Sterilised By Her Own Mother Without Knowing | Chicago Med 

The ridiculous thing is that someone can be sterilised without their consent but when a grown women wants to be sterilised it isn’t her choice

I don't even want to give birth, but to not have that choice is terrible.

the fact that a federal judge had the power to do this just shows how important it is to keep women informed about their bodies and how we have to fighting for our own goddamn rights.

I’m more mad at the judge than the mother. She was manipulated into doing what she thought was best for her daughter. Given her social economic background she was left with almost no other option.

i would literally never forgive my mother if she did this to me

Who else thinks this should be on Netflix

So.... did those same judge force 14 year old boys to have vasectomy as well then? Disgusting sexism, and I'm sure that's the same kind of people who are against abortion

Imagine your mom stoping you from having children and you really wanted children I would never forgive her. Thanks for all the likes guys!

That's just evil... Video still loading but the caption got to me

I really don't want kids, but I could never forgive my mother for making this decision behind my back

The judge is the true villian. The mom was a low income and single mother and rather then have someone help her, the judge instead just gave her an awful ultimatium for her child. The mother being in that state obviously didn't know what too do as the odds were stacked against her. The mom is also at fault for not telling her daughter at the time about the truth! She should have explained the entire situation rather then kept it a secret all these years

So in all ways men have been making decsions about women and girls and their fertility. Horrific

I can't believe this woman had her tubes TIED in her 14s because she was "too wild" ! Now, women who don't want children struggle to been sterilize even thought they CONSENT to have their tubes tied and are in theirs 20S and older.🙄

They did this to a cousin of mine with no consent at all,and she was an adult at the time. She always wondered why she couldn't have children and went to a Dr and he told her she never could because her tubes had been cut and burnt. She and her husband are now in their 70's and adopted a few years after finding out about this. Back then Dr's made those decisions with no one's consent

Young women who were unmarried had their babies taken away in the 60s and 70s I believe. They had no choice this makes me sick

People like this are so narcissistic! You didn't say anything because YOU didnt want to deal with the consequences, not because you were trying to spare her feelings 😒

I don’t blame the mom-she was uneducated and probably under the mercy of society. I blame the judge and the state for allowing a law like this.

I'm confused...don't they have to tell her? It's her body and her medical history. This makes no sense to me. She's an adult now

Why didn't she tell her daughter when she became a responsible adult I mean it's not that hard to undo that kind of surgery and then she would have been free to have kids

She could still sue her mother and maybe the judge for emotional damage

And here's me trying to get sterilised and so far no doctor has approved it :(

On one hand I sort of understand the mother. She was so scared for her child she made a very desperate and irrational decision. That said, I don't agree that what she did was right. It was violating and betraying her daughter.

Okay but that darker doctor/nurse is absolutely stunning wtf

The ONE time a patient’s heart rate has rose and the patient was AWAKE!

i dont think doctors should be allowed to operate on people without their knowledge or conscent regardless of how old they are or if their parent gave their "conscent"

"please don't tell her." "And I said ok. Ya know, like a lair."

Love the little details of the show like them using sanitizer before touching someone and talking in a low voice for privacy unlike other shows where they're practically screaming in the halls. Lol

I can imagine how she felt .Because she really did wanted to have kids but her mom stoped her and it feels horrible.

the fact that Sigrids Mine Right Now was the advert made my day so much better

I'd loose it if I found out my parents did something like that to me

When I saw the title I thought it said *Fertilised by her own mother without knowing* Then I realised it said *sterilised by her own mother without knowing*

Carol is alive 😂 (orange is the new black)

An actual good mother would have notified her daughter of the procedure, so she could have the knowledge that untying her tubes or adoption was an option. A smarter bad mother would have insisted that her daughter's appendix also be removed in the same surgical session.

"How could she ever forgive her mother" Damn first thing I asked my self painful

Let’s have a petition to put this on Netflix

i’d literally NEVER be able to forgive my mother if she did that to me

Even if I never wanted children, I would literally never forgive my mother if she did this to me. This is so incredibly violating, just the idea of having my internal system touched without my knowledge (while she knew that she was having surgery, she always believed that the surgery was specifically to do with her appendix and not her reproductive organs) makes me feel sick.

I LOve these series,i intriduced my mom to this,and she cant stop watching it😂

This just pisses the hell out of me. I love my mom so much but if she ever did this to me there is NO way I would forgive her. To not have the decision to get pregnant must be terrible.

Interesting. They seems to have forgotten that it was the Judge that said "Jail or Sterilization"....put all the blame on the young mother....LOL.....

Imagine how the daughter could live without the sterilisation... I would never forgive my mother. This can change a person´s life so much

These medical dramas always have the "appendix rupturing" as some sort of sudden dramatic event that causes an immediate change in the patient's vitals...when actually there's usually no change at all, except the pain sometimes feels a little better, and they often don't find out that it's ruptured until the surgery 12 hours later. My appendix had ruptured and I thought it was just super bad period cramps lol, until I almost went into septic shock a whole 24 hours later and passed out.

Yayy I came early for this :D Thank you so much Chicago Med

These clips are so addictive

Tbh I understand where the mother is coming from. Her mother wanted to protect her and a judge kind of blackmailed her mother. They were poor she loved her daughter with all her heart in her eyes she did what was best

I love doctor manning the most because she cares about all the people and she is so sweet ❤❤

I would have never spoken to my mother again EVER for no reason whatsoever

everyone asks to put the series on netflix, but why don't they do it.

My stomack hurt after this😨 That is horrible what kind of a mother is she😡

I would feel completely betrayed. If she said something about it earlier, I would forgive her in time. But I couldn't trust my children to her

this made me CRY. i can't imagine the betrayal. it would rock my whole world. never can come back from something this cruel

Well this was a really good video

If my mother did that to me, I would never speak to her again.

Parents like that make me sick. I don't even think they deserve to be called "parents"

The actors are so good omg-

Thats 1 sad episode right there

I love your vids keep it up

How can a mother do this? This is just sick! Sick as hell!

I can understand the mother was manipulated by the judge and society being what it was in the 70s, there was stigma attached to being an unwed, teenage single mother so maybe she didn’t have all the information to make another choice. The one thing I massively disagree with and would find enormously difficult to forgive if this ever happened to me is that the daughter is wanting to be a mum and wanting to get pregnant. She’s probably had conversations with her mum and perhaps gotten very upset about it. The mum knows full well why her daughter can’t get pregnant and DOESN’T SAY A WORD of the truth but watched her daughter struggle both physically and emotionally.

I could feel her pain so much, as also I had a an appendix, and have it still to this day. I had acted exactly the same way she is in the video. Anyways, Long story about my appendix, if you’re bored or interested just read it. :) I had my appendix inflamed in 2018 March, and I still haven’t got surgery to this day. I haven’t got surgery to remove it is because 3 days later after I first had my appendix inflamed, it wasn’t hurting anymore. My doctors told me that if it had hurt again, we had to call an ambulance to send me to the hospital. Anyways, I was having a dream of a light stuck in my eyes, still have it sometimes and I woke up. I had a very weird feeling in my throat like I wanted to throw up. I tried to go to the toilet, but I couldn’t. I couldn’t get up at all. If I tried to, my lower stomach area would of hurt and I had no guts after. I was still laying on my bed, and I went to sleep again. Except, I wasn’t fully asleep, I was still awake. I then couldn’t feel my ‘stomachache’ anymore. (What I thought it was because I usually have stomachaches often). I got up and went downstairs. On my way to a bed/couch, I could feel the pain again. I layed down, and because the remote was next to me I watched TV. I tried to forget about my stomachache (Appendix) so I couldn’t feel it. It was what the doctor had suggested to me every time I had a stomachache, so I watched a video. My parents finally woke up and came downstairs. My dad usually sits on the bed/ couch I was on, so he told me to sit up so he could also sit there. I said I couldn’t because my stomach was hurting, and they said it was just another stomachache. I realised that the other bed, was close to me, and I could go to it without standing up. So I did. I then layed down and just thinking about how it was very different to other stomachaches. My mum had made breakfast and told me to get up and eat at the table. I said I couldn’t because I can’t get up. I also said I don’t feel like eating. (One of the symptoms of an appendix, loss of appetite.) And continued to sleep. I then got up, and was leaning on the wall. I couldn’t feel my ‘stomachache’, so it was alright. But I still didn’t have the guts to get up. My brother came and lifted me up on a wheelchair. We still have one as a toy when you are tired, except this time I really needed to use it. I sat on the chair and my mum got my iPad and told me just to watch, as she would make breakfast for me. (Just a milo with scrambled eggs. That’s usually a breakfast I often have and nothing happens.) When I was eating, I would of just bitten then chewed the food instantly, as I couldn’t be bothered to eat anything. When I finnished, I got back on the wheelchair and layed on the bed. I had my iPad next to me because I was still watching videos. I then had this feeling of vomiting, and instantly called my mum to get me a bucket to vomite in, as I didn’t have time to go to the toilet. (one of the symptoms is also vomiting.) I had then finnished vomiting, and was just laying down. Wasn’t watching videos, wasn’t playing games, wasn’t doing anything. Just laying down. My mum told me that it was probaly just a stomachache that was more sicker than the others. And I should go to the doctor to see why it was like that. The doctor asked me a few questions, like where it was hurting. Did I vomite, diarrhoe, or cough. She then asked me if I had a loss of appetite, I said yes and she immediately thought it was an inflamed appendix. She told my parents that it could be an inflamed appendix, and suggested to get an X-ray, so I did. My dad was waiting in the car, and my mum was helping get an X-ray. They rubbed gel next to where an appendix usually is located at and viewed the TV screen. It showed that I had a appendix that was inflamed. The girl that did the X-ray told me and my mum to go get surgery, as she would write a note to the hospital about my medical condition. I was super excited of getting surgery because the girl said that people that are in their adult ages would usually have an inflamed appendix, as it was still rare, except because I was 10, it was rarer. Also another reason why I was happy was because I have already gotten surgery on a broken arm before when I was 5. And the food and the feeling of being in a hospital statisfied me. But my mum told me that it isn’t good, because removing it would hurt. And she also said that it would take a long time. Also another reason why I shouldn’t of been excited was because we didn’t have enough money to do the surgery. 3 days later, I visited the hospital as it was time to get it removed. They asked me a few questions to start with, like if I could jump, run, or eat. I said I could eat anything, and I could jump. Except, I still couldn’t run. They said there is a possibility that it might of stopped inflaming, but because I still couldn’t run, they had to do a proper check up. When they did, they found out that the appendix had been inflamed, except it stopped just an hour ago. They said that if it hurts again, I should call an ambulance and be taken to the hospital, as my appendix had already been inflamed before. My mum was super glad that I didn’t have to do surgery, so was I. The hospital and my parents notified the school about my appendix. One of the days when my sport teacher needed help, she asked everyone in the class to help her with the preps, and she said “Except for (Name)” She said my name but I don’t feel like sharing it on social media. Everyone came back after they helped and we were eating rescess. My friends asked me why she said except for me, as they were curious. I told them that it was because I can’t do it, as I will get hurt instantly. (I didn’t want to say the whole truth.) I then told some of my friends about it that kept it a secret. They would usually ask me, she would I get surgery, where is it, how to get it. (They didn’t know it was a body part in a human body already when they are born, except it sometimes inflames and the person will have appendicitis.) I told them everybody has it, and they were all shocked. I told them that mine was inflamed, and that is why I have appendicitis. True thing: every time I say it they start laughing on the way I say it because it has the word dix in it. I am a boy, and my appendix is well near my (You Know.). But to the topic. On grade 4 when I still had it, my teacher said my class would have a race. If a boy wins, all the girls do push-ups, if the girl wins, all the boy do push ups. The girls won, because I still couldn’t run my normal speed. I had to do push-ups, except I was just standing. I hoped the teacher would realise that I couldn’t, he already knows about my appendix. He told me to start doing push-ups but I said I couldn’t, hoping he had realised again. He then realised and said, “Is if because of your appendix?” And everyone heard it. I said yes. And just ignored the people knowing about it because some already did. Soon lots of people were asking about it. I would say just talk to my friends, they already know about it. To this day I still have my appendix, I am 11. I will get surgery when it starts to inflame again. If you have got up to this, I must say you are a low life. Also I am because I had to type this for 17 minutes straight, no break. I hope you learned some stuff about an appendix from this, cya.

4:19 Okay but let's just talk about how perfect her eyelashes are.

Henny Russel is an amazing actress. Loved her in every role she was in.

it would've been fine if the mom just told her daughter about it when she had grown into her 20s and made a life for herself and planned to have kids more responsibly. but she was a coward and didnt want to risk losing her child's trust forever so she deprived her own daughter of her wishes.

Im getting super obsessed with this channel :)

Kinda early for once, this is definitely one heartbreaking moment

Isn’t she Melissa Hastings (the doctor) for Pretty little liars

I wish they would give us a warning when someone vomits 🤮

Had me in tears

I was expecting the sterilisation thing to be a twist at the end of the case, and was surprised at how sympathetic the mother was even if her actions were misguided. I'm personally really hoping the daughter can reconcile with her at the end. And I agree it's pretty disturbing that mothers could be forcibly parted from their babies just for being unmarried and that they could be non-consensually sterilised in past times, and still in the present in some parts of the world.

I need this on Netflix, put enough requests in hopefully they'll load it

Wow. That's heartbreaking

When the tube tying happens it was in 1973 but now I’m SO GRATEFUL that the laws have changed Idk if international tho

Who is dumb enough to think they can lie to a doctor

Yay! New Chicago med!

1:31 she is really beautiful I might cry

finally an upload

I get why the mother did it but she should have told her , the daughter has a right to know

I would never forgive my mother if she did this and I don’t even want children but it’s still heartbreaking to know you don’t even have a chance to get pregnant.

I love these so much

If she was too poor to go to a doctor then she was too poor for a child

I was drinking orange juice while she threw up..

Unpopular opinion but I can understand why that mother would make that decision. She should have told her daughter once she is older though.I mean tubal ligation isn't permanent.

Those two actresses are amazing

Y’all hate the mother but fail to understand her position. She genuinely believed she was helping her daughter because some judge manipulated her and this isn’t new. Judges have been known, especially in the WASP south, to be very corrupt.

I’d sue her. Family or not that woman took away something that’s important and can’t just be given back or fixed

Omg, what is the name of the actress playing the black nurse? My word she gorgeous!

Even if i dont want to have kids, i respect the people who does, and cant imagine how hard can it be if something likw this happened to them

I was diagnosed with PCOS when I was a teenager, but it was only confirmed when I was 18. I'm scared that I won't be able to have kids.... I've been taking hormonal meds, but when I got the confirmation, I was scared. For this woman to be sterilized at young age without knowing.....

so she never went to a doctor about her complications with having a child any basic doctor in that field should 've been able to tell her

Who else loves these?

Why are ppl blaming the mom ?? She was uneducated and a judge told her to get her daughters tubes tied or her daughter would go to jail And she didnt want her daughter to hate her so she never told her Blame the judge Like what kind of judge has the right to do that

I love this episode..its making me grateful and sad at the same time idk why

ok im starting a petition to get this on netflix-

The whole episode is on this channel pretty much, if you look in the description it says that dr Reese peeper sprayed a patient, that was another video

Put this on Netflix it is really good xxx

Incredible

The communication really got “TIED” up

I had appendicitis when I was 6 the doctor said that if I came to the hospital a minute later I would of died I am very greatful

I'm addicted to these clips

Love the acting keep it up