growing into a problem. Although my view on the drug is pretty clear from my latest video, it's a life destroying drug with zero actual benefits. I wish you good health and I hope you are having a wonderful day!☺
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Thanks, and glad you liked it. I wish you the best on your journey - I truly do☺! By the way, if your interested in on how to stay sober and more help videos, then be sure to check out my channel. Plus I will be releasing a new video next week on sobriety strategies. Stay Healthy 😉!
Congratulations from a fellow Estonian in the US. I'm almost at a year sober myself. I'm 54 and struggled for decades. I never hit a really bad rock bottom but lingered in a state of confusion for so long! The Estonian community here has lots of benefits but drinking is a serious problem for sure. Keep up the good work minu sober!
Wow, where is this large community? I'm planning to travel to the states next year, so would be good to meet some fellow estonians for sure 😄. I'm super happy to hear that you found the strenght to sober up though. Wishing you all the best of luck over there ... Jõudu ja jaksu kõiges! ☺
@ImprovementHungry There are many Estos in NYC and Seattle. I grew up in NJ with the ones who immigrated together in the 50's. I now live on and island near Seattle called Orcas. Both my parents were born in Eesti in the 40's. I'm an artist and am opening a gallery this summer. Life has been good for me since I quit drinking! I don't miss the hangovers and dealing with all the problems that came from getting drunk. If you visit Seattle let me know and I'll be sure to introduce you to some folks.
@@PeterMohlman-w9c The times during the 40's were crazy in Estonia, glad to hear that your parents moved and everything worked out for them. I love art, do you have a website where you post your work as well? Also, I will definitely keep that Seattle idea in mind, maybe I'll make it even this summer ☺
Thankyou for sharing. It's really important for us all to understand that we are not alone & one of the ways to do that is to watch heartfelt testimonials for people like you. 👏👏
Thank you so much! This really means a lot to me. It gets so much better after the 6 month mark that it's insane, I wish all who have problems with drinking a better life and clarity. It was very hard to get my message across, because of the awkwardness though 😆. And we are never alone, we just need to find the right people for support. I'm here for ya! ☺
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congrats! You will have so much more energy to get things done ! Alcohol is such a Downer ! and drags your life down ; wish more young people realized this and stop wasting their life drinking .
Hey yea! I started to feel my energy levels rise right about at that 6 month mark, and it feels amazing! You are absolutely right about young people should realize this earlier ☺ Alcohol is a complete life destroyer. Zero benefits.
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@@BjornSummer Hi ! glad to hear you appreciated the comment ; and of course I am cool w/ you using it . I have 3 millenial children and love to see young people who wake up to the dangers and want to improve their lives ! Best wishes to you on your journey !
This is brilliant. Thank you Inky Bull for your candor. Seems as though I'm not the only one that needed to hear this right now. I'm on my THIRD go (in recent times) of quitting alcohol. Notice I didn't say "trying". I'm DOING. The hard part is not to start up again. I did not drink particularly in high school or college. It wasn't dictating my life at that point. I know I'm a bit of an obsessive/compulsive/addictive person as alcohol isn't my only demon (food, but that's a whole different conversation). Cutting to the more relevant present, my First Quit was for a month. During Zoom Times I awoke just in the nick of time to give an online tutorial to 5th graders. I was so unbelievably hung over I could barely get through. I swore that it was going to stop right there - and it did. For a month. I loved it. I felt great. I looked better. This was my birthday month no less! I did not drink. Then I had a little drink and eventually it all started again. The Second Quit happened when I blacked out, toppled off a kitchen chair landing squarely on my left shoulder. The next day I awoke with an excruciatingly painful shoulder/arm and my husband told me what took place. I knew what happened. It was the alcohol. In the ensuing days, I developed dramatic bruising that involved the entire left arm and even my left breast was black with it. If that wasn't a wake-up call then I was just plain stupid or dumb. AND in the midst of all this, my sister is in the hospital with end-stage liver disease. Now, I'm a light-weight in comparison to her but this is my problem to resolve and the writing was not only on the wall (and my damn arm) but it was lit up and flashing. Ok - I made it to three months. This time I had WAY more anxiety. The urge to drink left me pretty much but the anxiety skyrocketed. I self medicated with food but that really didn't help all that much, even though it was somewhat calming. It felt good to be sober. I did the quit myself - which doesn't make me especially proud. Maybe foolish and lucky and stubborn. RU-vid videos helped. Researching alcoholism and liver disease helped, not to mention finding out how the liver repairs itself over time. Nevertheless, I started again. I had a shot. The next day I had another shot. In short order, I was having a drink before dinner. Then it was before dinner and continuing after dinner. You know the drill. This was 5 months ago. So now (drum roll) the Third Quit!!! I'm on Day 4. Days 1 and 2 were the hardest. I do have some CBD around. I'd read it could help with quitting and I would say it does if I'm feeling especially anxious. I will also say that I don’t take it every day. Still tired. Still having trouble getting to sleep. Still with the daily and nightly headaches. I’ll get through. I personally have a 4-5 hour window in the afternoon-evening that is problematic for me. I’m tired and hungry. Warm beverages help. Having a (harmless) snack can help. I don't know. I can do this. I will do this. Thanks for listening.
Wow, Thank you so much for the comment, it really takes a lot to speak about this in such depth. I truly am rooting for you in every way possible. Third time's the charm! I definitely can relate on what you are going through and if you ever have any triggers or temptations I suggest you watch my other sobriety videos, where I go more in depth on those. I really do feel, they will help you keep you on your path. I hope you have a fantastic week and even a more fantastic sober journey ahead of you. You Got This! Lots of love!☺
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That was amazing man. thanks so much for sharing - found it incredibly inspiring. I think you'll help a lot of people with this, so many important points, so appreciated, thanks again and all the best to you.
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Thank you for the good wishes, I am on track and have no intentions on going back, currently over 15 months sober already. I truly wish you all the best for you on the upcoming journey. Don't let anyone else or some mood swings trigger you back to the old ways. Sobriety is so worth it!😉
Thanks for sharing your story! My path was very similar. It took me almost killing myself In a car crash to wake me up from the Lie, the Lie that you need alkohol to enjoy your life! It is crazy how many years it took me to wake up but now that my eyes are open, im never going back ! Enjoy your journey, Brat!
Wow! It's super sad to think about that most of the realizations people have about alcohol are through very difficult and life threatening situations. But I'm glad you are on the right path, it's so worth it. Thanks for watching, I appreciate it! ☺
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I just found your story. I relate to some of your experiences. Stopped the video to make sure you were still making comment. So happy that you are as I can relate as i said .
Excellent effort my friend, keep it up, it’s well worth effort. I am currently 5 months sober after relapsing for 2 year. I stayed sober for 2.5 years before and felt the best ever, got fit and lean and then covid lockdowns hit, I got an injury that stopped me from running and I had some family issues. I hit the drink again and within a couple of months it spiralled out of control just like before, piled on 3 stone, looked and felt terrible. This time I ain’t going back, it’s a terrible drug.
Thanks Paul! I'm rooting for you dude! That disease was devastating - especially towards mental health. I hope everything is good with your family and genuinely wish you a happy and healthy road ahead with this journey. Now that you got the taste of the good life thanks to being sober before, I have no doubts that you will not relapse again. We are here for you! 😉☺
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Thanks for sharing, you are helping others, just as it helped you. I’m on my way to 8 weeks sober after drinking at varying degrees of severity for the past 20ish years. IWNDWYT 😊
Thank you, it means a lot! I'm sending all the best wishes towards you, you got this! It will get easier along the way, and the rewards are just amazing. Feel free to ask for advice anytime. Stay strong! 😊
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i’m not sober but during the pandemic i did drink to black out etc.. but after all that i drastically cut down i now have 1 or 2 drinks but never to get drunk anymore and i don’t crave it at all i just drink when i want a drink. i’m glad that you are sober :)
It seems you have it under control, just keep an eye on it. Sometimes stressful situations can make you drink more, and that's not a way to deal with those kind of situations. Thanks btw, I'm super glad I'm sober too ☺
Thanks for your story. I’ve been drinking too much since Covid. I’ve quit now only a few weeks. I’m so tempted to try and justify it again but it was affecting my health and my wife has been patiently encouraging me to stop so I can be healthy in our later years.
I'm glad this video helped. Early days and weeks are very difficult, because your body is just getting used to it. The more time goes on the easier it gets. I'm finishing a new video on alcohol triggers and mindset in a few days, definitely think it will help you out, stay tuned. Ps. You are very lucky to have your wife by your side and help you the way she does. It's rare and give her lots of love! 😊
@@BjornSummer absolutely. I wasn’t drunk lots and never abusive but I was drinking at least 3 evenings a week, 3 or 4 beers plus whiskies it gradually crept up. 2 years ago my liver stats were high as a result, recent blood test was back to normal as I had cut out spirits but still was drinking too much beer. I felt it best to just quit entirely as I find moderation pretty much impossible. I’ll keep an eye out for the next vid. Thanks.
@@andyyoung6574 The idea of quitting entirely is good. There is no benefits to even drinking in moderation. It's all an illusion and brainwashing by big companies. Thanks for being here by the way! ☺
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You are doing the right things by quitting, there is no benefits to it, only destruction. I truly wish you all the strength and willpower to make through this. I can confirm the other side aka. sobriety is just so beautiful and rewarding! I suggest you take a peek at my other videos on sobriety as well, I think you can definitely find motivation and tips there as well ☺ And thank you so much for being here, have an amazing journey ahead of you!☺
Very powerful story my man! I am heading into my early 20s and your story has really been eye opening in avoiding certain traps a lot of us young men fall into. A big part to me was friends, I already have a mate who is like the top 10% of alcoholics in his use and such a young age. We drink together and I thought I could help him but I realized I was only going down the wretched path myself. You are very much right. At the end of the day, it is a personal decision. You can only show them the light through your life, and hope they find their way out of that dark tunnel.
Thank you so much for the lovely comment! In order to thrive and have good relationships in life we need to acknowledge ourselves what relationships are shallow and what are not. I explained it deeply in my latest vid. Your comment really made my day btw, I love to see people getting a realization about alcohol as early as possible. I wish you good health and an amazing life to come! ☺
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Hey, man, thank you for the courage of doing this. You're a brave man, I'm sure your journey will help many more people. Keep up your amazing sober journey.
Stay strong! It gets a lot easier after 6 months and also there are huge benefits to have. I've actually not even heard about Annie Grace, will check her podcast out :)
Thank you for sharing. I’m a woman that struggles however I’m looking for to stopping again. I relapsed after 3 years sober. Life was so much better then.
@@BjornSummer I stopped doing the work. I detached from mentors and my spiritual connection. And connected to individuals that were doing the things I once did.
@@MotheRuckerlove That is so sad to hear. I really do hope you can find some help in this community. Btw that's why I detached from everyone when I stopped drinking, I changed my number, and stopped making bands etc. Never reverting back to those people and things again, it's just not worth it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm just seven weeks on from putting the bottle down, and it's good to hear there are people ahead on the trail. I hope you're still good.
I'm glad you found it helpful ☺. 7 weeks is amazing, keep going and don't let those triggers get to you. I'm currently making a video about on how to have a correct mindset too, so stay tuned 😊. I'm doing great thanks, closing in on the 1.5 year mark, and it feels amazing! 😄
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@@BjornSummerI'm fine with it. Though I feel like there are more inspiring comments here. I'm on my way to seven months now, and I still watch vids like this to keep my feet on the path. As Frost would say: "Miles to go before I sleep." Thanks for the note.
@@guyjperson Every heartwarming comments is equally inspiring to me, so your matters a lot ☺These videos help, I was going through the same thing at that time. Best of strenght and ofcourse ... good luck ☺
Thanks for being here, I really do appreciate it! ☺ Trust me, it gets easier with time and at some point it will become so natural that you won't even think about it. If you stumble on some triggers along the way, I suggest you watch my other videos on sobriety, they definitely could help you out. I hope you are having a fantastic week, and a wonderful journey of sobriety ahead of you! ☺
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It still blows my mind on what all happened while I was heavily drinking, and yes joining the army was one of them 😀, But thank you, your wishes mean a lot to me! Stay healthy! ☺
Hey, noticed this is a 8 months old video but it came in the right time for me. After being sober for 1.5 year I’m recently had a relapse and trying to piece together what has happened while the same time recovering physically. I guess I’m a bit shocked and in a state of cognitive dissonance what was basically exactly the square one place I was 1.5 years ago. I’m now in the phase again where I do reality check and need some comfort in knowing I’m far from alone. Though the road of alcoholism is indeed a dark and lonely path to death. I appreciate you sharing your story, I have a very similar story with my father and his side if the family having alcohol as a very integral part of life and I guess somehow I still see it as part if my life, I need to more consciously debunk some myth and believes I have. Even though I’m devastated that I’m back at square one, I guess have learned a valuable lesson and I’m now determined to not let history repeat itself. Never again, this path is simply pure destruction and death
Thank you for your comment Kristian! Don't be too hard on yourself though. You already have been sober for 1.5 years and a little slip-up is not a massive relapse in my mind if you have the correct mindset. Mistakes happen, but we delegate how we view them and what we do after to correct them. I recently did a newer video on triggers and how to view alcohol in general as well, I hope you check it out - especially when your story sound very similar to mine, which it does. But you are not alone in this, this community and myself am always here for you. I hope you are having a fantastic week and I wish you great health! ☺
Thank you for those kind words, means a lot actually, I watched that other video and it was great, been binge watching this type of content all day, it’s the only thing that kinda give me peace of mind atm. It’s crazy how it weakens you so fast, I was working out like 2 hours every day and did some pretty highly intensive work just a week or so ago. All that seems so hard at the moment for some reason. One minute feels like an hour in this state. Anyways thanks for saying what I needed to hear. I’ll rise up from these ashes and never return to this misery again I swear @@BjornSummer
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Thank you! I wish you all the strenght and good luck on your journey. Don't give in to cravings and triggers. If you have any trouble you can always email me @ inkybullchannel@gmail.com . Best of luck to you 😊
Congratulations and I hope you are still not drinking. The people you say you lost were never your friends though. They were just people you drank with. I stopped drinking but the people I consider good friends are still here. Keep going and don't go back. Jay
Hey Jay! I still am on my sober path and just yesterday reached the 15 months mark. It's true what you said about friends. it's just hard to realize when you first get started on why people are leaving your life. If you have further questions, I'm premiering a sobriety update video, and going on my self improvement, so you can ask me there. I'll be live 😉☺
Thanks for sharing brother, you're very courageous for facing this demon and beating it down. Really good to see your strength, and I hope you are able to persevere.
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It really is liberating to not waste your precious time & money on booze. I look at alcohol thru a completely new lens. It really is such a waste. The amount of days hungover, not remembering things, making poor choices, and accelerating our natural physical deterioration…. the damage it does to the mental health, physical health, & relationships! It truly is bizarre to me that it is such a common and accepted habit. Glad you’re doing better! Glad there are people in the world breaking free from alcohol. The worst drug of them all. (In my opinion, not that my opinion really matters…) lol
Your completely right! And your opinion does matter because it's true. Stay strong and healthy, life is so beautiful to waste it seeing it from the bottom of a foggy glass.
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I havnt had a drink for almost 12 months now. Best decision of all time. 44 years old and only starting having alcohol when I was 30 years old usually a few drinks a few nights a week but wow it negatively impacted my life a few times so finally, with the help of the Bible, gave it up early Sept of 2022. Eliminated marijuana also. best, decision, of, all, time.
Damn, I'm really so happy for you! That's exactly the thing alcohol does, first it eases yourself in with a couple of late night drinks and by the time it's too late you are already hooked. Being sober truly is on of the best decisions a person can make in my opinion. Stay strong and healthy and I really appreciate the comment! ☺
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To different people, different things. I found that going through this alone was the best. Then again, I'm a very private person who dosen't like to share much.
Thanks for the kind words 😊, I'm super happy it helped you get back on track. You can stay tuned on my channel, my next video is about how to view triggers and avoid relapsing. It definitely can help your mindset😉
I thought I was the only one who made sure I had drinks on my bedside table. It was the only way 'I thought' to stave off the anxiety. I hope you're doing OK still.
Wow 13.5 years is incredible! But I have to agree, the more that time goes on, the less I even think about it, and everyday activities, get-togethers etc just become normal without booze ☺
Bottom line : A person will stop when they (and only they) are ready. Not until then.....2 yrs sober after 24 yrs of being a looser who had to be the cool party guy....what a joke , I'll never get that time back ...But I am making up for it now ! Im living an amazing clean life , The Holy spirit touched me and I will never go back to that evil lie I was told before ......The devil runs the world , don't fall victim to the lies about alcohol/drugs.
This is so true. In my next video I'm actually stopping on the topic of you have to really have made a decision. Otherwise there always will be this little devil on your shoulder trying to make compromises with you and that will never lead to truly clean life. I hope you are doing super well and I wish you a fantastic day !☺
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Funny and serious enough I woke up with the thought of "damn i really need to take it easy on drinking, i abuse alcohol and im getting older..ive been at it since i was 15, turning 30 this year...i really need to push myself to put it down" then i come across this video. Might be by chance or because i really needed to see this.
Yea, I can relate to you so much. Exactly the same, 15 years of drinking, and got the realization when I was around 30. Maybe it's a sign. Whether it's a sign or not though, it's still so good to stay off the drug. Your future self will thank you so much! ☺
@@BjornSummer hey same to you brotha. Keep making those real videos as well. I might just start. I have a lot to share with people who most likely relate. It's easy to feel alone and like as if you are going through it alone. I know there's thousands of people who how I feel. It's not about me though. It's about everyone trying to better themselves. I appreciate your message bro and again stay safe
@@helco2856 That's a great idea. I can say from experience that sharing these experiences really helps. It's so liberating in a way, so if you decide to do so, definitely share a link, or we can do even some sort of collab with videos. All the best! ☺
Thanks for sharing. Interesting to hear someome from Estonia. Really seems like you were self medicating anxiety and depression imo, but I might be wrong. Keeping beers next to your bed so you can drink "while sleeping"... A party lasting 8 days where you don't remember any of it? It was an interesting testimony for sure. Thanks for sharing
Thanks for being here! I had a lot of things I was self medicating yes, and alcohol and drug addiction at the same time was definitely not helping me. That party is hard to think back on, but there were also a lot of drugs involved, I'm genuinely suprised that I survived all those years actually. But thanks for the kind words. I hope you are having a fantastic week, Greetings from Estonia ☺
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Never knew there was a name for it - the ‘pink cloud effect’…but that’s what happens to me. Super healthy productive lifestyle then anywhere between 2 and 4 months, I buy vodka and just get wrecked drunk for about 5 days on average because usually by that point my body won’t hold a sip of vodka down, then severely sick for 7 days then back to work, exercise, sports, diet etc etc..until next time.
Yep - as weird as it sounds, it's a thing 😃. I hope you are staying on track now. I'm currently making a new video on triggers and changing the mentality how people view alcohol and drugs. I'm sure it could help. Stay tuned 😉
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Thank you! Yes of course. I'm actually uploading a new video that touches really hard on that topic in a couple of days. But I suggest you re-evaluate your social connections to start with. Most connections are formed with alcohol and are really shallow and actually have no deep connection to them at all. As for situations, if you are in your early stages of your sobriety, I would suggest you distance yourself from those situations a little bit. And if there is no choice and you still have to be there, then respectfully let other people know that you are not drinking, and you wish not to be disturbed with any comments about it. Good people will understand that, and as for the bad ones - Well now you know who to distance yourself from. I hope this helps. But I really do recommend you stay tuned for the upcoming video, II will talk about this very thing much deeper. ☺
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I'm going to congratulate you already! 6 month mark is a huge milestone, and breaking such family traditions as heavy drinking is such a good idea. Your friends, family, your future self and your health will thank you so much in the future for the decisions you stuck by with today 😊
@@timothygallant2633 Super happy to hear that! Remember the triggers that you will face in the current moment and overcome, your future self will thank you for them. Keep strong & Sending my best wishes towards you! ☺
Sending good thoughts your way, Bruder. If you haven't watched the video by Andrew Huberman on the impact of alcohol, it's is seriously good & helpful information. Do good. Live free. Love & respects life.
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Stay strong dude! What I found out is that with quitting every addiction there is a hole left hat has to be filled. Try to pick up a new hobby or even exercising with totally new people in your life. Trust me, it helps a lot! ☺
Thank you! You are right, people are flushing down so much of their potential just by drinking. Thank you for your comment and I hope you have a fantastic day!☺
One of the first things I did when I got sober is to try to save my alcoholic friends. It's impossible. Don't even try man. Until someone decides they're done with alcohol there's nothing we can do.
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I've been trying to quit drinking for a while got 30 days and relapsed over a beer that turned into a pint of wiskey even was taking vivatrol and still relapsed been thinking about family members lately haven't seen my mother or brother for 6 years and I guess its been bothering me I can't go around them one drinks other does drugs I'm not sure if my mom is alive or not I don't know if thinking about them is depending me or not
Sorry to hear that, really! I hope you stay on track. As for your family, if you manage to stay clear of these drugs, maybe they will take you as a role model, and follow the same path. I found that during sobriety the most unexpected and lovely things tend to happen every so often. So hang in there, and remember this community is always here for you! ☺
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@@joshgreer3527 It's super nice to hear that you are still on the right path. I know the process is slow but hang in there - find some new activities and definitely check your social circles that might bring you back to your old ways and really consider if you need them. I wish you the best of luck and thanks for letting me use your lovely comment too btw ☺