Today we're gonna be taking a look at a couple cringe tiktoks from earlier this week. First an entitled girl who demands high dating standards, then a girl who has problem with meat Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
In my opinion people should split the bill until they are seriously interested in each other or are dating. Neither men nor women should pay for everything on the first date.
As a female I can honestly say that meeting for 30 minutes and maybe a cup of coffee for a first date is the safest and sanest thing you can do. Do you actually want to be stuck on a long date somewhere and find out it isn't working out?? Why would you want to do THAT to yourself? Just meet and see if it clicks for both of you. You can always move on to get a bite and spend more time together if it's going great. You cannot easily extricate yourself from a 5 course meal tho.
I should try and find her channel and post a comment -> At least you sit up pretty but no fancy meals for you until we see how you make me a sammich and fetch a beer. Then I'll consider taking you for a walk.🐕 🤣🤣🤣
Ya, but the problem there is, you both would need to use the toilet for some really juicy squirts. Not appealing for date food. But, it could be trolling if you take her,,
The good thing about a coffee date is you can usually tell in about 5 minutes if you connect with someone. Your coffee date is over in 20 minutes. If you sit down for a meal with someone that you don't hit it off with then you're stuck for almost 2 hours with that person.
I don't mind coffee and walks. Maybe because I've been married a long time but even then I like coffee and walks. Xenoshot you hit it on the head when you said that's a good way to get to know someone by coffee and walks
I personally preferred one on one dates where there weren’t distractions like walks, or coffee in the park. You can talk, get to know each other, and be appropriately vulnerable without the pressure of being in a more cliche date environment. If you enjoy just walking around, or hanging out on a bench with each other, then you can go get lunch or dinner. I’m also super into outdoorsy shit so if a dude didn’t want to walk some paved path for an hour, they sure as shit wouldn’t spend 2 weeks deep woods camping with me, off trail. I could count out 10 mike bike rides and rock climbing. Canoeing could be ok with them but probably not on serious rapids. I wouldn’t want to date someone who prefers restaurants to actually doing something. I got a stove at home and it works just fine. Food comes out better when my husband and I cook together vs going to a restaurant, a lot of times.
Our first date was a walk & we've been happily married for over 10 years. 🥰☺️ You said it- she's 40 & single & will stay that way. Being an egotistical gold digger will only get you as far as arm candy- not a real and loving relationship. 🤷🏻♀️
I know plenty of guys who would put up with that, lol. There are billions of people in the world and not everyone will find her little bratty rant unattractive. Some people like to be used and abused. Weird kink.. but it’s definitely reality.
LOL That first gal. WOW! Actually, I met my husband quite by accident at the park walking my Dog; when you're at a park known for people walking their dogs you don't dress up or do yourself up all fancy with the hair and make-up. My husband MET me....the real me NOT all done up and actually prefers me that way. It's been 15 years and I've never felt so accepted in a relationship and THAT is more important to me than how a person hold's chopsticks!
Yes, it’s called political correctness and it’s the most expensive and exclusive drug known to man. Usually costing in the tens to hundreds of thousands of dollars and you have to go to a propaganda center, a.k.a. Universities, to acquire it. Thankfully, the antidote is cheap but rare. A good butt whoopin’, good parenting, and a dose of what doctors refer to as “real life” should take care of it. Oh, and burn their television. Or you could skip all that and introduce them to Jesus
Her next video is going to give us a history lesson on the Great Potato Blight famine and demand that nobody eats a damn potato unless they’re Irish. She likes stereotypes and random snippets of history that are entirely out of context, so I have no doubt she would believe the potato thing that I literally made up just now. I really hope people stop pretending that random sh*t they make up is real.
So her Expresso machine works fabulous. But her stove and oven does not? So she talks about studying people here for a bit. Well we studied what she said and we don't want her.
So it's a problem she has preferences and personal standards.. So many people pressed, like they have a shot of dating her either way, not everyone is for everyone and that is okay
I mean it's fine to say no to someone. If you don't want to go on a walk, that's fine, you don't have to. My personal issue is that she comes off as incredibly entitled and condescending in that video. By my personal preferences and standards, that video makes her look incredibly unattractive in the personality department.
@@frith.calluna And that is okay too! She doesn't have to and also can't be attractive to all, is my point. That way is real. It's just weird to me, like different folks different strokes, you know. More crazy to me is something i've heard about having to sleep with someone to take them to dinner
You have sadly low standards. That’s not a date and it’s sad that you think that. By that logic, going on a “date” to McDonald’s is good enough for you. You’re teaching men that you’re not worth while. No one is saying they have to drop hundreds on you the first time but a nice basic dinner and a movie is minimum.. or doing something romantic like cooking together. It’s so sad that men these days and women like you don’t know your worth.
@bailey walters actually, when I’ve gone on dinner dates, we sat for hours after eating just talking and laughing. So yeah. You can get to know one another while having a nice dinner and watching a movie together and talking about the movie when you’re done. You either have no personality or he doesn’t have one. Also, there’s plenty of nice date activities to do besides regular dinner and a movie. You can go to the aquarium, a museum, a theme park, go-karting, laser tag, whatever you both are interested in that can be fun and romantic and shows effort. Staying in and cooking a nice romantic meal together is also a date. A walk in the park or only grabbing coffee is not a date. That’s hanging out and talking. It’s sad that folks don’t seem to know the difference.
@@Rozegolden Who are you to judge peoples standards? if this is what she wants for a date, then that is her choice. let this girl be and do what she wants with her life. she is not "teaching" anything. It is not where you go on the date, it's who you go with, If the guy is super chill, polite, and respectful that is all that matters. You will find out later in life that means nothing in comparasion.
Message to progressive white people: Your hearts are in the right place and that is appreciated. But, please, for the love of everything holy, chill out. Rather than looking for these obscure theories and issues about how to address racism (that I bet were never even considered by people of color), just focus on the KNOWN issues related to systemic racism, such as: police racial profiling and abuse, less funded schools, and gerrymandering.
She's not as bad as Heather from Steve Harvey Show. RU-vid "The Longest Dating Requirement List." Her list was too long for Steve to list them all. It's so ridiculous! Steve, "Do you enjoy quiet time?" Heather, "I do." Steve, "Well... you're going to get a lot of them." LoL
Actually it proves democracy is a fallacy because too many dumb people exist to make it work, and most of them dont even care enough to bother to vote. Women sell out their vote to whoever landers to them to the most and lack any future vision.
Tbh the first girl just has preferences. I don't think that there is anything wrong with that. She is not shitting on all men. She just states her preferences
@@ratboi7676 We're constantly making excuses for women's entitlement issues and passing them off as preferences. These aren't standards, they're ridiculous demands that ought not to be tolerated. If a man had made such ridiculous demands, we wouldn't tolerate it. So, why make the exception when it's a woman?
@@mopes2713 valid point. Lots of terrible societal side effects. The US murder rate is spiking without signs of peaking, reproductive rate flattened. Mental health issues all around for decades to come
That girl’s logic on meat and racism is sooo stupid!! I’m talking hot dog water level stupid. 🙄 As a vegetarian, we don’t claim her (but she’s an example of a human that makes me like animals even more!). Love your videos BTW!! ☺️
3:17 Fun fact: Chitterlings has been a typical spanish recipe since XV century. And was food for shepherds and village people. So, using her logic, she's saying that people eating meat are black or spaniard.
I have always said, "regarding dating sites, and this, there's a reason their single". This woman needs to speak with the women out there in a relationship that get cheated on, beaten, lied to, etc. If I made a mistake going out with her, after seeing this video first, I would take her to a high end resturaunt, hold my chop sticks wrong intentionally, light up a cigarette, blow my nose, just to get her reaction. Then I would excuse my self, and leave before paying the bill.
Concerning the first lady: Those are her standards. If you can’t meet her standards then it’s a win-win for both of you since you both won’t be wasting each other’s time. Everyone has standards and boundaries. Why are you so angry about her boundaries?
@@starrilysky I have never once been offended if I didn’t meet a dude’s standards. I’ve told a few to not ignore what they consider dealbreakers in me just because they like me in the moment. It ain’t gonna work out well for us in the long run, dude
1. You are mistaken. She is just being sarcastic. :) 2. Having so much makeup that your own face is no longer visible is ugly imho. 3. I would never want to date someone who has no personality anyway.
I agree with everything you said except for your comments on her appearance. I think she is a stunner (albeit not natural) and we shouldn't regard encroaching on 40 and being single as a "failure."
@@Pleasetiemyshoes I'm 50 and recently divorced. I work nights in an automotive plant six nights a week. Where the fuck else am I going to meet someone. And dating sites don't have mostly 18 and younger people on them. What a stupid ass statement.
@@Pleasetiemyshoes where should people 30+ look for a partner, an elderly home? xD Besides there are 18+ people who like older partners and 30+ people who are attrackted to younger people (which are 18+) I think you are going to change your mind about dating apps when you turn 40 and become a single :) Finding a partner is hard
@@jaxager this broad is on tiktok. An app populated by children. Dont get your incel panties in a bunch because you missed the context in the entire video
(This is for the first girl). I’m gonna be honest I don’t see much wrong with what she’s saying.. imo it seems like she knows her worth and knows how SHE wants to be treated in a relationship, she sounds like someone who’s been treated badly by a man in the past and now has very high standards that may seem unfair to some people..and that fine! If you find it unfair just don’t ask her on a date..she won’t change her standards for you and it probably wouldn’t work out anyway... the guy filming this video is a good example, if you classify her video as a “warning sign” and it makes you uninterested in her that’s okay because that was probably her plan to begin with... I’m not agreeing or disagreeing with anyone here I’m just saying, she’s putting her standards right out in the open and if you listen to them and don’t think that it would be something you’re interested in then you 2 probably wouldn’t be a good match and nothing has to happen. It’s better for people to know right off the bat what she’s expecting rather then ask her out and find out the hard way. Sorry that was long I tend to over explain things but seeing as there were a lot of people in the comments disagreeing with her I just wanted to add a different perspective in to the conversation 👍
I agree with Jack. It's fine to have standards, but to make a video and speak like you're better than other people (which is exactly how she presents herself) makes her unappealing.
I love a good walk and talk, being out in nature, you get to know someone a bit better. Dinner is awkward for a first date. Eating and talking whilst they may have sauce on their lip, I’m concerned if there is broccoli in my teeth..... the anxiety of it all🤯
But what is low standard about going for a walk or meeting for coffee except the price? She is saying if you don't have money to spend on me you don't stand a chance.
Lol, there's high standards and then ridiculous demands passed of as standards. She's not attractive enough to do either and so she's single. Now we're having fun mocking her. 😂
@@jonathanxavier2026 I think she is attractive but no one is attractive enough that you should stoop to her bullshit. She is using that attractiveness because she knows it can deflect from her bullshit for a lot of men.
My mother said to me once .. "Love is a funny thing, and we don't choose who we fall in love with. So, if you don't want to marry a gas station attendant then, don't date one. " I was young ( not even close to dating age), but I never forgot those words.
That mega spoiled woman , I'm guessing early to mid 40's. Obviously she's more about being spoiled and money. Not an actual relationship. Sadly there are alot of foolish men who will fall for her superficial dating standards then regret it years later when she wants a divorce (she met someone, months before who has more money and maybe a title) and regret even more that she manipulate him into not having a pre-nup. Because it's true love. Anyone who has money, property, good assets should have a pre-nup. Both parties. Especially if there are kids from previous relationship.. PROTECT YOURSELF FROM GREEDY PARTNERS. IF IT'S TRUE LOVE, NO ONE SHOULD HAVE A PROBLEM. RIGHT? RIGHT!
Well, never mind the dating, does that "queen" blond have that same crew posse along for the entire relationship (provided that any guy passes the dating stage)?
Two winners! #1 wants the bank balance to see if it’s high enough. #2 has decided this line of finger wagging bs is her ticket to attention. Both are fools.
Maybe she just needs to drop her drawers and get it over with. Since having a cup of coffee and talking to get to know someone is too slow for you. Slavery girl, go take several seats. How would you know anything about a Black person. She is just talking to hear herself talk.
How is eating meat appropriation?? I'm English and I'm sure every single ancestor going back to cave man times are meat. Plus she's American so if she eats anything roasted she's appropriating British culture to raost any food you can. She needs to stop speaking English as she isn't English.
Well, the second girl, My family and I are going to have Mexican food on Tuesday. Hope it doesn't offend you! And the first girl, her standards are too damn high. I'm so glad I'm more humble than her.
As someone raised by my Japanese side; a coffee or walk date is CHEAP. That is unacceptable. If you like me, you’ll take me out. & EVERY drinks date = trying to take me home. This is exactly why I date foreign men, like Germans who have similar cultures. lmfao Because of this shit right here. EDIT: and I’m not single!!! lol
I find it a bit funny that a woman who contributes nothing financially to a date thinks they're in a position to decide what's cheap. If you weren't cheap, you'd be the one paying. Thankfully, these ridiculous customs are dying out. Lol
This made me laugh, this is actually how mothers in pakistani society judge a potential daughter in law for their son. From how she makes chai to how she's dressed and conducts herself. Although the payout is being her husbands family's housemaid for life but hey thats respectful Muslim society.
I don't see anything wrong with expecting to be taken for dinner. If the person likes you enough. Why is it so far of a reach? She's not demanding a holiday. Don't go on walks or have drinks with a stranger. It can be dangerous
That’s what I’m saying. These people are demonizing this poor lady for wanting a dinner date over a coffee/walk. They’re also mad she’s teaching young girls to have that basic standard. It’s really odd to me.
I don't mind her. She's putting herself out there. You choose what you want and it's better knowing what you're choosing prior to selecting. I agree. I actually like the influence of social media. I would've learned about far more red flags had I been more social media savvy.
to me, it's about the effort the guy puts in; if they're not even going to try to impress you on the first date, they will always put the bare minimum in the relationship, bc apparently she's fine with it
@@lang-ed3bk why would you need to impress someone that you're planning on spending the rest of your life with? Wouldn't it just be better being yourself instead looking to be wowed? Also, at what point in the relationship is it acceptable not to be impressed?
@@madewithrealdiamonds i do not want someone that will put in the bare minimum. whoever you marry should be the most special person to you, that person deserves more effort than the bare minimum from you. i'm not going to waste time with several dates to find out if or when he will finally start give me more than the minimum. imo, it's never acceptable to stop trying to impress; once you do, you start taking them for granted. that's when you start taking dumps in front of them. impressing someone can be as simple as planning a romantic picnic, to watch the sunset, bc you knew they always wanted to watch one. not just an easy coffee date, bc "i don't know if you're worth me spending money on you."
In the old days, you called on someone at their house. You got to know the person and your parents and family were there. It wasn't about having money spent on you.
