I cut my hair too want my mom told me that is not right to love the same sex and girls do not have short hair or look like a man. So I shaved them all at 18 years old. I'm 34 now, the relation with my parents is not as good as I want, but the accept the fact that I'm a lesbian and they love my fiancee. My mom still wants me to put a dress on my wedding day... I'm more a suit person.