*Don't engage in marriage guys both men n women unless you are either stable financially and you can handle break up without complaining, only small percentage of marriage works these days* if you can't afford any of the above just don't get into it. Here in court there is alot of cases on childrens from divorce or relationships. These kids suffer alot. Please guys remember, *Kid's shoulders were not meant to carry the burden of their Parent's choices* have mercy on kids . Just stay single as long as you can. *Remember mine is just an advice, you have a choice to do what you want with your life and you are free to disagree*
Marrying later has no guarantee for longevity in marriages. Marriages aren't built on love and fantasy. People have become selfish and fixated on unimportant stuff. Marriage is a logical cooperation. It should work when both have this mentality. Divorcing because the spark is gone or love has faded is the most idiotic reason to break up homes
Interesting research was done that shows that most ppl who remained married for many years started of very happy & remained that way. And those who divorced were miserable before they married. So find you happiness before you get married then you will be married forever according to this research.
Submission is a choice, values, wisdom and a character. It is not subjective. Choose people you can submit to. Most women today aren't brought up to be wives, are combative, unfit and have too much masculine energy. Submission is femininity
Many in my congregation have been married over 30 years and they are truly happy simply because they are in a threefold code with Jehovah, God. ECCLESIASTES 4:12. Remember happy does not mean not having problems, but handling them with correct guidance from the founder of marriage.
Happiness is inbuilt. Marriage us not about happiness but cooperation, support and building the home. But the Hollywood fantasy is misleading folks out here
In the sexual market value; a woman past 25 is set in her ways, hence can't submit. She has more mileage, maybe has a kid too and is less attractive than her 25 year self. Past 30 realistically is danger zone. Logically what Zulu says makes sense but in reality the game is skewed
Patriarchy. What about men? A man will most probably have an extremely high body count and several different baby mamas but we are not ready to have that conversation
@@ShadowsingerAzi @It's Wambui M Patriarchy doesn't apply that way. Life isn't fair. You are judged on your sexuality, body count, looks, weight and age. Men on money, power, confidence. Patriarchy is a mythical bs. That's the reality of life. How would you rather things were? Judging men and women on the same parameters?
