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Sober for 6 Months - Why I Quit Drinking Alcohol 

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@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Here's my latest video on how to stop drinking, where I go over 2 really good strategies to Start Sobriety: - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tS7TzMKa5FA.html - Also, thanks for being here, it really means a lot! ☺ If you want to continue the journey to a better life together, be sure to Subscribe to the channel, Peace!😘
@Quincycle
@Quincycle Год назад
Congratulations from Australia mate
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@Quincycle Thanks! ☺ Wishing you all the best from northern Europe 😉
@ceciliamaldonado9320
@ceciliamaldonado9320 Год назад
🙏🙏🙏
@ceciliamaldonado9320
@ceciliamaldonado9320 Год назад
THREE WEEKS FREE (after 20 yrs) WE GOT THIS💪
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm rooting for you, don't give up. Life is so worth living sober, not under some hazy drug. You got this! ☺
@rickcole349
@rickcole349 Год назад
God job. I haven't had a drink since November 2021. This is the longest I've gone without a drink since my early 20s. I'm in my mid-50s now. I don't see myself drinking again. My mental and physical health has dramatically improved.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
That's amazing to hear Rick! Both your mental and physical health are definitely super thankful for your decision to go sober for so long. I send you my best wishes & hope you are having a fantastic day!
@andyyoung6574
@andyyoung6574 Год назад
Well done. I’ve been contemplating quitting for a few years and stopped recently. I was drinking too much and using it as a crutch I think. Do you drink AF beers or anything like that? Not sure what to do.
@joyconnell1318
@joyconnell1318 Год назад
Thank you for sharing - I’m in the throws of 48 years of alcohol abuse with never gets better it just gots worse. You have helped me, my story is not unique, I started having fun but always, always keep drinking once I started. 😢 this has helped me …. ✌️
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@joyconnell1318 I can't explain how happy this makes me that this video helped you ☺ Be sure to check out my latest video I made - It's about triggers and viewing alcohol as it is. It could definitely keep you on track! I hope you are having a wonderful day ☺!
@JohnJKelly-of4dc
@JohnJKelly-of4dc 11 месяцев назад
​@andyyoung6574 alcohol free beers are terrible, I just drink bottles of water these days.
@RainBow-fq1oq
@RainBow-fq1oq Год назад
Thank you so much for sharing your story! This is my second time on the path to sobriety. I'm currently 4 days sober. Im getting sober for my daughter who recently turned 1. She deserves a sober mom and I deserve the joy of sobriety.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks for the lovely comment! I'm rooting for you, your daughter definitely deserves a sober mom ☺ I'm actually currently doing a video on triggers and relapsing, so stay tuned if you think it would help you out! I genuinely wish you all the best😉
@colinbradfield72
@colinbradfield72 Год назад
@@BjornSummercelebrate anything you think is a milestone, even a few days , will drive up dopamine
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@RainBow-fq1oq
@RainBow-fq1oq 7 месяцев назад
Hi!! It's so wonderful to read your note. And yes I am totally fine with you using my comment. I'm so happy to hear it moved you. I'm proud to say that I am still committed to my sobriety and being the best mom to my 1 year old daughter. I did 120 days sober then drank over the holidays and New Year which was a bad idea. Then things got out of hand but I'm back stronger, learned from that, and haven't drank in about 3 weeks. 😊 I hope you are doing well!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@RainBow-fq1oq So happy you are back on track. We have a saying in Estonia for mistakes that happen to people that do stuff "tegijal juhtub" ... meaning the person who does things, will get mistakes along the way". But this is a good thing. Your daughter definitely has a strong willpowered mom for sure, and surely looks up to you with pride☺It makes me so happy that you are okay with using your comment & I'm super thankful for you being a part of this community. Best of luck to you! ☺
@Sam11747
@Sam11747 Год назад
I was cop. I don't have an issue with drinking, but I have dealt with lots of people who were alcoholics. I use to follow up with them, and made sure they could get the help they needed. Your story is very similar to the hundreds of alcoholics I've dealt with over the years. They're usually being offered alcohol by family to taste/sip at a young age, being around family who drank heavily, at around age they start 14 drinking full servings, drinking for the purpose to get a buzz/high, usually purchasing hard liquor when they can legally purchase it on their own, drinking increases heavily when they have their first job. Behavior tends be great within an area that has alcohol (e.g. bar) and has a steady supply of it (e.g. not closing down for the night in 30 minutes). Elsewhere, they're the complete opposite. A lot of my aforementioned can be delayed and brought out during times in the military, where the culture almost makes it a requirement you drink. Alcohol is one of those drugs where you can literally die during detox if your alcoholism is severe. Going off alcohol cold turkey is something that shouldn't be attempted alone if you're an alcoholic. A good doctor can create a treatment plan that will help you get off alcohol better. It can take a few years before your brain chemistry changes, and your brain starts to rewire itself. You're probably going to experience new emotions you've never felt before. It may scare you (e.g. being genuinely sad) cause you never experienced the emotion without alcohol. This may want you to drink again. Some things I've noticed that helps is a really great diet: 1) Exercising vigorously at regular times. By vigorously, I mean dripping sweat. 2) Replacing your drinking times with exercise. 3) Practicing mindfulness 1-3x times every day. Sitting up in your chair, hands on knees, closed eyes and focusing on breathing in and out for 5-10 minutes. I'd recommend the book '10% Happier' by Dan Harris. When I was a cop, I did the aforementioned with a decent amount of suspects I arrested and that got sentenced. The results were pretty amazing. It'll be a long and difficult journey. You may have times where you may be tempted or drink again. You don't have to do this alone, and there are people who care about you during this process. If you keep at it, it'll be a rewarding journey. You can do it.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow, Thank you so much for this comment. I wish I heard all of it when I was starting out. I'm actually doing all of those things on a regular basis now. Also you are super true about the fact that, previous drinkers have trouble dealing with emotions. For me good emotions, bad ones and even dealing with situations like dating have always got me thinking about drinking a bit. But lately I have gotten rid of it. I will definitely read that book by Dan Harris, it seems super interesting. But thank you so much for your kind words, you truly made my morning so beautiful with them. I Hope you are having a lovely day! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@kennithminnich
@kennithminnich Год назад
Congratulations on your sobriety. One day at a time. Your family sounds like mine. We Russians are all alcoholics...lol. I'm celebrating 10 years of continuous sobriety this past April. I drank for 35 years.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Dude! Well done with 10 years, that's an amazing achievement! You are not all alcoholics lol 😄, I know quite a lot of Russians and you are very nice people!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@Declangarlandacoustic
@Declangarlandacoustic Год назад
Brilliant Man I'm 393 days Sober today..Never Going Back keep it going Man
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow, Congratulations! That's a huge number to be really proud of. The funny thing what I discovered after reaching the 1 year mark was that once you get more comfortable with yourself and not relying on alcohol with your social issues etc., drinking just seems like a massive waste of life and time. I wish you all the best and happiness towards your future! ☺
@Declangarlandacoustic
@Declangarlandacoustic Год назад
@@BjornSummer Could not agree more I always look back now thinking what the hell was I doing in my life and I drank for 32 years..I wish you all the best too brother 🙏🙏🙏
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@Declangarlandacoustic
@Declangarlandacoustic 7 месяцев назад
@ImprovementHungry Yeah Man work away
@NoOne-go6tc
@NoOne-go6tc Год назад
Keep going!!!! I’m 6 days from 2 years Best decision ever!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Super proud of you dude! This decision truly is one of the best ones a person can make. I'm curious, what was your final push to start this?
@andyyoung6574
@andyyoung6574 Год назад
What do you notice are the main changes and benefits. I’ve quit recently too, but very tempted to justify it again.
@ecinaz
@ecinaz Год назад
Thank you for your great testimony, and congrats on your sobriety. I recently ditched beer for 2 months, hadnt gone that long since my late 20s (53 yo now), but have been drinking on and off again. I plan on quitting again for at least 30 days, and to eventually quit for good. It doesnt seem like moderation is very realistic for me. Best wishes 🙏
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! It totally depends, some people can handle small amounts with it not growing into a problem. Although my view on the drug is pretty clear from my latest video, it's a life destroying drug with zero actual benefits. I wish you good health and I hope you are having a wonderful day!☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@Sophchie
@Sophchie Год назад
Thank you so much for this video. I’m 12 days sober and want to stay like this forever. These videos realllly help me! God bless you brother ❤
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm super glad it helped! 😊 whatever you do, don't give in to temptations, they are not worth it. Being sober is amazing! God bless you too! 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@marcelopingituro2436
@marcelopingituro2436 8 месяцев назад
Bravo, thanks for sharing your story. I've been sober for 60 days today and counting!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 8 месяцев назад
Thanks, and glad you liked it. I wish you the best on your journey - I truly do☺! By the way, if your interested in on how to stay sober and more help videos, then be sure to check out my channel. Plus I will be releasing a new video next week on sobriety strategies. Stay Healthy 😉!
@PeterMohlman-w9c
@PeterMohlman-w9c 5 месяцев назад
Congratulations from a fellow Estonian in the US. I'm almost at a year sober myself. I'm 54 and struggled for decades. I never hit a really bad rock bottom but lingered in a state of confusion for so long! The Estonian community here has lots of benefits but drinking is a serious problem for sure. Keep up the good work minu sober!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 5 месяцев назад
Wow, where is this large community? I'm planning to travel to the states next year, so would be good to meet some fellow estonians for sure 😄. I'm super happy to hear that you found the strenght to sober up though. Wishing you all the best of luck over there ... Jõudu ja jaksu kõiges! ☺
@PeterMohlman-w9c
@PeterMohlman-w9c 5 месяцев назад
@ImprovementHungry There are many Estos in NYC and Seattle. I grew up in NJ with the ones who immigrated together in the 50's. I now live on and island near Seattle called Orcas. Both my parents were born in Eesti in the 40's. I'm an artist and am opening a gallery this summer. Life has been good for me since I quit drinking! I don't miss the hangovers and dealing with all the problems that came from getting drunk. If you visit Seattle let me know and I'll be sure to introduce you to some folks.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 5 месяцев назад
@@PeterMohlman-w9c The times during the 40's were crazy in Estonia, glad to hear that your parents moved and everything worked out for them. I love art, do you have a website where you post your work as well? Also, I will definitely keep that Seattle idea in mind, maybe I'll make it even this summer ☺
@filmswithjovi
@filmswithjovi Год назад
Takes a lot to share this and put it out there - appreciate this and all the best!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you for your kind words Jovi, means a lot 🙂
@robbyc2173
@robbyc2173 Год назад
Thankyou for sharing. It's really important for us all to understand that we are not alone & one of the ways to do that is to watch heartfelt testimonials for people like you. 👏👏
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much! This really means a lot to me. It gets so much better after the 6 month mark that it's insane, I wish all who have problems with drinking a better life and clarity. It was very hard to get my message across, because of the awkwardness though 😆. And we are never alone, we just need to find the right people for support. I'm here for ya! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@ohdwight
@ohdwight Год назад
congrats! You will have so much more energy to get things done ! Alcohol is such a Downer ! and drags your life down ; wish more young people realized this and stop wasting their life drinking .
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hey yea! I started to feel my energy levels rise right about at that 6 month mark, and it feels amazing! You are absolutely right about young people should realize this earlier ☺ Alcohol is a complete life destroyer. Zero benefits.
@ohdwight
@ohdwight Год назад
@@BjornSummer congrats and good luck ! keep spreading the word !
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@ohdwight Thank you for your kind words! This truly means a lot to me ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@ohdwight
@ohdwight 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummer Hi ! glad to hear you appreciated the comment ; and of course I am cool w/ you using it . I have 3 millenial children and love to see young people who wake up to the dangers and want to improve their lives ! Best wishes to you on your journey !
@user-kj2dg8pf6j
@user-kj2dg8pf6j Год назад
This is brilliant. Thank you Inky Bull for your candor. Seems as though I'm not the only one that needed to hear this right now. I'm on my THIRD go (in recent times) of quitting alcohol. Notice I didn't say "trying". I'm DOING. The hard part is not to start up again. I did not drink particularly in high school or college. It wasn't dictating my life at that point. I know I'm a bit of an obsessive/compulsive/addictive person as alcohol isn't my only demon (food, but that's a whole different conversation). Cutting to the more relevant present, my First Quit was for a month. During Zoom Times I awoke just in the nick of time to give an online tutorial to 5th graders. I was so unbelievably hung over I could barely get through. I swore that it was going to stop right there - and it did. For a month. I loved it. I felt great. I looked better. This was my birthday month no less! I did not drink. Then I had a little drink and eventually it all started again. The Second Quit happened when I blacked out, toppled off a kitchen chair landing squarely on my left shoulder. The next day I awoke with an excruciatingly painful shoulder/arm and my husband told me what took place. I knew what happened. It was the alcohol. In the ensuing days, I developed dramatic bruising that involved the entire left arm and even my left breast was black with it. If that wasn't a wake-up call then I was just plain stupid or dumb. AND in the midst of all this, my sister is in the hospital with end-stage liver disease. Now, I'm a light-weight in comparison to her but this is my problem to resolve and the writing was not only on the wall (and my damn arm) but it was lit up and flashing. Ok - I made it to three months. This time I had WAY more anxiety. The urge to drink left me pretty much but the anxiety skyrocketed. I self medicated with food but that really didn't help all that much, even though it was somewhat calming. It felt good to be sober. I did the quit myself - which doesn't make me especially proud. Maybe foolish and lucky and stubborn. RU-vid videos helped. Researching alcoholism and liver disease helped, not to mention finding out how the liver repairs itself over time. Nevertheless, I started again. I had a shot. The next day I had another shot. In short order, I was having a drink before dinner. Then it was before dinner and continuing after dinner. You know the drill. This was 5 months ago. So now (drum roll) the Third Quit!!! I'm on Day 4. Days 1 and 2 were the hardest. I do have some CBD around. I'd read it could help with quitting and I would say it does if I'm feeling especially anxious. I will also say that I don’t take it every day. Still tired. Still having trouble getting to sleep. Still with the daily and nightly headaches. I’ll get through. I personally have a 4-5 hour window in the afternoon-evening that is problematic for me. I’m tired and hungry. Warm beverages help. Having a (harmless) snack can help. I don't know. I can do this. I will do this. Thanks for listening.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow, Thank you so much for the comment, it really takes a lot to speak about this in such depth. I truly am rooting for you in every way possible. Third time's the charm! I definitely can relate on what you are going through and if you ever have any triggers or temptations I suggest you watch my other sobriety videos, where I go more in depth on those. I really do feel, they will help you keep you on your path. I hope you have a fantastic week and even a more fantastic sober journey ahead of you. You Got This! Lots of love!☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@JW-km3by
@JW-km3by Год назад
That was amazing man. thanks so much for sharing - found it incredibly inspiring. I think you'll help a lot of people with this, so many important points, so appreciated, thanks again and all the best to you.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean the world to me, I wish you all the best! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@dncgoods
@dncgoods Год назад
Thank you for sharing. I hope you stay on track. I just started 3 days ago. Here we go
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you for the good wishes, I am on track and have no intentions on going back, currently over 15 months sober already. I truly wish you all the best for you on the upcoming journey. Don't let anyone else or some mood swings trigger you back to the old ways. Sobriety is so worth it!😉
@the1LASharp
@the1LASharp Год назад
Wow. I’m blown away by this. You’re an amazing, worthy human. Take care of yourself.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks you for your kind words! I definitely will, and I hope you have a wonderful day ☺!
@danielstansfield7556
@danielstansfield7556 Год назад
Thanks for sharing your story! My path was very similar. It took me almost killing myself In a car crash to wake me up from the Lie, the Lie that you need alkohol to enjoy your life! It is crazy how many years it took me to wake up but now that my eyes are open, im never going back ! Enjoy your journey, Brat!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow! It's super sad to think about that most of the realizations people have about alcohol are through very difficult and life threatening situations. But I'm glad you are on the right path, it's so worth it. Thanks for watching, I appreciate it! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@JanTaylor-v7d
@JanTaylor-v7d Год назад
I just found your story. I relate to some of your experiences. Stopped the video to make sure you were still making comment. So happy that you are as I can relate as i said .
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm glad I could help. I hope you have a wonderful day! ☺
@Daryl26543
@Daryl26543 Год назад
Excellent effort my friend, keep it up, it’s well worth effort. I am currently 5 months sober after relapsing for 2 year. I stayed sober for 2.5 years before and felt the best ever, got fit and lean and then covid lockdowns hit, I got an injury that stopped me from running and I had some family issues. I hit the drink again and within a couple of months it spiralled out of control just like before, piled on 3 stone, looked and felt terrible. This time I ain’t going back, it’s a terrible drug.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks Paul! I'm rooting for you dude! That disease was devastating - especially towards mental health. I hope everything is good with your family and genuinely wish you a happy and healthy road ahead with this journey. Now that you got the taste of the good life thanks to being sober before, I have no doubts that you will not relapse again. We are here for you! 😉☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@FOOD_EATER1
@FOOD_EATER1 Год назад
Thanks for sharing, you are helping others, just as it helped you. I’m on my way to 8 weeks sober after drinking at varying degrees of severity for the past 20ish years. IWNDWYT 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you, it means a lot! I'm sending all the best wishes towards you, you got this! It will get easier along the way, and the rewards are just amazing. Feel free to ask for advice anytime. Stay strong! 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@nelsongarcia4763
@nelsongarcia4763 Год назад
Great info thanks, will help lots of people.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you Nelson! I genuinely hope it will ☺
@PEPPACHICKEN
@PEPPACHICKEN Год назад
i’m not sober but during the pandemic i did drink to black out etc.. but after all that i drastically cut down i now have 1 or 2 drinks but never to get drunk anymore and i don’t crave it at all i just drink when i want a drink. i’m glad that you are sober :)
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
It seems you have it under control, just keep an eye on it. Sometimes stressful situations can make you drink more, and that's not a way to deal with those kind of situations. Thanks btw, I'm super glad I'm sober too ☺
@helloweeson
@helloweeson Год назад
Takes balls to admit this , well done on your sobriety. Good luck 🤞
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks, it means a lot! Going strong, never going back to that wasted life again. 😉
@andyyoung6574
@andyyoung6574 Год назад
Thanks for your story. I’ve been drinking too much since Covid. I’ve quit now only a few weeks. I’m so tempted to try and justify it again but it was affecting my health and my wife has been patiently encouraging me to stop so I can be healthy in our later years.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm glad this video helped. Early days and weeks are very difficult, because your body is just getting used to it. The more time goes on the easier it gets. I'm finishing a new video on alcohol triggers and mindset in a few days, definitely think it will help you out, stay tuned. Ps. You are very lucky to have your wife by your side and help you the way she does. It's rare and give her lots of love! 😊
@andyyoung6574
@andyyoung6574 Год назад
@@BjornSummer absolutely. I wasn’t drunk lots and never abusive but I was drinking at least 3 evenings a week, 3 or 4 beers plus whiskies it gradually crept up. 2 years ago my liver stats were high as a result, recent blood test was back to normal as I had cut out spirits but still was drinking too much beer. I felt it best to just quit entirely as I find moderation pretty much impossible. I’ll keep an eye out for the next vid. Thanks.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@andyyoung6574 The idea of quitting entirely is good. There is no benefits to even drinking in moderation. It's all an illusion and brainwashing by big companies. Thanks for being here by the way! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@tadjones1191
@tadjones1191 Год назад
You're right it's really hard I'm in the fight of my life after 25 years of drinking. And I just want be sober
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
You are doing the right things by quitting, there is no benefits to it, only destruction. I truly wish you all the strength and willpower to make through this. I can confirm the other side aka. sobriety is just so beautiful and rewarding! I suggest you take a peek at my other videos on sobriety as well, I think you can definitely find motivation and tips there as well ☺ And thank you so much for being here, have an amazing journey ahead of you!☺
@alibearbass
@alibearbass Год назад
All the best mate, good luck
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you dude! I'm almost 1.5 years sober now, life is more beautiful than ever. Never going back☺
@feisalmohamed9797
@feisalmohamed9797 Год назад
Very powerful story my man! I am heading into my early 20s and your story has really been eye opening in avoiding certain traps a lot of us young men fall into. A big part to me was friends, I already have a mate who is like the top 10% of alcoholics in his use and such a young age. We drink together and I thought I could help him but I realized I was only going down the wretched path myself. You are very much right. At the end of the day, it is a personal decision. You can only show them the light through your life, and hope they find their way out of that dark tunnel.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much for the lovely comment! In order to thrive and have good relationships in life we need to acknowledge ourselves what relationships are shallow and what are not. I explained it deeply in my latest vid. Your comment really made my day btw, I love to see people getting a realization about alcohol as early as possible. I wish you good health and an amazing life to come! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@Mr.Gratitude
@Mr.Gratitude Год назад
Hey, man, thank you for the courage of doing this. You're a brave man, I'm sure your journey will help many more people. Keep up your amazing sober journey.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much, you made my morning so much more beautiful! ☺ I hope you are having a fantastic month!☺
@tinacatalina1244
@tinacatalina1244 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your story. Watching your video is helping me. I watch Annie Grace podcasts which are also helping me.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Stay strong! It gets a lot easier after 6 months and also there are huge benefits to have. I've actually not even heard about Annie Grace, will check her podcast out :)
@magda5429
@magda5429 Год назад
Great video!! Thank you for sharing!! 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much, I hope you are having a lovely day! ☺
@MotheRuckerlove
@MotheRuckerlove Год назад
Thank you for sharing. I’m a woman that struggles however I’m looking for to stopping again. I relapsed after 3 years sober. Life was so much better then.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow, 3 years sober seems such a long time.... What made you relapse?
@MotheRuckerlove
@MotheRuckerlove Год назад
@@BjornSummer I stopped doing the work. I detached from mentors and my spiritual connection. And connected to individuals that were doing the things I once did.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@MotheRuckerlove That is so sad to hear. I really do hope you can find some help in this community. Btw that's why I detached from everyone when I stopped drinking, I changed my number, and stopped making bands etc. Never reverting back to those people and things again, it's just not worth it.
@MotheRuckerlove
@MotheRuckerlove Год назад
@@BjornSummer absolutely and definitely am detaching from my old ways. 🙏🏽
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@MotheRuckerlove Bless you! You are doing the right thing for sure ☺
@madasinwat2
@madasinwat2 Год назад
Thanks for sharing your story, wish you all the best 👍
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! I hope you are having a wonderful day!☺
@guyjperson
@guyjperson Год назад
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm just seven weeks on from putting the bottle down, and it's good to hear there are people ahead on the trail. I hope you're still good.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm glad you found it helpful ☺. 7 weeks is amazing, keep going and don't let those triggers get to you. I'm currently making a video about on how to have a correct mindset too, so stay tuned 😊. I'm doing great thanks, closing in on the 1.5 year mark, and it feels amazing! 😄
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@guyjperson
@guyjperson 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummerI'm fine with it. Though I feel like there are more inspiring comments here. I'm on my way to seven months now, and I still watch vids like this to keep my feet on the path. As Frost would say: "Miles to go before I sleep." Thanks for the note.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@guyjperson Every heartwarming comments is equally inspiring to me, so your matters a lot ☺These videos help, I was going through the same thing at that time. Best of strenght and ofcourse ... good luck ☺
@peteatkinson3500
@peteatkinson3500 Год назад
Thank you for your video. I am very early in my journey, on day 10, but it was helpful to hear how far you have come.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks for being here, I really do appreciate it! ☺ Trust me, it gets easier with time and at some point it will become so natural that you won't even think about it. If you stumble on some triggers along the way, I suggest you watch my other videos on sobriety, they definitely could help you out. I hope you are having a fantastic week, and a wonderful journey of sobriety ahead of you! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@bobchantry3497
@bobchantry3497 Год назад
You accidentally joined the army while drunk 😮. Glad you are doing well! Thanks for sharing
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
It still blows my mind on what all happened while I was heavily drinking, and yes joining the army was one of them 😀, But thank you, your wishes mean a lot to me! Stay healthy! ☺
@kristiankumpumaki8701
@kristiankumpumaki8701 Год назад
Hey, noticed this is a 8 months old video but it came in the right time for me. After being sober for 1.5 year I’m recently had a relapse and trying to piece together what has happened while the same time recovering physically. I guess I’m a bit shocked and in a state of cognitive dissonance what was basically exactly the square one place I was 1.5 years ago. I’m now in the phase again where I do reality check and need some comfort in knowing I’m far from alone. Though the road of alcoholism is indeed a dark and lonely path to death. I appreciate you sharing your story, I have a very similar story with my father and his side if the family having alcohol as a very integral part of life and I guess somehow I still see it as part if my life, I need to more consciously debunk some myth and believes I have. Even though I’m devastated that I’m back at square one, I guess have learned a valuable lesson and I’m now determined to not let history repeat itself. Never again, this path is simply pure destruction and death
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you for your comment Kristian! Don't be too hard on yourself though. You already have been sober for 1.5 years and a little slip-up is not a massive relapse in my mind if you have the correct mindset. Mistakes happen, but we delegate how we view them and what we do after to correct them. I recently did a newer video on triggers and how to view alcohol in general as well, I hope you check it out - especially when your story sound very similar to mine, which it does. But you are not alone in this, this community and myself am always here for you. I hope you are having a fantastic week and I wish you great health! ☺
@kristiankumpumaki8701
@kristiankumpumaki8701 Год назад
Thank you for those kind words, means a lot actually, I watched that other video and it was great, been binge watching this type of content all day, it’s the only thing that kinda give me peace of mind atm. It’s crazy how it weakens you so fast, I was working out like 2 hours every day and did some pretty highly intensive work just a week or so ago. All that seems so hard at the moment for some reason. One minute feels like an hour in this state. Anyways thanks for saying what I needed to hear. I’ll rise up from these ashes and never return to this misery again I swear @@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@kristiankumpumaki8701
@kristiankumpumaki8701 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummer Hi! Awesome! Sure that’s completely fine, whatever that can help others to get on the right path, I’m totally supporting that
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@kristiankumpumaki8701 Thank you! It definitely will help others to get on the right path. Hope you are doing well ☺
@username6265
@username6265 Год назад
What a brave video! Thank you for your honesty
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much! 😊 And thanks for being here, it means a lot!
@abdallahrawashdeh4880
@abdallahrawashdeh4880 Год назад
Greetings from Jordan ❤ I'm One month sober
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Nice man, keep it going, it will get a lot easier with time😊!
@abdallahrawashdeh4880
@abdallahrawashdeh4880 Год назад
@@BjornSummer 💯💯🔥🔥💪💪
@xasthurhead
@xasthurhead Год назад
I actually really needed to hear this so thank you
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I so glad it helped! I genuinely wish you all the best and good luck ☺
@giab1188
@giab1188 Год назад
Inspiring! I'm trying to start my journey
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! I wish you all the strenght and good luck on your journey. Don't give in to cravings and triggers. If you have any trouble you can always email me @ inkybullchannel@gmail.com . Best of luck to you 😊
@1dantown
@1dantown Год назад
You got this.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks, currently still got it. as of today I'm over 15 months sober. And I have to say, it's amazing! 😉
@Biking360
@Biking360 Год назад
Congratulations and I hope you are still not drinking. The people you say you lost were never your friends though. They were just people you drank with. I stopped drinking but the people I consider good friends are still here. Keep going and don't go back. Jay
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hey Jay! I still am on my sober path and just yesterday reached the 15 months mark. It's true what you said about friends. it's just hard to realize when you first get started on why people are leaving your life. If you have further questions, I'm premiering a sobriety update video, and going on my self improvement, so you can ask me there. I'll be live 😉☺
@earthwarriors3146
@earthwarriors3146 Год назад
@@BjornSummer 👍💪Awesome Brother!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks bro! 😉
@BT-be8rh
@BT-be8rh Год назад
@@BjornSummer So good to hear you're still going....congrats!!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@BT-be8rh Thank you so much! ☺ I have no reasons to look back, sober life is amazing! I hope you are having a fantastic week! ☺
@mirabellmirabell5564
@mirabellmirabell5564 Год назад
Thank you for sharing. I need to hear this.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
No problem, I'm glad it helps! 😊
@rippedgeek
@rippedgeek Год назад
Thanks for sharing brother, you're very courageous for facing this demon and beating it down. Really good to see your strength, and I hope you are able to persevere.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much for the comment! I'm going almost 1.5 years strong and have no intention of goin back. I hope you have a fantastic weekend 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@rippedgeek
@rippedgeek 7 месяцев назад
Absolutely fine with that, so glad to hear that you're still kicking *ss!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@rippedgeek Nice! Uploading sometime next week. I am still kicking *ss and have no plans on stopping, hoping you are too 😄
@joh8379
@joh8379 Год назад
My heart jumps for your success brother
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Aww, thank you! It really means a lot ☺
@prancer4743
@prancer4743 Год назад
Good for you and thank you we are with you 100% 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it! ☺
@_nancy_pants
@_nancy_pants Год назад
It really is liberating to not waste your precious time & money on booze. I look at alcohol thru a completely new lens. It really is such a waste. The amount of days hungover, not remembering things, making poor choices, and accelerating our natural physical deterioration…. the damage it does to the mental health, physical health, & relationships! It truly is bizarre to me that it is such a common and accepted habit. Glad you’re doing better! Glad there are people in the world breaking free from alcohol. The worst drug of them all. (In my opinion, not that my opinion really matters…) lol
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Your completely right! And your opinion does matter because it's true. Stay strong and healthy, life is so beautiful to waste it seeing it from the bottom of a foggy glass.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@_nancy_pants
@_nancy_pants 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummeryesss! Totally fine by me! (: 9 months completely sober here and will likely never touch alcohol again.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@_nancy_pants Oh that's so lovely to hear. I'm rooting for ya!☺
@troy897
@troy897 Год назад
Thank you for sharing your story.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
☺ Glad you liked it! This was one of my most awkward videos though 😄
@KoriKan
@KoriKan Год назад
Thanks for sharing! Keep it up. There are NO BENEFITS with alcohol.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! You are correct, there are zero benefits . Mind numbing and life destroying drug.
@Robe_Hernandez
@Robe_Hernandez Год назад
Thank you
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Happy it helped! ☺
@mrjelly5718
@mrjelly5718 Год назад
I havnt had a drink for almost 12 months now. Best decision of all time. 44 years old and only starting having alcohol when I was 30 years old usually a few drinks a few nights a week but wow it negatively impacted my life a few times so finally, with the help of the Bible, gave it up early Sept of 2022. Eliminated marijuana also. best, decision, of, all, time.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Damn, I'm really so happy for you! That's exactly the thing alcohol does, first it eases yourself in with a couple of late night drinks and by the time it's too late you are already hooked. Being sober truly is on of the best decisions a person can make in my opinion. Stay strong and healthy and I really appreciate the comment! ☺
@mrjelly5718
@mrjelly5718 Год назад
@@BjornSummer thanks brother, the odd thing is that I have zero cravings. Keep up spreading the good words. Appreciate you
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@mrjelly5718 That's impressive! Thanks and I hope you will stay strong in the future as well ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@PhilJohn-j5z
@PhilJohn-j5z Год назад
AA is full off miracles, ive got a programme for living happiness guaranteed. Sobriety rocks
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
To different people, different things. I found that going through this alone was the best. Then again, I'm a very private person who dosen't like to share much.
@canibalector
@canibalector Год назад
Thanks Bro stay strong!! I just relapsed and this helped me
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks for the kind words 😊, I'm super happy it helped you get back on track. You can stay tuned on my channel, my next video is about how to view triggers and avoid relapsing. It definitely can help your mindset😉
@darryllcampbell3342
@darryllcampbell3342 Год назад
I thought I was the only one who made sure I had drinks on my bedside table. It was the only way 'I thought' to stave off the anxiety. I hope you're doing OK still.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Yea, you are not alone in this mess 😁, I'm closing in on 1.5 years sober now. I'm not going back to that wasted life, never. 😉
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 Год назад
I've been sober for 13 and a half years. The hardest part was the first 24 hours.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow 13.5 years is incredible! But I have to agree, the more that time goes on, the less I even think about it, and everyday activities, get-togethers etc just become normal without booze ☺
@quintaamigo
@quintaamigo 11 месяцев назад
Thanks fot sharing, it must be hard.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 11 месяцев назад
Thanks! It gets easier with time. Right now 1.5 years sober and I am actually living my best life so far 😊
@bernieryan1343
@bernieryan1343 Год назад
Well done 👏
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! I hope you have a fantastic day! ☺
@yellowslug2
@yellowslug2 Год назад
Thank you. Ross
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
You're very welcome! I wish you all the best, I truly do! ☺
@koolz4094
@koolz4094 Год назад
Bottom line : A person will stop when they (and only they) are ready. Not until then.....2 yrs sober after 24 yrs of being a looser who had to be the cool party guy....what a joke , I'll never get that time back ...But I am making up for it now ! Im living an amazing clean life , The Holy spirit touched me and I will never go back to that evil lie I was told before ......The devil runs the world , don't fall victim to the lies about alcohol/drugs.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
This is so true. In my next video I'm actually stopping on the topic of you have to really have made a decision. Otherwise there always will be this little devil on your shoulder trying to make compromises with you and that will never lead to truly clean life. I hope you are doing super well and I wish you a fantastic day !☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@MassiveChetBakerFan
@MassiveChetBakerFan Год назад
Very interesting. Well done.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! ☺
@seanmeantime
@seanmeantime Год назад
Thank you
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hope it helped and thanks for being here! ☺
@helco2856
@helco2856 Год назад
Funny and serious enough I woke up with the thought of "damn i really need to take it easy on drinking, i abuse alcohol and im getting older..ive been at it since i was 15, turning 30 this year...i really need to push myself to put it down" then i come across this video. Might be by chance or because i really needed to see this.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Yea, I can relate to you so much. Exactly the same, 15 years of drinking, and got the realization when I was around 30. Maybe it's a sign. Whether it's a sign or not though, it's still so good to stay off the drug. Your future self will thank you so much! ☺
@helco2856
@helco2856 Год назад
@@BjornSummer this is a video that spoke to me honestly. I hope your journey is going well man. Stay safe and stay healthy 💯🤘🏾
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@helco2856 Lots of love to you! We as a community can always stay strong and keep pushing on ☺
@helco2856
@helco2856 Год назад
@@BjornSummer hey same to you brotha. Keep making those real videos as well. I might just start. I have a lot to share with people who most likely relate. It's easy to feel alone and like as if you are going through it alone. I know there's thousands of people who how I feel. It's not about me though. It's about everyone trying to better themselves. I appreciate your message bro and again stay safe
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@helco2856 That's a great idea. I can say from experience that sharing these experiences really helps. It's so liberating in a way, so if you decide to do so, definitely share a link, or we can do even some sort of collab with videos. All the best! ☺
@gwenj4475
@gwenj4475 Год назад
Thanks for sharing ❤
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Glad you liked it! I hope you are having a fantastic weekend! 😊
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 Год назад
All our stories are the same. You have to move past that. Just think about the future.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Absolutely!
@idlyblare
@idlyblare Год назад
Good stuff, I see Tommy Shelby🔥🔥
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks bro, Tommy is da man 😁
@sarah7637
@sarah7637 Год назад
Day 3 here thank you so much I can not Do this on my own
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hang in there! The first couple of months are definitely going to be difficult, but you got this! Hopw you are having a fantastic weekend!😊
@johnnieharnest8877
@johnnieharnest8877 Год назад
I break out in handcuffs when i drink- 10520 days sober !
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Wow, that's amazing! Wish I could be this far already!😄
@balthazarvorobeitchik7169
@balthazarvorobeitchik7169 Год назад
Thanks for sharing. Interesting to hear someome from Estonia. Really seems like you were self medicating anxiety and depression imo, but I might be wrong. Keeping beers next to your bed so you can drink "while sleeping"... A party lasting 8 days where you don't remember any of it? It was an interesting testimony for sure. Thanks for sharing
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks for being here! I had a lot of things I was self medicating yes, and alcohol and drug addiction at the same time was definitely not helping me. That party is hard to think back on, but there were also a lot of drugs involved, I'm genuinely suprised that I survived all those years actually. But thanks for the kind words. I hope you are having a fantastic week, Greetings from Estonia ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@FoodieBeautyStan
@FoodieBeautyStan Год назад
Great job!! 🎉❤
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you!
@sugashakeshakeshake852
@sugashakeshakeshake852 Год назад
Never knew there was a name for it - the ‘pink cloud effect’…but that’s what happens to me. Super healthy productive lifestyle then anywhere between 2 and 4 months, I buy vodka and just get wrecked drunk for about 5 days on average because usually by that point my body won’t hold a sip of vodka down, then severely sick for 7 days then back to work, exercise, sports, diet etc etc..until next time.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Yep - as weird as it sounds, it's a thing 😃. I hope you are staying on track now. I'm currently making a new video on triggers and changing the mentality how people view alcohol and drugs. I'm sure it could help. Stay tuned 😉
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@sugashakeshakeshake852
@sugashakeshakeshake852 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummer sure, no worries. Looking forward to watching the video 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@sugashakeshakeshake852 Thank you ☺ Uploading it very soon, keep your notifications on 😉
@everyday316
@everyday316 Год назад
Thanks for sharing your story. Your honesty is inspirational. Can you give any advice on how to handle social situations where alcohol is around?
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you! Yes of course. I'm actually uploading a new video that touches really hard on that topic in a couple of days. But I suggest you re-evaluate your social connections to start with. Most connections are formed with alcohol and are really shallow and actually have no deep connection to them at all. As for situations, if you are in your early stages of your sobriety, I would suggest you distance yourself from those situations a little bit. And if there is no choice and you still have to be there, then respectfully let other people know that you are not drinking, and you wish not to be disturbed with any comments about it. Good people will understand that, and as for the bad ones - Well now you know who to distance yourself from. I hope this helps. But I really do recommend you stay tuned for the upcoming video, II will talk about this very thing much deeper. ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@everyday316
@everyday316 7 месяцев назад
Hey! Sorry I missed your reply 6 months ago... I appreciate your advice.. hope you're well 😊
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@everyday316 No worries, love to see hat you still are here ☺ I'm doing great ... how about you?☺
@westnewwest4325
@westnewwest4325 Год назад
Im 10 days short of 6 months. Same family story. It stops with me. Everyone drinks for a reason, and most of those reasons are not very positive.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I'm going to congratulate you already! 6 month mark is a huge milestone, and breaking such family traditions as heavy drinking is such a good idea. Your friends, family, your future self and your health will thank you so much in the future for the decisions you stuck by with today 😊
@timothygallant2633
@timothygallant2633 Год назад
Thanks for sharing bud
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
You're welcome, hope it helped! ☺
@timothygallant2633
@timothygallant2633 Год назад
@@BjornSummer I think it did time will tell I stuggle with the booze less now than the old days
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@@timothygallant2633 Super happy to hear that! Remember the triggers that you will face in the current moment and overcome, your future self will thank you for them. Keep strong & Sending my best wishes towards you! ☺
@SayatM680
@SayatM680 11 месяцев назад
Almost a month sober, no way I'm going back!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 11 месяцев назад
Super happy to hear that! You got this! Definitely go check out my other sobriety videos as well. They will help you stay on your path for sure 😊
@marjet
@marjet Год назад
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
👊😉
@yvonne1912
@yvonne1912 Год назад
❤❤❤
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
@13odman
@13odman Год назад
Good job man
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you so much! ☺
@abbyhudson5453
@abbyhudson5453 Год назад
Sending good thoughts your way, Bruder. If you haven't watched the video by Andrew Huberman on the impact of alcohol, it's is seriously good & helpful information. Do good. Live free. Love & respects life.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I've binged watched Andrew Huberman so much, he is amazing. Thank you for your good wishes, I hope you have a fantastic day!☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@ceciliamaldonado9320
@ceciliamaldonado9320 Год назад
🙏🙏🙏
@myrtleesther8855
@myrtleesther8855 Год назад
Jesus sets the captives free!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I hope he does :)
@colinbradfield72
@colinbradfield72 Год назад
2 weeks in for me, I feel so good. Eating delta 9 gummies worried that it’s a crutch
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Stay strong dude! What I found out is that with quitting every addiction there is a hole left hat has to be filled. Try to pick up a new hobby or even exercising with totally new people in your life. Trust me, it helps a lot! ☺
@mattmason7554
@mattmason7554 11 месяцев назад
Awesome job. Amazing benefits from not drinking. Alcohol really sucks the life out of you.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 11 месяцев назад
Thank you! You are right, people are flushing down so much of their potential just by drinking. Thank you for your comment and I hope you have a fantastic day!☺
@micheleparkin4146
@micheleparkin4146 Год назад
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thank you dear!
@BEACHDUDE71
@BEACHDUDE71 11 месяцев назад
Over 7 months of no alcohol for me
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 11 месяцев назад
That's fantastic to hear😊! Stay strong and never give up, it's so worth it, trust me😊!
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 Год назад
One of the first things I did when I got sober is to try to save my alcoholic friends. It's impossible. Don't even try man. Until someone decides they're done with alcohol there's nothing we can do.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I did the opposite. I completely distanced myself, changes my number and my work and living situation. Best thing I've ever done 😁
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 Год назад
@@BjornSummer that works.😁
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@darksoul479
@darksoul479 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummer wow! What a nice thing to say. That just made my day.❤❤❤
@SRT140
@SRT140 Год назад
Where in Europe are you from bro?
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hey! I'm From Estonia - a little country just besides the Baltic sea. ☺
@nikapedro4542
@nikapedro4542 Год назад
hi polar bear :)
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Hey 😉
@MikeDerucki0
@MikeDerucki0 8 месяцев назад
So you started injecting it or butt chugging?
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 8 месяцев назад
Whoa, what. Neither, I decided to stop and choose sobriety 😊
@lameduck3630
@lameduck3630 Год назад
Kind of sounds like an Irish accent.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Oh wow, really? 😀. Unfortunately or fortunately I'm from Eastern Europe ☺
@noalko2020
@noalko2020 Год назад
You Look so bad ;) so sad.
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
I was beat down by life and my bad choices pretty bad yea. Currently feeling amazing thankfully ☺
@David-Lyman
@David-Lyman Год назад
Good job on telling your story! Stay strong!
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Thanks dude, it truly means a lot!
@joshgreer3527
@joshgreer3527 Год назад
I've been trying to quit drinking for a while got 30 days and relapsed over a beer that turned into a pint of wiskey even was taking vivatrol and still relapsed been thinking about family members lately haven't seen my mother or brother for 6 years and I guess its been bothering me I can't go around them one drinks other does drugs I'm not sure if my mom is alive or not I don't know if thinking about them is depending me or not
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer Год назад
Sorry to hear that, really! I hope you stay on track. As for your family, if you manage to stay clear of these drugs, maybe they will take you as a role model, and follow the same path. I found that during sobriety the most unexpected and lovely things tend to happen every so often. So hang in there, and remember this community is always here for you! ☺
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
Hey! I hope you are doing great. I'm just letting you know that your comment really moved me, and I am using your comment screenshot in a sobriety video that I am uploading next. I hope you are cool with that! Best of luck with everything, thanks for commenting and helping me with my journey☺
@joshgreer3527
@joshgreer3527 7 месяцев назад
@@BjornSummer you can use it I'm fine right now getting better day by day it's a slow process and I still struggle some days but it's getting better
@BjornSummer
@BjornSummer 7 месяцев назад
@@joshgreer3527 It's super nice to hear that you are still on the right path. I know the process is slow but hang in there - find some new activities and definitely check your social circles that might bring you back to your old ways and really consider if you need them. I wish you the best of luck and thanks for letting me use your lovely comment too btw ☺
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