Society HATES Women in Their 30s | (male podcasts, age shaming, anti-aging market) 

Hey someone is pretending to be you in the comments smh

Yes I got a message too that says send a direct message, but I think it's a scam!

@@diandriasmith889 it is indeed a scam! That’s not me

Why would any woman or girl give af what these down low women-hating lo lyfz say. It’s beyond obvious that the dudes in video were all DL and hate women. I feel sorry for any woman who doesn’t get that

@@ToniBryanneTV men don't hate women in their 30's they just don't care about them in the same way that women don't care about a man that is short, doesn't have a job or lives with his parents. its odd how men not giving women attention when they want it is seen as a personal affront to their existence.

That’s exactly what woman do with men their own age ..call them little boys the shame as well this isn’t 1 sided

and the fact that they want someone younger to manipulate. Often times they have nothing to offer the women who are their own age.

@@bavj3395 girl please

​@@bavj3395 Perhaps they should stop acting like little boys, then.

@@LivyRivy they are calling the little boys because of age

Aging is the alternative to dying so... Please God, lemme age

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Period. ❤🙏🏽

As someone that has just turned 30 and has been dealing with depression for most of their life, I have to remember this.

I finally got old enough to tell a youngin you better hope to get to my age hun ...I finally get what my granny was talking about 😂

How many eggs you got left?

@@zootjitsu6767probably more than what’s in your bank account.

​@@zootjitsu6767who said her and her husband even want kids?

​@@zootjitsu6767 Get out of people's reproductive health. So strange 🥴

YAAAAS!!!!!!!! Live your best life and live it fully.

How can a man be used up ?

@@elitecoder955 have you guys seen yourselves?? I'm sorry but men age so badly havig beer bellies from drinking all their 20s and just living unhealthy lifestyles then blame all their problems on women to the point that the media is calling it an "epidemic" because men are bitter and lonely lol

@@elitecoder955 How can anyone be 'used up'? People are not objects or commodities.

Another thing I don't understand is that if EVERY woman in her 20s is sleeping around or going from relationship to relationship according to these men, aren't these guys pursuing the type of women they claim to dislike if they're going for women in their 20s? LOL.

@@Ang36914bingo ! Don’t ever listen to a man ! Anything he tells you he don’t like he likes ! And these younger chicks have 5 kids by time they’re 30 ! So let them have them

This is what I ALWAYS say!! It’s not a compliment to crap on women 30+ to uplift me when I one day will be 30+😭

They’ll just swap them out and upgrade them like cars. Male perspectives on women are truly disgusting. 😑 The more I hear, the more repulsed I am.

@@LoneWulf278 this is exactly why I refuse to date and be with men that harp on only dating women before the age of 30, these men are more likely to cheat or seek out younger women the minute you as the main woman in their life hits 30.

@@LoneWulf278 thankfully it’s not everyone. But unfortunately men don’t correct other men in their behavior, if they observe a situation like that. That’s why incels feel justified in their actions

Amen to this ❤

absolutely. they know they don‘t have anything meaningful going for them expect for superficial things like money and „status“ in their little make-believe world, which is why they can‘t keep good relationships either and continously date around. it‘s sad, really

Preach

Yeah. It’s just a fetish. But they want to intellectualize it to validate it. It’s still meaningless. 🙄

Agreed, they're perpetuating the cycle to younger generations. I'm 32 but thank goodness I had a variety of close friends growing up where we didn't harbor such resentment for girls when they were getting scooped up by them Vultures.

Exactly!!! That’s exactly why they say that we “expire” at 25.

Beautifully said! I’m 35 and celibate and couldn’t be happier with my own life. True I have had heartbreaks, but they shaped me

Just turned 46 & agree with you 💯!! People rely too much on how they're perceived or what others think of them on social media. Social media is cool but it's ok & a NEED to put the phone done. Watch your fav movie, go on a walk, eat your fav ice cream but most of all enjoy life ❤😊

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Can I get an Amen...or rather an Awomen up in here?

Older women give horrible advice to younger women. You are being very unhelpful to younger women. Women have an expiry date and they need to hear it. Generally, men will not offer women marriage after 30 and sex is over by the time you are 40-45. You should advice women not waste their time in their youth, to only date for marriage, to keep their body count as low as possible as men value youth, beauty, fertility and purity. Generally, men do not care about your career, money or education. Do not advice women to copy your mistakes, to end up lonely and sad.

The fact that you're Latina, single, and childless is an even bigger red flag. Isn't family supposed to be number 1 in your culture? You would have done it like 10 years ago. You are damaged goods.

@@LeeEverett1 lmao dang bruh

Women sabotage each other with bad advice. Everything this lady spews leads too many women regretting listening to it.

​@@verbadum2298lmao sure. Even widowed women are happier than widowed men 😂.

@@mamalegba777 OK you are disgusted about men's preference and what are you going to do about it, post a comment so other women can agree with you? And what does that do for you?

Exactly

Exactly! We live in a patriarchal society that hates women period.. but misogynistic men do find some value in younger naive, inexperienced women they can groom (& exploit). Misogyny will promote the system that benefits them… they will always push for women to center their lives around men by criticizing & shaming women who don’t. I hope we all realize that the “women hitting a wall” ideology is literally based on the idea that a women who no longer gives a guy a b0ner is useless. Men who believe this rhetoric have “conditional value” for women, to them a woman’s worth comes from how she serves him… not who she is.

Exactly, they want to take advantage and "mold" (cough* cough* Groom), young women. Women in their 30s already know that game and aren't playing it. Plus, they can use financial support as a tool to keep them submissive. Especially when they impregnate them young and depend on their finances. Also, many of these dads take no accountability with the single mothers they make.

Period!

womxn detected, opinion disregarded

And leave them single mothers at a high rate and I am young saying this!!

*ahem* leo dicaprio *ahem*

Thats not True. Women should stop lying to each other and stop assuming, Thats not the reason men who are successful choose to date women in their 20s.

@@nsbm159 yes it is. Otherwise you would just be with women your own age

@@nsbm159 Yet none of you predators are are wifing them you leave them single mothers or a Trophy to show off but we all know why she’s with you for money not love

Bahaha, probably someone hurt his ass 🤣

Somebody needs to contact the mothers of these "men" and see what they have to say about their sons being hateful and disrespectful.

Yeah I’d be so embarrassed if my son held those nonsensical views let alone put that mess online 🤦🏽‍♀️

​@@jessicaHcatallot of them are "boy moms" who are misogynistic themselves

😅 To be honest, most women are failures at being Mother's. Otherwise we'd have more husbands and not so many baby daddies.😅

That is so sad I’m sorry for your loss :( enjoy living your life. It is indeed such a blessing ♥️

Womp womp

​@@Cateater123are you 5

​@@Seruzulhe has 56 comments on this channel😂😂

@@Seruzul No it's just a male so nothing of importance lol

Omg same ! I would go to nappy clubs and predatory men would wait outside or be inside and try to talk to girls that were underage. Now that I am starting to hit some of the ages of the men I dated and I cannot fathom dating younger or even older now tbh. My partner and I are the same age and I feel like we grew up together.

You are right, interest from men when under 18 is disturbingly high. I’m from the UK so we wear uniform and you would think that my school blazer would be a CLEAR sign I’m underaged and would deter these perverts, right? Nope, still got constantly harassed.

Visit Jamaica, it’s the land of pedos.

Same. My walk to work was brutal when I was 16 for that. I haven’t experienced that when walking in the same way since I turned 18/ 19 even though my weight and everything is the same (not that it’s bad to not be).

I noticed the amount I get catcalled has plummeted since being too old to wear a school uniform (but also the most times I was catcalled was in my potato sack of a uniform yikes)

Exactly

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They’ll never hold other males accountable because they stay on code with the degenerate behaviors

exactly...who traumatized them? Any disputes and arguments I have with women, can be forgiven or ignored most of the time. The type of trauma men inflict runs deep and its unforgivable afterwards... and they are so emotionally unintelligent, that they don't care.

@@oooo000oooo true I’ve heard of stories where men tie women down with babies, men that weren’t supportive during miscarriages, men that beat women, woke up everyday on a mission to hurt their partners , pocket watching husbands who don’t work then after traumatizing them, they wanna traumatize the women who start their 20s

I love this! Congrats to your mom!

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Same whit my mom too I forgot my moms age uhhh don’t ask me why I forget but yeah I forgot it is 48 or 49 idk

This is so sweet :)

God's timing is always right....right? ;) @@Stinkyfefefe

And then he got aids

@@seventhcompactor1505I just know ur typing hate comments in your basement, with no female in sight.

@@ambo9569 The sugar dating reality must depress you. Why ? Wig girl? Too fat? Smelly vag?

Him being gay was irrelevant to your story

​@@Blackhaze3000 Why on earth should it be censored? For women who dates men, man who is dating men is more relatable than your average straight guy, when it comes to some life perspectives. The friendship is more likely to be genuine too. Like how lesbians and biwomen can relate about things concerning dating women when talking to straight guy friends.

I turned 30 in March ,93’ babies 🩷

Yup. I’m at peace keeping that nonsense out of my life. Not worth my time.

I’m 28. I ignore them too. I just travel solo. I love life 💕

Is it you ignoring men … or men starting to ignore you 🤔

@@Krwler Can you yell “pick me” a little louder, I don’t think the deaf clowns could hear you from your one bitch circus act 🤡

Thank you 🙌🏾

Facts ! My mom got married at 28, had me at 32

No its not, stop the cap.

@@maatonne lol yeah ok 😂

@@catieq5270Yea, peak in what?

You should be made to wash your mouth with soap. No, men do not go after 14 year olds - that is a child. Did your father go after 14 year olds when he was young? No, let me guess you were raised by a single mother, you therefore have no clue. The reason why men go after 18 year olds (you are an adult at 18 - 3 years after puberty) is because 21 year olds are already run through, with double digit body counts. You cannot turn a 304 into a wife.

There is a saying:" It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt". I think you exemplify that. No, normal men are not pedos and do not chase after children. Men value fertility and women peak around 21. The reason why some men will go younger 18-19, is because, in our "modern" society a 21-year old woman has on average seen more pee-pee than my doctor (he is 70). Ugh :(

Sorry you feel that way but your feelings are as valid as guys feeling regarding younger women.

it's not predatory behavior. Youre just delusional

Lol women dig money and status which older men have compared to younger ones . This pairing will never fail keep crying.

Thank you for saying this. I’m turning 30 this year and have been having an existential crisis. This gives me something to look forward to.

30s is a great decade! 35 currently and feel the most stable, and most sure of myself, than I ever have before. I was all over the place in my 20s, especially early to mid, but during my 30s I’m super happy :)

Im 20 and also struggling so to here this gives me so much hope

Ladies, do NOT let any of these stupid ass TikTok’s or videos make you think 30s is the end of the world, I promise you this is the most fun I’m having plus, you look better as you age! 🥰💅🏻👑

@@havefaithincards6283 can you explain how you were all over the place?

I had fun in my early 20's, but I was always in classes or on the go in my 20's and getting money from my mom. 30's are actually the decade where I started to see the fruits of my labor.

I agree. I’m thriving at 35 and finally loving myself. F others opinion of me

Let me guess and single and lonely.

@@GoodVideos-ry5ie what gave you the impression that I'm single in my comment? Also, just because a woman is single doesn't mean they're lonely. You seem very immature and have alot to learn about life.

@@saramatthews7159 and perhaps argumentative, opinionated, combative, emotionally unavailable and masculine? Sounds like every woman your age, who is single.

I’m 32 and my girlfriend is 21 and very beautiful. Sorry, old woman.

@@RodyHack_ you are an exception you dumba**

@@RodyHack_ Hopefully she's smart enough not to get pregnant by you predator.

@@RodyHack_ Hopefully she's not dumb enough to get pregnant by you predo.

How women cope is to deny reality. Look at Leonardo DiCaprio. 19 year old women will sign up to be his temporary girl. Women will always want successful men at every age.

I'm glad I stopped listening to these RP men a while ago. They were the definition of real "Toxic masculinity". It was cancer to my brain throughout my late 20s until my first few months into being 30. I was brainwashed and warped. Not letting that happen again.

Your parents guve you good values

Finally a sane man😭😭

Unless you use that privilege to be a raging ass hole. 😂

This comment is so me!! 😂 you told no lies ❤

@@mulesalumina7220 society could never make us feel that desperate for a man lmao 🤣 I’m glad you agree!

All of this‼️ I’m 29 and men swear I just graduated high school. I stopped talking to a older guy because he kept saying I was 22, even though I told him several times I was 28(at the time) . He desperately wanted me to be younger to soothe his ego, even though he’s twice my age.

​@@lalat5899Naaaaaahhh this man is delusional

So men who date younger are predators? My sister once dated someone 12 years younger than her.

Modern women don't derserve any attention by men at all today thanks to feminism, emancipation and the internet with dating apps, onlyfans, insta and TikTok. For a man it's easy to live by himself without stress and having to fulfill a thousand of expectations of a modern woman

😶 it's obvious. i feel like a lot of women here are missing that point.

I didn't know finding someone unattractive means you hate them, by your logic its women who hate most men.

@@maatonne not really considering that womens looks are constantly picked apart, i mean look at the early 2000s women were always being dragged for filth for their apperance. Not to mention they way that society sees womens value is soley based of their looks and not their achievements. At least with men, theyre allowed to have other things to make up fo their lack of atttractiveness.

@@maatonne Y'all are raised to be misogynistic, get it roomie.

Why are men always (insert derogatory term) for having a preference while women's preferences are celebrated?

Beginning of the wall, your peak to date men is gone . Go try women 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@maatonne typical gynocenterism when you give women the right to talk

My mom is 68, and still gets male attention despite being married and older, so these dudes saying men don’t want women in their 40’s+ are on some bull.

@@thiccredgyal3404 The 30s can be great. I'm 33 and gained muscles and curves in my 30s. Although I was smaller/thinner in my 20s I wasn't as strong, healthy or as happy. It's funny how the 20s are so glorified and yet they're some of the most difficult times in people's lives and not always the most enjoyable. I'm glad these younger women are discerning enough to see right through these types of men and saving themselves a lot of trouble.

@@tiahnarodriguez3809most men will sleep with anyone. The idea is that younger woman are more desirable for long term relationships if u want children.

Let me guess, the only attention you are getting is from men who want sex or short term stuff. There are no quality men looking for longterm relationships with women your age. That is pure bs.

Most if not all the attention you are getting is short term sexual attention NOT marriage attention. Even sexual attention is going to come to screeching halt one day and much sooner than you think. Buckle up.

Imagine that even 20+ year old women are being ignored...

@@missstranger7697i got too old by a 50 yr old man at 22.

@@IPx3_Broken Sadly these are girls not women, because they are underage. But due to problems they have from homes, they easily get prayed by older men.

That’s cuz they r

As if older women don’t approach young boys saying “your gonna be a little heart breaker” or something along the lines of “wait until your 18 im gonna come back for you”

Honestly. Its easy to weed out the weirdos bc they love sharing red-pill content.

Exactly! I know of so many of those men irl . THEY are the very “chad” and “Tyrone” that they complain about. Ran through 15 to twenty young girls, turned them into baby mamas, bust them upside the head due to control issues and then left them high and dry playing all types of games to not pay for their children. THEN move on to the next victim.

Yeah I swear during 2000s/2010s I thought it was normal you marry at like 27/28 or be engaged/serious relationship expecting that. Now it looks like people feel pressured to be settled down by 25 and depending on the area you're from I know people from high school who got married and had children at 19

@@jessienerdis4179 exactly! When I was on my 20’s during the 2010s, no one in my group was talking about this pressure. It was understood that your 20s were for you to enjoy, find your path and travel. I feel for those ladies with this fear of turning 30, this is some red pill poison.

In the 2010s I always told myself I would have children between 30-35 Now in the 2020s I feel pressured to have them at 25-30 idk why (I'm 19 so I have time lol)

@@nikemaraje5 I’m 28 and none of my friends have kids. We are all in long term relationships/married and traveling. Don’t feel pressured! Enjoy your life. I’m married and plan to have kids around 30/31. In the meantime, I’m planning a trip to Norway, Sweden, and the Yucatán just this year. Japan for my birthday next year. Remember social media is just that. Don’t let it guide your life or expectations of yourself 😅

@@jessienerdis4179I thought it was normal to marry by 27/28 when I was younger, but I’ve met so many older people from a generation where marrying 18-25 was normal, and they all said they wished they’d waited because in retrospect they were too young, so imo this just goes to show how societal standards don’t always match up with how people truly feel or think.

So dumb and it’s literally an age like how dare you continue a normal human process!

I bet he’s the same guy crying about women on dating apps

They seriously need to read a Developmental Psychology book and learn what is truly old.

@@missandry2669 They be the EXACT same group of men. 😂 Lol

it’s bonkers how men will go out of their way to shame a women for being over the age of 25

I wish i could have a droplet of men's audacity

I'll be 39 in August and honestly this is the best I've ever felt in my life. I've been tuning out everybody's foolishness as well lol. I just enjoy my peace.

As I get older, I also start realizing most men aren't even worth getting upset over because they "don't want you." With all these weird men out here, getting ignored by a majority of them and being able to go about my day is nice.

And this is what they don't want to happen . They want women to keep on that hamster wheel of seeking their approval for your whole life.

Exactly It’s a privilege to even have good health these days A lot of ppl I went to school with have passsed away

Very sexist to box men as such. No wonder men prefer younger women. Less judgemental.

Same, I’m in my 20’s I’m not attracted to my elders 😂😂 they need to move along

U ever considered that life may be rough for most men in their teens and 20s? While u were in ur prime he was going thru it. Yall were lied to

@@sdothoward2743 Men have no problems in life, seethe and cope with your retracting hair line. Nobody cares how much you "suffer".

For starters..men and women are different therefore look for different things..and are treated differently..they also approach life/dating differently And women like older men...😐

@@sdothoward2743 you’re delusional if you think women aren’t going through it in their 20’s too, not everyone is a sugar baby getting free trips and on OF lol we work, we go to school and we build our futures the same as any man and the world is much more unsafe for women then it is for men, we face the most abuse and even more discrimination in the workforce especially if we’re women of colour or pregnant while working and then on top of the daily challenges of life we have deluded men like yourself gaslighting us and implying that our problems don’t exist

Let me guess, you are still single?

Men like what what we like. Date women

all women say they look better when they're older too, it's a form of defense mechanism

Same! I had a major glow up once I hit 30 because I started to lose a LOT of weight. From my early teens to all of my 20s, I was always shifting between thick to slightly overweight. I never saw myself wearing a bodycon dress or anything form fitting in my 20s, but now I rock them 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.

nah it s cuz they are ​@@Victhemighty

@@roxyglow9670 whatever helps you feel better about your rapidly declining value

I'm very happy for you that you are living life and taking care of yourself ❤ I'm only 20 and want nothing to do with men like yeah sure "there are good men out there" but i still want nothing to do with relationships, marriage nor kids. Even sex I don't desire having it any time soon ..I'd rather please myself plus, I'm planning to get my tubes burnt, cut because I never want kids plus throughout history up till now, men have not evolved ever like I'd rather get my bag up focusing on my mind body and health .

I laugh when they think it's a threat to tell women they won't end up with a man. How is that a threat?

@@lorrilewis2178 I have yet to have a man answer that question

@@ladybug3380 They can't conceive of a woman being happy on her own!

@@lorrilewis2178 Exactly! Studies continue to show women more than men are actually happier single. The wrong man will bring nothing but strife.

Exactly.

Go head girl!

Facts

I’ve tried to explain this to men who try to scare young women by claiming we’ll die alone. I’d rather die alone than stress myself looking after a grown child.

I'm 25 and been married to and older man since i was 18 and now suddenly have started to see clearly...I wasted all those years with him it makes me so sad and mad at myself

For real!!!!😂

Like they’re literally so dumb. They don’t realize how it actually looks and sound. You look and kind of sound like a creep my boy.😂

men still gonna be like this regardless of your shaming language

Women like older men...

I don’t

So women that's 38 have more of a sexual value then women 21??????

Jesus, you are obsessed. @@yessir8805

Not a chance in hell..

The lies women tell themselves to cope is beyond sad. Men will choose younger their whole lives if given the choice.

@@verbadum2298 Men aren’t “choosing” anything now that women as a whole have realized that most men aren’t attractive. Why do you think most women have bisexual/gay tendencies? Women are attractive. Men are not.

Ironic because if you are going to have your own standards regarding dating tall men or whatever preference you have, then don't hate about men's preference for younger women. (which is this whole video).

As a 6ft guy, we don't. We want a young virgin, not some old used up hag.

Mixed with ped0philia. But people aren’t ready for that conversation. 🌚

@@LoneWulf278 thank youuu!!!

Forties are still young in the game of life! It's mind blowing to how people don't look at the full picture lol. If you've "aged out" of your prime by 27 or whatever, there could be 60 plus years of life left! How absolutely ridiculous a mindset!

Women need to pushback heavily against it with strength. Not crying and being sad and defeated because they believe the bull crap. They need to start supporting each other. But sadly many older women seem to be obsessed with all kinds of weird things (including their teenage and adult sons) instead of being carefree, confident and wise in their presentation to the world. It is really sad. I hope this changes in the future.

@@hawkrose2698 I completely agree.

I’m 23, 24 in July and this year I started to get my womanly weight

Girls are pretty but women are beautiful!

@@elenam3798 I know right?! It's like there she is!

Very true i would never trade my current age 25 right now for anything as being 21. I'm feeling a whole other level of beauty, confidence and inner peace with myself. Infact I'm even looking forward to being thirty. When i tell people they think its weird but i don't pay attention to it because of the wisdom and maturity that comes with age.

I’m 23, prior to this year I was depressed, not taking care of myself and looked my worse from ages 17 to 22. I’m looking forward to 25 as I finally care about myself, I think I’ll probably avoid dating. It looks chaotic.

They don’t really get past that playground, antagonistic energy and it’s quite weird.

It goes both ways. If you are one sided you think with bias. Ive seen women bully men for other things. Ive seen men bully women for other things. We are all humans. We are not that different as you think

@@amukbir8777I agree with you! I’ve experienced both really amazing and also cruel behaviour from both genders. I will never hate on any whole gender for that reason. These gender wars are full of hurt bitter people. However, I’ve also learned a lot about human behaviour from all of it. It has opened my eyes to a lot and I will say I’ve learned the MOST from the men’s side

So are you older single mother with multiple baby daddies that was promiscuous in her past with the bad boys?

Bingo 💯👏🏾

Thank you so much for reminding us of that! I hate how easily I keep forgetting that truth.

Yesss these weirdos can’t hold a conversation with women their age for shit and want naive impressionable women that don’t know who they are yet if they step outside into the real world adults of all ages are dating,marrying,fucking etc

Facts. The guys at my college don’t act like these corny dudes. I’m sure some of them have certain thoughts, but even if they do it’s not on the scale like these dudes on the internet, and they’re pretty good about realizing when their thoughts are wrong. I was talking to one dude, and he told me when he realized that his mom was a person, and that he had a duty to help with house work because he also lives in the house. I thought that’s was amazing.

@@Friendlytaurus nope , not really , there are different types of couples with a large gap couple such as my parents

I'm 38 I don't take into consideration a woman's age, as long as the attraction is mutual.

​@@Sagefrakrobatik you have to date mature women in her 30s

@@user-io3ru9tc1d do you realize how difficult it is to find meet and approach women in general, let alone women of a specific age group?

​@@Sagefrakrobatik as long as the woman is older than 25 I think it's ok

@@nikemaraje5 if two consenting adults are able to make it work I don't see the issue. I saw a guy 49 comment about dating a 24. I'd hate to miss an opportunity to date a beautiful woman simply because of her age.

Yah, but those young hotties usually do end up broke and broken ,and it's fun to see

@@seventhcompactor1505Chronically online Redditor, balding, depressed man take

@@ambo9569 You can list the worst man you can imagine - even he'll want a woman in her 20s.

​@@seventhcompactor1505 so what does his preference have to do with older women??? Like women have their own lives to livw and are not living for you??

Yeah thats me. I was bullied for being a nerd programmer and all of that,including women making fun of me being a virgin in late high school. But i dont spread hate. It just happens that I like younger women and my girlfriend is 6 years younger than me (21) im 27. Ive grown out of any resentment but I now realise that I get better with age and that gives me a lot of confidence,but its not the "discourse of it",its what the actions of the women show. And I am getting more attention as I am older,obviously going from zero to lets say being able to have 10 matches a week doesnt seem much for women,but for a man this is literally heaven. Maybe the fact that I have worked out at the gym for years and got a high paying job and a stable place and went from shy nerd to confident and social man has helped with attracting women. What I dont understand is the bitterness against guys who date younger women? Like i get that you hate men who hate women and throw toxic comments like some of the tiktoks shown in these videos but the bitterness that I sense from y'all i feel like you have problems with the other gender just like the incels do. Like why telling me that I am a predatory guy that wants to manipulate her? What is that mental gymnastics? Its like I happened to find her attractive at a cafe shop and shoot my shot and thats how It happened. You guys might be 30,but you sure need to grow up out of your bitterness.

Your actions do not align with your nonsense. If a 30s woman was so great you could of gotten one but chose 25 young and fertile woman instead.

@@verbadum2298 Respectfully, I didn’t go out of my way to find a 25 year old for a partner. I met her through my friends and peers where we are all around the same age. You completely missed my point. I can date someone my own age and still uplift older women

@@itsble I'm saying you would never choose someone who was 35 over what you got because you had options. These old broads need to understand that they can only get guys with no better options which won't be all that great which is advice to pick your fate when you're young and desirable. The misinformation leaves a lot of women resentful that they bought the baloney while they were young and are now regretful they bought the lies. Telling women they'll have at 40 what they had at 20 is harmful lies

Exactly 🙌🏾

That's absolutely beautiful! God Bless you and your family 🙏🏻💕

So lucky 💖

But your husband most likely shares the same belief as all these men. Im starting to think I dont wanna lose my virginity at all to any man.

@@Beaneabean don't care didn't ask. You do NOT know this woman, and you do NOT know her husband! People who are willing to lump every. Single. Person. Together because of gender, race or religion, is actually the worst one out here. Not all men are the same. As not all women are the same. Not only is it bigoted, but it's juvenile and ignorant. When a fellow sister shares her testimony of a wonderful, blessed life, don't spit on it! Celebrate with her and be happy for her. That is true feminine celebration 💕

Until he dumps you in a year, because he can find a hot 24 year old

@@seventhcompactor1505 gosh who hurt you?

@@rhurhu2510his high school crush probably liked someone else and now he spends the rest of eternity blaming women for his failures

Such a wonderful message, I thank you for taking the time to type this up and may you have a lovely day!

Lol keep on dreaming. A smart, decent or successful man easily finds a girl under 26 and that's what he is attracted way more than a nerving woman +30 with a high bc

it took you that long to get a epiphany? age has nothing to do with that.you was just stuck up and ignorant at your own will.

Yessssss. I've been with my husband since I was 17 and now at 36, I realized how much he's been manipulating me and always gas lighting. So I have been putting my foot down like never before.

@@junieboom602 Tell me one of these gaslighting examples.

But when you talk about bald men short men broke poor men ugly men or single dads like that it’s a issue

But if you talk about single dads bald men ugly or poor men it’s a issue 😂

​@@missandry2669 all of this tho 💯 .

​@@missandry2669 no, that would ALSO be rude and nasty and shallow. You see, it doesn't MATTER what hangs (or doesn't) between your legs. The fact is, A$$holes come in all shapes, sizes, cultures, creeds, and genders. Shallow worthless nasty vile rude pieces of human garbage exist within BOTH genders! And ALL are wasting an equal amount of our precious oxygen! So, no worries, there is no double standard. Just a double dose of morons and a$$holes from both sides. Peace.

They hate women i will never understand this hate against women. The fact they born with benefits like being physically stronger but still feel insecure to control women it’s insane..

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Black women who take care of themselves typically age well

Go off, Queen!

😂😂😂 I notice that also. I hardly ever see attractive men talking about foolishness online or in real life.

lol 🤣

Warn your friends in case he weasels into their dms

More ‘fresh’ aka easier to fool, control, manipulate, dominate and overpower

@@alkahinat4558that’s what it boils down to with these “alpha male” types, I was disgusted with the one who said guys like me should go with 18 year olds in particular and I’m pretty sure some of them would go younger if they could.

If any older man said that about me (20’s), I’ld be incredibly disgusted too. Yuck. No wonder so many women prefer remaining single now. These creeps will keep on creeping.

your cousin sounds like a creepy handsy uncle 🥶

You either gay or pandering bruh. Most me that's successful if they not married, they going date younger. Universal biology.

@@provobeats8105 I settled? I’ve been with my bf since I was 15. Try again sir 😂

@@teejthebrownbratt1725 You settled. You married a poor guy

​@@teejthebrownbratt1725ok, men don't want to miss out on all your youthful years. You gave that to your boyfriend. You didnt meet him at 30...

I'm 45, 5' tall, with big eyes and a round face. No one believes me when I tell them my age. They even change my birth year on the register when I buy booze and give me a, "B*tch, please" type of look, hahaha. These podcast bros are nothing but liars and scared, insecure creatures.

Delusional

@@LeeEverett1Says the guy commenting on a woman’s platform because he’s so miserable and has nothing better to do.

@@tiahnarodriguez3809Can’t that be said about you though? Is commenting on RU-vid videos ever an indicator that someone makes good use of their time?

I am with you on this . Every age has its own charm and positives ,not just the 20s. Every person is different not everyone peaks in their teens or in their second decade in their life .

Lmaoo it is very much a humbling tactic to accept the less-than that some men bring to the table. My ex literally told me that I am getting older & no one would want me so I better just make it work with him. Sir no, single is a choice too 😂

@Classy Coder - Nicole B. Yes! I'm so glad you were able to leave his ass behind. It is better to be single and thriving than with someone and miserable.

That’s a good thing

LMAO its called biology, read a book or something.

Lol women don't control marriage, it's not your choice

Soon being called a boomer and have to admit your privilege.

yeah 20s-30s are both really early in life too. just being able to continue being alive in the present is a privilege

I can relate girl! It’s hard out here especially if you are conservative:( Nobody courts anymore!

@@DeematheFashionDesigner no they don’t. I am going to a singles event 2mz in the hopes to meet more like minded people

@@Smita-Says I wish! I need to start doing that! I hope you find him🙏

@@DeematheFashionDesigner hope you do too ❤️❤️

Exactly!

They want a child. I would be disgusted more than anything

They want girls

As 28 yr old man its shocking how women look at men who make under 6 figures, i dont makes 6 figures but i take care of my household and family. When i worked hard my entire 20s im not gone settle when i get in postion and pick the youngest least baggage woman. Woman say they dont want to be told what to do not her daddy but want men to take care of them like their daddy. But i get it. Women rarely care about men struggle soo im glad men starting not to care about yours, buy a dog die alone!!

@@johnbrown7192 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 u sound lonely

@@amongus9270 that's fine, sleep great knowing old bitches being discarded because they got ran through in their 20s or wouldn't touch a guy who made 60k with a stick, you sound like another dumbass single baby momma bahaha 🤣🤣 Warms my heart

O.k. " Unc ". Thank you for the life advice. I hope your my driver if I come to your city😊

Some of us get better with age.

You can "feel" hotter but are you tho?

@@minamuse. When it come's to attractiveness your own opinion matters the least.

Yessss!!! And as a woman’s sexual peak is in her 30s she is more confident sexually. I wanted marriage and kids in my 20s most dudes older and my age did not want that. Now I’ve been into hooking up and exploring my sexuality and all these dudes even younger ones they all want relationships smh 😂😂😂

Dude, yes. This was my experience as well. All through my late teens and early 20s when I'd go back and forth with dating sites/apps, so many guys my age would say " no long term relationships, IDK what I want, just looking..." ect. I was so defeated trying to find a guy that I straight up didn't go on dates from 22 until 27. Now that I'm in my 30's I get a lot of attention and it confuses me.

Spot on

Keep coping White♀️, your demographic is not known for aging well.

Better, kinder, genuine more mature/competent? How do you distinguish someone who is a narcissist like andrew Tate to the contrary?

sorry but these kinder men don't actually want a used up garbage like you, because you couldn't get them when you were young you hate them, so now you want these 'kind' men to settle for less with you.

OMG...for real. The quality of man I attract now in my 40's is sooooo much better than in my 20's!

It's very hard to distinguish - especially in the beginning when you don't know someone very well. From what I have observed, the wisdom that comes with age helps one to better distinguish the difference between the predatory psychopaths, and the good, genuine and confident men. Also, it seems that less narcissistic/psychopathic types approach more mature women because they may be harder to fool/take advantage of than a much more naive girl in her early twenties, or fresh out of high school. Everyone is a much easier target when they are young.@@Unknown-pc4yy

They pander to incels chronically online

LOL reminds me of one who got clowned, Donovan Sharpe (BLK guy). Talked all that mess about dating younger women and avoiding older women... come to find out he's married to some woman who's clearly his age (she's whyte) and doesn't look like much. And I think she's a single mom (although I'm not sure--but I know something about children was brought up). These dudes lie for real lol.

Yup!

Yeah 20 year olds aren't attracted to these rats

Only low value men do date 30 yr olds

"30 is still a child actually" Are you stupid? Your fertility literally tanks in your 30s and most of your eggs are gone by 35.

30s isn't a child , you must be soo protected out from the real world to think that , you pretty much have had no character development in your 20s . Also don't bring god into this , like women don't act nasty

@@elitecoder955 God is the center of life and the anchor to our understanding. You better get into the Bible, your battle is not with me.

@@elitecoder955 She's saying that 30 is still very young relative to people in their 60's and beyond.

@@Torfordor don't be overdramatic woman , twisting words . 30 ain't young and neither is 18 or 20

Look at all the women commenting. They are not happy. They say everything like an affirmation statement. Look at a 22 year old woman with a strong masculine man and a couple toddlers in a park. Everyone will see an enviable happy family. Not a blended family with a bunch of half siblings and step parents. Women are destroying the family.

Everything you said is fine, but you should worry about your weight for health reasons and not men because plenty of men still want overweight women.

THIS IS A FACT! Men can & do dictate what other women use as pressure on themselves. Society is literally made up of.. people. I’m 23 and I’ve never been boy crazy but as I turned 20 and people started to over sexualized me I started to avoid men. And the moment I had a partner and intercourse at 20 it has been non stop rubbish. So i deleted Instagram cause I would rather die than let a balding 32 year old man tell me im not value able cause im 30!?! Tf

😅😂😅

@@joeydoherty368True. The best advice for a women is really to just live for yourself, within the constraints of not harming others.

Men were your center? GIRL!!!

Yep.

That’s why they’re so violent and angry towards us

Also we look better than them 😅 even into our 40s.

Yes. More women really need to know that men are capable of, and often times are, deeply envious of women. Some of it is at the biological level and some of it is because they perceive women to have "easier" lives due to the very narrow range that patriarchal masculinity allows them to exist in without having their masculinity (identity) questioned and then dismissed.

@@highjohnroot This is becoming increasingly clear to me lately.

I'm currently 29 (going 30 on december). At first I was afraid but seeing comments like this makes me relieved! 😊

How can you guarantee that, with your feelings?

@@maatonne My dad is autistic so he would've hated a lot of the trips mom went on before, and mom is the sort of person who would've felt bad going without him. Mom moved halfway across the country, away from her friends, to be with dad so she wouldn't have seen them nearly as much if she'd moved earlier. Also raising two very autistic kids is practically a full time job lol, she could barely go out for even a day when me and my brother were younger, let alone the trips she went on before.

@@Moo-2310 Is traveling the only cool experiences someone can have?

@@maatonne nope, but they're most of the ones my mom has had and tbh her life has been pretty tame since she had me and my brother.

@@Moo-2310 Maybe she could've other ones later on in life after you guys grow up if she had you guys younger.

The age of expiration sinks every year. In a few years men will thin women expire at 18. Mark my words.

@@KamuSaladi absolutely. Thank you for fixing it

@@pastelqueenwudel it's ridiculous. They've started targeting young girls.

​@@pastelqueenwudel They keep moving the goalpost. First it was 25, then it was 30, now I heard that it's 40.

Before the 70s, more mature women were considered beautiful

I'm sorry for your loss 🩵🙏🏾😞

Agreed! ♥

Honestly as a 30 something I get a strange sense of satisfaction that my very existence upsets idiot manbabies so much

Why is it whenever a man has a preference it’s toxic/insecure I think y’all want a traditional man but don’t want to be a traditional women

@@Jb64271 Preferences are fine. Being nasty towards a whole group of people because they aren't your preference, is what isn't cool.

@@sarahmiriam3950 women are sensitive of their age on avg so any preference a guy has on age girls are always offended by but y’all need to realize it’s not necessarily about age it’s about how much more likely bad qualities have time to form it’s not a age shame it’s a choice shame

​@@Jb64271I don't want a traditional man. I want someone who treats me as an equal.

Facts.

I just turned 40. I never went through the 30 crisis either. It must be a new phenomenon. And I feel so sad for younger women to go through this so early. I haven’t even hit the 40 crisis. Not only bc I still turn men down, but bc majority of this stuff online is just false.

I’m 40 and didn’t go through this either. Been with my partner since 27 and we have seen and done so much and are both the same age and aging happily together. The thirties is awesome!

You look 50

My university friends and I all turned 37 in 2019 and we randomly decided to go all out and celebrate tf out of ourselves for each birthday. We just decided to go over the top and travel to fancy destinations to hang out. It was amazing. Then Covid hit and we nearly lost one friend to it, she won’t ever be the same. And no one was travelling or even leaving their house so nearly 3 years went by before we could all get together again. Looking back, I’m so happy we had spent that time with each other and made memories in 2019 when we could. Ladies, life is short. Don’t waste time on your birthday thinking about what you don’t have or someone else thinks you should have done. Know that each year you have grown wiser and probably more beautiful (because beauty is confidence) and no matter what your age, you deserve love. Be proud of the hurdles you have overcome and make sure you celebrate with the people who have supported you along the way.

I, too, spent a good chunk of my 20s dealing with serious health issues. Dont beat yourself up over lost time, by the way, its a trap. Gotta look at what you learned in those years and see how that can benefit you aswell. Not a waste, many important lessons learned, just not what you originally thought you'd be prioritizing in your 20s.

@@rachaelbrugmans4309 Yes! And we deal with it now, everyone else seems to get hit in their 40s & 50s.

@@RachelJayne92 EXACTLY!

Beautiful! I hope I find mine soon! 🙏🙏

Any man from the age of 18 till the day they die will find women in their 20s the most sexually attractive. Yes 60, 70, and even 80 year old men will still look at 25 year olds, they just don't act on it because they know they're too old. It's not that difficult.

Any man find women more attractive that's 60 then 18-30 is weird.

​@@LeeEverett1 That's true.. That cannot be denied. It's natural for men to get sexually attractive to a young woman 👠

@@LeeEverett1creepy