Dad can help out. If he doesn’t, this will be a very short relationship. It happened with my son‘s father. He did whatever he wanted to, whenever he wanted to.
Not as scary as putting your newborn on your lap in what we called a “pumpkin seat” when leaving the hospital (in the front passenger seat,I might add)as the nurses wave goodbye as you are pulling out with your husband & new family all in the front seat smoking cigarettes…. lol …ok I’m going a little overboard with the cigarette smoking,but I’m sure some people did that too(I wasent a smoker)this was 45 years ago a few years before car seats were even hardly used …In fact I’m not sure if they even sold car seats yet,it just wasent the norm back in those days.I had 2 more children a few years later and the laws changed it seemed overnight.Which was a very good thing I’ll add.So my other 2 babys were safely buckled up in the car seats. But I was just really making a comment about what was a lot more scary than a cup of coffee js
We used to put water on sanitary napkins and freeze them for the painful "under carriage"..it was soooo nice to sit on a cold pad! Kept the swelling down too. Such a cute munchkin!
Going out in those thin pjs is forbidden in my culture new momy needs to be warm having a massage a herbal tea soup and a lot of rest 😅😅😅 at least that's what my grandma and mom are making me do.
Right? Surely the dad could take his eyes off the TV for 5 minutes to hold the baby while she was getting herself some breakfast. God forbid he fixes something for her LOL
Second time mom here. Everything is trial and error but the babies life is not. Do not put the baby in the carrier before it is on ur body. Idc if you both are right there. NO. 😊
Girl ! You are doing so great ! Had my double rainbow a few months ago so i have felt your journey ! And totally felt how you sat down ! Enjoy that coffee! ❤
People think newborns are hard…enjoy this cuddly, calm stage because once they are mobile and walking you will never sit down again until they are pre-teens or be able to just lay down with your baby! Plus, it will be very loud and a “loving chaotic” environment once they are mobile! 😉 Enjoy! Congratulations!
I find this kind of comments really unnecessary. I have 7 months old myself and i find newborn stage really hard, the stress of being first time parents and having such responsibility on your shoulders when you're in unbelievable pain is just so hard. And when i was there in that moment and i used to see this kind of comment i was like will i even be able to do it, if it's only getting harder? Now my baby boy is crawling, he's all around the place, standing up by furnitures and yeah i have to watch him every second and never sit down but god knows it's the most joyful and beautiful time. His little laughs and smiles are filling my days with happiness. Don't listen to it moms, every single stage is different, has it's difficulties but it's all beautiful.
@@Adrianna-99 agreed. Actually videos like this make me envious because I didn’t have moments like this with my son when he was a newborn. He had colic and it felt like he never stopped crying no matter what we did.
@xoGeorgiaxo1 Newborn stage is rough. Just imagine, that little human is in literal trauma after birth, breastfeeding struggle, their little tummies are constantly sore cause their boddies only learn how to digest, they just still want to be with mommy all the time cause they don't know they're separate human being, and than postpartum hits, you can't even seat or walk, youre exhausted but you're scared to sleep counting every breath od your little one. And all of the sudden your house doesn't look like on instagram, it's messy and you're eating breakfast at 6 pm and you wonder if you're doing something wrong. Newborn stage is hard, yet it's so beautiful, but it pass quickly, don't put pressure on yourself mommies, just enjoy your baby and make memories. I think it's getting easier when the baby adapts to the world and starts exploring, smiling, and laughing.
I’ve got 4 kids and the newborn/first 4 months stage was the most challenging for me (especially when they hit that 4 month regression) And I say that with small age gaps. I’ve got 4 kids aged 6 and under (16 months between #1 and #2, and then 2y2m between #2 and #3, and then almost exactly 2y between #3 and #4.
You’re making a big assumption off a 30sec video. She doesn’t seem to be complaining so complaining about him for her is unnecessary. You got one clip of their life don’t put him down because in that short clip you felt he didn’t do enough.
If you have a bassinet or a pack and play, put it in the living room and put the baby down. You need some time to drink your coffee, go take a shower or do whatever you need to do for you. It's good for the baby to get used to not being held all the time and it gives momma and daddy a little break. Your baby is absolutely precious 💕
@@Ande.Crys1 When I had my oldest son 22 years ago I did not want to put him down at all. I also learned that I couldn't carry him around all day. I needed time to rest and do whatever I needed to do for myself. New mommy is doing a beautiful job with her sweet baby. I wish her and daddy all the pure joy in the world.
Anita, I couldn't agree with you more. I hope she sees your remarks. Bless. When I had an episiotomy 40 years ago, I was kept in hospital. But nurses allowed me to hold and cuddle my son whenever. Then wise middle aged nurse said rest every few hours with 2 pillows at A angle and another across the top horizontally for head. It was the most restful position. Nowadays V shaped pillows can be bought. And I had to put baby down for a good hour. In fact, he was left to kick quite contentedly. So I carried on resting at intervals until fully healed and no longer anaemic. You can always maintain a grip on little hand if becomes unsettled. First time mums are terribly anxious people. 😂😂😂😂
Lol people on here commenting about her spilling coffee on her baby. Like she’s an adult woman, why would she spill her coffee? She’s not a toddler. And she can do whatever the heck she wants to do. If you’re a mom I’m shocked you’d shame…
I used to just walk around with my shirt up and the baby attached to my breast. All day. I would do my chores and the baby would just be attached! Every mom does it differently and that’s great! Do what works for you!
Oh my God that coffee could burn that baby very bad why would you even bring a new born close to anything hot . Walking around with a new baby is dangerous enough…. Yikes that made feel weird af
Y’all are killing me with comments about the coffee. Calm down. Do you also expect her to eat all her food cold just in case. Plenty of mommas don’t want to put their new babies down and eat and drink all around them. It’s just called being careful. My goodness.
Omg you look so good!! I hope I look almost as good as you do after birth! Baby is so perfect 👼😍🤗 I love how comfortable you are breast feeding 🙏god bless
stop drinking coffee. you are breast feeding the child, do you want him hooked on caffeeine? also how will that affect his brain development? Just get on the baby's sleep schedule.
Pls mamas don’t drink coffee while you’re still breastfeeding, one of the reasons children will grow having ADHD, breastfeeding era is similar to pregnancy era when it comes to the food and drinks we put inside our body
Very beautiful ❤❤❤❤ congratulations. Not trying to be a hater but short story… my uncle when he was a little older then that was being g cracked when my grama stepped on a small toy and the hot coffee spilt all down his chest …. Just a thought
