Steve’s Powerful and Personal Response to Stuttering 

JaM EvolvE It’s only certain words that causes a stutter

She was relaxed

One of my soldiers studder and you can tell she is so uncomfortable but no one makes her feel bad we understand

My mom used to tell me, if I'm anxious that I'm going to stutter, I will. Relax and take my time, it's the best advice I've ever gotten. I say the same thing about driving a car, if you feel like you're driving badly you will lol it's all anxiety, it's hard to break but it takes time. Nothing is wrong it just takes practice to relax yourself

My son stutter i just tell him to slow down and relax then he dont stutter

I agree wholeheartedly

Or maybe men want a regular convo...

I believe so too..bottom line is that we are all human beings.

Good communication is key.

@@TravelerVolkriin Then men should talk. A person's stuttering doesn't keep them from being able to have a conversation.

Her starmering is fair compare to mine, but i thank God it didn't stop me from achieving my dream. I practice medicine now

@@sicklecellman2456 That is fantastic!

Me too❤️

I feel your pain..hopefully we overcome this struggle ♥️

Same here❤️

U ok ❤️💕

You don't have to feel bad okay, you are wonderfully made Trust me.

Also in her monologue at the beginning the stuttering went after about 15seconds. Comes from thinking too much

My brother has stutters. When he gets nervous or has to say a big sentence it gets so bad

I have a very mild stutter when I'm nervous, especially when I have to present something in front of other people. I always think about what I want to say next and how I'm going to say it, while I haven't even finished the first sentence. I stumble across words, mix them up, miss them, repeat them, and so on. I think it can't really be considered stuttering, because I experience it not that often, but I'm not sure, really. There's also a reason to why this happens to me, I guess: when I was smaller, I always used to talk a lot, for example when I wanted to tell about something really exciting. But some people that were close to me at that time and who I looked up to interrupted me every time to tell me how boring it was to listen to me, because it took me so long to tell something. But since I didn't want to leave out important aspects, I began to talk faster, so that they wouldn't have to wait too long. :/

This was great, I have been researching "why do i stutter a lot" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Rincaas Stammify Blocker - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.

I'm screaming hahahaha

Yes very brave on national television, and she will be rewarded for it. In JESUS NAME

@@TyTy-fi7sm yes indeed!!

Yes very brave much respect to her

I stutter too

Precious Jewlz yesssssssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

im very happy for you. i still stutter and have done so since i was 9. it really is painful and especially when you look around and see how people just talk freely without any blocks, extensions or repetitions. anyway, im happy you managed to get rid of it :)

@@BohemPlus same feeling bro :(

@@BohemPlus same. It's plagued me my whole life. Speaking on the phone is the most difficult -- I usually get hung up on before I can eek out, "I sssssssssssspeak with a stttttttttutter, please bbbbbbbbbbeeeee patient." Humans are so cruel. The only time my speech is 100% fluent without any prolongations or blocks is when I'm singing, so this is truly my preferred way of communication.

go head my sista!!!!🤗

Jasmyne... That's so sweet. Both of my brothers used to stutter. There was absolutely Nothing wrong with them. They just had to learn how to slow down before speaking.

My step dad stutters a lot too and I'm. Not his bio child but it has affected my brothers I it's kind of like.. We picked up on tht speach. I stutter sometimes but it's like Steve says.. U expect ur gonna stutter so u do.

Lucky dude... wit yo fine ass

What a sweet lady. Bless you both.

So ugly people can be treated the wrong way?

@@codyc722 no obviously... thats not what hes saying

Ford Racing '82 Yeah

she's ugly though?

Ryan Zad just because you find her ugly doesn’t mean she is

Great observation

I noticed that as well.

hmalikfnp my ex friend used to stutter too. I think it was related to childhood trauma and insecurity. Now she’s in college and has her own apartment with her friends. We aren’t friends anymore but she seems happy and I’d noticed as we got older her stuttering had gotten better. So I hope that having more life experiences, growing up, and becoming her own person has helped ❤️

hmalikfnp yes I noticed that as well

hmalikfnp like she's hot😍

Me too bro

@R3CK3Digau lol

There's nothing wrong with anyone who stutters. May God bless everybody and cure anyone of any thing they may feel holds them back in a spiritual, mental, physical, social, or emotion way.

Feeling insecure about something is the start of individuals believing that something is wrong with them. First thing is to understand that we all may find things wrong with our selfs but we need to know that nothing is wrong with us and we are all great people. Psychologically we have to believe that the things we won't to cure ourselves from is possible but we just have to believe and try to get better at it day by day.

You should’ve thrown in a wee typing stutter for comedic effect

Hayla JAS show her this video

Show her this video, and tell her to be free

Lol 😂

I feel bad for her.

Hayla JAS tell her she isnt the only one, and that it becomes easier to control. My stutter is horrible, to where every 2-4 words i stutter, but i have learned to either push through it with deep breaths or learn new words that won’t impede my speech

New Creation Powerful in terms of what? Is she God?

Sheera Abd you don’t have to be God to be powerful and beautiful. This girl is an example.

Majority of the time people's (affect?/effect?)'s are different.

"different strokes for different people". Is there a specific technique you might suggest instead? I'm happy to do a bit of googling.

Thanks so much!.. 😊 I needed that. I stutter whenever I get excited, angry, or nervous; my tongue jumps as if; the nerves in it goes haywire. And it's so embarrassing to me. So again; Thanks for the heads up!

Can u give some of the tips u learned from john isaac?

Fffffffffofo foreal?

@@FaisalAhmed-cy8zb Hi Ahmed. You can join his newsletter, he shares tips every day to subscribers :)

@@godofd3rpz19 yooo you wildin

May God bless you.

I do

I stutter alot when im stressed out

it took a video to teach you not to be disrespectful to all kinds of people?

@@thelasttime684 honey i was never disrespectful. I was just uneducated. Sometimes people think they choose the right words when in fact they did not. I always try to be respectful when interacting with different folks. I could never be mean to someone becUse of something as small as a speech impediment but now i know that the stutter is not there because they are nervous so me telling them "its ok. Calm down" is not as kind and patient as i thought it was. Its ignorant. I hope tomorrow when you wake up you know not to just jump down people's throats with such a negative output when they say they want to do better. Its unbecoming of a decent human being and comes off as argumentative. Hope this helps.

Yaaaaazzzzz....She showed so much grace, power by simply speaking her truth

I wanna like your comment but it’s at 200 and I don’t wanna ruint it

Yes she is.

Absolutely....

@Apfelsaft Nobody asked what you think

lol this made me chuckle.

Absolutely

wlehtola that’s right

Lol

Yeah, but it’s helpful to her because stuttering is kinda tied to confidence. By saying it to yourself internally, it calms a person down and helps them be more confident with their speech.

Because it's all made up. A guy will want anything with a pocket in between her legs and even if it doesn't. Men can care less about trivial things such as stuttering, anyone from a woman who has half a body to a woman who doesn't have an actual vagina hole has manage to find a mate. Women are the picky daters, they will dislike a guy for the dumbest reasons like he had blonde hair or he has the same name as my brother

R.O.T.C SEEM you sound a little hurt bud

carson preston right???? something tells me this guy has never been laid 😂

Shero Frizzy Head the truth from the perspective of somebody who has had bad experiences with women*

@@R.O.T.C._SEEM ok incel 😑

Alexis Rush yesss I was like wait he stutters lol

Alexis Rush exactly

stutter

Michelle thanks

I think everyone stutters from time to time. My godsister had the same problem as this beautiful black woman in the video had now she doesn't. What she has is very curable. I have a speech impediment problem

I stutter, too... but if I didn't, I would still date her. She's beautiful and seems very sweet.

Things aint

Thank you for your comment. The problem comes with effective communication like tone and expressing how I feel.

I keep watching this segment because this sweet, precious woman is so brave and needs to be highly admired. To face something head on to conquer it is a huge accomplishment. Im proud of her!!

the problem is stuttering is also about constent anxiety..when you live it every day it is very exhausting...it is not just stuttering

Tolu1994 ى

That's because he made her relax.

chosen2serve1 YES THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!!

Wow, that's powerful. I didn't see it that way... 🤔

chosen2serve1 yessss. Her walk was so beautiful and how she was talking was amazing. She’s an angle in disguise ❤️

an angle in disguise, that’s quite obtuse

jack dyson yeah her cry for help and to do it in front of millions/world. Then on top of that she’s so beautiful

she doesn't like when people say that.. she is BEAUTIFUL..

I am a sucker for beautiful girls that stammer

@Heidi Wood ...you are a beautiful soul Heidi

She’s so beautiful

TJ KinG Jr ikr . She’s amazing

Good job Kenny, keep going!

Kenny we stan u

I'm gonna try it myself

Can you give me an update on how you’re doing I have a stutter and I want to know if this method works

Abdillahi Abdisamad yesssssss part 2

Agreed. Inside and out.

I agree her personality is beautiful it’s sweet and kind feeling

Absolutely!!!

Kevin Curtis so beautiful.

Layla Ahmed and so are you 😉😍💯

👏🏾❤

Yes she is beautiful

I overthink cause of ocd and have a very low self esteem and i stutter severely Thank you for telling me this i had no idea

No its not, It can be caused neurologically or because of genes. I got my stammer from my dad

I Had That than I stopped with over thinking and now I'm dumb🤣

@@sarahhand9179 whats a stammer?

@@crystalmethany3245same thing as a stutter just a different word

She has a criminal record in 3 states

Amen. God bless you and your daughter.

Kenzita v beurden both !, I’m a spiritual person!, and WE worked hard, and please Parents be Patient!!!!with your kids!nothing wrong with prayer

@Kenzita v beurden Don't start that.

@@asesina6650 I agree.

same ;-;

Yes I have bad social anxiety sometimes I have to stop for a few seconds which seems like a long time to others ... I’m very anxious around people . I don’t have a stuttering problem but around certain ppl I do

Ya I blush a lot and it tends to get in the way of what I say

Man i say the dumbest things sometimes bc im anxious and can't think straight.

SavageGirl30 Girlie that’s no where close to stuttering

How did u overcome stuttering if u don't mind

He mentioned it was linked to feelings of anxiety, so maybe find out how to over come social anxiety. Books, courses, online etc.

One of the things I did was confronted my anxiety by placing myself in an intensive group setting (theater company) where I could make friends and come to the realization that it was ok to trust. Yes, there were those who I did not get along with, but overall it was a great experience. I noticed early on that I could speak without stuttering or stammering when talking with those I trusted, yet I had difficulty talking with strangers. Once I understood that it did not matter whether someone liked me or not, I was able to relax and it all finally went away. The other thing I did was to read passages in books outloud. This trained my vocal and breath muscles. It required some exageration of facial and vocal muscles, but it helped a lot. Muscle memory definitely played into my cure, but most was overcoming my anxiety. I believe that my cure could have been accelerated had I entered some kind of psychological counseling at an early age. Speech therapy was of little value and help with my situation. I know the pain stutterers experience...and so it is painful for me to watch others who are afflicted with this disorder. But...I believe that in most cases it can be overcome.

I am still stutoring :(

@@glennsohm6643 I stuttered as a child, so much to where I was barely intelligible. Because of this I was psychologically and emotionally abused by one of my teachers who would openly mock my stuttering in front of my peers which, in turn, led to me being bullied and ostracized by my classmates. This teacher, horribly enough, also happened to be my speech therapist and ran an after school program at her house for parents who worked late hours. It's like I couldn't get away from her torment and I was too terrified of her to tell my parents. Fortunately for me, I was able to fully overcome stuttering by age 8 or so, and it was through sheer willpower and determination...definitely not because of any "help" on her part. So, I get what you mean by it being hard to watch/listen to others who stutter. In fact, as soon as the girl in the video started stuttering, I had to immediately pause it because it's almost painful to listen to...it just brings back so many awful feelings and memories. Only a former stutterer will know just how debilitating it can feel. I truly hope she's able to overcome it.

Rafel Thompson this isn’t what RU-vid is all about. RU-vid is all about gaming vlogs, twerk videos and political antics. I think you wish this is what RU-vid was all about

Shakalaka Bombastic um... RU-vid is about everything, not just limited to that stuff buddy. But then again no arguing with a biased person

GhostFace _ yup

I also stutter and mine goes up when my stress level increases (maybe during exams). All cases are different, it's not just about confidence.

Forgive me, but did I say it was all about one's level of confidence? I said "for me as I developed confidence....."

❤️

Amen

Belinda Joy sane I overcame it. You will too.

U r right.. she is stunning

I wish I could find her aaaaaa!

Yessa! Makes me wish I was in Los Angeles

You don't know what your talking about.

@@ivantheterribler8346 yeah... flip that, are you not paying attention to what you're watching?

@@zzzroxyzzz get over what? You don't know what you're talking about.

@@zzzroxyzzz yeah i know what im watching. Im watching a desperate women who doesn't love herself. Steve harvey should be telling her to love herself and not give her quick fixes to stop stutter.

@@ivantheterribler8346 it's a habit developed from issues that need to be addressed individually per each person's unique reason they find themselves stuttering... to break a bad habit one needs to be aware of when it rears its head the most..

Where do you think your sons stutter came from? Anxiety?

It will work for her, he's giving her tools that will definitely work she just has to practice.

Good

The Tide Family may I get her fb id or name I want to marry her...

she will!!!!

It has worked for her. She was on Drew Lynch's RU-vid channel and is doing much better.

We should talk . I stutter too

Sha-Niyah Ortiz it’s hard but we get through it, do you slur too? I do

Sha-Niyah Ortiz UGH YES GIRLLLL

YOUR SO PRETTTYYYYYY

Sending you lots of positive energy Hun.

passion angel God bless her and amen sister what God has for her is for her

Amen !!

Amen...for her and me 🙏🙌💙

Amen!

Amen

It's why I clicked. I was hesitant because I thought she was 15 in the thumbnail. She has a baby face, but a grown woman's body.

@paxumo how ? for calling her pretty ..

I literally called a great painter to draw her in my heart, mind and soul...

It is for real. As a woman who stutters, when I was younger I had to tell myself 3 times what I was gonna say out loud to even direct a taxi cab driver. People don't understand the mental push you have to constantly give urself just to let the words come out how you think it! But I AK telling you it worked, not all the time but most of the time till now...u don't even know unless am mad that I actually stutter.

Dr Dermix Girl I noticed that too

Lol it's obvious you don't stutter. Stutterers have good moments and bad moments, it's not like they stutter 24/7. Not trying to be mean BTW just saying.

I think he made her feel comfortable too.

Having a stutter is like playing Russian roulette but instead of fearing that the next time you pull the trigger the gun will fire the bullet you fear thatthe next time you try and speak you'll stutter and just like everytime you pull the trigger of the gun it doesn't fire every time you speak you don't always stutter

I think she went into fight mode and 'performed on stage'

She will for sure...the beauty is amazing

She did... she came back on the show, she found love.. he is another guy that stutters too

Damn right, she's beautiful. I want a girl like her.

I don’t want to be mean, but she ugly and religion is man-made. Sorry for the correction.

@@GinoNL Lmao, very funny

Noki's Kitchen can I please join you?

Noki's Kitchen let us both because I said the same thing those dudes who turned her down is dumb this girl is gorgeous.

We need an update on her progress

I would love the hell out of her. She needs to be my wife.

That is so fake. Auras like the new age ppl think of are not at all how they are. Everything has an aura in some respect. It's just a vibration of energy that can be measured scientifically actually. It's not beautiful or not beautiful. It's just science. It's just their. It's a byproduct of the material and aroms and electricity. You cant describe it as calm and beautiful because it's not visible and no they dont have colors and no they dont have feelings to it. You cant taste it, smell it, see it or feel it as calm or wild. You can feel it in the sense of their being an airy mass though. Sorry I just coudlnt keep quiet because that comment is not authentic.

@@seerking Positive energy is beautiful, though. It's peaceful.

you just said what I felt!! He the man!

@@ricardosantiago3489 right on point

Big mouth ref 😂

That's me too, only when I'm anxious, nervous, or upset.

I stutter when i sm nervous or speaking to peoplr im not familiar with or uncomfortable being in the presence of and also sometimes i speak really fast when telling a story which doednt help. Making a conscious effort to think about what youre going to say and speaking a bit slower definitely helps

@Fantastic View thanks for advice, I'll do that.

Once I start to stutter I restructure what I was planning to say on a whole lol

me too.i was born with this.my dad stutter too

Natalie Wilson everything you learn is neurological, everything you think and do and smell and move, every single function and feeling is neurological. So saying its neurological doesnt really day much. Having thr ability to see and me typing right this second every single movements and press and accuracy and everything is neurological. When your sleeping its neurological. When you wet the bed or pee or poop its neurological. When your afraid or happy or excited or horny. Its neurological l. When you heal after a workout ita neurological, anxiety is neurological. Anyone that dates stuttering is neurological is correct. But it doesn't mean they are neurologically broken. It doesnt mean they have brain damage or nervous system damage at all. Unless you have physical evidence from a doctor that ran scans on your brain that says u have brain damage it's not because of that. But every function will always be neurological. Lol

Hi I had 3 TBI. Do you think that the neurological pattern of speech is different. Like from people who stutter from anxiety? I heard myself recorded at speech before and the breatheing and pattern of the speech is difffferent. IE the rate and

I don't agree with him and I've stuttered my entire life. Different strokes for different folks I guess.