Stop Accepting Less, Act Like More 

"What you do want is going to pass you by, because you are busy with what you don't want"- Shera

I’m tired of accepting crumbs. I deserve an entire cake. If you settle for crumbs that’s what you’ll get. This includes friendships and jobs too. Being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship.

Leveling up is an inside job. You can be a 10 looks, but if you have no confidence or poise, you have NOTHING.

Thank you. I’m 21 and 2 months ago I went on my first date. Now I’ve been on many good dates and men want to just buy me things because I tell them that I have a standard. When they approach me with cheap stuff I calmly act confused and say “oh I’m just not used to that” Link? I don’t do that. Paying half??? “Oh I’m just not used to that. I thought a real man pays the tab. Are you broke? Cause you’re asking a woman for money.”

So true. If we settle for bread crumbs in our relationships we will always get bread crumbs. Level up, up your value, and start expecting more to get more.

This is true. I try to look my best everyday, whether causal or dressed up, do my makeup everyday, keep my nails done religiously, keep hair presentable and done. I’ve always noticed how some ppl (especially some Pickmeishas) don’t like it or feel a way. They think it’s being “extra”. But some women don’t understand that when u always look and expect the best, you ended up being treated that way. My ex took me out for HIS birthday recently, and he told me a girl asked why she only gets sent Chinese food or DoorDash but yet he takes me to all of these nice restaurants and buys me things (he talks about me to every girl he talks to and we’ve been broken up for about 7 years smh lol) He said it’s because she doesn’t require anything. If you expect the least, u get the least. The other day I went to the store to grab some wine and the guy behind me paid for it. If I was looking like trash he wouldn’t have seen me coming from across the street like he did lol Looking good is not only fun, it’s also beneficial. I just want to step it up to a higher level. I’m just trying to level myself up more and more and hopefully it all falls into place. It’s a process, but we’re gonna get it done ladies! 💗💯

It’s basically all about ENERGY.

“Make sure you keep your thoughts where you want your life to go”

I’m sitting in my backyard, drinking iced coffee, and journaling. Taking notes on what you have to say. Thank you 🙏🏻

I worked In strip clubs for 10 years. And the prettiest girls can get guys straight away, but the hustlers keep them. And the hustlers arent always the prettiest one in there.

"Make sure that you end up keeping your thoughts where you want to go"

The only youtube channel I can watch for 2hours & not get bored😂❤️

Today’s video made sense to me on so many levels. The point about “lack” and how it comes back to bite you is so true! No amount of physical leveling up will help, if you walk into a high end store or restaurant and give off a “vibe.” The most commonly dressed (white T-shirt and stained track pants) people go into a Louis Vuitton store and come out with 6 bags because of the way they see themselves. No one can shake them or make them feel small. My mom told me to keep my head up and demand respect no matter the amount of money I had in my wallet. Really liked today’s self esteem topic 🙏🏽🙏🏽

OMG....I was dying laughing when someone asked what do do because her man smells? Shera....”Act like he stepped on something. Do you smell that?” I’m dead. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I never tell man what I need money for I just say how much.he told me he does not to need to know what it's for.

"Only thing that's fair is how you treat yoself". -Shera7 spewing solid gold.

People offer me free stuff and I don’t know them! I take it ! Those are my blessings !

I love how she teaches us the “acting”

Shera best quote- you were used and confused...💯✔💪❤ Truth hurts.

You're so right about Mothers,not teaching their daughters this clarity. I'm 57 years old,and I was taught to be self sufficient within myself,not to depend upon a man for anything. I was blessed to hear this,thank you for your platform.

these videos are better than therapy and better than any relationship advice videos ever made. I understood and changed my energy in a few days COMPLETELY.

“With certain environments come certain mentalities” 👏🏾

“The only thing that is fair is the way you treat yourself”-only 4+ minutes in, and your video has so many gems! This is one of your best videos yet on leveling up, and you have many good ones. Thank you, this is giving me life-and your hair-fabulous!

A woman should show that she is worthy of a man's best. Men will treat a woman according to how she presents herself and how she treats herself.

I used to be a happy pickmeisha in a long term relationship and after listening to Shera I’m wise, miserable and single 😂

Auntie is too on point EVERYDAY

I hate to admit it but AShera is so right. I am 43 and have been watching her so years. Listen ladies! I haven’t agreed with everything she says but I am learning that was a mistake.

I just told him, he's going to have to pay for the lunches and give me cash and he better stop breadcrumbing me coz I deserve a whole relationship. Am leveling up...Dude speechless..boy shape up or boy bye 👋💪

Found me a provider type, that's and executive an entreperneur, with his house is paid off in an expensive town. After one date he's already talking about making me his girlfriend. He has lots of plans to take me on trips whereas the last guys i dated were blue collar cheap and put in no to low effort in their appearance and things to do/things they'll do for you. Glad i didn't settle and kept leveling up and not let a man manipulate me or make me feel like I'm asking for too much when they're actually looking for women as a leg up. SheRa was right about dressing for your future and the lifestyle you want/desire and only dating men that are willing/want to impress you. Date for data not for a just companionship/sex and make the best choice for you. I will say how well you love yourself, have self-control and apply these tips will make the difference btwn being a busty babymama, a bitter betty or a woman in a position where you're set for life.

“Th world ain’t fair... the only thing that’s fair is how you treat yourself”

I have been telling too truth way too much.. I need to learn more. Bcus being honest has done nothing to me but harm.

Exactly. Every major artist has a rider. A rider is the list of accommodation requirements from the artist that are included in the larger contract. The bigger the name, the more demanding the rider. The higher your value, the more you can demand.

Im not dealing with no stank man laying next to me.

I stopped accepting less and left the relationship lol

I wish RU-vid was like this 15 years ago because I would have known better and done better.

I listen to these at work. The level up is a career in and of itself

"dont be one minute late or you gonna regret it" *write that down, write that down*

I met an attorney who wanted pics and massages, so I told him my booking fee. And he’s like, “ so you’re charging me ???

This woman is absolutely beautiful. She knows it too. Within the first four or five minutes, she touched her beautiful hair at least 10 or 12 times. 💃

Just to give a little advice... don't juice diet women! Intermediate dieting is the key. If you can mix it with the keto diet and watch that weight melt off. Walk for 45 mins a day. Good luck my Queens!

If only I got this game when I was in my 20s

There's this one city here in california full of wealthy older men and I'm thinking of freestyling there more often. Last time I went I wasn't even super dressed up but one older guy was flirting with me a lot and a lot of women were looking at me all jealous lol

Your hair and makeup are always on point but this look is exceptional hunni🤌🏾

You are such an actress😹 you kill me when you do the hypothetical mini skits..I needed this whole video♥️ they really KEEP me on this level up path and always evolving. You are invaluable!

Men nowdays are not nice, the rich ones and the poor ones are not gentlemen anymore

This has helped me level up so much! Legit my bf has taken 360 turn! You’re so smart and wise and you know where to stop. It’s rare.

Again, your hair is EVERYTHING

Shera I know you're not into colored hair.. but the highlights are sooo complentary to your skin tone. You are looking so gorgeous in this video 😍

You have a gentle yet assertive disposition that I admire and am cultivating(in my own way of course) within myself. I love learning from you and know that with persistence I will follow through on every single one of my goals. Thank You for your videos and the value they've brought for myself and many others. 🌻💪

..💥...That color/hair is gorgeous. Love this message. Love it..!!! This ALSO applies to family and jobs. This woman is the truth, on point ALL the time..💌

You changed your own life i just talked🤣

I always say "Dogs chase cats"

Whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident do it 🙌🏽

Love this chat Shera. Always carry yourself how you desire to be treated. 💛

Oh wow! Did I really catch you live? This is wonderful. I am a changed woman from your videos. 😘

Thanks for everything you do. You have change my life forever.

Shera, It is a blessing to have my life exponentially changed by information that you give so earnestly. I am forever grateful! Thank you.

My mother told me the same thing she does except she said it more bluntly. But if she delivered it to me like this I THINK I would have listened more! Because the woman I am needed to hear it this way and not as grotesquely as my mom explained it. Hood style which I was not on. And I grew up in the hood. I was just different.

Shera you really do look stunning in this video

“Your brain does not understand less” yesss 👏🏽 ✨✨✨

you are the mother that I wish with all my heart that I had ❤

Good practical advice SheRa. I always learn so much. These are some golden nuggets. Nobody tells women this stuff.

I love this hair and makeup look on you! Yaassss✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨💛💛💛💛

My favorite hair color on you Shera. Sprinkle sprinkle 💗

These are the videos I loveeeeee! No silly people disturbing and distracting you make your point. New technology with bots and scammers throwing off the convo is ASF. I’ll continue to watch your videos and support with likes and shares❤❤

24:17 come up with something he can rescue you from

I just did my make up and perfume and I’m so excited for you and the movement

Woahh When Shera acts out scenarios she is so convincing lmao I'd give her money haha

So true about European women! We gotta step it up, men will follow suit.

We love you Shera! Sending positive energy 💓

You’ve been getting even more fabulous and gorgeous over time like a fine wine 🥰

I love you! Dreams are coming true all around, and it’s thanks to your harsh yet gentle guidance

Looking younger and more beautiful everyday ❤️❤️❤️

This videos content is “Priceless!” Thankyou Shera you are a gift 🎁 xx

Fantastic look today 🎉

This video gave me the wisdom I needed 😭🔑🗝️🔥

I'm so thankful to come across this Because, now I definitely know what I need to stop doing.

I'm teaching my daughter and I told her what I did us exactly what not to accept! Let me show you a better way and I'm watching every video to learn the way things should go. I was never taught so I appreciate your time and effort to share your knowledge.

I think Shera needs to develop a game that has these guidelines to levelling up...the game is on 💯

Your advice is priceless but you crack me up so bad 🤣🤣🤣

You do have the power to change what you do not like about your moon sign.

This makeup and hair look is so pretty!

I love you and your platform keep doing what you do your definitely helping us level up.

You the best, Sheraaa!! Loving that yellow on your skin 🧡🧡🧡 makes your skin glow!!! This video gives me hope, confidence and makes me feel good about myself.

Shera you are mind blowing!! I love your teachings!!❤

Dang I wished I watched this last night. I need this advice so bad. I thought it said “lies” not less. I’m about to watch it now... does she talk about narcissists? I’m married to one, but I’m trying to make things better for me before I leave him.

Shera looking snatched and gorgeous 😍 💖

Shera! I named Desert Entanglement today 😍😍😍 can’t wait for it to come out so I can buy it!!

Rich men cant ever find true luv..

My favorite shera look 😍😍😍

Shera saying "of course I have a back up" 🤣🤣🤣 like girl stop playing with me.

I love this look on you!

Oh my Goshhh this is legit the most beautiful Shera has ever looked!!

Keep your thoughts in line with where you want to go.

Looking beautiful as usual. This is so true🦋🦋

Shera!!! I just watch your videos for shits and giggles. You be having me on the floor! You are too funny!

Quarantine yourself again with no food 😂

The acting role play is hilarious-going into man voice and expression 🤣🤣 amazing

You look better and better every time ❤️🙏🏼 sending you love and blessings

So excited to listen to this