We Want A Baby But My Husband Is Paralysed | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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Kevin and Kassandra are an inter-abled couple, living in California. Air force veteran Kevin is paralysed from the waist down, after trying to kill himself. He credits Kassandra with helping him turn his life around. Together the couple started a RU-vid channel to show their life together and to address the realities of being an inter-abled couple. Now married, Kevin and Kassandra want to take the next step and start a family together but after Kevin’s accident, trying for a baby is proving difficult.
Videographer / director: Per Lind, Kevin and Kassandra Ortiz
Producer: Shannon Lane, Nathalie Bonney, Ruby Coote
Editor: Florence Kennard
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@TheQweenT 2 месяца назад

They are no longer together, God will bless him with the right woman 🙏🏾

@xXAnni3LuvsYhuXx 2 месяца назад

Really??? Omggg 😭

@orlandoromero22 2 месяца назад

Didn't they just get married? I may be wrong.

@antbanks415 2 месяца назад

What happened?

@rambo2580 2 месяца назад

She filed for divorce recently.

@gregher4621 2 месяца назад

She divorced him

@ravenplowden3740 2 месяца назад

It’s sad she left him but before saying I do she should have thought about what she was getting into

@Brandi_Aguilar_Funny_Vlogs Год назад

Aw I hope they have their dreams come true and they have a child! They are gonna make fantastic parents! ❤❤❤❤

@kfb7592 Год назад

I completely agree

@dominiquejenkins5495 2 месяца назад

They are divorced

@RonnieM90 Год назад

This reminds me of when Christopher Reeve was paralyzed, and his wife stayed with him for better or worse.

@kingdjack6 8 месяцев назад

She also had cancer and pasted with a year of him

@ebonyeverything2751 2 месяца назад

This shouldn't remind u of that because she left him, they're divorcing. He talks about it on his channel.

@RonnieM90 2 месяца назад

@@ebonyeverything2751 I did not know that. Thank you for letting me know.

@rosauraruiz05 Год назад

Such a pretty couple, people still believe in love

@burpyduck5044 Год назад

They will have a baby! The will have babies! God will do it.

@yeahnigga07 Год назад

Yes god is going to bless Them with a new bundle of joy

@Besties490 Год назад

@@yeahnigga07 Captalize God

@IamWorthy_Rita 3 месяца назад

Amen yes they will!

@africamcfadden6346 2 месяца назад

@@yeahnigga07 they are not together anymore because she left him because he could not have kids.

@onlyhere4thecomments80 2 месяца назад

They got a divorce

@ChellenBobby 2 месяца назад

So sad they are divorced but he is a handsome man he will find love again and he will get his dream to become a dad and when he dose he will be an amazing dad... ❤❤❤

@brooklyndreams2028 2 месяца назад

He seems like a really nice person, and I wish him all the best. However, I was prepared for him to say that he was injured in the line of duty, not that he shot himself. The inability to conceive is one thing, but mental health and suicide is another. If I were her mother, I would advise her to reconsider her decision. This young man will need mental and physical support that a woman of her young years may be unable to provide. However, I hope things work out for them.

@CoCoGemel 2 месяца назад

They're divorced/divorcing now so you're pretty spot on with this. It's unfortunate but a cold hard truth. Taking care of and being with someone who is disabled is already hard enough as is, I could not imagine throwing someone who has battled with depression and an actual attempted suicide on top of that. Having children is not an easy feat and can sometimes test a marriage even further. I would not go into it lightly.

@user-ex8xf9fr7u Месяц назад

I hope someone leaves you at your worst

@valeriecoleman3588 2 месяца назад

Proud of you two! Two beautiful peoples 🙏🏾

@angeleyes2941 Год назад

I hope he gets all the mental health he needs! I also hope once he does get the mentality he needs that he's able to give her multiple children. They seem like an amazing couple, and God knows when the right time is. Just trust in God, and love and you will be just fine.

@lisascott9165 2 месяца назад

With faith and trust miracle happens

@user-hz2ix3eo9t 2 месяца назад

Gratitude is very important thankful for the small things God will bless you.

@laurenschenck5355 Год назад

They are amazing special couple and sending prayers and positive vibes hope there dreams come true they can have kids ❤

@ShirleyPerson-ck7vm Месяц назад

"Yall can always adopt" (smile). 💯🔥🥰🌹

@rhondahill6434 2 месяца назад

Beautiful couple❤. I pray God bless your family.

@MizzSweetTe 2 месяца назад

With them having difficulties to conceive, I believe is the reason why they are now divorcing ☹️

@cpvillacis Месяц назад

Yes those are reasons but now adays with the help of science & humanity. Couples can do IVF to have a baby. Even use a sperm donor if his sperm is not good. Same with her, she can use egg donor. Even surrogate can help.

@Iamgroot187 7 месяцев назад

I'm sorry u went through that Kevin God kept u here on earth for a reason stay strong brother live long and enjoy your life with your beautiful wife u will get the family u always wanted👪

@TapiTTwala 2 месяца назад

What a beautiful couple.

@HarmoniTinyHomes 3 месяца назад

My concern is that she is so adamant about having children knowing her husband may be unable to have children. Her adamance is making him feel inadequate as a man. I saw it in him when he said he was unable to give her children. She knew about this when she met him. And who is to say it is him?

@kcrush5842 2 месяца назад

Well they are divorcing now...he posted it on his RU-vid channel today 😢

@musicartlover963 2 месяца назад

I'm sorry to hear that they're divorcing

@ShirleyPerson-ck7vm Месяц назад

"S-e-r-i-o-u-s-l-y I said the same thing you said". F-a-c-t-s 💯

@jazzysassyladyb9022 27 дней назад

@kcrush5842 Noooo!😢😢 That's soo sad to have to go through that! She knew what she was getting in to before she married him. That is soo wrong. I feel so bad for him. He's already struggling with self love and emotions and now having to through divorce is terrible!😢

@airbender9593 Год назад

I am glad he is in a good place. When a solider tried to take their own life, is that considered PTSD?

@RonnieM90 Год назад

Could have been different factors. You never know.

@airbender9593 Год назад

@@RonnieM90 PTSD gives dividend. :) Do other factors do the same?

@khonkhosilelihle7414 Год назад

I think may be yes.

@aissatakebe5212 13 дней назад

He was depressed after splitting up with his wife at the time.

@Nthabee00 2 месяца назад

Sadly they are no longer together, Maybe their inability to have kids drifted them apart💔😥

@latoyawilson1671 2 месяца назад

I follow him on Instagram and I was like I thought he was single

@benitabeaubrum4888 2 месяца назад

They should talk about it first. There was no love

@lareinelester685 2 месяца назад

@@benitabeaubrum4888 She seemed off in this video before I even read they're not together.

@grace4091 2 месяца назад

Really I didn't realise they were separated

@nathanielalbritton979 Месяц назад

Naw it’s was his inability to hit it doggy style

@nicholasmarkin2385 2 месяца назад

Congratulations on your marriage proposal happy memorial Day to both of you 👏🏿💖 ,gb😊

@taylorblonde9438 10 месяцев назад

That is true love !! ❤

@user-xv3tl6jp3o 3 месяца назад

It isnt always the woman who leaves. My fiance broke our engagement because of his disability. I wanted to stay. He returned when he learned I had married someone else. I often wonder how he is doing.

@BarbiegirlTina 3 месяца назад

They split up ..he has a channel here on RU-vid 😮

@empresskhadijah2677 2 месяца назад

Have you thought about reaching out to him? Maybe the two of you are meant to be together

@patienceacheampong9542 2 месяца назад

@@empresskhadijah2677She's already married, so how can they be together?

@empresskhadijah2677 2 месяца назад

@@patienceacheampong9542 She can leave her husband if she is in love with another man. Already thinking of someone else while your married shows your nt fully invested. That's how

@Mike_OP 2 месяца назад

@@empresskhadijah2677That’s how y’all move?? That modern day western woman mentality! You vow to spend the rest of your life with a man that proposes and once you get uninterested you monkey branch to the next! No sense of loyalty, disgraceful, and disgusting 🤮

@MM-kx2fw 7 месяцев назад

This is so beautiful ❤️🫶

@justina3175 2 месяца назад

they are no longer together they haven't been together for about a year😢

@OnlyQueenE 2 месяца назад

So sad ! I was hoping that wasn’t true but I see him on instagram without her so thought so

@deborahpowell9842 Месяц назад

Wow what happened

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 Год назад

They are still young. Time is on their side so...

@LoveCMichel 4 месяца назад

I don’t think they’re together anymore 😭😭😭😭😭.

@rockyrae3455 4 месяца назад

I don't think so either. 😢

@beccafitz22 3 месяца назад

Neither do I. Their channel is gone. It’s only Kevin’s channel now.

@sweetiepie7831 3 месяца назад

I think someone one his channel said they are still together, he's just not posting about them

@whitneyw5842 3 месяца назад

He said he was single in his latest video

@beccafitz22 3 месяца назад

@@whitneyw5842 oh no 😟! I’m sorry & sad to hear this.

@zoraidacastro2703 3 месяца назад

Wishing them the best! Beautiful couple. Baby will come.

@africamcfadden6346 2 месяца назад

He is single now.

@tracyskitchenandappalachia2954 3 месяца назад

Beautiful couple 😘

@lueclark7766 2 месяца назад

I saw the last podcast where he recounted his shooting and she seemed so detached from him. Her luv certainly wasn’t unconditional. Shame.

@luckiered2212 4 месяца назад

Cute couple

@TruthJonson 2 месяца назад

Keep the Faith y'all will have a baby 🍼 Many Blessings 🙏

@dianethomas4595 3 месяца назад

I want the best for you two. It will happen

@JermaineCollon 2 месяца назад

Depression is real just keep praying god hears your cry

@Omarbrown-ws2pr Месяц назад

Bro your story touched me I understand your pain..am into a wheelchair as well for 24 years now an 4 years ago a had my kids them I got twins boy and girl..so once your still active you can do it...jus eat real good Jamaican food an it will happen.. one love 💯🙏

@Whysoserious305 3 месяца назад

But did she know this before marrying him , it would be a process to have a baby?

@kelsieauger33 Год назад

Im so sorry to hear how this happened im so gald they met ❤ things will happen for you two try nott to worry ❤ people care glad you made it congrats . People dont take mental health seriously people have trauma too otherwise our brains get overloaded and cannot process

@MizzSweetTe 2 месяца назад

So sad to see them getting a divorce

@antbanks415 2 месяца назад

What happened?

@jenifer-ar 3 месяца назад

Love conquers all ❤

@1337Defeat Год назад

How does he use just one hand to wheel himself? I go in circles when I try. One of the biggest things I miss is walking by my partner and holding their hand, made me feel so special and safe, been several years since I was able to..now we have "hand cuddles" between our pillows when we sleep, it's comforting to fall asleep feeling so safe but not the same..really miss it for outside.

@YouTubeUzername 4 месяца назад

Why did you lose your mobility?

@denises3779 3 месяца назад

Stop having sex to make a baby and just do it for the hell of it. When you don't try you'll get that bundle of joy. Stressing make it harder to conceive

@ebonyeverything2751 2 месяца назад

They've broken up.

@gwendolyncole5692 2 месяца назад

Where there is a will there Is a way. Prayer works miracles.

@vilmasvacation8599 Месяц назад

He will find someone to love 💕 🙏🏿

@annejames890 2 месяца назад

So sad . I hope their marriage works out for the sake of LOVE!

@sloppygirlz Год назад

He fyne. Pretty couple.

@khonkhosilelihle7414 Год назад

Way to fine.

@sophisticatedmm3632 Год назад

Very handsome

@nadineevans2647 Месяц назад

Believe Believe Believe....Never Doubt...Both of you ......keep telling yourselves that you will have your babies. Im praying for you🎉

@PinkOwl31 24 дня назад

They broke up. 😬

@ShirleyPerson-ck7vm Месяц назад

I see they no longer together. Love don't judge. Love is "unconditional".

@VeeVeeLL3Gemini 3 месяца назад

I follow a double amputee, and she said she has homeboys wish they could feel a woman intimately, and she’s a strong woman, because I couldn’t marry a man like that. I’m glad he has love in his life.

@godfavored5 29 дней назад

Kevin is the Best!

@alexiswilliams8475 2 месяца назад

They got divorce, she probably wanted different

@MailmanMuscle Год назад

What would be controversial about this relationship, or a disabled person becoming a parent?

@speedupsongs9384 Год назад

There’s something called adoption

@kingdjack6 8 месяцев назад

He can still have kids it's been done before quite a bit actually.

@zakenab 3 месяца назад

How many have u adopted?

@cassandradenise3037 3 месяца назад

There's also something called : Not wanting to adopt and having children of your own.

@africamcfadden6346 2 месяца назад

I watch him on RU-vid he is single.

@tamikaa9815 2 месяца назад

Yes he is 🙌🏽 and I’m glad for him

@africamcfadden6346 2 месяца назад

@@tamikaa9815 me too when I watched this video😃

@debbiebailey1308 2 месяца назад

Just trust god it will happen ❤keep that love up my god our god will make that way just believe in him amen

@Meredreams84 2 месяца назад

I dnt think they together either. Because his videos seem new. 😊

@taviakristoff9800 Год назад

Girl ur man is fine as hell. Wow keep going on your journey❤🎉

@DanielJohnson-qr3ey Год назад

It took me 5 years

@chynadoll785 Год назад

Hope you get the kids that you want, but please change the smoke alarm battery

@cheynachaneille Год назад

😂

@nicholeknight1893 Год назад

😂😂😂 and take your shoes off before you get in bed 😂😂😂. That bothered my soul

@1337Defeat Год назад

@@nicholeknight1893 if they were dirty then fair enough but us wheelchair users tend to have immaculately clean shoes 😅

@ceoterrina 2 месяца назад

I was wondering if this is the same guy that I just subscribed to on here.

@kimberlybrown1446 Год назад

Have you guys considered adopting

@IndigoDeVore 7 месяцев назад

I'm sure they know that but they want a biological child.

@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok 2 месяца назад

This guy is cute,i too would ve fallen for him(south africa)

@susanishottt27 3 месяца назад

Am curious why they can’t conceive naturally. Is it his thing or low sperm Count ?

@Enimasj91 3 месяца назад

I remember in a old video, they said he can get an erection but he doesn't ejaculate.

@africamcfadden6346 2 месяца назад

They not together no more.

@PinkOwl31 2 месяца назад

Yes, he didn't have any sperm for them to even IVF, unfortunately.

@mkwins642 16 дней назад

I think they were recently divorced, but why did he try to unalive himself? (I didnt watch the full video)

@itsdriaworld5165 15 дней назад

They are no longer together. 😢

@ladyleo944 2 месяца назад

SO am i hearing correct it was a self inflicted incident ,that cause his condition and not a war injury ???..

@aishanjgirl07 2 месяца назад

Yes, he tried to commit suicide

@user-hz2ix3eo9t 2 месяца назад

Trust God's timing he is a Miracle worker 🙏💪💚😇

@starrwilliams0127 2 месяца назад

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@joesmith-em2cd 8 месяцев назад

❤❤❤

@md-k08 26 дней назад

She left him

@BLACKBANE-n7i 17 дней назад

Wow sorry to hear

@mariahfolkard929 2 месяца назад

She should have stayed with him they marry for better or worst 😢😢❤❤❤❤❤🙏

@barbaraspieler1222 Год назад

You will concieve.. hands up to the good lord he shall lead the way 🙏🦋❣️🦋🙏

@yourmostwantedbhaijaan 9 месяцев назад

She looks Desi

@betallyoungattractive644 8 месяцев назад

good observation

@user-fb6hu3zm2y 2 месяца назад

😊💛😊💛🇨🇦the Lord will do it ! Trust His timing !

@Heisadoni 3 месяца назад

Oh God can! The questions is... is it God's will?

@rogdawg123 2 месяца назад

shes very attractive 🔥👌😍

@Africa_Memphiz 2 месяца назад

People believe that they only have one life to live, and they give it all to the earth to experience most they can bring in to their life before death. In heaven there is no marriage nor are you given into marriage. But thats a belief that Christians read from. The word of God. But the world think differently.

@josephvalentine7 Месяц назад

I think it’s very selfish of a paralyzed guy to hold a woman back that’s not paralyzed !

@catrinamarcel3834 2 месяца назад

As of May 13, 2024, Ole girl hit Kevin with divorce papers, asking for her maiden name (back)... I guess she felt like this is tooooo much to handle & I'm out!!!🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

@dominiquejenkins5495 2 месяца назад

Gotta hear both parts .. its easy to take his side because of his condition but the were not back together until AFTER he did what he did.. Homie had a unstable mind before the accident and im sure it didn't improve after.. idk tho

@user-gq4qs9cx6e Год назад

#hug. Part 2 is coming #GodDidIt. Nothing is impossible for our God.

@gillowens24 Год назад

That is horrible he like a life .

@tabithapenn3590 2 месяца назад

Well that didn’t last considering yall are now divorced 👎

@saviourawudzi5244 2 месяца назад

A baby is not the only reason or purpose of marriage so just enjoy your life.

@blessed1940 2 месяца назад

If she loved him, why not do the IVF or adopt?

@fay-amieaspen6046 Год назад

Isn't it a simple case of Inter Uterine Insemination. Draw some Sperm & Inseminate during the fertile part of the cycle?

@fusion_42 Год назад

I so early it's not even funny

@user-yf7es9sg6w 2 месяца назад

So sad dis would be low sperm issue

@littlepieceofleatherbossem7651 2 месяца назад

For her to continuously say it upsets her or it frustrates her not to be able to have kids say alot on her character. Hell she can adopt. If she truly love this man a child should not frustrate her

@YouTubeUzername 9 месяцев назад

He did this to himself, why would anyone want to be in a relationship with someone like this? He’s unstable.

@jeanninem.4059 4 месяца назад

Stop judging him, he had mental problem while he was a soldier.

@marriejames01 4 месяца назад

@@jeanninem.4059They’re not together anymore. Now what?

@nrtalley 4 месяца назад

Yes, he used to be unstable. Mental health is so important. He has a stronger and more stable mind. He is a good guy

@YouTubeUzername 4 месяца назад

@@marriejames01Wow, good for her! She is free to focus on herself and meet an emotionally and mentally stable man if she decides.

@lelabrooks04 4 месяца назад

@@marriejames01😳 Whoa!!! You know I look at his videos and I wonder if he is in a pure great space.

@user-do6zs7qq3t 2 месяца назад

Is this couple still together.? She does not look like the type to stay with him.

@nalisajackson547 2 месяца назад

Nope they broke up.

@nalisajackson547 2 месяца назад

@Iamnotgoingbackandforth he has a RU-vid channel

@l.a9974 Месяц назад

@@nalisajackson547wheelchairkev

@beegnutzz Год назад

Do they not have sex? There’s a lot of detail missing here

@VeeVeeLL3Gemini 3 месяца назад

Nope, I couldn’t live that life

@yavetteeverette6603 Месяц назад

Yes, they have sex. I believe his sperm count is very low.

@DanielJohnson-qr3ey Год назад

That's BS I jus had twinns and I am paralyze and i got shot also but I'm in her stomach so do the same

@khonkhosilelihle7414 Год назад

What do you mean by being in her stomach?

@annslifestyle Год назад

So how do they have sex 😢😢😢😢

@khonkhosilelihle7414 Год назад

I think his thing is working but cannot conceive.

@betallyoungattractive644 8 месяцев назад

maam, as if paraplegics don't have sex all the time? Really?

@coffeecrazy70 Месяц назад

Based on their RU-vid channel he would have to give himself injections…..for her….he couldn’t feel anything.

@Terrell3839 Год назад

He caused it though

@zakenab 3 месяца назад

And?

@arthurguillen8432 Год назад

So his D doesn't work????

@OneBDennis 3 месяца назад

Yes it works lol

@coffeecrazy70 Месяц назад

Nope

@DownlowDude8829 3 месяца назад

How do they even have sex?! She should not have to live the rest of her life like this. Why did he shoot himself ?

@DownlowDude8829 3 месяца назад

He did it to himself , now i dont feel so bad for him. I can't believe he paralyze himself

@PinkOwl31 2 месяца назад

Apparently the plan was to not be here anymore.

@DownlowDude8829 2 месяца назад

@@PinkOwl31 maybe he should have taken himself out because living paralyzed for the rest of your life because you were emotional is complete torture. You can put on a happy face and fake it it all you want but thats pure hell . It only gets worse as you get older arthritis and other issues come along