Did that guy really think "I love you, but not as much as my real children" was going to fix the problem? Like... That's a natural 1 on the persuasion check, holy fuck.
Story 1: SV, Thank you for respecting OP by doing her story as she had written it. That sweet gal's life emploded. I hope she finds someone that she can sit down with. A grief therapist who specializes in family suicide would be the best. However with OP's "family" , I don't see that happening. She could start with her school counselor. The counselor would be able to guide her to organizations that can help her. Home life is going to get worse. Her "family" will punish her for receiving all of her sisters inheritance. The sooner OP gets help, the better chance she has. Without it, she'll follow her sisters path.
When someone is very happy after a period of depression, that means they're going to off themselves and pretend to be happy to hide what their plans are.
Robert: "I'm not her real father so I don't consider her my real daughter" ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Also Robert: "Why doesn't she treat me like her real father!?"😡
I really don’t understand why its so hard for him to get. In simpler terms: If i tell a childhood friend “yeah you’re not my real friend”, double down on that statement, never elaborate or try to mend it, would i be surprised if they don’t invite me to their birthday? No. Its exactly what i said - they’re not my friend, im not their friend, not my birthday invitation - same as not his daughter, no dad position, no invitation for doing dad activities.
Story 3: what a fool of a stepdad. "It was a long time ago, she should get over it." If you haven't noticed dummy, she did. That's why she got her real family to walk her down the aisle. 😂
Story 1 I’ll bet any money that op is from an Asian country (Korea or Japan). Those fandoms will drive you mad. They’re literally like cults. Quiet a few of their celebrities take themselves out (for a lack of better words without using the word) from public pressure. Add a shitty family to that and it just breaks your heart. Ppl if a depressed person starts being happy and upbeat out of nowhere RUN to them. Don’t walk, don’t call, don’t text literally run to them. That is a really big sign that they are at the end of their rope. Pls take heed. So many miss this sign and think they’re doing okay. They are NOT okay! 😢 Story 2: Robert got exactly what he deserved. You raised her from 2 she was a baby and didn’t have any set memories from her real father. He was her father. Then to say he don’t love her like his real family then repeated and doubled down when caught. Smh He has no right to be mad he doesn’t get to walk her down the aisle. That’s a position for a father and he made it damn clear he wasn’t her father. He don’t get to pick and choose when she is his daughter and when she isn’t. He has a real daughter he can walk her down the aisle. Glad the mother took up for her daughter and didn’t push him onto her daughter.
Poor crybaby Robert. He literally said he's not her real father, so she treats him as such. But when he can't pretend to be a father and walk his "not real" daughter down the aisle, he pouts like a little baby.......boo hoo hoo...
Story 3: That's his own damn fault. He still expected to be treated as a 'real dad' when he explicitly stated he never saw her as his 'real daughter'?? And expected her to 'get over it' like a childish phase, Entitled much? The daughter handled it better than he did, or anyone in her situation would've. He's the only one being a baby about it.
Do the things that she loved. Watch the things she loved. Keep her phone open. Text her all the things you want to. You won’t get a reply but maybe it will help your grief. Put her letter out there for relatives (or everyone who worked for her, etc.) and explain how she felt like an ATM. I wrote do not send letters to the family members who hurt me. It was helpful. You will always love her and know she loved you. Look up coping skills. I had never heard of those until I needed to be hospitalized for my mental health. I had been in therapy for years and never once did the psychologist teach me coping skills.. I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself.
They inevitably expose themselves, always, when another cheater nearby is outed. Foolishly thinking that if they convince people to believe this one, then their own dirt really wasn't as bad and just as "Justified" to let slide🙄 Like the mom who outted herself taking the side of her sone ex who cheated and got pregnant and both demanded he still raise the kid though everyone knew it wasn't his and soon exposed she never really knew if he was her husband's son or AP baby till he got suspicious and checked himself. Should've just sat there and ate her food🙂↔️
Definitely. And given OP's fiance cheated on him, and sided with his egg-donor, he'll need to stay away from dating, marriage, and potential new partners, put his career, getting therapy for himself, getting to know his father, building a relationship with him, and making up for lost time with him on top of his priorities list. Plus, if/when OP has a kid of his own, preferably, with no woman, he'll need to keep her away from his egg donor.
Story 2: I find it strange how op points out that he sounds angry and tries to excuse it. Since when was being angry (justifiably so) a bad thing? The witch cost him years of a relationship with his father!
Baby girl, do not ever blame yourself for someone unaliving. There is nothing you could’ve done. Nothing. Once you make your mind up, nothing will change it. I’ve been in both places. She is happier now, and she loved you more than anything. To everyone who deals with this, it is never your fault. ❤
Story 1 sounds like it could be in south korea with the way the idol and celebrity culture is. 😭😭 its a different story but eerily similar to Sulli with getting shamed and bullied for who she dated. Im so sorry for OP and OP's sister. I hope she is at leace and OP gets help and their parents get what they deserve. That song that she saw is so beautiful and makes me cry everytime. If love could have saved you by Venbee and Hybrid minds.
Story 1: The mistake OP made was waiting for permission to talk about what the sister was feeling or her own feelings. She should have just said, "I love you. I want to see you." Not poke around the issue like she did. A depressed person will always keep it locked behind the mask they've created.
Story 1 made me cry…losing a sibling is a pain I will never recover from… I felt her pain I loss my brother the same way … she keeps repeating herself because she blames herself.. 😢😢
S3: So, Sarah should just "move on" after being told by the man she's ever genuinely known as her father that while he loves Sarah, he DOESN'T love her like she's his own? Does he not know that he full on SHATTERED her? Good god.
Had a narcissist stepdad (like actual clinical level covert narcissism) and he would act the same with similar milestones - if he was able to show off/get attention from it. That’s all the stepdad wants here is to look good/be in the spotlight and be able to brag about walking OP down the aisle.
Everytime i see a reddit story even in tiktok fyp, i would instantly go berserker and watch them like stealing a candy from a baby and running for my life😂😂😂
The moms nta at all but honestly ion think Robert the asshole for how he feels I just think he handled it bad and should’ve accepted the consequences of his actions. He still did every thing he needed to do as a step dad
What are you talking about???? the Uncle didn't marry her mom, Robert did. Uncle Greg didnt say she was not his "real daughter", Robert did. Uncle didn't excluded her from family vacation. Uncle didn't treat stepdaugher as less than her siblings. Robert did all of this. Uncle only supported his niece when only father she had told her he was not her father.
