@@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE come on lil sis we did it again I'm so glad you are apart of all this boo more episodes coming it is always a great vibe when us 4 get together 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✨🙌🏾
Great topics...great discussions...insightful and interesting from start to finish....loved seeing the contrasting views between men and women as well as each individual person...it had everything a good podcast should have and more...depth...laughter...knowledge....opinions....positive and negative views on certain aspects of the convos but that's what made it an enjoyable watch overall....loved it!...lovely to see everything able to express their views and speak openly in a mature and respectful way...we need more of this...🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
Fend makes a solid point! You can love & care for your children/stepchildren but when they grow they make their own decisions. The wedding situation, mum should have informed her partner of her daughters choice. Great pod guys. Topics not too heavy, conversation had good flow, good scenarios & questions. Tan, love the colour of your hair ❤ looks beautiful on you. Anton your personality definitly seperates you from the rest 😊
Thank you so much Hun for your lovely compliment and feedback 🩷means a lot so glad you enjoyed the episode 😊 Anton most definitely is a 💎 Fends Question was on point 👏🏾 And lil sis Aa'ishah was such a vibe ✨ I love having them on the platform 🙏🏾🤗
@@realfend Thank you for coming on again Bro always lovely having you lot on I absolutely loved this episode as well we all are such a vibe when we are together 🤗✨
“Father” is a biological term, while a “Dad” is a real parent. A dad is there for his child as a persistent, loving force in their life, while a father just refers to anyone who has had a child. It takes a real commitment and warmth to be a dad, while a father might not even see his child regularly. A stepfather or stepdad is a biologically unrelated male parent married to one's preexisting parent. A stepfather-in-law is a stepfather of one's spouse. Children from his spouse's previous unions are known as his stepchildren.
@@mrdifferentmdubai 💯👏🏾👏🏾 sometimes it's stepfather's who have stepped up when Real dad's haven't I know many people whose stepfather's have been there constantly in their lives while the biological dads weren't around Thank you for your feedback much appreciated 🤗
Great conversation with depth and different perspectives. Great question from Fend and creeper dropping the gems as usual. Circle in the square. Love is about what you can take ❤
Love this ❤ love the topic about Jamaica. 🇯🇲 had some banging Jamaican food the other day. Found a new restaurant and will be ordering that a lot 😂❤ got really good convos here guys! Love ❤
Not me watching this brilliant podcast at early hours of the morning (crazy o'clock) while washing dishes again 👀✨️ this is becoming a bit of a habbit 😂 like when you get addicted to a series.. I'm now waiting for the next one 🙌🏽 Nah seriously there are some really good topics there 👏🏽👏🏽 Hearing all the opinions is interesting haha, love it. 🎤👑
I believe that everyone here may have a different perspective on this matter. When a man loves a woman and decides to take on the responsibility of her daughter, it is because he genuinely cares for and cherishes that woman. His primary goal is to ensure her happiness, and if he is unable to make the child happy, it deeply affects him because the woman he has chosen means the world to him.
An interesting podcast, great to hear everyone’s perspectives on the Dad paying for the wedding, in my view he should have deserved more respect from the daughter & the mother. A waste man father that’s not there for the child growing up shouldn’t deserve to be involved when it’s time to reap what was sown & grown by another Dad stepping in! Had me laughing with Tan tried the deep voice, totally agree with Creeps when a man tells children to stop messing around they immediately listen. Thanks all for a great podcast 🔥
@@sitad1998 Thank you so much sweetheart for your feedback much appreciated and yes me trying the deep voice was crazy 🤣 totally agree with you with your views on the step dad 💯he definitely deserves more respect for raising the child and the biological dad is a waste man Creeper was definitely spot on with what he said men naturally have authority in their voice More episodes on the way ✨
Great topic to discuss🎉❤ 💯 the stepdad shouldn’t be paying for that wedding, but I think he could still contribute a little to it since he’s raised her as his own.
Love this episode. Shout out to my Twin Creeper Crisis, never a dull moment when watching you. Circle in the square, facts 💯. Big up Fend, loved the generational wealth question 👏🏾. As always Tan has come with bubbly energy and good conversation. Great topics and scenarios in this episode 👌🏾
@@Azaliea_DRE Aww much love sis Thank you for your beautiful feedback means a lot I truly loved filming this episode it's always such a great vibe when us 4 get together so happy we did a part ✌🏾 🤗
@@creepercrisis 💯 and there’s still so much you can share with everyone. I’m proud, exactly how you are as a person on camera, you are the same off camera. You will never fail because you are yourself 💯
Amazing! Such a good watch 👌🏽🔥 I always look forward to relaxing and watching the next episodes, nothing but authenticity throughout. May I also add how balanced it is too, keep it 💯 always 👌🏽 I look forward to the next one. Very interesting,Thankyou ❤️
Loved that thanks so much.. all your personalities shine so bright, I wanted to comment every two minutes haha creeper crisis - haha youv definitely got a way with words what a talent!! Very humbling watch brilliant 💜
I love organic conversations, and it is always a good insight to hear all opinions without judgement. I'm looking forward to more, well done to everyone ❤ Mr Crisis love to you always, I think we need to study those shapes properly.
Absolutely loved this ❤ everyone was so passionate and had really great points/views which was interesting to hear 👌 lovely to see you all having a laugh as well ☺️ Big up to you all 👏👏🔥
Very nice conversation. With regards to us building legacy, it's possible in Africa. I currently reside in Ghana and there are many of our people from the Diaspora here building legacies. We need to have more conversations about these positive developments. Congratulations once again to my beautiful POC shining light on issues that need to be addressed and spoken about. Love Love. Ase
@@thetalkrealpodcasts I really did enjoy the conversation and as I said these need to happen more in our community in Africa. I could talk for days on the step dad vs dad conversation. I have both so will decline comment at this time. Thanks once again for your open convo. Look forward to more. Thanks for sharing @creepercrisis 💙💙🫂
Love the energy you guys brought to this ✨️ some really relevant and interesting topics discussed, it's nice to see attachment awareness thrown in here too. I really enjoyed watching, great podcast guys 🎉❤
Nice topics to get into. You guys were all passionate about your parts. I love that❤definitely a great team right there👏🏾 cant wait for the next one🙌🏾. Although i feel like i got tricked at the end when mentioning podsquad, i got gassed. I thought part 2 was coming, and then i heard the date 😑🤣🤣🤣 i see u was late puttin this out😅 cant wait to see what else you have in store. Keep up the great work guys👌🏾🥂🫶🏾
Excellent topics discussed with great depth and balance coming from both women & men Guys about pressing issues that are a part of our day to day life's and so often raised but with hostility, but this was handled with class and maturity. Keep on keeping guys well done, I pray it will open up the eyes of the intended targets. Loving the way you all addressed matters. Creeper keep on upon your journey # Coach Lou ❤
This is an amazing episode, my king.forget the biological dad it takes a real man to step up to be a dad. When your real dad has never helped or wanted to know you, then i wouldn't want to know him at all he dosnt deserve the title dad at all. The step dad steps up he should be awarded to be called a dad.i love this podcast so much 💯 real talk fend made a good point.this touched home you all had amazing opinions.love to you creeper crisis my king i am so proud of you for this .❤Xxx
Some interesting discussion on here, defo forget the step dad paying, if she wants her dad there then it's time for the step dad to step down and daddy to step up!!! Ain't no girl code when it come to holding secrets, be loyal to yourself and out them 😂😂 creeper comes with some scenarios here come on you come to shut it down again 😂 again another amazing podcast!! Well done everyone it's nice to have a room full of different opinions
@@Sammi3in1 thank you so much for your feedback much appreciated it I Definitely had a great time filming this 🤗glad you enjoyed it im glad it was a well balanced episode 🙏🏾
@@thetalkrealpodcastsdefinitely was love the part when the woman mentioned people need to support there own, as I'm a strong believer in that!! Girl code man code anyone will sell u out at the right price so people need to be mindful of that!! Can't wait to watch the next one!!
Creeper always coming with the facts and one liners! People be exchanging energy recklessly.... I chose to stay clean hearted. Coming from a broken family I was not willing to continue the cycle.. I appreciate the dad points 👉 I don't deal with waste and plan a childless life 🎉 unless a man can change my perception. Anyway here for these topics... ❤
Veery interesting . Yes anyone can make a child but being a proper father is another thing . Being there a step father is ok if he’s willing to be a decent step father . ❤
Yeah this was interesting to watch ... well done all ... love the contrast and different opinions and like CC i'm there shouting yeah he shouldn't be paying lol... but yeah was nice to have the different opinions and so many facts and gems dropped .. genuinely if men and women can communicate in open forums like this it helps the bigger picture... Creeper another co hosting where the anticipation for what's to come is 🤯 ... RIP Nan ... come to earth crying .. leaving smiling`/`laughing ... and facts re Mother Nature, Mother Earth and father fake/Christmas lol / weight restriction on luggage lol /... maybe not bad boys 4 but 3 ?
😂 maybe not a bad boy 4 lol that was funny yea we was on the call most of today discussing this interview your not wrong at all we have the same stance
💯 it would be the stepdad! Forget the biological father when he didn’t raise or put anytime time effect etc in! That’s not a dad! Great convo again! Really enjoyed the watch! Anton…. Always enjoy listening to your comments and feedback! You’re a very wise man! And funny! lol ❤👏🏻👏🏻🍾 xx
Amazing podcast by the way guys also for the step dad I would definitely expect him to walk her down the aisle but as a woman she had faith her dad had changed if that’s the case he should pay for the wedding should be proud to pay and make up for the time he lost🤦🏻♀️step dad ain’t just there for the convenience he’s been there for the long run not like her so called dad Also the cheating thing I just don’t get it if he or she was happy from the start then it changed clearly wasn’t meant to be if you can’t talk to your man or girl to change up things then cut. Creeper ur energy is always on point straight facts darling keep being u 🫶looking forward to the next pod 🥰
A few good topics to cover here you 4 👏 ... looking dapper n beautiful all of you... sooo the you don't know unless you seen the WhatsApp updates is definitely close to my heart 😂... I'm definitely that type of person! The 1st topic though I have a different spin th 2 men be adults and proper for that girl on her day sit down away from women and speak like real come up with a balance to both pay IF the biological dad can't afford all of it.. and if he don't show his hand for that option then do the half way down swap over from step dad to biological dad to give you away ... there is always a middle ground solution that's thinking of everyone's feelings... but I agree with both points step dad shouldn't of been paying firstly to me im a mum I would of been doing that bill for my girl if her dad's a dead beat not my partner and I definitely wouldn't of slated him for standing up for himself! When he's raised her and paid enough already, but the bit fend said it's her wedding day it goes how she wants n that's it.😅 princesses will be princesses ... I'm a be paying my own wedding with my man so no drama forget that negative family energy ha 😅
The partnership now I definitely have to agree with anton it's about staying together through the rough and holding your bullshit you both got to work on to get through to the happy times in a relationship, love is through everything you don't love your own child until you cant anymore same goes for the partner you said yes I do to... says sickness and health, richer for poorer and all the rest, if your not married yet then you have to go through test to see if use are matched to get through war together 🗣💯 the biggest lesson though is realising some people will truly only change bad habits etc and work on themselves for that 1 person and that person they do it for is their forever love nobody is getting between them. Not even themselves they will flip anything they did wrong before around to make it work - this is communication and comprehension ❤
Red flags / boundaries- tbh not 1 person said it.. but for me it's what's on their clares law .. and I'm not talking little bad mistake things we all have done stuff we wish we didn't at some point... but im talking the thing that matters most children's protection I'm making sure no known threats around. Before that stage i didn't have boundaries I had potentially looking for instead... which I got but he did come with things I wanted to smack out of him instead we grown n learnt 😅 I try to look at that 80% like anton said.. but 1st ill blow up n calm down n we have that good adult time 😆.... and no if my man says i aint got something best believe ima give him that or something better that it takes his mind of what he thought he was craving out on the streets 🫡 before he gets himself hurt 🤨. We didn't have no open agreement keep it no cheating thank you.
Money is what she played up about when its the sentimentality of walking her down the isle that he played up about.. he has values the step daughter has learnt yet . Where is the real dads offer of paying .. if hes back hes back whatever it comes with...
