So I believe God's in control so long as we are submitted to his authority and I also know we live in a fallen world so when horrible things happen, I do not believe God makes them happen. I believe he can grow is through it, he can show us himself through it, but I don't think he makes it happen. I just think when we talk about God being in control we should clarify that. I also believe he draws us to himself but he doesn't make us say yes to him! We have to make that decision! Idk I've just been hearing a LOT of calvanist teaching lately, and it doesn't line up with the Bible or the character of God.
