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Really beautiful story! I’m really happy for both of you! ❤😊💙💗✉️💗💙

Don’t see the appeal to being a guy, but if it works for you I won’t mind May your relationship be eternal and happiness forever (Note: I’m trans fem)

@@freddiefishton It's not about appeal. People are who they are. They can't change that.

Aww! That's so sweet! 💜 You found a very good man!

@@freddiefishton While prettypshychoqueens point is true. I can’t help but agree.

​@@trevorchester4439What makes them men?

​@@trevorchester4439psychology and biology would like to have some words with you

​@@trevorchester4439bro, stop existing on these videos please

​@@trevorchester4439hello person who has actively supported pedophilia and genocide

Huh-it's almost like they don't have any actual evidence to support their beliefs, and they're just making up reasons after the fact because they don't want to accept that they're just hating a minority because they feel like it!

I'm pretty sure that sex drive and sexual attraction are separate, right?

Never seen it written as ace/aro. Seems like a bit odd of an order

It does have to do with mental health. I think you meant it's not a mental disorder. Which I agree with.

​@@AIHumanEqualitycorrection, it *can have to do with mental health, such as ptsd (I know this because of a very close friend of mine). However, some people are naturally asexual and/or aromatic and their sexuality/romantic attraction has nothing to do with their mental health.

It's worth still recognizing that it *can* have to do with mental health, but also remembering that being naturally ace/aro is just as possible! In general, it's just important to listen to people when they talk about how they feel.

soulmates frfr

Oh that is sooo cute ❤

That’s adorable.

Eeeee, that's adorable!

I misread crocheted as crouched.

Yes he must be protected at all costs

​@@chrisbfreelanceany evidence of your claim, or do you just want to kill trans people?

I'm sure it'll transport you wherever you need to go.... ...* also sees self out *

so jealous of you having starfield, but nice pun

😂😂😂

(Bah dum tss!)🥁

I freakin’ love queer humour

So this is a tragic video? Darn, I thought this would be happy.

As a gluten intolerant ace, right in the feels 😅

Oh no!!! This cis/ace guy will eat their garlic bread and they can have my piece of cake, LOL!!!

I'm aroace, and I can't have garlic or gluten. Garlic bread is sadly near impossible ):

My aunt has that problem! I feel soo bad for her!

Congratulations on the binder!!! 🎉🎉🎉 If Barnabee needs a friend, you could try crocheting a nonBEEnary 🐝 🖤 🤍 💜 💛

YAY BINDER!! just remember never wear it to sleep :) 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

Congrats with the binder!!!! That's awesome! Just make sure you don't wear past a maximum of 8 hours and that your breathing is okay. Also, make sure it isn't constricting your ribs! And barnabee sounds adorable!

Congrats on getting a binder!! Just remember to follow the safety rules and take binder breaks!! I'd probably list off the binder rules for you, but I won't because I don't really remember them tbh. I don't bind, I use kt tape and trans tape lol

Nice! I got my binder last Christmas! I’m trans FtM

Heck yeah. You’re ace, and that’s a fact. Sending virtual garlic bread :)

🧄🍞

I’ve heard the, “you haven’t met the right person yet” and I’m like sexuality can change, but you have no right to tell me how I feel

​@@rynzlrthesynth5758 Intercepting garlic bread... ... ... ... Interception complete!

​@@DaniElleRF even if you only haven't met the right person yet, it just means you were demi all along 💁

Kit Connor and Joe Locke! I love them, the other actoresses of Heartstopper, Heartstopper, Alice Oseman and the osemanverse! ❤️😊🏳️‍🌈

Really? I make a sploosh

Thats a good one. Lol

@@silver5776I feel like I’m missing out now, I only make a slosh.

I somehow make a "chirp" sound; what're y'all doing that I'm not!?

@@trevorchester4439 mans name is trevor

and... the reason you are homophobic and transphobic is?@@trevorchester4439

@@trevorchester4439 only say that if it’s true because the Trevor project is extremely important

@@trevorchester4439no your not

​@@trevorchester4439you're with the cuck project, not the Trevor project.

I am Aro but not Ace, so I like being able to use a flag that captures me but doesn't intrude on something that doesn't apply! Also all 3 flags are great colour palettes.

there's another one I think I don't remember where I saw It was like the purple of the ace and the green of the Aro at the bottom and top respectively

Yeaaaaah ^^’’

yeah whatever happened to his sponsorship with pride counseling?

​@@dietotakuprobably got messed up by some asshole boss or sth or to lurk lgbts and then fuck them over with their shitty sessions ig

​@@dietotakuPride counselling is owned by better help.

@@arielc8584this

ohhhhh its sex repulsed!! i googled it and youre right :D i didnt even know we had a flag :D

yeah these are all correct, no worries! :)

@@mazzy_ivy mhm! Honestly I don't know how I remembered it was sex repulsed, I just did somehow. I also had to look it up for the full name lol (apothisexual)

@@greybey4385 thanks for letting me know that all of them are correct, I mainly wasn't 100% sure about sex repulsed/apothisexual lol

wow, i hadn't heard of sex repulsed being an orientation

Hello "insert prefered name" hope you are well! (Also dont give me any names we are on the internet!) But have a nice day "Prefered name"

💛🤍💜🖤

@@natanoj16 Thank you!! I'm all teary eyed now, its great to hear someone go "preferred name" at me, thank you for making me smile

🫂

Sending love and strength to get you to that time if yours ever feels like it’s running low. ❤ also I think we might be related because that’s 100% my family 😭 ❤

Stay strong until you get there! 10 years ago I was in a similar position. My first Christmas in a supportive household was literally mindblowing, I kept freaking out over how normal and nice and genuinely fun and warm and caring it was.

Ugh. I'm so sorry.

Please accept some mama hugs. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

thanks ❤

The apothisexual flag is so badass ngl

In other news, a different person just outed me to someone who then outed me to someone else, so yay for straights not knowing how outing works

Fr! I'm sorry about your dad, but I have to agree I missed this series, it's been a while! I hope he gets better in the future, sending big hugs :)

@@ashanenbyrogue804 He's not that trans-phobic. He only brings up some of those arguments like "being trans is a trend" and "women should have safe spaces free of men". It just makes me angry.

Don't define it as slightly. Transphobia is Transphobia. Any of it is too much. You shouldn't downplay it.

​@@rimuru_burnt_out_and_suicidalohhh I have some family members that are like that. It is quite infuriating especially when you try to explain it falls on deaf ears. In any case, I hope he'll learn better soon!

@@AIHumanEquality and yes for sure. Any amount of bigotry is too much for this world, transphobia is transphobia.

YES!

I'm sure you could find a site that does small runs of custom stress balls, and just upload the design yourself

There are sites like that, but the ones I looked at so far all require you purchase them in bulk. Stress balls are fun, but I only need one, not 150.

@@BrownBlue2Eyess damn, I would've thought someone would do small runs. Does Zazzle do them? I know their whole thing is small run custom products

Yeah

Mhm

I was gonna say the same thing lol. Love how you worded your comment though (/gen)!!

^^ this

Replying to boost this comment to the top !

What exactly have they done and what's the source of these claims? The reason I'm asking is cause I like to verify claims and not just believe rumors.

These are like the worst sponsors 😅

Plus.also gay love and also lesbian(?) Because if u choose whatever character u can make him gay with the white hair vampire guy that is hot I feel also there's some love with women if your character is a woman

baldrus gate had both a generic and focussed fanbase behind, which was already positive, or at least true neutral, toward lgbt+ starfield had literally nothing but gamers due to be a generic space setup, which are against everything by design in the first place

Also every trans person I know who also loves Bethesda games (which... is like 90% of them) nevertheless got so burned by Fallout 76 and Elder Scrolls Online that they wren't even interested in Starfield. They kept playing Skyrim or Oblivion or Morrowind. Meanwhile Baldur's Gate _did_ appeal to quite a lot of them. Basically I'm saying I think a higher percentage of Starfield's customers were gamer bros who weren't extremely salty about ESO and F76.

I mean it was like a handful of people screeching. It wasn't exactly an impact on the gaming community as a whole.

@@kaitlyn__L What's wrong with ESO? I know Fallout 76 was apparently pretty bad but ESO has been a decent MMO.

Where did you get that from? I'm pretty sure it's just a phrase from old astrology.

​@@AIHumanEqualitywell, it was literally used in Romeo and Juliet (Shakespeare), but I'm not sure where exactly it was originally from.

@@katyamcadams According to what I looked up it has both meaning of love ending in tragedy and meant to be together. It doesn't seem like anyone knows the origins of the phrase star crossed but it's meaning has changed over time.

@@katyamcadams According to what I looked up it has both meaning of love ending in tragedy and meant to be together. It doesn't seem like anyone knows the origins of the phrase star crossed but it's meaning has changed over time.

He probably doesn't know

well, there's no other way to learn by someone telling him here, yeah?@@xd._.28234

@@xd._.28234 probably a good idea to do a little research on the sponsors you decide to accept

​@@bigenderlyricofc, didn't say they shouldn't What I meant is that considering how he is, doubt he'd recommend it if he knew beforehand So I also hope he reads these messages so can warn about it

Can't really speak about the trans part but just know that you're not a jackass for feeling a certain way. Anxiety is a complicated thing, and while it would be for the best to find out why, and work on it, it's completely valid

Nope I've always distrusted men (mostly cis men) and I think it's pretty common not only among LGBTQ but also cis straight women too.

@@trevorchester4439 probably because they present as men?

​@@trevorchester4439It doesn't matter. As long as they're perceived as men the brain will unconsciously consider them threats. It's a perfectly normal reaction in modern society honestly.

@@trevorchester4439 if you were really as secure in that belief as you pretend to be, you wouldn't be on this channel trying to provoke people.

That's so cool!

Thank you 🌈💕💖

You too

Yeah, it’s true through the letters of L G B T Q I AAAAAAAA P

So I'm valid as a Goddess?

Jamie is not validated she's a girl who cut off did with surgeries of to which badly she has made videos about her suffering she eats testosterone to make her look slightly like a like a male but there is nothing male about Jamie

Bruh (this is all I can say but I want to reply so… yeah)

That's really dumb, a Mormon therapist of all people should know that people need love and support, they should let God do the judging, instead of just being rude for no reason

They actually target these kinds of videos. Council of Geeks has a video titled "How to stop transphobic (or any far-right) ads from running on your channel" giving instructions because youtube doesn't even let content creators know they can do anything about it.

@@notallwhowanderarelost4797it’s in the google Adsense account not RU-vid dashboard settings for anyone wondering

I found out about that instructional video from a later video they did titled "Dear One Topic... (about those ads on your channel)" about why those types of ads get targeted to these types of videos even though the vast majority of viewers will not be receptive, and the harm they do.

huh... Good vaccines are a thing now then ^^;

Let's not go back to those bad old days. We all have enough problems.

My own dad once said “I respect people who will come up to me (he’s mixed, Native American + African american) and say ‘I hate you for your skin color’, then move on, than people who behind people’s back to be racist.”

“Constantly bash people with ‘I am [blank] so you have to listen to me.’” So, listening to LGBTQ+ people on LGBTQ+ issues because we’re LGBTQ+ and know what we’re talking about would be considered “bashing,” then? Listening to trans people on trans issues because they’re trans would be considered “bashing?” You seem to have more respect for your out-of-touch racist father than you have for people of differing identities. That’s deeply concerning and you really need to consider if you’re ACTUALLY an ally or if you just want to white-wash bigotry for the sake of defending your family and the way you were raised. “My dad opposes interracial marriage and I respect him because he’s honest about it” is not the flex you think it is.

@@mc-rn8ro I think they were talking about people saying like “I am [position of power]”, not on lgtq topics, considering they ARE lgtq, since they are asexual.

I mean good for him for being self aware and honest about the fact that his viewpoint/feeling is harmful. But i'd also hope he's working on changing it. It isn't really enough to just know you have an conscious or unconscious bias, you have to work through the discomfort until it's gone. Otherwise it will end up affecting how you treat people, even if it's unintentionally. Because really, being aware you have a bias is the actual bare minimum. Working on it is what matters.

**reaches for your garlic bread** GIVE IT HERE!! US ACES *DEMAND* IT!!

I am non-binary and I will steal your cake. Idk if that's related but still. I also have really bad period cramps, so I might steal your chocolate as well. If you have chocolate cake, you will be my second favourite person in the world.

No. *keeps the garlic bread* I cooked this for an ace friend of mine! it isn't yours!@@a-random-human-being2311

Here, how about we split this chocolate cake.@@SammyLammy1D

Give me the galic breb I need the recipe

And now I really want spaghetti. 😂

I mean kudos to you for admitting your ignorance and being open to the discomfort of making mistakes! Many many people would much prefer to pretend like they are knowledgable about queer people because it is easier and less uncomfortable, even if it is ultimately harmful. The path to learning more will unfortunately lead you to say and do things that are likely hurtful to queer people as you learn what is correct. But it is MUCH MUCH better to say unintentionally hurtful ignorant things in the path to being knowledgable and supportive, than it is for you to continue to have a potentially ignorant hurtful worldview for fear of making mistakes or looking foolish. If more people were like you, the world would be a much better place. Most people are never really taught to learn, and to embrace the messy parts of that process (making mistakes or not knowing or looking foolish), so we all remain in our little silos not understanding each other. Also, at least in my opinion, transphobia (and many other kinds of oppression) don't always have to be intentionally malicious to still qualify as phobia. We all do and say phobic things out of ignorance, or unconscious bias. So what you thought _was_ transphobic, even if you didn't intend it to be. That doesn't mean you are a bad person, because engaging in X bigoted behaviour (especially in isolation) is not necessarily an assessment on indivdiual moral character, but an assessment of a pairtuclar behavuour. You or I or anyone else can be transphobic because we don't know any better or are acting unconsciously from behaviours we were taught. That's why to me at least it's more productive to focus on an action (does a behaviour or assumption or statement stem from transphobia) and not identity (saying or doing something transphobic always means you are a bad person, or a bigot). Focusing on the individual moral character of a person doing or saying a harmful thing can be a waste of time and distract us from identifying very real harm.

Yes, that's what I was coming to say. If it was drawn by an american and put out in autumn I'd guess a turkey representing a big family gathering including people who may not be all together the rest of the year.

Are you ok??-

@ashjones-zc5dt yea it's fine! It's just a bit funny. I've been trying not to laugh but the gender fluid ones get me! Thank you for asking ❤️

You're literally dying because of that joke ....

@@cardboardking577 not really? It was just an expression...?

Hensel the "XD" at the end of it...? Not supposed to be taken seriously.

​@@amthystxxhe definitely doesn't,like he is a cinnamon roll and trans himself and countless of times defended trans. Probably he thinks they're good.

Wait, issues? Like what?

People have been commenting this stuff for a while, I feel like he would have seen and said something at this point not gonna lie

​@@SnootDog sharing confidential information with social media platforms. They got fined by the FTC for that.

​@@SnootDogNot vetting their therapists, and selling user data.

when your sample size is in the billions, pretty much every sort of interaction will happen at some point.

Then learn to be better. We don't want hate filled people around LGBTQ communities.

@@AIHumanEquality I am not required to forgive people. were they old bullies or even family members, and neither is nobody else for that matter.

​​@@AIHumanEqualityas someone who was beaten up every day of my school life I am in no way obligated to forgive the people who actively made my life a nightmare.

Nobody is ever required to forgive, but the important thing is to not sit on that hatred/anger and stew in it. You don't need them to 'repay' or suffer for you any more than you need to acknowledge their existence. Just as long as you continue on with your own life, as you wish, and don't focus on them, you are growing and living and doing what is healthy, so hell yeah good on you. Your life is yours, and you don't owe people your life to repent for theirs.

@@KossolaxtheForesworn Your lack of self awareness is concerning. If someone's turning themselves over to be better and you're making it worse for them. You're the bad person in that scenario. Someone doing something bad does not give you the right to have a righteous complex.

Thank you so much!!!!

Thank you so much. Could you post a link to Aphotiosexual, google doesn't show any results for me

I think that's a different flag on the right at 16:20 it looks different than the gay exclusively MLM flag.

​@@lynixc.Its apothisexual, and means that you're asexual and sex- repulsed. Hope this helps.

@@violetzebra9307 Thanks :)

What did they do, if you don't mind explaining? Sorry to bother you, I'm just genuinely curious and google is giving me nothing

​@@dinosaurs_rulesomething something homophobic therapists

@@_StarlightRose_ oh that sucks :( Thanks for telling me

@@dinosaurs_rule np I dont know the specifics myself though

​@@_StarlightRose_And data selling, and lack of therapist vetting

@@Matty-man You completely misunderstood my comment.

@@Matty-man Why are you so rude?

@@Matty-man You need to get a real hobby. Being a jerk on the internet is not a real one.

@@Matty-man I don’t really have a crush on anyone, but I want to get a girlfriend someday

Same

Sounds like you need to be funnier- (lighthearted teasing) Nah... if it's something that makes you feel sad then try to come up with some new material...? I'm not genderfluid as such (kinda... sometimes more of a guy sometimes more agender don't know if it counts) so I can't really help with content like that

As a person who's attracted to pans, I agree.

Given the jokes are just surface deep puns on the word that represents the identity, not really. Kinda milked the fluid thing dry (what a gross sentence). It's like how there's one pansexual joke and like two trans jokes

​@@eleventh_chickenI got asked if I was attracted to pizza. I love pizza! 😂😂😂

@@amthystxx gendergas, gender-fluid, gendersolid, and gender plasma, these are the four gender masses

Thing is, these kinds of feminists who see it as an exclusive thing where they must keep out others who arent the right kinds of women... Theyve always been part and parcel with feminist movements; bcuz there will always be ppl among any given class of oppressed ppl who look to their sides and see not a fellow oppressed person; bcuz of so many reasons for why ppl hate. There are pictures of white cis gay men holdin signs in the 50s that read "Homosexual American Males: Our Nations Last Oppressed Minority". Bcuz they will always have some ppl among any group who are in it for entirely selfish reasons and cant see beyons their own struggles Its the same reason why white feminists have disregarded the plight of Black women and other nonwhite women time and time again in major feminist movements This has nvr been new, bigotry has always been like this; they use the exact same playbook every time they oppress us, and its always best to divide us... So ofc theyll keep doin it and there will always be some of our own who will help them, havin got sucked into the bigotry as well. They just have to be taught to see some of their own as not the same as them; as not truly sharin in their struggle, but instd as a threat to such

The emojis are cute

A bi & trans parent no less!

🫡🥲🙃🧄 Condolences, I think? I don't want to interfere with the validation. It's just that it would be hard for me to do without garlic...but you do you.😊

@@amandamcquade1272 I'd rather do without garlic than being sick after eating some. Easy choice for me.

@@cecile436 🫡 Of course. I wish you healthy and contented! (I somehow got confused by "validated". Now I don't know what I was thinking??. Time for me to log off now, I apologize.)💜

Stop spreading these falsehoods, I saw an ace person fly past my window last night! They *are* immune to gravity and they are mobilizing! (Joke)

We feel very little gravity, while some of us don’t feel gravity, don’t lie 😡 /lh

You had me in the first half, not gonna lie

😂

Good luck finishing it! I hope your costume is to your liking!

The answer is gonna entirely depend on three factors rly: Temperature, Time, and T-Composition Liquids make differin sounds dependin on the temp at which they hit a surface, includin another liquid; which is how you can tell if the water comin out of a tap you cannot see is hot or cold based on the small diff in sound caused by temp. Note, this is similarly also true of solids but itll vary a ton based on makeup and how long it has been solid and how cold it has gotten... And gases will also make their own sounds when hittin a surface, tho not sure actually if heatin the gas more will change the sound before reachin an ignition pt or other reaction pt. Onto the second T, Time. The slower or faster an object, regardless of its state of matter, hits a surface; thats gonna entirely change how it sounds And the final T, T-Composition, obvs what any object is made of is gonna play a huge part in the sound made when collidin with any other object If you drop liquid genderfluid into liquid water, both at room temp, then dependin on the genders that make up that genderfluid; that will let you find out what that genderfluids sound is, well, in that one exact case ofc. Gonna have to drop them into a lot of diff liquids and while theyre at diff temps and while pourin at diff times. Ooh, and maybe exp with diff accessories on your genderfluid and see how that affects sound There are many fun new dips comin in genderfluids future :3

@@SylviaRustyFae unfortunately, I only have one gender fluid friend that lives adequately close to me to partake in the experiments. And I'm afraid I might be able to convince them twice, so that would seriously limit my sample size or I'd have to make it into a decade long study to not ruin a friendship. Doubt me yelling "for science" will negate the fact that I'm pushing them into water XD

@@SylviaRustyFae first test result: outside temperature 14 °C, medium deep puddle about 50 cm, initial sound pre splash "smeerlap"(Dutch for bastard), splash was a mix of water and mud splash, leaving the puddle was with a satisfying muddy schloorp

I'm abroromantic! It's the only flag I feel comfortable wearing because (unfortunately) no one knows what it is (and my community is everything-phobic, sexist, racist, etc. so I can't come out). I can always say "It's watermelon colors!"

I think it's that them damn liberal want to turn everyone gay, Its pretty stupid logic😊

The gay agenda: 9am: be gay 12pm: be gay 3pm: be gay 5pm: -take over canada- be gay 9pm: sleep