Stop Airing Your Dirty Laundry on TikTok 

Brett: "You've probably seen this all over social media" Me: No, I haven't, you are my only connection to social media.

This story is just another example of why people need to keep their private lives off of the internet.

If someone sets up a camera just to cry, I already don't trust them

If she's attempting to slander him, make him look like a horrible person, then I don't blame him for going above and beyond to protect his name. Is it over the top? Sure. But there have been a series of incidents wherein a man's entire world has been turned upside down by unsubstantiated claims of gold digging women. Trevor Bauer, Johnny Depp come to mind.

Honestly, those websites and receipts were probably the only way he got custody. The family court system is absolutely fucked for fathers.

Over 21K behind in child support and NOT in jail. Interesting...

Keeping personal issues private has become a lost art

Women almost automatically get full custody of ALL the kids in Family Court these days, a woman needs to be REALLY BAD to lose custody in today's world . Let THAT sink in. Women get full custody something like 80% to 90% of the time.

Didn’t the internet just applaud a woman for exposing her ex for 7 hrs (Who the F did I Marry on Tik Tok)? Where do we draw the line on what is vengeful and what is warning the public about someone?

The fact that she doesn’t get any custody in this day and age tells me everything I need to know about her.

If you’ve never had a woman like this prey on you, I wouldn’t expect you to see his behavior as a public service to the rest of us.

This whole predicament is so convoluted. Both parties should prioritize the welfare of their children above all else. The continuous online debacle doesn't benefit anyone. It's always important to remember there are real lives and real children involved in such stories.

As a child of divorce you have no idea how crapping on your child's other parent makes your child feel

Remember when people used to write in journals/diaries? I wish we could go back to that.

The ex-husband brings the receipts. She doesn't. The ex-husband is warning others not to get tricked by her because she ruined other people's lives including his. This makes sense. If he was wrong, then his ex-wife could sue him, but she isn't because it's all true. There's no way he could make these kinds of claims without getting in trouble if he was lying.

Brett she has multiple children from different fathers, he is not the father of her eldest two children.

If this was a woman warning other women about a man with those behaviors, she'd be praised. Hell, the whole are we dating the same guy movement is exactly this. It sounds like she's scamming people out of money and sympathy, and he is warning people

I completely disagree with your take here. It's not a case of "airing dirty laundry in public" at all if the woman is a recidivist scammer that stole 1 million to another guy, faked cancer, owes him 21 000$, etc... It's, as he's saying, "to warn others". These kind of scammers can literally ruin the life of other people, they are a danger, it's not just some private matter. Yeah, you could say the guy is "obsessed" over her and should move on, "it's the mother of his kids" etc... but at the same time, we can't really blame someone for making sure a scammer/criminal that caused him problems is made accountable for her crimes while she's back to inventing stuff online. At the end of the day, if he's right, defending her or saying they should discuss this privately imply you defend a serial scammer's image and want to let her have the anonymity she needs to scam other people. It doesn't make any sense. Now, at this point, it's probably going too far with the back and forth, and there's some shady things about him as well (nobody's perfect), and you do admit you don't know who's right... But you're still according a lot of credibility to the woman in a sort of "believe all women" reflex when a judge literally gave him full custody (sorry what? Custody to a man in 2024???) and, apparently, she's saying that everyone she knows are on his side... I mean, the whole story sure is a mess... But she's still far less credible than him. And in either case, you say they should resolve this privately which, as mentioned before, can only make sense in her perspective, not his. If she's right, he's an obsessed jerk, if he is right, she's a serial scammer and he's justified in his campaign to call her out. It can't really be both. As for scientology, as much as I hate this cult, it's pretty malicious to mention a person's faith to attack his credibility (unless you're into some kind of theological debate...). I fail to see the relevance here.

Brett, she stole 1 MILLION dollars from someone, and you think the guy warning people about her is the unhinged one? Even if he's shady too, she stole 1 million dollars, come on

If she did what he accuses her of, and apparently she did, he's within his rights to expose her.

Women are just upset that this man is doing publicly what they do with each other privately.

She tried to throw shade at him and slander him. He defended himself with receipts since she wanted to put things (albeit false) out there. It shouldn't be made public, but the man had to defend himself at that point. And show why that woman was not to be trusted.

The fact the man got custody of the children in of itself is a miracle legally, also women will be vindictive about this fact. I dont blame this man for doing whatever hes has to do to protect his reputation.

This is so unfair to the children. Imagine your parents marital drama unfolding online, on TikTok out of all apps.

Brett, she started this. Her fake crying & cupcakes. As a single mom, I can tell you this is RIDICULOUS on her part & sad for him & these children.

Why wouldn't a judge see this behavior by these parents as detrimental to the well-being of their children?

I'm sorry, but Moms, single and married, have been making their own birthday cakes for generations. Most of us have never felt self pity over that. Most of us DO know, however, what it is like to pretend we are joyous when we are hurting on a daily basis. Thats just life.

I can't wait for the day documentaries start coming out about how horrible all the lives these children of influencers are. It's already easy to see the negative affects of using social media at a young age, but it's probably worse when your birth was used as content and your whole life documented for strangers entertainment.

the fact you just called her irresponsible while scrolling thru his “weird” page and saying ew no crazy behavior while ignoring the fact he almost went homeless because of her, the fact she’s literally a scary psychopath liar who has hurt people ESPECIALLY him. why can’t a person just warn others who are actively trying to be a famous influencer, trying to be someone she’s not. he’s heavily said replying to comments that she’s a con artist. a scary con artist who manipulates and lies to people. she’s the weird one. she’s the ew no one. the crazy one. the obsessive with bad. we’re here in the first place because she posted a video of her crying like a wild narcissist. the fact you say “maybe” she’s crazy BUT SHE IS. kudos to the guy exposing the crazy lady. absolutely legend. calling out bs people and warning. i love it

My take, both parents are extremely vindictive and toxic. Constantly going back and forth while the kids helplessly sit in the middle. Absolutely ridiculous

Notice how she has all this to say but can't refute to the report of her robbing somebody. I don't believe he is good folks, but who has the criminal record?

Wow, how dirty did this guy get done to put in all this work to keep her in check.

Moral of the story : *when throwing your dirty laundry to the public, don't be surprised if they throw your /hit right back at ya !*

You dont get arrested for bouncing a single check....

What people have to realize is that everyone has problems. Everyone is dealing with something in their lives. The thing is, is people don’t give a shit about your problems. Your problems should not be anyone else’s problems. Deal with it in private and by yourself

If he is with scientology, what he is doing is on brand.

how are the children in that "family" supposed to grow up to be anything good?

Life was amazing before social media just hanging out with friends and going home when the street lights came on summer break was amazing now it’s just how many likes can we get on our next post makes me sad

fr im so tired of hearing people's life stories on the internet 💀

4:10 hes doing gods work. Making sure noone falls for that viper. GJ

When chasing attention goes terribly wrong 😂

She says she only wrote a check from their account to open a personal account, and it bounced. Sounds like she was trying to take money from the account he funded to open a personal account, and he stopped payment on it.

He sounds like a stalker. She sounds like a liar. Get ‘em both gone

Bro found a way to beat the family court system, and he's in the wrong/narcissistic/bad guy?

He has receipts and she has tears. He's addressed everything and she's cherry picking. End of story. Yet it's funny how even with evidence, proof, and the whole nine yards she keeps getting the benifit of the doubt (if, maybe, etc) But somehow he's still the bad guy (obbsesive, narcissist, etc) So if I were him I would everything he's accused of, keeping her in check to expose her continuous scams. Also, they might be playing us all to get their own show "Keeping up with The Carzy B!t

It's funny. No one entertains all of this speculation when men owe child support or lose custody.

It is absolutely insane that people are willing to share their entire lives online. I treat my private life with my private parts. Nobody knows about it outside of my home. And I think that's the correct way.

Signed a paper to do with custody of your kids without reading it or giving it to your lawyer to read n converse about? What a smart cookie haha

Dude !!! You can tell by her eyes on the bounce check video …. She is a real life “Gone Girl”

At first I thought this was abt REAL laundry 😭🙏

Honestly it sounds like she has continued to harass him and continued to make wild claims about him. Im inclined to believe him because he brings reciepts. No way he could make those kinds of claims without being sued for defamation. She has no recourse probably because shes lying. The simplest answer is usually the correct one

I dont blame him. These are the lengths he has to go to to protect himself from allegation from her. He's getting ahead of the narrative.

you know what honestly, his behaviour is that of someone who has been abused manipulated and gaslit. this is exactly what happens when you've been driven to the edge, it changes you. I"ve been there. you go nuts because you're always trying to prove the unprovable, and especially when it's a man saying he was messed with by a woman, no one believes you and this is what happens. she's probably always behind the scenes of his life messing with him, talking dirt to everyone and their kids etc. he is unwell, but it's because of her, you can only take so much of being around a crazy person until you go crazy yourself. he can't escape because they have kids together.

Honestly this guy is smart. He’s absolutely got her stuck and he pulled the right move by getting these receipts and making this website. Beyond legally absolving himself, he’s socially absolved himself from any slander she can make up (which would come in really handy when it comes to jobs)

Brett treats the woman's claims as reliable as the man's, despite the man having multiple court documents proving his version of events is far more reliable. Brett prefers jury by social media rather than actual legal proof.

A woman has to be a real monster to lose custody of her kids, especially in the shitty family court system.

Honestly, as someone who had experienced knowing a person like his wife (someone who seems to chronically lie about everything. The person I knew even lied about her name, home, age, family and school), I appreciate the website. Investigating this stuff and having to trace past relationships is not easy

So she wanted to ruin his life and stole millions and keeping others safe is weird?

So she admitted that the children were not with her on her birthday. This combined with the fact the father was actually able to get full custody in 2024 makes me want to side with him.

I found a new song! "Now you a single mom"- Jamal 😂😂😂

wow two people sharing way too much of their personal lives on social media both turnout to be unhinged………. never saw tht coming😂

so far you only prooved how insane that gal is, not tha guy is "equally shady". Especially since some of allegations against him are proovably false. But EVEN if thyey were not... still not even on the same level. I cant imagine how LOW should gal be for courts to award full custody to a guy. And consiedring possible battle he went through to protect his kids from that kind of "mom"... i cant blame him for being pissed and exposing lies she keep telling. Dat was really bad take. Even under guise of "worry about kids".

He created the site to warn others about a very sick con artist. He's doing society a service and should be commended. The fact that she, as the mother, did not get full custody in the divorce settlement speaks volumes about the type of person she really is.

She's a raging liar, he's a scientologist, neither should have children.

His ex-wife, who is a horrible woman, is an out and out scammer. He is purely responding to her atrocious behavior. He is being defamed by her, and he is merely protecting his reputation.

Like i said the first time when I saw this story.. at the end of the day the conclusion is - people like that should not be parents. Too focused on themselves, anger towards each other, sense of needing to fight or spite each other. a responsible adult with children under their care should always focus ALL of their attention on what's best for the child(ren) even if goes against your own precious feelings or pride. I can only feel sorry for the kids as both of those people are unfit to parent.

LLCs are away to keep your money. You just give yourself a salary out of it. She can't get to his money. It's not an unusual thing to do for professionals who own their own business. So her using that as a gotcha is showing her vindictive side and a manipulative nature on her part.

The new issue is the Netflix episodes that just came out about the cult of 7m TikTok which is just gonna make them more famous ; I won’t search them up in TikTok or give them any attention but I know others will …

Anyone can write up a cease and desist letter. If it's not been approved by the court it means nothing.

I used to do that on Facebook, but thats when I was young and my parents would hold me accountable. Now that I gotten older, I came to my senses and eventually smarten up. There are trolls online that takes entertainment from reading drama.

Okay, I am 70 years old and when my parents got divorced, I was like 10 years old and there were 6 of us. We, one at a time, had to tell a Judge who we wanted to live with. 3 of us chose our mother and 3 our father. It was a messy divorce to be honest, especially when you are 10 and had to decide which parent you wanted to live with. That decision, basically telling one of your parents you love less than the one you chose to live with. Now, since I have that kind of background, I feel it allows me to say this. Both people involved in this story are terrible parents, neither of them deserve full custody, if any. But if both lose custody, what do you do? Relatives who might get custody? This is a tough one.

This guy is doing something that most women would do

Bro they might just drop a DISS TRACK on each other one of these days🤣🤣🤣

I smell a Netflix series

"Under duress" is the new universal escape clause for females. Want out of a contractual agreement? It was signed while under duress and invalid. Made a bad decision that I regret? I was under duress at the time. Caught openly lying? Did it to protect myself as I was under duress. There are even influencers online who coach women on how to use it.

What a mess… feel bad for the kids 😢

5:17 I’m glad that you don’t understand the situation to be honest. You’ve never had to experience something traumatic as he’s experienced. And that’s great for you.

Are you telling me that, I shouldn't "Air" my shit-stained underwear on TikTok and ask how to get their stains out?

Never trust a woman recording Herself crying what is going on With everyone putting there Business on line

I think my melting health I’ll just delete all social media off my phone so I don’t have to hear about this clown world anymore

She has a really nice kitchen and pretty manicure for someone struggling to pay child support. But also most states don’t take visiting rights away just from being in arrears for child support. IF she actually could be safe with her children she’d have visitation. However, his threats and actions of keeping the kids away from her, trashing her on the internet, could give her partial custody due to one of the qualifications to change custody Which is custodial parent distancing the kids from the other parent. Which he has done. Both physically and emotionally. They both seem unhinged and petty towards each other and their kids are getting to the ages where their friends will judge them based on what their mom and dad are doing online. Brett is right. Keep your dirty laundry off the internet. Give your kids a chance to have healthy pubescent years

Interesting years from now what the children think of both mother & father I hope they have a voice when they age ❤️

They need to take all of this information and go to Judge Matt’s Courtroom.

I live in the Tampa Bay area and had seen her in the local news here prior to all this online crap between them. While I do not agree with the ex-husband's actions, I will say he's likely correct. She claimed she had cancer and started a go fund me, her cousin, mother and grandmother were all upset, etc... turned out to be fake. As for how he ended up with custody of the children - step-child included - she had walked out and abandoned them.

Broken families with vengeful, bitter parents are literally the worst. My husband has three boys from a previous marriage and they are so hurt and broken and don’t understand. The boys are so sweet but their mom abuses them and uses them as weapons trying to hurt their dad. Like I said: it’s the worst.

Why you don’t want to even talk to modern women. The only winning move is not to play.

I dont see any issues with the guy doing this to his ex wife he is warning people of this.

I mean she stole 1 mill I'd warn everyone too. But he definitely a weirdo

when I was a young lad my grandmother gave me the Advice of "Don't Air Your Dirty Laundry in Public' this was well before the "social media" craze

I'm begging the world, please bring back personal privacy! I'm reconsidering my stance on bring back shaming as well. 😊

There’s no way she was 16 and he was 24 when they had their first child. If that was even close to being true she would have yelled that for everyone to know making herself even more of a victim

All people are crazy! It just comes down to what makes them crazy!

These people need to get off of all social media and worry more about their children! They're sick! Anyone who posts everything about their private life needs to get a real life.

This shows that when women make their lives public, they get "aww, i feel bad for her." But when he does it for his protection ,you need to keep your mouth shut." Because by the look of things just like the brick, they continue the grift. Stop using the "she is still the mother of your children." To run defense for her bad actions. A lot of mothers lie about the father's. This is not a lie.

I'm not surprised he is warning others, his wife is crazy and its a record for him to take the court considering she keeps lying about him and that could affect his career and kids.

Wait! she was 16 and he was 24 when he knocked her up!? 🤢🤮

He has every right and reason to protect other men from marrying his crazy ex.

This is what happens when two absolutely dysfunctional people decide to get together and sadly, the children are the ones who ultimately pay the price for the parents' bad choices.

Finally a guy that won, and made sure to keep the W. He probably got sick and tired of her crap and this is the result.

What do we learn? Divorce is fricking epic.