Specialist Reacts to "You Look Disgusting" *Emotional* 

moral of the story: It’s skinCARE not skinPERFECTION. Everyone has their skincare struggles.

"Shes not an advertisement. Shes not supposed to be bought by u" Periodt.

Damn you know he cares when he doesn’t say anything about the make up wipe.

I how when she put on makeup Hyram didn't say" she looks really pretty with makeup" but he said" She's really good at makeup." That just shows you how good of a person Hyrum is

Hyram is one of the most precious human beings alive. Protect him at all costs 🥺❤️

People tell me that "I just need to drink more water" or "use soap and water"they just don't understand because they were blessed to never have had acne.

My heart broke when you said “I hate myself anyway”

literally crying🥺 Hyram you’re such a kind loving human, you’re the type of person i’d want to be best friends with. it warms my heart seeing how kind hearted and accepting you are💗

"the way she presents herself is not advertising. she is not to be purchased or used at your disposal. the only way that statement makes sense is if you view women or people as objects." i have been trying to find a way to explain this for years and you did it perfectly in seconds. thank you, Hyram.

Moral of the story: Do what makes you happy. You can’t win anyway.

“She’s not a f-cking happy meal” Sorry this is not a laughing matter but that got me😂😂👌

The way you explained “false advertising” is perfect

A bunch of people have probably said this already.... but: It really sickens me how rude the world is. If people don’t have anything nice to say, they shouldn’t say anything at all. As a gay man, sometimes i used to get terrified to be myself bc i was worried i would get beat up or called gay slurs. But now these days, I’ve learned that mean people and comments can change who i am. This may have went off topic, but i just wanted to say it.

Why does the nicest people get the most hate. But the drama rude, ignorant, mean celebrity’s just get away with everything they do?

I remember myself crying while watching that video, i had severe acne and i hid it for a really long time until my mom intervened. I was really afraid, i didn't want to receive bad comments about my skin, it was really painful, physically, emotionally and psychologically. I was only 13 years old, I'm 19 now and all that remains of that horrible painful experience is scars. I have keloid scars on both sides of my jaw, i have regular scars around my face, they're healing and so am i.

*" why be mean when u can be nice ? "* - hyram , 2020.

calling her full face of makeup "false advertising" really shows how some men see girls as objects instead of humans. i don't know why, but that one just stood out to me

"Why be mean when you could be nice" should go on a shirt, honestly. Such a simple yet important message.

The 98 people who disliked this video are the ones who left those mean comments

No one and I mean NO ONE has the right to bash or criticize someone’s body, face, weight etc. if you see someone in public with makeup all over them if they say they are beautiful then let them. It’s like . . . Sometimes I wonder if these people leaving these comments ever think “this comment might hurt someone. This comment might make someone hate themselves. This comment may push someone over the edge. This comment may be the breaking point for someone”. Plz remember that YOU are beautiful and YOU are worthy

nothing makes me more frustrated then when people say “do you even wash your face?” to acne sufferers. I’ve had acne since I was 13 and I’m 19 now, I have both a morning and night time skin routine, I drink plenty of water and eat pretty healthy and I still suffer with acne. acne is NORMAL. everyone suffers with spots and breakouts.

I've had people tell me I look hideous because of my acne scars. One time someone said "I could take a vodka shot in the dent in your forehead". (I have some acne pockmarks). statements like that just reinforce the already self negative thoughts people with acne or acne scars face. It's like, the negative words in our own minds are reinforced by other mean people. You are beautiful, with every imperfection do not let MEANIES GET YOU DOWN.

“She’s not a f*cking Happy Meal” Love this.

the world needs more of people with thoughts like Hyram..

*"She's not a f**king Happy Meal."* Don't know why but that specific one got me. I especially hate comments that say something along the line of "Catfisher" and "This is false advertising" or "This is why I have trust issues" just because someone likes to dress up or put on makeup. You're right, Hyram. *We're not f**cking Happy Meals.*

Her acne is not even that bad. People really are so mean, they better never had experienced acne themselves to be this rude and ignorant.

I have been bullied most of my life and one thing I stand by is that I have never left a hate comment no matter who the person is. That makes me feel good ❤️

I love how Hyram is helping perfect everyone's skincare routine and making us humble and respectful.

The weird thing is SHE IS GORGEOUS and if they can’t see that then they really need to get thier eyes checked 🥺

Things that are so triggering and that are not ok to tell someone with acne: -Have you tried to wash your face? Note: majority of the people with acne DO wash and take care of their skin. It just doesn't want to cooperate. -Have you tried starting a skincare routine? Note: As stated above, many of people with acne are deeply insecure and try at all cost getting rid of it. So most likely they do have a skincare routine. -Have you tried going to a dermatologist? Note: I've personally wasted hundreds of dollars with a dermatologist and nothing seems to work. Keep in mind that many people can't afford to go to a dermatologist or don't have access to one and that shouldn't be any of your business. -Have you tried cutting out dairy or going one a diet? Maybe going vegan will help. Note: What you eat can have an effect on how your skin will be BUT it is not exactly the solution for everyone. Besides that, many people can't afford to go on specific diets or are economically dependent of someone and don't want to sound ungrateful for what they are provided with. -Have you tried "x" product? Note: struggling with acne for years I've tried about every product out there. I might have quite a few to try but keep in mind that a specific product will not work for for everyone and not all skins are the same. -If you didn't have acne you'd be so gorgeous. Note: I don't even have to go into why this is wrong. Many of us are and SOOO insecure and already hate ourselves so that will just make it worse. Thank you so much.

This is false advertisement - "The only way this makes sense is if you view women as object", Thank you Hyram, that right there is the problem in society today

“she’s not a BURGER” I cracked up. But you’re so correct. I love that you are so positive and uplifting to others and you call out the haters. 💕

Everyone is beautiful, She can’t control how her skin looks like, she’s tried her best. She can’t change how she looks, she’s so pretty!!

This comment section makes me want to go back to it when I feel bad about myself. Thank you guys so much for being so sweet💜

hyram: Brad help me! Me: dying of laughter😂😂😭

We need to keep hyeam protected at all costs, he’s too pure for our human society these days🥺❤️

Even on tik tok I’ve seen those “expose videos” with girls wearing makeup and not wearing makeup and the comments are like, “that’s illegal”. Why does it matter if someone wears makeup or not? People wear makeup so what. If it makes them feel confident why do you care so much?

I feel like the people who tell women (or anyone) that wearing makeup is false advertising, are probably jealous and arrogant at the same time. Horrible combo. They think they are better looking naturally, but are jealous of the other woman's makeup skills, which they think make her falsely look better than them. That's the only way it even makes a little sense to tell someone that imo. Even then it is till very mean.

I can’t believe someone has the audacity to say these things, every men, women, girl, & boy is beautiful, they are God’s creation and if u wanna make fun of it go ahead, u will pay the price afterwards

saying that your hate towards someone is just an "opnion" doesn't make u any less of a bully. mark it.

“Why be mean when you can be nice?” So true. But you can also just be QUIET if you’re incapable of being nice.

*"But they don't hit as deep because I already hate myself."* I was expecting him to laugh after that, like it was a joke; but when he didn't I got super worried. Please don't hate yourself, you are a precious human being. No one is perfect and you have done so much to help the earth as it is.

When I had horrible cystic acne, you really helped me so much. I would watch them crying. Now I watch your videos for fun because you're such an honest kind person.

You know he cares when he says nothing about the makeup wipe protect him at all costs

"Why be mean when you can be nice" should be everyone's daily mantra. I, like you, think the best of every one. It is very sad to see how awful people can be and it's hard to not let it affect my own mental health. You have a beautiful soul and the world is lucky to have someone like you in it. Please keep making videos! You help people more than you know. :)

No, I didn’t cry..... I’m just pretending to be a water fountain...

I’ve struggled with pimples and acne since I was about 11. I’m now 17 and my skin is still very red and usually covered in acne. I used to hate it, sometimes I still do, but your videos actually helped me to love my skin a lot more. I no longer spend hours trying to scrub away my acne. I’ve had people say horrible things to me as if it wasn’t normal, but it is. Your videos helped me understand that I need to take care of my skin and treat it well no matter whether I have acne or not. And that over stripping, over exfoliating or popping pimples won’t make it go away, and it’ll probably just make it worse in the long run anyway. I’m definitely only just starting to accept my skin the way it is, but you have 100% helped me to do that. Thank you.

I’m old. But this video brought back memories of my acne teenage days and the insecurities and shame that come with it. I’ll never get why people would be so mean.

SOME THINGS TO DO TO HELP: - instead of phrasing “how to get rid of X problem” try “ restore health and balance of skin when X happens” or “how to help your skin take care of itself when X happens” (not that catchy of a title but that’s the direction to move toward) -show/ talk about pores of skin Pores aren’t normalized, we have blurring filters and pore blurring makeup Why is having pores a flaw? That’s literally what skin is... it’s porous like a sponge and absorbs the environment and what you put on it - show/ talk about normalizing discoloration/ hyperpigmentation/ unevenness/ redness Skin isn’t just one color! It’s hundreds if not thousands of colors! - if you’re gonna show us your skin, show us! And NOT APOLOGIZE for being too close or self deprecating I hate when beauty gurus are all like “okay now that I’ve brought you in SUPER close to my face, ugh sorry now you can see everything ugh so gross” and their head doesn’t even take up the entire frame and they still look blurred and flawless... like I wanna see the 5x magnification mirror zoom on your face, basically showing what actual skin looks and not being ashamed of it Edit: Also Hyram, I just wanted to say THANK YOU SO MUCH for noticing AND caring about the issue of perspective when it comes to skincare AND wanting to shift it to be positive! The entire beauty industry is built up from tearing down consumer self esteems. As a result, we are constantly buying to “fix” what the industry advertises is “wrong” with our skin, hair, and body- when in reality what’s “wrong” is just what’s HUMAN. All in all, I think you are such a wonderful human for caring about this issue, and so many other issues (let’s go Merch with A Purpose!) I am so happy you have a platform and that you want to use it to bring about so much positive change in so many different ways! :)

I had a guy address me as "oh! That girl with lot of pimples " back in college . I never felt this broken ever. My mom took me to dermat afterwards because I was crying uncontrollably that day

he is so kind and pure... it melts my heart

I think it would be really cool if you made a video that addressed all the different parts of an acne journey and how to deal with them. Personally, I have experienced everything from cystic acne to fungal acne to acne scarring. It would be amazing if you made a video that not only addressed products that would help but also just breaking down the science and exploring the mental health impacts of acne.

does anyone remember when that vid was trending years ago??

The worst thing to me about my acne - and I’ve had it for 12 years now - is unsolicited advice. Especially because most of the time it comes from people that get like one tiny pimple every two month that they’ll complain about for two days straight. Like I have tried every single skincare routine and diet on the planet, have been on accutane, birthcontrol and antibiotics but they‘ll be like „You should put toothpaste on your pimples to dry them out“. Anyways, thank you so much Hyram. Acne is controlling my life and I’m trying so hard not to give a shit about what people think about it anymore. Seeing you and other creators trying to normalize it helps a lot.

That film was very inspirational. People are so rude and disrespectful sometimes

“Do you wash your face?” Always gets to me, it hits deep and brings back memories to Middle/Elementary school. I remember I used to cry for having so much acne especially at such a young age like 8 or 9, and kids my age weren’t even getting a single breakout. One time during recess I remember this one boy said “look at her face that’s so gross, don’t have that” to like other kids and I was just like “um.....” like that really hurt me. But you know i never went for perfect skin, rather getting to a point where I felt comfortable. My acne has really now improved, so so much especially with watching your videos. So thank you 🥺

To everybody who will read this: You are beautiful. You are loved. You are important. You are worthy. Dont let anyone tell you differently.

Ever since I got ance, everyone asks me, “ew what is that?” or, “you have a pimple”. like i know, please don’t make me more insecure :(

When he said "the sweetest person will still get hate comments" I immedietly thought of poor mollie may after love island

the self-awareness in this video is ASTRONOMICAL. thank you hyram, I reallyreally appreciate you!!!!!

I want a shirt that says "slapping is for the bedroom not your skincare". I love the designs though and they look super comfy.

Imagine being one of the reasons somebody hates themselves without feeling any guilt or remorse for their actions.

I remember watching this a while ago and sobbing. I went through so many changes in life that I took it out on my skin. I haven't picked it in a while but I still struggle. It's ok to have ache. You are all beautiful!!

Everyone in the comments being so supportive, I don't know you guys but i love you all. And I love you hyram!!! ❤💜

People say it’s “misleading” when they wear makeup. Tf do you think they have glittery eyelids and winged eyeliner naturally? But if they wear makeup they can and if they don’t want to they don’t have to they are beautiful either way :) (edit: a lot of people actually have a really good skincare routine, but their acne just doesn’t go away but that doesn’t mean they aren’t clean/hygienic :) )

"I already hate myself so...", that comment broke my heart. Hugs love

I can really relate to this... people often do not realise how effective comments like these are, whether it is on social media or in real life. I'm struggling with really bad acne too and don't even want to go to school without make up on anymore. I remember comments like: "You look sick." "Take care of your skin!" and " How can you even leave the house like that?!" It really can make you sooo unconfident and hating yourself. But, to every person out there that is struggling with acne, body weight or other issues, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL! All of this is normal and you will get over it!

I remember when this video came out when I was younger. I was the only one in middle school with acne and she gave me so much hope. Love this. ❤️

Please don’t say that you hate yourself. It breaks my heart when you say that. I am an over 40 woman who watches your channel and I do not have acne or oily skin but your reviews on products have helped me more than once. You are wonderful at what you do and seem like such a compassionate and kind person. Thanks for everything you do 🙂 Much love to you!

Acne is not disgusting, having acne doesn't make you look disgusting. You can be beautiful and have acne. Beauty and disgusting are not opposites. Your value and importance does not rely on beauty.

Hyram is such a pure soul ❤️

Late to the video, but Em was the first person I identified with. She got me into makeup and brought back my confidence while still telling me that I was not alone (my skin could not relate to other beauty youtubers at the time so I really appreciated her). I got a shit ton of unsolicited comments in middle school/my family in regards to my skin and I would drape my hair in front of my face so people couldn't see the huge and plentiful cystic pimples I had. I even developed BDD in regards to my face. I do feel better (about a good 50% better - I try my best) about myself and my skin has improved (I'd really like to thank research and birth control for helping my hormones that contributed to my cysts). I don't think that could have happened without Em and this video. So happy she is back!

I just love Hyram. I truly can’t imagine why he doesn’t love himself, as he is such a kind, smart, and caring person. I love how he didn’t hold back, and decided to react to this video. The internet needs more people like Hyram. Ps- Hyram if you see this, I’m OBSESSED with your new merch. Congrats!! I plan on ordering a phone case very soon💕💕

"ur forehead looks like a dot to dot" "ur dirty" "why dont u wash ur face?" all things that have been said to me people can be horrid but dont let them bring u down u are beautiful the way u are and u dont need to change for anyone.

honestly thank you for this video. I’ve been struggling with acne recently and it really gets to me. When I look in the mirror I cry because I feel so awful and gross about myself. So thank you for this video it really helped me to understand that acne is a normal thing.

Thank you so much Hyram for using your platform to bring attention to this amazing woman. She has been through so much in the past few years behind the scenes, and she still chooses to support others, even through her own struggles. Em, (MyPaleSkin) in the 1% chance that you will ever see this, thank you for giving me the confidence to rise above the criticism of others when I was going through some pretty bad bullying at my old school. I will be forever grateful for what you have given me. Sending love to you always and forever❤️

5:59 why that makeup wipe didn't trigger him😂 I just wanted to settle the mood of people don't come at me❤

As a girl who doesn’t typically wear makeup for a lot of reasons, I have a lot of internalized misogyny to battle about feeling like I’m better somehow because of it. I admire pretty makeup, but I don’t always understand why people feel like they have to wear makeup cuz I don’t feel that. I don’t always have a good first thought, but I’m working everyday to undo that and have a kind second thought and never comment on someone’s appearance unless they’ve asked and to be kind always.

New subscriber here! I felt that. As a person that suffers from the occasional breakouts, those statements hurt. I had acne when I was in high school from 06-10 and one year of college in 2011. I’ve been having a breakout since January and I’m learning ingredients thanks to Cassandra. I wish this community existed back then when I was in high school.

Thanks for posting this Hyram. I'd somehow never seen it before. My acne was awful until I finally went on isotretinoin (or accutane) at age 28. It's amazing how little people understand about it, how they think it's to do with the products you use (I tried all of them over the course of 11 years I think! Topical products never did it, they just didn't) or what you are eating (I also tried every diet around, cutting dairy, cutting alcohol, cutting gluten, eating only organic, you name it) or something as silly as not changing your pillowcase or touching your face. Anyone suffering from acne for long enough has tried everything. They don't want advice from you, but something that they DO need to hear, is how beautiful they are. I never heard anyone say 'your skin looks great' until after my isotretinoin treatment. It did feel good to finally hear it, to hear that I was beautiful. But I have seen so many people with acne that I have thought looked beautiful too! It's true, she is really really gorgeous, and her message is exactly what anyone suffering from acne needs to hear. You're beautiful. And yes, I teared up too!

I just tell people who say “false advertisement” that they are really dumb if they think I was born with purple lids and red lips with highlighter that shows in outer space. Like of course I don’t look like that naturally.

"Why be mean when you can be nice?" This is such an important problematic you put out there, thank you so much ! I was bullied all my school life since kindergarden for like anything: my curly hair, my glasses, my weight, my clothes... I wasn't a bad person, I didn't do anything to be treated like this, but people liked to be mean towards me, or making fun of me. Due to this I never had self estime and always felt that I was the problem, that I had to change to be loved by my classmates. But I realise after that it wasn't my fault. Sadly certain people like to be mean towards other for no reason, and it needs to change. I hope my english isn't to bad, love from France!

Bailey sarian definitely, she’s always so honest about her skin difficulties and I love her

I completely stand for everything Hyram said. So many people can be mean and evil on the internet for no reason. It makes no sense because all it does is mentally hurt the person they target. It’s ridiculous. This girl is beautiful and doesn’t deserve any hate. Hyram is the nicest person who cares so much.

I can’t believe people have the nerve to say things like that… It literally kills me

"Have you ever try washing face with xyz soap?" "You should cut on xyz" "Oh my god, what happened to your face? You look so bad!" "Just drink more water" "I saw one aesthetician acne treatment on TV. You should try, it's only 500 $!" You know what? The best treatment for my acne would be just a duct tape for those 'advisors'.

i love your soul. your words scream volumes of your character and your heart. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!

This make me cry too. It is so powerful. Everyone is different and everyone is beautiful. I have such sensitive skin, and I struggle with Psoriasis, when I would have a flare up, I would get so many horrible comments like that, as my worst areas are my face and scalp xxxx

That "has she ever washed her face" is just killing me I used to have bad acne and my friends told me "are you washing your face?" and those shts made my confidence fall down

This- just this- is so mean. I remember being told when I'd just hv ONE pimple being told from my friends "you hv a pimple right there, and there, and ur forehead" or " hv u ever used proactive" or " try a facemask" or "just POP THE PIMPLE" I'm like "you don't think I've tried any of those?!" So I grew up wanting clear skin but then I realized, no skin can rlly be perfect. Having "perfect" skin wld be impossible to get and even more harder to maintain. Acne is normal, it's great if u want to help with acne to feel more confident but NEVER to meet someone else's praise. "we all need to learn to love ourselves without the approval of others"-Melanie Martinez

“Buy it you piece of shit” oh Hyram you’re hilarious and always bring such a smile to my rough days, and normal days! You’re so sweet and this video gave me chills

I have had the worst adult acne the past few weeks, and it’s definitteellyyyyy been effecting my self esteem. You posting this video is such a blessing to me, thank you so much 🥰

imperfections makes you perfect PERIODT

My skin used to be so bad my aunt would tell me it was embarrassing to leave the house with me when I wasn’t wearing makeup, I have cleared skin now and she doesn’t make those comments anymore but I still believe them and it makes me a bit uneasy going out without makeup, because I am only comfortable outside with makeup on now people make comments like “when are you going to do a face reveal” but when I don’t wear makeup I get comments being called “Gollum” or “my precious” people’s comments do hurt and sometimes you feel like you can’t win, having acne doesn’t mean you’re unclean or it isn’t a result of your weight, more people should be told that their acne is still beautiful

I remember being told by someone I respected to cover up a pimple on my forehead when I was 13 and feeling ashamed and embarrassed but I didn't know how to put makeup on and I was honestly nervous leaving the house that day with a huge pimple on my face. I don't think we should have to cover-up our acne, or feel like we have to put makeup on. Once in a very blue moon will I wear makeup because I've personally never really liked wearing it ( and I think I reacted in the opposite direction and rebelled against makeup), but I've had friends and co-workers tell me they can't leave the house without makeup on or they feel insecure. This is a great message your sharing, acne needs to be normalized.

This video I saw when I had huge problem with acne. And she helped me so much. She encouraged me. I am glad you posted this video. ❤

I still can’t get over how he sits on his knees 😭

The people that clicked thumbs down just had tears in there eyes because Hyram is so sweet and seeing him upset hurts their heart 💔

Hyram you are an old soul *pressed send too soon* thank you for your compassion. It’s contagious

The last part where people talked about their acne got to me. I've had acne for years and it's a major factor as to why my self confidence is so low. Sometimes it feels dumb since it's just skin but it's affected my life. I haven't worn a shirt without sleeves in probably 6 years. It's hard especially when I'm breaking out. When I'm breaking out I don't want anyone to see me. Sometimes I feel disgusting but I've worked on myself and I've gotten better at seeing past it but it's still a struggle. I've watched it multiple times before and I still cry/tear up