I think they will need to actively seek it out. There’s a couple I watch on YT and they had their home built. They even have a pool with a wheelchair ramp.
I applaud her but she needs to find a better way, perhaps move to an adapted residence because over time she will suffer from back and joint issues and then she will be no good to herself or him.
"Never be someone who doesnt make your life easy" first! We gotta love grandmother's. Second, acknowledging her list and saying it may not come in the package you envision is a true aha! Moment. Because, what I know for sure is God will definitely send you what you want/need when you need it. Beautiful story may you and your families continue to be blessed.
True love at its best beautiful im so overjoyed with ur happiness i spoke to our creator today and said jah i have seen everything i was just so overwhelmed with grief and alot of mixed emotions it's really great to see true unconditional love 2people accepting each other for who and what they really are and really enjoying each other continue to always be blessed and thanks for sharing ur story peace
My husband is 76% burned, and we been married 18 years. I love him more then words.❤ I think people take if out of control, when we have special needs children or spouse. Love is love
I can barely carry my purse 👛 😩 up a flight of stairs, and she carried him on her BACK! This strong and absolutely beautiful sister has been blessed with an intelligent, handsome, and independent man... that loves her, supports her, encourages her, motivates her, and inspires her. He is equally blessed to have her. I'm praying for continued growth in their relationship, which hopefully lead to marriage. They're a beautiful couple.🕊🌹
@@Levelhappy78it's going to damage her back eventually; it does matter how strong she is. I hope they stop investing in clothes and brandnames (per IG posts shown in the interview) and invest money into a handicapped accessible home or at least a first floor apartment. They are a cute couple.
Heck. Then when her back gives out, whos gonna carry her?He's a man....that says a lot, hes naturally heavier. Hopefully he stays true to her if he evwr regains the ability to walk again
A beautiful story with beautiful people. Love is Awesome. I worked with two boys who were paralyzed from the waist down, had to lift them daily. That weighed my body down. I hope in the future, they will decide to move to a home without going up the stairs. I know she loves him (it shows in both of them) but the back pain will come, after doing this for so long. Best Wishes to this Beautiful Couple!!❤
@@Heyu7her3 this story was over three months ago. Their living situation probably had been longer than when this was posted. I surely hope they have moved into a place that is easier accessible for him, so she won't have to be physically putting her health at risk.
@@donotsupportterroristgroups right, they would've been placed into one but idk why that hasn't happened _(unless they have refused to apply, which if so, I'm not sorry for)_
Black women love struggle love. How is that making your life easier???? More importantly would he do the same if the roles were reversed??? DEFINITELY NOT!!!
And what's more amazing is that she met him like this. This incident with him getting shot didn't happen while they were already together. So if she is doing this amazing stuff for him now, imagine what great things she would do once they get married
@Susel There is a difference when The Lord joins couples together...as opposed to us LOOKING or FINDING someone on our own. My response was respectfully submitted.
So would I!! Let’s pray God grants us the financial freedom to do so, and if not, that someone already in the position to do so finds it in their heart to do it for them. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️
I got custody of my niece at 10yrs I'm chronically ill I know the stats of partners/step parents abusing( all kinds of abuse) step children I deliberately didn't date ANYBODY til she was 17 it fell apart he was abusive to me not her then I spent 6 yrs working on me I TOO MADE A LIST OF MUST HAVE'S and went thru a couple who didn't have everything on the list then I found the fiance he had EVERYTHING ON THE LIST except being tall I kept him😊ain't throwing away a good man cuz he ain't 6ft
They are so sweet, adorable, &inspirational, but in all honesty... You want to know my real takeaway from this? I want to wear matching shirts w/my bf too!😅 They looked so cute in their little zebra stripes together!!!
We know he would NOT do the same for her if things were reversed. Blk women are ALWAYS there for ppl who would NOT be there for them. This is not a flex, its a typical story where the blk woman is in a typical "blk love" relationship pulling most of the weight. In one way or another, most blk relationships are imbalanced like this at the expense of the blk woman. Blk men are lucky that most blk women base their worth on having a man. Its a garuntee that most blk women will settle for scraps.
I met these two in Walmart a year ago. I told them then they were both great looking and I loved their friendship. I seen them at the Vegandale Chicago and they are official. I told them I luv their luv. 💯
These men be cheating and doing wrong, then want to find a good woman to take care of them. My ex thought that. Nah! Go find them females you was sexting behind my back to take care of you.
You are so right I see it all the time in my neighborhood, job, the kid's sporting events, stores, etc. Alot of "those" men cheat and treat blk women, ESPECIALLY non-light skinned blk women, like dirt until they *need* them (bail out of jail, a place to stay, money, borrow her car, protest, rehab, etc). Any other time they are calling blk women b!tches, thots, and bragging about how dumb and desperate blk women are, how gullible and easy they are to use for a comeup, seggs, how other races are better, blk women force child support, they wear weave, etc. There's always that large group of women with low self esteem who get defensive when the truth is told about "blk love". They get so mad but the whole world sees it now and they expect blk women to fall for anything a blk man says or does, hide the body, take the charges, ANYTHING! NO STANDARDS, NO SELF WORTH just bitterness directed toward the messengers. Go ahead, Pickmes, be hospice care wives to a bunch of men who disrespect you IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE WORLD for sport while you get mad at the OP for telling the truth...because that's all you have the guts to do is attack women who tell the truth! 😆
@5:25 😅😅 those 2 for a split second almost forgot they also had 2 white women on the couch with them, and almost broke character 🤣😂🤣😂😅😅😅 ol’ boys adjustment took me out 😅😅
🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️....PPL WILL LABEL ANYTHING BEAUTIFUL🙄😒 this is sad on so many levels! FOR 1 HE HAVEN'T EVEN MARRIED HER YET SO LET THAT SINK IN! She up there talking about for better or worse like they're married, she was just gullible and he knows that.
@ Claire Bear the Good Finder....Now THEY are DEFINITELY soulmates! I l❤ them. To see the way Charisma looks at him when he speaks is everything. She is so patient, gentle, kind, and loving to him. I Thank God🙏 for sending Charisma to Cole.
Men these days will play a women to her soul is broken then as time passes on they get sick and can't do what they use to. Then there humble!!!!! FOH... This story is cute I am good!!!!
Why don't they just move to a one level dwelling, since their together why not just purchase a home. I mean she's not going to be able to carry him around going into their 50s 🤔
@@msdee3873 You're FUNNYYYYYYY you got me over here CRACKING UP🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and if he is sent to her by GOD EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT ACCORDING TO GODS PLAN BECAUSE GOD DON'T MAKE NO MISTAKES I hope they will give us a UPDATE!!!
I was married to a paraplegic for like 12 years, we were together about 5 before. We also met online but were casual friends, and it wasn’t until after he was injured that we fell for each other. I came into the relationship knowing everything it would require, but for some reason it never really bothered me. I ised to always say how just easy the relationship was. We had a good life together and made 3 beautiful children together with no procedures or assistance, it just depends on the injury what a person can do. This video touched my heart and reminded me of us starting out.
Exactly! My best friend has the same T3 injury and is also a paraplegic. She gets so frustrated trying to date. Some men are okay for a little while, but it doesn't last long. I pray that she meets a real man that's as caring, patient, and compassionate as the young lady in the interview. 🙏
I love you guys and my story is basically the same. I met my guy also on a dating app and he's also In a wheelchair. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me!
This couple had me when she carried him on her back 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️. I love this. Before my mom passed, I was 7 months pregnant carrying her on my back. She had Spinal Stenosis.. This touched me in such a personal way. I love this❤❤❤😊
@@Heyu7her3 well, the issue was the Georgia health care system. They denied my mom any services and advised she was not eligible. Her health was getting so bad. We moved her back to PA where her oncologist stated she had stage 4 lung cancer. Had Georgia detected that when we took her to the doctors. She might have lived longer. And my daughter's dad. Was not present to do anything.
Absolutely beautiful!!!!! May God bless this relationship. And if it is meant may he grant the a wonderful marriage union. I love her spirit of love for someone with such a situation and I love how he isn't allowing a "too proud" spirit take over him and allows her to love him the way he is. I pray they never take one another for granted. Life is short so do all you can when you can and keep God first always!!
@@ce5693 He is a paraplegic, paralyzed in a car accident when he was a teenager, very handsome and intelligent. It was a long distance relationship so when I went to visit him, i realized he needed help with almost everything, bathing, getting in and out of bed, changing clothes, etc. He didn't have a wheelchair accessible vehicle, so we really couldn't go anywhere. He had a nurse to do these things for him, but I knew if we continued our relationship, i would do these things for him. Not to mention the emotional and mental aspect. I didn't know it at the time, but he had a lot of trauma behind his injury and how his life had turned out. This was years ago.
Love means putting pressure on your back for someone else. Working out or not, that is going to eventally effect her. People in wheelchairs have a way of getting around without being lifted. Love? Who loves whom?
Her commitment is phenomenal. Sorry, but I am NOT carrying any grown person on my back.... not even one of my children. I will, however, find & employ a capable male to do this most physical of tasks
Beautiful love story. But if you are God -centered get married. Shacking and fornication is very sinful. If you are in love get married, it doesn't have to be extravagant you can always save for that and do it later.
I'm just not sure how to feel about this, because I sincerely don't believe it would happen in the reverse (if she were in a wheelchair), and I'm getting hospice care wife vibes, here. But good for them, I guess.
@@GratefulDaughter1 Is it love or obligation out of desperation? Why did she feel she had to take on this HEAVY burden of taking care of a disabled person? Was it so she could feel needed and loved or a martyr, even? The weird thing is she went on an app and specifically chose him out of many others who were not wheelchair bound. Something seems...off. I rarely, if ever, have seen a non-disabled man purposefully choose to date and enter into a relationship with a disabled woman.
My ex thought wrong. Wanted to cheat, sexting females behind my back. Now things going wrong for him, I left him out in the cold. Been 6 Months, he's still begging me. Nah go ask them females
So, would it make a difference if they were not conventionally attractive? Would people be less accepting if they weren't? I'm getting that vibe, here, reading through most of these comments. I've already added my thoughts on this situation, so it doesn't bear repetition.
Beautiful couple but it’s not uncommon to see a woman love a man under unfortunate Circumstances, show me men doing this and that will be more of a shock for the world. ❤🙏🏾
Baby, God is doing it BIG with these relationships! 💜💜🎉🎉 This is only the beginning for them and the other relationships that He’s bringing together for His glory! When she mentioned that was the easiest relationship she’d had, all I could think of is Matthew 11:30. Most people would’ve been afraid to love him but perfect love casts out all fear (1John 4:18). 🙏🏽 Praying God continues to bless their union. 💜💜
This is sad. No woman; no matter how strong, should be carrying a man on her back. He’s pathetic for allowing that. Be a man!!! She’s desperate. Sorry.
He is handsome she is not chop meat either, they are cute together. I know of a similar story this was robbed he gave up all of his jewelry and was shot anyway. He went on to graduate college and became a social worker he was handsome also. I wonder if he ever got married as well.
I’m extremely happy for them both because his girlfriend truly loves him as he is he maybe disabled but his heart is what stole her heart and I strongly believe that they are going to be getting married soon !!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🌹🌹🌹🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈
