Steven Crowder Surveillance Video Controversy Analysis | Dangers of Immaturity 

This 😂😂😂

Best comment ever!😂

I love this.

@@tiredofitall9213 Thanks, but I didn't make it up. Somebody else said it on another recent video and I just stole it. :)

That’s awesome. Thanks!

It’s still nice to listen to Dr. Grande though.

A "Volcanic temper," a misogynistic worldview and a fetish for guns. That marriage could have ended a lot worse than a divorce.

​@@jordan1982 You can leave gun fetishes out of this. Don't be an ammosexual phobe.

@@jordan1982 She's not out of danger yet. She's defied his control in the most overt way possible. Not just filing for divorce but making it public why. It is at this point, when seeking freedom, that an abused spouse is at the greatest risk. He will be furious. Seething with rage & indignation at what he sees as her unjustified humiliation of him. I hope she's well hidden and has informed her local police that if they receive a call from here they need to hurry the fuck up.

I wonder what he thinks are 'wifely duties.' Sounds like something out of the 19th century.

Of course Narcs are very paranoid

I thought the same thing.

The only excuse for one car is that the other is in the shop.

Or he’s concerned about the environment so he’s only using 1 car

@@AS-yz2iz especially when you're a millionaire! Smh.

Exactly this. I'm married 25 yrs and my husband would never speak me like this, or mention wifely duties. We're a team of equal parts.

“Discipline and Respect” I respect my man because he doesn’t go around lecturing me about how men are to be respected. He treats me with respect, and I him. Then the discipline part, I don’t even know what to make of. Does he mean he’s going to discipline her, or she needs more discipline?? Because as a woman 8 months pregnant with twins, she seemed pretty disciplined not to get angry and emotional. Maybe he needs the discipline 😂

Good for you.

Every relationship has shared responsibilities, whatever you choose to call them. If she chooses to ignore these responsibilities, she has no respect for him.

Nick Gardener- I have a question Nick. Are you in a relationship? What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever been in?

So sorry for your loss ❤😢

it's fake. equality for men!

it's fake. equality for men!

@@darthvader1793 get out of here you bitter weirdo

@@darthvader1793 That is a truly sick question and you should be ashamed if you had any decency at all. Sadly, I doubt you do.

A missed opportunity to say- 'Change my mind' about him though 😂

Pretty sure I've never heard of him. Maybe on here.

nor should any decent human be a fan.

​@@krys0ll218Ikr?🤣 "Go!"

Always got a douche bag , know it all, always has to be right vibe from him. It's so obvious. Idk how people are a fan of him

Agreed. His wife seems like a manipulative bitch. She edited the footage to make herself seem innocent😂

LOL.Nshe knew the camera was recording

100% I just got vibes of being with my ex whilst being pregnant.

He definitely on a lower subconscious level wants something "bad" to happen to his unborn children. Does it on purpose

@@fauxbro1983 And he didn’t?

What didn't he like about your breathing?

​@@MaharlikaAWA probably too loud or was using up too much oxygen. Haven't you ever had a problem with how someone is breathing or standing or chewing? 🤣

Happy u got out! Danish Bashir has some great YT-videos about narcissistic abuse in case u r interested

I went through the same thing almost 4 years ago. I want to tell you it gets so much better and you're so happy you stayed strong! So much love and don't forget you're so strong!

@@MaharlikaAWAIt was the exhale. Just kidding. It had nothing to do with the breathing. Narcissists don’t need a reason to insult you. They make up shit on the fly. And it’s always fun for them when you react. Then they feel they have won some prize. Best thing to do is just stare at them when they pop off. Just look them straight in the eyes and say NOTHING! Watch what happens. But if you speak, you lose. But gage your narc first. Better to learn about this behavior before trying any stunts. Never know when a person is on the edge.

it's just a game to his childish mind.

@@gibbsm his brain is broken. im SO glad he was bullied as a kid. he deserved it

That made me so angry! He’s a spoiled, angry child in a man’s body. I suspect the real reason he rejected the offer from The Daily Wire was because he didn’t want his wife getting half in the divorce.

He cannot bring himself to say "I behaved wrongly." So ultimately he shifts the blame to her as "wrong woman" while making it sound like he is good at apologizing "I did something (choosing) wrong."

Because he is not a man, does not want those kids and is acting like a petulant child to get out of his responsibility. It is as deep as a half-full bird bath.

Narcissistic personality disorder

Pregnant with twins!

Sadly many people are buying it and it's infuriating!!!😡😡😡🤬🤬😤😤

She was 8 months pregnant, he was 3 weeks post op and had recently just almost died 2 nights before. But hey, yeah only focus on 1 aspect of a video you know nothing about.

No not really, women leave all the time. You could flip a coin and determine whether your wife will divorce you. That's why the marriage rates have plummeted. Men are finally waking up and realizing yal bitches ain't shit really.

He moved out first, hired a divorce attorney first and wanted to cut her off financially. Maybe grow a brain and a conscience.

@@AccessKelly Because he came to the realization that you bitches ain't shit... Men rarely, if ever leave women. That alone speaks volumes. She had to have done something egregious. Maybe you should grow a brain and analyze the data. College educated (indoctrinated) women initiate 90% of the divorces.

He seems like a big baby and probably extremely jealous of the newborns

​@@AccessKelly ​ How does (potentionally) not having all the info regarding who left who correspond to lack of a brain and a conscience?

Espero que un día puedas ser libre

I hope you have a plan.

Please leave. It's not going to end well.

⁠​⁠​⁠@@islandgirl1818 why is the answer always please leave? My mom divorced and married my stepdad when I was 6. They fought like crazy because he was a Korean War vet who needed his drink and she tried to get him to stop drinking. The cops would be called and we had to escape every weekend to go to her parents. Eventually , she gave up trying to dry him out. The next several years were the best of my young life. My parents got along. Great, my dad would have his drink, and he was always a charismatic drunk. He would arm wrestle me and let me win. We would play Monopoly and he would get a drink ring all over the board. We had a great time. One night my mom said hey, would you like to come for a walk with Patty and I, and he said that’s OK I’m fit and trim. When I got home, I saw the chair was tipped over and his nitro pills were all over the floor. I rushed to the hospital, but I knew what I was going to find. My mom was already in tears. He had died of a massive heart attack. Can you imagine if my mom ‘just left’? What would happen to me? I got bullied and into a lot of fights at school. Before every fight, my dad would teach me new moves how to fight. Every time I was cocky and confident I would lose. Every time I was afraid and got some tips from my dad I would win, even though I never was able to apply anything he taught me. Because he taught me it was as if He was right there with me. I was really hard on my girlfriend for the six years before we got married, but When I got married I tried to be a good father and husband, and I vowed to never have any of that crap go on at my house. There would be no cops, there would be no crazy fights. We would never air our dirty laundry. We were married for 26 years with three boys before I lost her to cancer. We never had a fight go past 2 AM because that’s when she would come downstairs and get me off the couch to come to bed. I think it’s really sad that 99% of the people reading. This will never know what it’s like to have a marriage like that.

Interesting. Allow me to suggest, with evidence, that being a "non-cinservstive" also means you take care of your family....yup, it's true. Anyway, have a good weekend

​@@neotheboxer you kill your unborn, and celebrate baby mamas, that is not family first.

​@@neotheboxer It was never asserted otherwise. He is just saying that this is a tenant of conservatism. Don't be so sensitive.

His biggest problem is that he puts HIMSELF first. It's becoming more and more apparent that that is the case. It was fairly apparent some years ago. It became more so after the Daily Wire incident. Even more so after Dave Landau left and shared his experiences while at the show, and now we have this footage. He is a narcissistic diva who demands to be treated as some kind of king while treating those close to him like garbage. At the same time, he claims that HE is the victim! I followed him a lot of years. I hope he gets the help he needs and can be humble enough to know he needs it.

hmm, you don't have to be a conservative to put family first, that's just right-wing propaganda. Decent people put family first, that's it.

So so happy you made it out. ❤

What are you teaching your kids by staying? I'm not saying leave now, but many adults, plenty of them commenting on RU-vid, talk about observing the dysfunction in their parents relationship and how that had such a negative impact on their own personal relationships. Just a thought.

​@@tiffanywatson8316 ❤❤❤

HES FORCING HER TO WORK ALL DAY WHILE EIGHT MONTHS PREGNANT? I hereby officially call "Conservatism" the Ultimate Grift OF USING A MANIPULATIVE FORCE("GOD"/THE BIBLE) TO DEMAND THE FORCED LABOR OF WOMEN!!!!!

​​​@@LoveMokes See, this is the problem with the internet. Now that you've told your side of the story, people want to come in now and give you marriage advice. Most of these people aren't even married themselves, or are in terrible relationships 😂 You shouldn't be taking advice on how to handle your relationship from complete strangers. Also, if you, TWO GROWN ADULTS, can't resolve this issue on your own by calmly talking it through, then maybe you're the babies. Get a hold of yourselves, and stop being stupid. You people are so weak minded.

Hes literally is. She preggo with a nanny. Wtf is she doing.

Quite a stretch, hate on what he said, but to put meaning and extra words behind his statement is nothing but your own speculation. If you want to get into realm of speculation he didn’t get physically aggressive at all and was seated back. Showing non aggression. And we didn’t see the part that was cut either.

@@XERXESDOE I will say as a casual observer I am just guessing-but outside of a courtroom-if I told someone they were being abusive towards me and they said “Watch it” without some kind of qualifier I wouldn’t stick around to see what they meant by that

@@XERXESDOE Saying "watch it, f*cking watch it" to someone implies an "or else." It's a threat. Do you think he's threatening her with a grounding? Taking away all her electronics? Withholding her allowance? C'mon, dude, stop being intellectually dishonest. The only logical conclusion given the context was that he was threatening her with physical violence if she didn't stop.

@@AngryReptileKeeperthat’s not the only explanation you can escalate an argument without getting physical, he could have started going off ab all the shit he makes him do but didn’t want to go there im not really defending the dude but I’m just sick of baseless attacks you obv don’t know him or what lead up to this, NEITHER DO I BUT ITS STUPID TO MAKE ASSUMPTIONS AS TO HOW PEOPLE ACT BASED ON WHAT THEY SAY WHEN EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT what he said could mean a multitude of things other than physical violence, and given that both parties attest to there being none throughout the course of the marriage typically means it isn’t going to start when the wife is 8 months pregnant with his twin children, it’s important to note this footage comes from the wife and more than likely has been nit picked to be favorable to her side, NOT GONNA MAKE THAT ASSUMPTION THOUGH ITS JUST A POSSIBILITY JUST LIKE EVERYTHING YOURE SAYING AB THE SUBJECT

Or he could be saying to watch what she’s saying? And that’s that?

HER twins

@@womendontneedmen5071 their kids, and women need men lol

She cheated, thts why he says tht

@@Cherry-pu4mx is there any evidence to this? I've never seen this claim before and haven't seen Crowder say that

@@asherray4969 He says it in the surveillance video. I know just his word isnt enough so...we'll see wht happens

What kind of man is a loud and vociferous advocate for men to get married, then turns around and accuses his pregnant wife of making him "boxed-in"? Married life is the VERY EPITOME OF BEING BOXED-IN, you moron.

How do you know that 2 minutes before this video began, she didn't do something really fucked up? How do you know that this isn't the build up of something that's been brewing for years? We're watching a very small snippet of someone's private relationship. This video has no context. Get off your high horse.

Making himself and those like him a victim of every situation has been his professional job on RU-vid for the last half a decade or more.

It's too bad that Mr Crowder will be growing up, oh his unborn child growing up without a father figure in this man. But I surely can't imagine many a seasoned judge not granting full custody to the Spouse . Good thing she had a 💍 RING.

Yes, a two minute video out of context. Definitely describes the entire picture.

Same. And when I started to notice the way he spoke about women.

Releasing a short edited video without context about the conflicts, is as agregious as his apparent behavior.

@@camsonnenberg4399 There is no possible context that makes saying "I'm going to f**** you up acceptable."

@@camsonnenberg4399 everyone thats worked for him says hes a raging asshole

Ever watching him in the first place is a bad sign.

One can be legal, the other one might not be. Whether recording phone calls (conversations) is legal depends on where both (all) parties are localized. In some states, only one party has to consent to the recording, in some both (all). It gets more complicated when the parties are in two (several) different states, with different laws. But from what I understand, courts tend to rule along the stricter state's laws. Since nobody seems to have sued Crowder successfully over his recordings, I assume they are likely legal. I don't see why this is considered "underhanded"; if both (all) parties making a call/having a conversation understand that they might be recorded, then it is up to everyone to keep that in mind and NOT say certain things. I furthermore expect this to be good business sense and a wide-spread practice where legal. As for releasing the ring doorbell footage, if it was not done by Mrs. Crowder herself (the term "family" seems to indicate it might not have been), it raises the question whether or not this was legal. No state allows the publishing of *private* material by an uninvolved party (i.e. people not present). Completely regardless of how one interprets Mr. and Mrs. Crowder's behavior, the legality of these actions is clearly defined by law, with plenty of precedent. That's all that matters in this case. And to take the guesswork out of the equation: I don't have enough data to make up my mind about this recorded conversation. If anything, the fact that this specific, very short video was leaked at all has me even more cautious about trusting either side. I'll wait and see.

@@p.s.shnabel3409 as i understood it, Hilary was the one to release the footage...or is that information inaccurate? If she didn't release it, and didn't give permission to anyone to release it, then I could see a legal problem... I was more or less commenting on the ethics of it, someone who routinely records conversations with people without their knowledge being upset with a video of him being released, not so much the legality of it is a bit hypocritical. I've liked watching steven for years...sure it looks bad, I'm not happy with how he talked to her, but there's always two sides to every story and I wish he would make a statement...but maybe he's waiting due to legal reasons. It's very likely that she is the aggressor behind the scenes and we simply saw a moment where steven had been pushed too far....I know plenty of guys who have been in relationships where the woman would push and push to get a reaction, and when the guy finally reacts the girl would play innocent and make the guy seem like the aggressor....we don't have all the information....I got pretty upset and wrote him off automatically simply because I saw a pregnant woman and heard him saying he would f*** her up...but as I took a step back I realized this could very well be a smear campaign...kinda perfect timing with Tucker getting booted and politics gearing up for election season....

@@davids.3725 All I can find is that the person who first released the video very generically speaks of Mrs. Crowder's family ... that is not the language I expect to hear when he got the material from her personally. It is an interesting question: did Mrs. Crowder give the material to her family, telling them to do with it as they wanted and they then went ahead and contacted a journalist? If so, is that still legal? I don't know. Again, I personally don't see any irony in Mr. Crowder recording business conversations. I don't live in a state that allows it, but if I could record without consent, I would, too, as a business person (e.g. from a legal point of view, verbal contracts are binding - but extremely hard to prove without a recording). I also subjectively feel that there's a vast difference between business conversations being recorded and one's private life. For example, when we go shopping, we know that many places will record their customers. If that were published, I wouldn't feel violated or betrayed. On the other hand, if any of my family members had recorded our interactions and published those, I'd be very angry and feel that my private life is none of the public's business. It is so incredibly easy to make someone look bad, especially if one pre-plans the whole situation. Especially in a marriage one knows which buttons to push. So yes, I agree with you; we don't know what went on before/after. The snippet we get to see does look bad, taken at face value. Not so bad if one is willing to wait for more context. Mr. Crowder could be a controlling monster, Mrs. Crowder could be a manipulative psychopath - or both could be a little bit of everything (which I think to be the most likely scenario, IF I were to guess). As for her pregnancy, well, she's pregnant not ill. If we were that fragile that some harsh words would endanger an unborn child, there would be no humans. No, give us some credit - and treat us like capable adults. As long as there's no physical altercation or creditable threat, no harm, no foul. Mr. Crowder's last words in the video could possibly be seen as such a threat but considering he apologized immediately and overall seems to use expletives freely , I am not sure that they actually do. Again, more data is needed. Ah, the timing. Yes. There's that. It could be coincidence, but considering the Times published that very informative article about how they "fortified" the election in 2020 (their words, not mine), I think this is something people should keep in mind. But even so, without evidence this is pure speculation. And rather useless at that. If we want to make the best decisions we can, then waiting for the facts to come out in full is our best foot forward. That goes for both those we support and those we don't. If I may ... I'd recommend you'd give A Black Conservative Perspective a chance. It's a RU-vid channel, I think the name says it all. Greg (i.e. the young man who runs the channel) is mostly level-headed and in my opinion does a great job trying to report factually, while still being entertaining. Be well and thank you for the conversation.

@@davids.3725 His employees are super fans that agree to move to Texas and be a part of Steven’s world. There are ten former employees/fans who were interviewed separately who had similar stories of Steven exposing himself and being emotionally abusive to staff, including screaming at his father-who works for him.

@@badmuddafadda cool

I hope you're doing better now days. I can't fathom growing up in that environment. ❤

@@kevinjohnson1427 then get scrubbin

​@@kevinjohnson1427 Funny how toilets are equal opportunity dirt bags. Everyone makes 'em dirty, so everyone (bar young children, infirm or elderly) could take turns cleaning 'em.

​@@kevinjohnson1427nothing was mentioned in the video about household chores.

@@kevinjohnson1427 isn't Crowder a millionaire? Why would him or his wife be doing domestic cleaning?

You’re clearly on the path to healing and re-learning what healthy relationships look like. It’s never too late 😌

You do realize your mother picked that man to get pregnant by

I was wondering why they only had one car

When did crowder have his heart surgery? Maybe he couldn't drive at that time? I'm not defending him. Just wondering.. mostly cos... only one car? Really? I doubt it.. I never did like the way he spoke about women's wifely duties. The dave landau stuff, now this... I do think crowders ego is too big. He needs to look at how he's treating others.

​@@janecatterson4554 guys smoking away. So moot

During the 6 months of internship in my clerk retraining program I was alone with one of two bosses in the white goods shop, the other one, the big one only rushed in on Fridays to make some trouble, bragging and eating lunch at the greek next door. One haven been worse than the other. The short one told me that the big one´s wife would call him to cry her heart out over his husband taking away everything from her over time telling her he´d protect her and she wouldn´t have to work or leave the house. Until she was fully trapped. Complained about his stepdaghter to me that she dared to ask him to buy some drink boxes for her 18th birthday while she sufered from BPD and cut her arms. The time the small boss was telling me about it he already had pinched my backside twice in the passing, the 1st time "out of friendship" and the 2nd time "for educational puposes" while his girlfriend worked her *blank* off as our driver. Small shop owner who made themselves comfortable in their own soup bitch about each other, and while the one went sailing in Italy instead of working, the other one never took one day off for 15 years. I couldn´t do much but I made sure the institute would never send them another intern again.

@@janecatterson4554 1. The surgery took place after this video. 2. Did you even watch the video??? Yes, they only have one car. It's a form of control. He clearly says that since she didn't do her "wifely duties," he will now drive to the grocery store instead of letting her. He also says that she cannot take the car because then he'll be left without a way to go to his parents' house, etc. Please know what you're talking about before posting. You come off as a lazy ditz.

Worth millions feels a bit off. Compare other right wing pundits like a Megyn Kelly or Ben Shapiro. Kelly was a fox news host who's take home was in the millions because of her contracts which she's no longer apart of but Sirius XM is probably giving her a nice chunk of change. She was also a NY DA even if it was small time Ignoring that her husband(s) were very lucreative. Her current (permanent) one was a multimillion dollar CEO. So they have fuck it money. Ben Shapiro is Jewish. Nuff said. Sorry if that sounds antisemetic. Its not. Just like Asian cultures they care more about intellect and hard work. Also small time lawyer who is surrounded by other multimillionaires. I think DW in and of itself is trash but he's EE and co owner over the platform. But all of this leads to Crowder. His parents aren't rich. His wife worked in the healthcare industry but they aren't rich. LWC is his only source of income which does insanely well but it doesn't make 30, 15, or hell even 10 million dollars in revenue. Once you factor in all of the stuff that takes to run the show Crowder's take home is modest but definitely not insane. He's definiteely hitting hitting a few 6 figures. Now that I say it out loud he'd be richer if he expanded and he used to say he wouldn't do it because its about doing something to make him happy and he was trying to humble about the future of what he wanted to do. Now we know that's not it. Its because he wanted to hog the spotlight and the thought of hiring more talent that may eclipses him scares him. He didn't want a "Brett Cooper" stealing his thunder. People have said that abusers do this. They limit their living to modest convention to control targets but I honestly believe this is more ego than Crowder being a true abuser. I don't think Hilary's family would let it slide if he truly was that bad. No way it'd have lasted as long as it did. No. I think its because Crowder legitimately didn't want to share his money with his wife.

Because he honestly believes he'd be less of a man. It's sad and scary at the same time.

Yeah , it's his money so it's his choice

@@elitecoder955 Stop excusing abuse. And it's THEIR money not his, since they are married.

@@BunnySlippers82 I alway hope people like you get to experience what abuse really is. The world is a harsh place hunny. If you think not being able to take someone elses car when you want is abuse, then you are seriously mentally ill.

Isn't it just like someone with something to hide to attempt to couch his language? Anyone with two brain cells to rub together can see through that.

Sometimes Words hurt more than fists. Emotional wounds don't always heal. With physical abuse, you can see the damage. But emotional abuse is hidden. Not enough people take this kind of abuse seriously.

This is the most underrated comment he makes. 😂. Love it.

I would swear Dr. Grande was British with his sense of humor.

12 mil a year and they only have one car??? That’s mind boggling

​@Eidelmania yeah I wouldve thought he would have an f-150 for every day of the week

Shazam!

Children! She was pregnant with twins! SMH

His mental and emotional state is that he probably has an undiagnosed personality disorder

it's fake. equality for men!

Steven appears to be suffering from extreme NAS. I am only speculating but it could cause such behavior.

@@robertanderson5092 I was thinking NPD/ sociopathy. Pair that with the action/reaction between the two and it is pretty sickening. He’s clearly in the wrong, yet flips the script and blames it all on her. I’ve dealt with people like this first hand and they are so manipulative and degrading. It’s insane how much they can build up control over a person like this. Consider also that he’s burnt every bridge with everyone that he’s previously worked with, and even his friends, and it’s pretty clear that he’s got something going on, and is a walking red flag.

I went to a therapy session with my boyfriend at the time. Something had happened and I didn’t want to lay down and take it like I usually did. So we talked to the therapist about it. I was a mess because it was kinda fucked up what he did so I told my side of the story very emotionally. Then he told his side. He was more coherent than me, was calm ald steady and he had all these reasons why I was wrong for being angry. He literally blamed me for what he did. I should mention he was very smart, good with words and a master manipulator. The therapist took his side and told me to communicate better to him what I wanted. Until the end of our relationship this was his new ammo. I didn’t communicate clearly enough so “he didn’t know”

@@FenixFluff Sorry that happened to you. I've had a similar experience with family as a teenager and was also a victim of child drugging. I know how disorienting it can be when abusers find flying monkeys and enablers with mental health certifications. They both sounded like they had spoken to a bad therapist that didn't sniff out the narc or they read some material and Steve decided he was a victim. Very damaging to all parties involved since the narc is also poorly serviced by having distorted thought validated.

@@RunninQHsRock oh yeah. He feels sooo justified in this. “I don’t love you” (i will love you if you do as I say), “you need respect and discipline (do everything I ask), even the “I am setting a boundary” (i don’t care what you want, do what i want). And then the “don’t you see how you block me in”. Everything is her fault. And he probably thinks this is communicating your wants and needs to a partner. This made me cringe so much and I am proud of her for remaining calm. I hope nothing worse happened when they went inside.

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Right, and the fact that she was 8 months pregnant with twins!!! I will never stand anyone who stays in these abusive relationships, I had a few but sure got out of them fast🙏 but never stayed or had children with them....just saying

Thank you for the honesty

Mind your own business

Dave the guy he used to work for confirmed that, he's a scum.

He recently had surgery

@@julianmanjarres1998 the video is from late June 2021. He had his elective surgery in July 2021, even though Hilary had pleaded with him to wait until the twins were born. The twins were born in August and Steven wasn’t there for it.

Same for non-romantic work relationships.

As if he cares.

Yeah that's all that is

never heard of the neuralyzer!?!?!?

❤

Wow so you picked a loser husband and that's his fault? I'm sure you're 100% innocent😂😂

This comment. Perfect description of how it feels dealing with a person like this. Thank you for sharing. This video was definitely triggering.

Yup, or just miserable childish , no I’m having a fuss. Sadistic, Oh this guy or woman voice could he pretend to be human, boring, this difficult to convert to mundane banal robot bleep bloop, A dumb dumb Zi could master STEM or actual science armchair speculation, Nothing empirical or valid no proof spin wheels help none static as ns useless feed you relieves no suffering Dailey Faustus…,,,???!!!’mmCk idyll K Damn micro junk crap coof

No. HE was cornered.

And the fact that she said she can’t take an Uber leads me to believe that he controls her money too.

@@haltersweb but he told her to take an Uber , she said no …and she leaked the video , but didn’t leak the start either. I think if we all learnt anything from Jonny depp is hold back as things might not always be as they see, also the car was his wife’s not his as it was said a few years back the her got her the Tesla as she was haven problems driving at the time ..

I wondered about that too. It's always possible that there's a second car that was simply unavailable at the time of this argument. He spends a lot of time away from home.

@@robbrob100 Yeah, I think you make some valid points here. He did tell her to take an Uber and she refused.... without explaining why. Also, the fact that she leaked the video, without recording the argument in full, says a lot about her too. He's no angel either. I just think you can't get a full picture of a nine-year marriage from a three-minute clip.

@Lala Emm now I know people who suffered abuse , and the one thing they all seem to say about this is that for someone who was abused by him for years and fled the house in fear it’s sure odd that she would not of already gave the dog it’s meds to avoid this , and done the shop already to avoid the fight and most people I know who suffered said the same thing , they walked on egg shells to make sure they didn’t have a reason to get into fights and stuff … meanwhile stats not how she’s behaving

Like chose the wrong partner a guy like Steven and a lot of people view divorce as a failure but let's be real they both chose wrong here and i feel for the kids

Yeah. The idea that there’s some super special woman out there who would absolutely love being treated like a dog is insane. 😂 Like… dude, your wrong choice was your behavior.

He's dog whistling to his incel/misogynist fans. Just peak narcissist entitlement.

I'm not defending the guy, i never got the appeal of someone who debated teenage adults for views, but it's a choice to get married. Sounds like youre trying to imply he chose her like an item, I hope I'm mistaken with that assumption?

He wishes he had chosen a submissive, brain dead partner who would tolerate all his abuse. Sad thing is, there are women out there like that.

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it's fake. equality for men!

Its the reason I came to see Dr. Grande's take after viewing "Officer Tatum's" video, Crowder was completely in NPD mode (imo)... the way he seemed to be controlling his wife (can't take the car, keeping her at the house, basically cutting her off from the outside world); trying to manipulate her psychologically, gaslighting her, I would even say engaging in "word salad" (that whole "worthy" thing was pure manipulation); his wife knows she's being abused yet continues to say she loves him... oh yeah, he's been working her so long she doesn't know if she's coming or going. I've watched Crowder for years, I do think he is very intelligent and especially in terms of politics (as an atheist I just disregard the religious aspects of his show)... but seeing his true face makes me sick and I'd rather never see him again.

NDP what is this?

​@@tobedownloaded6277Narcissist Personality Disorder.

Crowder just got out of a major surgery where he almost died, and could barely breathe - the doctor told him to take it easy and didn't, then ended up BACK in the hospital. I'm assuming that's why he wanted her to do all those things even though she was pregnant, if so he is right here. I've seen plenty of 8 month pregnant women still at work. This is all taken out of context, and wouldn't surprise me if she is the selfish one. Also seems like a gold digger to me....she waited until they had kids to get a divorce, classic gold digger move!

@Jimbo Jones way to mental gymnastics yourself into thinking she's the bad guy. Yeah, he DEFINITELY seemed like he couldn't breath while he berated her. News flash, being pregnant makes it hard to breath too.

​@@jimbojones9118 "He just got out of major surgery and could barely breathe." Yeah mate, and I'm sure the doctor prescribed that cigar he's sucking on here. All that smoke really opens up the lungs!😂

@@emmagatewood3898 u don't inhale cigars, more on.

She did good getting out. It only gets worse when the baby comes. So much worse

women with self worth issues seek out narcissists, this happens a lot.

I still think its crazy tht people defend the cheating spouse.

Yep. That exasperation of not being able to reason with a narcissistic abuser. I really felt for her.

@Brandon Massey did she actually cheat though?

I guarantee she knew he was a jerk before she married him

There’s a full minute of video edited out. Definitely makes you wonder.

@@lynnsmith399 any facts to back that up? Having watched the video in full (for the last time) the video cuts in the middle of Crowder's speech at 2:35 probably to speed things up. What proof do you have that a full minute was taken out?

@@lynnsmith399 I don’t think any amount of “context” could really exonerate him of the abhorrent behavior that is on display in what was released. If it’s missing anything, there a a couple of minutes trimmed off the beginning or end. That doesn’t really change the footage that is available of an unreasonably grumpy dude trying pathetically to mindfuck his wife. I’m a conservative zealot in a lot of ways but the people trying to excuse this are coping because they have some parasocial fealty to this hack for reasons I will never understand. He tries so hard to be the 1950s ideal of a “real man” and fails. The comment in the video about not being able to go to the gym is especially good for a chuckle considering that he missed the birth of one of his children because he was getting implants to appear more muscular. He’s evidently not above buying his physique so I’m not sure why skipping a day at the gym was such a non-starter for him.

@@quintonmoad4418 I’m not a fan of crowder (I’ve cautioned my son on heeding anything from him and find his wearing of a shoulder holster as a fashion accessory laughable), but that surgery bit seems to be at least one cheap swipe his wife and others have taken I get it... she’s human and may wanna get one good dig in, but even Candace Owen’s swipe on the matter of his surgery seems a game of semantics The term in question is “elective” Crowder asserts he was having a birth defect addressed Just because he elected to do this and it was not technically an emergency doesn’t mean it wasn’t addressing a real issue Oh, well Not my circus, not my monkeys Seems the type of guy in the business of “proving a point” Anytime you use that rationale in a relationship (intimate or otherwise), you may be proving you’re just as big a jerk, if not bigger, than the target of your self righteous shenanigans Still, the surgery bit may be just a cheap dig out of frustration

@@lynnsmith399 it’s a ring camera, that’s how they work. It’s not a 24 hour surveillance system, it operates differently, I’m pretty sure.

She could miscarry under those conditions

It's sad that such an obvious point needs to be stressed: even in the context of a struggling marriage, any half-way decent husband would avoid putting his very pregnant wife through that ordeal. Total control freak/creep.

you hear him wheezing?

​@@RawOlympia and Steven probably would have blamed her if that had of happened.

@@jennyeddins7809 exactly. There’s no winning or even reasoning with a Narcissist. The only way to win is to not play the game, just leave and block and never speak to them again. They will suck you dry

Clearly he has always needed help and counseling and just plain parenting and not from those as immature as him. Thinking this is just something in the last year is major cope. He has always been a horrible person with horrible ideas.

I think Trump's loss messed him up severely.

He has always been a prick, now his lifetime of burning bridges is coming to roost

You see how a 3 minute clip causes everyone to be emotional and causes this much havoc on RU-vid, yet he's the one who needs help?

counseling doesnt cure evil

Steven is a dick, but people call him a literal nazi when his views are pretty standard Republican establishment views. Also, leftoids are you to call anyone on the right evil/fascist/Nazi matter what, so you aren’t really currying any favor with them by denouncing Steven. Not to say that he isn’t a dick, but yeah.

I have felt that he has been cosplaying as a Christian for the last year and this seems to confirm it.

comically he bows tonm jews who Jesus christ calls the enemy of mankind he himself sold himself fornmoney like judas iscariot sold jesus for 30 pieces of silver

I've made comment in the past that Steven is a false flag conservative that is part of a psyop to discredit them. Now I'm half sarcastic when I say that but ... Every once in a while that thought does cross my mind about him and other talking heads.

@@rhythmicwindu Not a nazi but hes definitely a ass hole bigot just like every Christian nationalist/fascist conservative, you ppl should really learn to stop ignoring facts and logic. Stop being bigots

lucky you

Mine too. It's a blessing.

Yes, I had the most kindest father also. It was one of the greatest blessings in my life.

My grandfather as well. I got very lucky.

You'll find tht conservate men make better fathers because libral men are suck ups

The surgery also served to increase blood flow to his heart. And there is an entire minute of the 3 minute video that was conveniently edited out. I’d be very interested in seeing what was removed before jumping to conclusions.

@@lynnsmith399 that was his lie. He also said insurance wouldn't cover it so he had to pay for the surgery and the family has also said it was elective surgery. Stop trying to apologize for abusers.

@@consciouscrypto3090 Wether or not it was elective has nothing to do with wether or not it increases blood flow to the heart. Elective means the Dr didn’t find it necessary. That’s all.

Why didn't she mention that in the video? Why was she also unwilling to walk the dog?

@@lynnsmith399 I could elect to take iron pills and that would increase the blood flow to my heart, but it wouldn't justify my skipping the birth of my twins, would it?

Exactly. When my husband first told me about this video I said oh I’m not surprised AT ALL

Not in the least. He is a bully, and like all bullies picks on vulnerable people.

not at all. you can tell he is like this from every video I've ever seen of him. entitled, narcissistic asshole.

I think people assumed he played up for the camera to be entertaining. Most are baffled he treats his pregnant wife worse than teenagers he's debating for a pandering comedy skit.

EXACTLY!

and the medicine that he wants her to administer to their dog is toxic to pregnant women. I don't know why I'm commenting, I've never heard of Steven Crowder.

Having to sit in your house, with no indication when you may be back, is a red flag. The fact she takes everything for granted and does whatever she wants, is a red flag. The implication that he HAS to be on a schedule, but she isn't, is a red flag. The fact she wants the car, to go out all day at 8 months pregnant, is a red flag. On top of that he makes all the money and is still required to bow to his wife, who's basically just a dependent. So he does all the work, makes all the money, and is still required to sit there all day while she goes out shopping all day and returns when she feels like it. When she knows damn well they have one shared car. Seems like a power trip for her since she has no other power, or claim to power, in the relationship. Dependents who live off others and sit around all day doing nothing don't tend to have any power. Hence why the car is her one grab to have some kind of control over the man who takes care of her every need and want.....

@@nathanwho1384 Jesus Christ, you’re SOOO off base it’s insane. You will end up in this exact situation with your partner leaving you.

​@@nathanwho1384 get the psychiatric help you need before you hurt someone, or more likely hurt someone again

​@@nathanwho1384 He doesn't have to be on a schedule! Why doesn't he take the damn Uber? And he didn't look like he was on too tight of a "schedule" flopped down in that chair smoking a cigar!

THIS

@@lemonstealinghorsdoeuvre You start out saying “no” then continue to confirm what she is saying …….????

Misogyny is a strong word to throw around when discussing a man arguing with a specific woman. Not every negative interaction between a man and a woman is necessarily motivated by that difference.

​@@Torgo1969 it's every word he said to her it's every excuse me made there after - he spoke of wifely duties. He spoke that she should not be given a divorce because he doesn't want it and she should not have the right to be granted it. He thinks he is God. Yes he is a misogynist!

@@celestewarren8548 Nothing that you wrote constitutes "hatred of women as such", so I am unconvinced. Did he state that she doesn't deserve a divorce because she is a woman and he is a man? I would consider that as evidence of misogyny but did that happen? As far as "wifely duties", that refers to the traditional division of labor between the vast majority of husbands and wives throughout the history of Western Civilization. If the husband earns the money to provide a house that he cannot enjoy for dozens of hours at a time because he is out earning money, then the wife should do a decent amount of work in the home to make it a pleasant haven for when he arrives home after work. This is nothing unusual at all. If he perceived (correctly or not) that she was not living up to her end of the deal, then it is her alleged behavior that is the issue, not the fact that she is a woman as such. Show me evidence that he hates women as such (and not merely resents one woman's behavior in the context of his marriage) and I will acknowledge his misogyny. As I have posted here and in other forums, he is behaving disgracefully here, not at all like someone deserving of admiration. But I have also been accused of "hating women" because I criticized the words spoken by one specific woman, and this kind of defamation is unacceptable.

You shouldn’t worry about it because a narcissist/psychopath hates everyone. So all things are going to be applied by them, racism, misogyny, homophobia, anything that they can utilize to vent out their hate.

Very very cruel thing to say to the woman carrying your children... Straight to her face. Unbelievable and unforgivable. Shows what a selfish and cruel person he is

I believe Steven's 2nd statement is intended to suggest that although she claims she loves him, he feels her actions are inconsistent with her words. Basically, he's suggesting she doesn't really love him and he doesn't love her.

It's rejection. He's rejecting his feelings for her and rejecting feelings from her. Classic narcissist move. Rejection hurts. It's intentional to punish her. SC is an abusive a-hole.

I don't think he will be over at all. He has WAY too many loyal fanboys that will continue to worship & defend his loser ass. It's the sad truth but it is the truth 🗿

Nah, too many males hate women and as long as they still do, he will always have a fan base.

I'm very concerned for her children and the baby in her belly 😢

@@starlingswallow she had twins in her belly, not just one baby. She's even more weak and vulnerable.

@@GladeSwope that would only happen in the world his same fans complain exist, but unfortunately cancel culture isn't really a thing and like many people in his position, he won't lose his fanbase, platform, and probably not much of his money.

That's actually a load of c*** period most of us know exactly who we are getting with long before we ever do. He's a complete jerk there is no doubt period. But I GUARANTEE she knew he was a jerk when she dated him and married him. She was drawn by his status and wealth, then chose to ignore reality

They were high school sweethearts...

We all could have known who he was if we paid attention. He's been a bully the entire time he's had a platform

@@fredstriker2042 she married him before his career took off, so I don't think she was after wealth and status.

@faeriegraver fair enough. That said, It would be nearly impossible for her to, NOT know he was an a$$ before she married him. Hey. Regardless, the "a$$" should have known better than to get married. He's done

Thank you. He's complaining she won't do something he is completely capable of doing all while sitting on his butt smoking a cigar right next to his pregnant wife. The optics alone are bad enough. Then you throw in all the awful things he was saying to her. Smh

I feel sorry for her.

@@mymai5859 when he said "I don't love you" my heart sunk. He did that just to provoke emotional pain. It's heartbreaking she went through that.

​@Ms. Chris did you see how she cradled her belly after he said that?

​@@Highkingofgondor It's sad that you seem to be under the impression that Steven Crowder's behaviour is acceptable or normal

Oh please what he said was NOTHING.. this is regular conversation. Emotional abuse is swearing, insults, screaming.. is this all she has? After years of marriage and alleged "emotional abuse" she'd have a video better than him being a little frustrated and abrasive... I'm gonna need more than a mild argument to convince me of abuse. If anything is abusive it's trapping your wife with one car for the family.. wtf is that all about?

@@dawnjohnson9726 if this is a “regular conversation” for you then I have bad news for you. It’s abuse. Telling your 8 month pregnant wife to give their dogs medicine that’s toxic for pregnant women, smoking a cigar around said pregnant woman, not allowing her to take the car, saying the only way “out of this” is “discipline and respect”, saying flare out “I don’t love you”, and then saying “I’ll fuck you up” are all not normal and if you think it is then get away from it. A man’s job is to protect and care for his wife especially during pregnancy. Steven showed utter disregard for his wife and his children. He is a poor excuse for a man and a husband.

@@dawnjohnson9726wtf? No, it’s not even remotely normal to have fights like this. Yes, people fight and say nasty things, but not to the point of this. Being told to “watch it….watch it” when she mentions his abuse as opposed to “what abuse?” He never even tried to defend his actions. How normal is “I will fuc* you up” when said to one’s wife when she’s 8 months pregnant with his twins? Go ahead and play mental gymnastics all you’d like cause unless you’re a time traveler from before 1960 then this isn’t close to being a normal argument.

@BattleMage52 you're obviously just a fucking kid. You have no idea what married people say to each other on a regular basis. After 9 years of marriage you know everything there is to know about the other person. You get into shouting matches over small petty bull shit. This is why divorce is so high right now because people are unwilling to work through their problems and just want a way out. If you think marriage is money and honey and you're gonna get along at all times and never fight once you are immature as fuck.

So you havent seen the testimony of their nanny? While Steven was working 15 hour days she had a nanny and her mother and other servants taking care of her children and the house while she watched tv or slept in her room. He still managed to be more interested engaged with them than she. Coming home tired to that, could you blame his frustration.

This type of abuse is not indicative of first time abuse

My gut tells me the same.

women with self worth issues seek out narcissists, this happens a lot.

@@abbiealverez2960 The way she tries to appease him and talk him down is proof that this happens all the time

Thank you for this comment.

women with self worth issues seek out narcissists, this happens a lot.

Surprised he was married to a woman anyway lol

​@@jasonolinger7585 I would have almost agreed with your statement but I don't believe women that have a low self-esteem intend to seek out a narcissist, absolutely not. Narcissist can portray themselves to have this great confidence, charm and consideration that many woman would desire, but unfortunately it's deceiving as you begin to notice it may primarily be displayed in the public eye. Due to narcissist desire for public attention, than just pleasing their spouse. The Narcissist can display this fairly well and some of us as women will try to deal with it and may succumb to it until it just gets too unbearable. Many times it can be a slow progression to where they cannot keep the 'show' going. Then their true disdain will suddenly flare up. So, it can be different characterizations of narcissism. Believe me I've been there and lived with it for 17yrs until he made the way for an exit.

100% a threat. He's an apex asshole.

Yeah it’s disturbing. Like she’s a nuisance. Either serve him or get out of the way. It doesn’t work this way- sometimes we women need a little help especially during pregnancy and if you love your wife- you’ll do it.

Same with my husband. When I was pregnant he was going out of his way to do any little thing I needed, from peeling me a pile of oranges in the first trimester because that's the only thing the nausea would let me stomach, to tying my shoes in month 9 because I was too big to reach them. I cannot imagine him flipping out at me over "wifely duties" at any time, ESPECIALLY not 8 months along!

I have been big and pregnant. Watching Crowder treat his wife life this. I can’t even imagine my husband talking to me like this. It made me so sad and sick.

Dickriiiida

Crowder is a narcissist.

he's the same anus he is on his show on the daily.

I thought that was a character for the show. Turns out he’s actually like that.

There's a reason former cast members from his show disappeared without explanation and aren't allowed to speak publicly about it. He makes them sign NDAs. Dave Landau didn't sign an NDA and he recently told some things that went on with him and Crowder, including a phone call in which Stephen screamed "I OWN YOU!" to Dave when Dave questioned him about something.

​@@lorrainesmith.4995 if a man says something you do not like that does not make him a misogynist.

she had like 10 years to figure it out, i'm not that sorry for her.

@@gibbsm She likely has her own self-worth issues. And the abuse didn't start out like this on day 1. It's a slow boil, and before you know it, you're in hell.

The sad thing is he probably treats strangers better

@mimimi queweq Given all the college students he 'debated' I believe so. At the very least he didn't scream at em.

Everyone is talking about how bad he is but if he is a POS what does that say about her? She chose to spend the rest of her life with him but now all the sudden she is finding out who he is? If women are this bad at choosing a partner then maybe going back to arranged marriages lol

Maybe she thought she could fix him. Hell, she could have even thought that crap was cute at one point but not anymore. You never know.

To play Devil's advocate, I'm sure that there was a lot of good stuff about their relationship too because it lasted so long. But either way there is no excuse for their behavior He exhibited In that clip, and I feel bad for his ex, I would have tried to get away from that too in her position.

She was raised in a family that believes in traditional marriage. This what happens when the husband side of the relationship is filled by a bastard, so she had to eventually deal with the reality of the situation.@@wolfbones666

was it really patience? could it be stockholm syndrome?

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💯 my ex did the same shit.

@Molly G man I'm sorry to hear that 😞 I hope you're doing better

women with self worth issues seek out narcissists, this happens a lot.

@@jasonolinger7585 wow that's very true. I had a habit of doing that until I met my husband. Crazy how it's subconscious though.

Agreed! I'm on the left but this isn't about political lines. This is about a woman who has been mercilessly abused for years. I don't care who she votes for, I just want her and their children SAFE. They video was heartbreaking and I'm so sad for her, especially the uphill battle she'll have with the divorce proceedings. She deserves so much better!

Everyone is talking about how bad he is but if he is a POS what does that say about her? She chose to spend the rest of her life with him but now all the sudden she is finding out who he is? If women are this bad at choosing a partner then maybe going back to arranged marriages.

​@Jason Olinger I would have never seen that - if you had not said it, well done!

@@jasonolinger7585 it probably wasn’t like that at the beginning, this is a common thing that happens.

For real, regardless of one's political orientation or adherence to "traditional" gender roles, this behavior is completely unacceptable and anyone who makes excuses for it should be considered suspect as well. Sadly, this kind of garbage will be an issue in a whole new generation due to bad influences like Andrew Tate.

just gonna say, having your own car is not at all traditional, it's ultra-modern, and progressive.

​​@@gibbsm kinda true. Though guess depends how people define to what era. I think all roles are traditional going back to cave man times...but all the convenience cave men did not have are modern.

@Matt Gibbs Ya got me, Matt. Once hubby granted me the freedom to drive a horseless carriage, I went from being a homeschooling homemaker to being a footloose, jazz-lovin' _Thoroughly Modern Millie._

@@gibbsm Even Joseph put his pregnant wife on the donkey... Cars of their time..

it's fake. equality for men!

He United conservatives and liberals. Congratulations Steven lol he is such trash

Unfortunately not all of them will. Some of these types really do think a woman should just be a submissive slave to a man

Yeah it shows that not everyone who isn't a liberal or a leftist or progressive is a total monster either. I liked Steven for his good argumentative skills and I think in a lot of change my mind segments he was still right however in this situation he is wrong definitely, dude was hiding some skeletons.

​@@asherray4969Most conservatives definitely don't think a wife should be a slave.

@@worsethanjoerogan8061 No just less than.

right-wingers new thing is "context" because the just learned what it means, but they don't know how to use it in a sentence yet.

She seemed weary and exhausted to me. Totally understandable, she probably wanted to get in that car and keep on going.

@@kathynicholson103 Now that you mention it she did seem that way. His circular garbage was exhausting.

Yes

Yeah I just giving the dog his pill was interfering with her gold-digging. That poor little victim😂😂

@@rachelsill79 if it was bravecto, yes, it would not be a good for her to handle it. Maybe it was his dog. And you have no idea what money of her own she had or what her contribution was to the marriage. I imagine your own isn’t much.

I thought the same thing.

My thought too. He's saying that to a woman 8 months pregnant...with twins!

Same. Who has that much money & won't provide a car for his partner. Classic control & isolation tactics.

You're right. Idk man, I'd find a side piece before I talked to pregnant wife that way. Never let a woman make you loom like a bitch. I found out the hard way.

@@HH-el8vp exactly

​@@somethingelse4424 Would you pay me $1 for each and every conservative, who isn't like Crowder?

This is a toxic personality disorder- has nothing to do with conservative or liberal.

it is an accurate portrayal tho. cons are always talking about being strong, masculine men, that are the head of the household, what are you talking about?

You consider him laying around. Strong? Haha

My late husband was very conservative, as am I. He was NOTHING like this man. He treated me with respect and love. It has nothing to do with being a conservative or otherwise.

She filed for divorce 2 years ago. He appears to be a massive narcissist. Probably has narcissistic personality disorder.

@@missybean2223 He reminds me of my narc in laws. All this talk about God this and God that and they live like Sodomites. My narc brother in law is highly manipulative and controls his wife in strange ways too. He tried that crap on me and I exposed him. He began stalking us for a while. Narcissists seek revenge and never stop. His wife will be tortured by him through their children for the rest of her life.

​@@missybean2223 yet so many are excusing his behavior and defending him, I find it disturbing tbh being a survivor myself.. smdh...

@@enigmaticallis3110 same!!

it's fake. equality for men!

So you havent seen the testimony of their nanny? While Steven was working 15 hour days she had a nanny and her mother and other servants taking care of her children and the house while she watched tv or slept in her room. He still managed to be more interested engaged with them than she. Coming home tired to that, could you blame his frustration.

Might want to reword that... makes no sense

@@Kat-I-am3333ok Steve wanted his wife to give their dogs some medicine Hillary wouldn’t because the medics is possibly toxic for pregnant women. In the original video that is why Steven Crowder is saying “ get some gloves and take the dogs in a walk after” Hope this helps.

This is just silly. Pregnant women (nurses, pharmacists) handle medicine (chemos) all the time. I'm a cancer ward nurse. I have had chemo all over me numerous times. It's literally zero risk.

​@@barnagotte7297 You must be a careless chemo nurse. When the nurses gave chemo to my son, they came in gloved, gowned, face shielded. You just let it splash all over you? Perhaps you should be more careful...

@@barnagotte7297 If you were actually a real nurse, you would know that "it's literally zero risk" is completely false. With proper precautions, handling chemo is "minimal" risk, but it is never "zero" risk. And because the risk is not "zero", pregnant women should avoid, or at least minimize, their handling of chemo. In some job environments it may not be possible, but many jobs involving chemo will work to have the pregnant employee doing other tasks as much as possible, rather than directly handling chemo.

I don't think it's wrong for men to want a traditional woman.

@@jayc342009 he said “a woman’s place in the home is obedience or subservience.” I think it IS wrong for THAT to be your idea of a “traditional” woman

@@FloridaFreak yet its perfectly okay for women to demand unrealistic expectations from men? If men want women like that then they are fully in their right to

​@@FloridaFreak I wouldn't call it subservience. It's a division of labor. Is a man considered subservient to his wife because he earns income that she spends? I'd just call that a normal part of marriage

A woman's place is on the top of the worl

Steven WAS a controlling and Psychologically abusive husband. Did I successfully change your mind? I love Steven Crowder as a journalist and commentator but yeah, I don't have his back on this one. As far as I can see he was blessed to have such a wife but treated her like crap. Whatever the context was, whatever stress or pressure he was under, there was no excuse to treat her the way he did in that video.

Uhhhh He's a former Comedian Minister Fox News Conservative host... nothing abusive about that as it being the norm?

Amen. God Bless

I’m pretty sure her family sent it to a journalist to post! I’m usually not a fan of petty behavior but this was the best thing for them to do.

it's fake. equality for men!

He's clearly a control freak and has been trying to control the narrative. After he made that video pretty much blaming the divorce on her and talking about how he "chose wrong" I would have released the video too!

@@vwboymom85 this isn't petty. She's being misrepresented to an audience of 6 million people, if that was any member of my family I'd make you're that video would have more views than Despacito.

Agreed his wife is very manipulating. She edited the footage, a whole minute missing. She is gaslighting him. Glad he free from another useless female. My husband would leave if i ever pulled that overemotional pregnancy bullshit.

She wanted to take half his assets, end of.

​@@rjflores438 He wanted to control and scare her

​@@rjflores438"His" assets while his wife takes care of the entire household and bore him his children. All you guys think about is money 🙄

It got worse after. He released a Twitter video threatening to "release her medical and mental health records" if she "continued to talk". He's trying to scare her into silence about his abuse, and is using the grossest method possible to blackmail her.

@@rjflores438 I bet she's not too "vulnerable" to do that.

I wouldn't be surprised

if he is, he sucks at doing steroids, he's not that jacked. Natties get his physique all day long.

He does and pretty much said so

You of all people?

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everyone has anger, nice that we can pick apart one persons life

Anger isn’t bad necessarily but impulsivity definitely is

That's what she deserves he should have slapped her.😂😂 Isn't that what right wing people say Alpha Male. I have ZERO sympathy for woman that marry men like this. Like she didn't know that he was a Rascist, misogynistic coward punk!! That woman is just as bad as Crowder.

@@KermdoubleO7 this wasnt anger. He was trying to maintain control over her. He was treating her like a child. It's not like he just yelled at her. He told her he would "f*ck her up" just because she wasn't doing her "wifely duties". That isn't anger. That is abuse. That is power and control.

Control freak

and that lunatic loves guns.

There's no DV going on here. Like are you actually thinking Crowder would murder her? Little melodramatic

Pretty sure that guy was a weasely turd and not worth caring about.

Link? He's evil jmo

That's bc he's not talking about her taking the car. He's saying he can't see his friends, family, that she's isolated him and that all his actions are controlled down to the second (could be a reason behind this though, not that that makes it right. But maybe he cheated and she can't trust him, thus the tight leash) while she can go all willy nilly and just be back whenever she feels like it. I think they were both abusive in their own very different ways, honestly.