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Stop Apologizing About Your Messy Home.

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Telling yourself you are a bad person because you have a disorganized home is not helping you get organized, it only makes you feel bad! I hear so many people apologizing for how messy their home is or saying that THEY are bad people because their home is messy and nothing could be further from the truth. You are awesome, a messy house is just a state.
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@NoDecaf7 4 месяца назад

Say it a little louder for the folks hiding behind the piles of things: You're Still Awesome ❤

@fphandmade 4 месяца назад

One of my favorite quotes- “You will never speak to anyone more than yourself in your head, be kind to yourself.”

@brendonsgirl21 4 месяца назад

Thanks for yelling at us lol. It's good to be reminded that we're awesome every once in awhile. You are too.

@annettewilkinson5750 4 месяца назад

Minimalism is an aesthetic preference, not a moral virtue.

@sansderek 4 месяца назад

You said SO many valuable things in this video. Thanks for the reminder that we're all just human. 💕

@meghanbullinger6490 4 месяца назад

Thank you Kay. I needed this. I am not a bad person because I eat fast food too much; I am a good person regardless of my size. Thank you so much I really needed this today

@TheOnlyLila 4 месяца назад

Oh so true. In the end it doesn’t help motivate us to get back up again when we talk badly to ourselves.

@CocoB22 4 месяца назад

The complete game changer for me taking care of my house was understanding that organization is not one an done. I don’t have issues anymore- I used to kill myself over everything being completely organized. ❤

@feliitchi 4 месяца назад

There's actually a very interesting history of morality being tied to a clean home that dates back to the Victorian era and mental health studies from that time period in the US and UK. It seems like the idea never fully vanished.

@lynnkitchen8252 4 месяца назад

Yes,say it louder. You are still a great person. Thanks, Kay! See you next time.

@BlueBird-nf2gp 3 дня назад

Yes we are all too hard on ourselves. My home is “good enough.” It’s never 100% clean and perfectly organized but everything functions as we need it to and I have some art and decor that I enjoy. I declutter as I go and donate things we don’t need anymore. I’m trying not to accumulate so much that I leave a lot for my kids to deal with later on. I do a bit every day. 🧡🐦😊

@celinaquiros9381 4 месяца назад

"You're being your own bully." Wow! Good stuff, oh and, . . . YOU're awesome!! (from your not ex-boyfriend, but rather, entertained subscriber in Oklahoma with TWO dogs, a house, and a couple kids) LOL!!!

@maggierose97 4 месяца назад

Well said. I'm realizing that i have a rather nasty inner bully in my head. I think unworthiness either causes it or certaintlu contribute to it One thing about being neutral is to also be neutral in regards to time, meaning don't dwell on the past (it cause a continuous state of guilt, sadness, etc) or dwell on the future (causing a continuous state of worry. ) . Maybe try focusing on the enjoyment of singing instead of whether or not you just made a mistake.

@normahenley5834 4 месяца назад

Thank you for reminding me! I often say really mean things to myself and then realize I would not tolerate that from anyone else. We're all awesome!

@Jessicanyc 4 месяца назад

I used to be an obsessive emaculate cleaner , but now that I am getting older , I do the basic cleaning . Life is too short to spend all your precious time cleaning for hours 😊

@tracywaring3769 4 месяца назад

We are our own worst enemy , we probably talk worse to ourselves than anyone else could , I’m so bad at this , I even apologise when someone else stands on my foot or walk into me with out an apology but I say to them sorry x

@NanetteLoves2Budget 4 месяца назад

Same! I’ve started calling myself out (out loud)when I notice it. Wouldn’t it be hysterical to call them out too? I doubt I will ever get to that point and probably don’t even want to, but this morning it makes me chuckle to think about it.

@mspayitforward5295 4 месяца назад

2024 Kay, I am here for you!! Opening up about the RU-vidr grind, the content creation grind, the truth. Don’t get me wrong, Kay. I live for your organizing vlogging, Clover. All of it. Your mom’s pantry reorg! Your move to your new place, your old place, your old new place. Brave! Leading with love. Do we need color coded tea bags in our pantry. Pantry porn. Really? Why do we tie this to our self worth?!?! This is getting into my (everyone’s) deep stuff. You are so courageous and beautiful and I’m so grateful. This is the beautiful message that my soul needed today. Many sincere thanks 🙏🏼

@dmarkey4360 4 месяца назад

Thank you that was amazing and we are all guilty of negative talk to ourselves. I always felt bad when I would pick up one of my kids and a mom would apologized because her house was a little messy. It made me feel bad that she felt she needed to. So thank you.🙏❤️

@balletmeli 4 месяца назад

💯 about the social media . I feel it presents a false sense because one life and home are not perfect.

@jsantos133 4 месяца назад

Can I just say I love you? I needed this. This was like an amazing therapy session.

@Beccajoy9 4 месяца назад

I coined it practicalism. Its okay to have an area with things you love. Its okay to have other areas with just what you use. Let your space tell you how to find that balance.

@ellengross1027 4 месяца назад

Love this! So often we are hardest on ourselves. I literally put up a sign for a while that read "If I were my friend, I would..." because there's no way I'd ever be as mean, hard on, or unkind to a friend. If you've not seen or heard of KC Davis, she has a whole work around care tasks being morally neutral. You might like her.

@TheMayorsDaughter 4 месяца назад

Thank you for this! I’m currently working through a major purge process. I shut down harder than I acknowledged when I lost my Dad. ❤

@TheOrganizedSoprano 4 месяца назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@jennyjenkins877 4 месяца назад

"Stop it. You're fabulous."

@kristinapreedy7069 4 месяца назад

THIS. So much this - I KNOW this but really needed to hear it today!!! Thank you so much!!! ❤

@LenaM277 4 месяца назад

Thank you for these words of encouragement.......We will stop beating ourselves up, especially if you work 5 days a week!

@paulasuita7436 4 месяца назад

I’ve got news. Even if you are retired you have these issues. When I was younger and worked 5-6-7 days a week I simply didn’t have the time. Now that I am older I have medical issues and have diminishing energy. We are all more alike than not.

@M-Joy 4 месяца назад

Thank you for this. I'm saving it so I can watch it again and again because even though I know all this, it doesn't stick in my head :( Cleaning is morally neutral (as K.C. Davis says all the time)

@michellemorrow3783 4 месяца назад

This video was a whole sermon. Amen and thank you!

@susanstephens4892 4 месяца назад

Truth spoken here. Now all I want is a Twinkie.

@tiffanymac1162 4 месяца назад

I am a traveling nurse. Every time someone says this to me I just want to yell, this is your house. If you want to live in a space where you need to apologize to visitors for not having a chair they can sit in or a corner at a table, then that’s your choice. People will tell they are cleaning/moving when clearly that is not the case. I know some people may have an issue preventing them from doing things but most of my meetings are with able bodies people who just find the need or desire to clean up.

@floanchethompson.3586 4 месяца назад

Thank you, Kay!! I really needed to hear this. I'm going to keep this vlog on standby when I need a boost.🙂

@karenmakesthings4880 4 месяца назад

I needed to hear this. Thank you for the tough love Kay!

@loriegabidel 4 месяца назад

Me after reading the name of the video: "You haven't seen my house, Kay!!!" Me after watching the video: 😭😭😭

@mke614 4 месяца назад

Thank you! This was good to hear. 😊😊❤❤

@therealjenniferrr 4 месяца назад

I just don't invite anyone over, problem solved. 🤣

@aprilnicole4503 4 месяца назад

I needed to hear this. Thank you!

@jennieashmore 4 месяца назад

I liked your encouraging video today!

@TheGenflute 4 месяца назад

PREACH woman! This is so, so true. What the heck teaches us to get down on ourselves so much? It really crosses a line way past "humility" or whatever people think they're doing. ❤ Love this, Kay! You? ...ARE AWESOME!

@aquagirl8097 4 месяца назад

Thank you this, Kaye! I will work on being nicer to myself.

@Kyriaki_Ltr 4 месяца назад

being irrelevant BUT your hair look so gorgeous 🤩🤩 I also enjoyed the video lol thank you for sharing!

@TheOrganizedSoprano 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much!!

@searaph 4 месяца назад

What good advice! Getting from negative to neutral sounds like it will really help

@adobecult 4 месяца назад

legit needed this so much with how chaotic my house and mental health have been lately, thank you kay ❤️

@jenl65 4 месяца назад

As always, you rocked this video. All so true!! Thank you 🩷

@ShugAveri 4 месяца назад

this was a goodie Kay! thank you! You're freaking awesome!

@jsheikh8 4 месяца назад

This is such a lovely, kind and positive video - thank you so much Kay! We definitely need to learn to give ourselves a bit of grace ❤

@shellym79 4 месяца назад

This was great thank you!

@jamesdoyle5405 4 месяца назад

You have helped me today and I want to say something that may help you. You are an artist and when you get beyond technical ability, range, volume, enunciation, etc., every single criticism by yourself or others is 100% subjective. Subjective means it is just an opinion and you can accept or reject that as you please. Thanks for a great channel.

@carollane7938 4 месяца назад

Thank you, Kaye ! 😁

@melanies.6139 4 месяца назад

Kay. YOU ARE AWESOME. Thanks for the video. 👍

@karenbenavides4689 4 месяца назад

So easy, well said!!!

@angelweengz 4 месяца назад

your face at 9:50 please make some merch with a quote and subsequent 9:51 pointing one too :)

@emilyhammer4192 4 месяца назад

Oh I needed this! Thank you! I feel like this applies to so many areas of life. We are sooooo good at beating ourselves up, but is that even the reality? We are human! Sometimes our voices crack or we have a messy house, but it doesn't make us terrible.

@Lynntahl 4 месяца назад

THIS! I’ve been saying this to people for years that they don’t have to apologize for their perfectly human home. You live there!

@rmf4 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your affirmation.

@Teeyah2 4 месяца назад

Most please🙏🏾

@wiviannegrapenholt9324 4 месяца назад

Thanks I really needed this!❤🙏🏼

@NS-pf7jr 4 месяца назад

Thank you thank you for this video! It's an important reminder to us all, but especially at this point in my life. Also an reminder to myself that I should really go out there and find a choir again, even if it's really scary. Thank you again from one soprano to another. ❤

@voiceojane 4 месяца назад

Do it!! There is a choir out there for you! The bully in my head is truly shocked that showing up, working hard, being kind and doing your best IS enough!

@jainasolofel2315 4 месяца назад

Thank you.

@lindasmith9072 4 месяца назад

Fantastic 👏🏾 👏🏾

@lytaylor1204 4 месяца назад

Thanks for the tough love ❤

@kimesch9698 4 месяца назад

Thank you.❤❤❤❤

@seedylee 4 месяца назад

i'm just gonna save this for UHHHH EVERYDAY ALL DAYYYYY

@barbarageiger7740 4 месяца назад

Thanks for that talk needed it

@stephaniebowers7068 4 месяца назад

Kay you’re great! Love this message, love your hair❤

@Ck12340 4 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing such a positive message. I feel awesome, and know you are awesome too!

@christineweatherford5852 Месяц назад

Kay always encourages me and lifts us up!

@tracywaring3769 4 месяца назад

Thankyou for this xxxx

@hellototheworld 4 месяца назад

Thank you I really needed to hear this 🥰

@colleenlawrence6499 4 месяца назад

Thanks for the tough love!! I do not like to clean so i habe a list a little every day and i still have time to do what i love:)

@angelanelson5113 4 месяца назад

Thanks!

@TheOrganizedSoprano 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much!

@PollyCarpenter 4 месяца назад

So good Kay, thank you!

@helenasantos-collins6400 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your insights and encouragement. Not that I would ever wish for anyone to feel badly about themselves but it feels comforting to me, and I think to most people, to know we’re not alone. Bless you for blessing so many.

@Debdebberdebbest 4 месяца назад

I will spend some time cherishing this advice, Kay. Thank you! ❤

@carolcasassa160 4 месяца назад

Thank you for this!!!

@shiatsuequino1121 Месяц назад

OMG, thank goodness for this video. Loved it 🫶🏻

@TrillianaEM 4 месяца назад

YOU're awesome! Thank you for this video.

@rosalux6616 4 месяца назад

This is brilliant thank you

@jenniferhall2893 4 месяца назад

truth

@bellewill9748 4 месяца назад

Bravo 🙌. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

@Teeyah2 4 месяца назад

I needed this!!!! Thank u😉😉😉

@RMFtheclumsy 4 месяца назад

I'm from different culture and I don't get all this "afraid of being bad" and "moral values applied to every piece of crap" thingies. It's weird.

@prudence7268 4 месяца назад

Super cute hoodie! Love it!

@bridgetb3480 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this video.

@fdoctor79 4 месяца назад

Yes to all of this! And it's your confidence for me! ❤️ Tfs

@a.m.8252 4 месяца назад

I'm new to your fabulous channel and kudos galore on your videos!!! You are so watchable and so listenable to and I adore your excitement and passion for your life!!! Quick question, please: after looking high and low I am now asking you directly where you found those super-lightweight pastel-colored open-topped boxes you carry around your apartment to move items from one room to another. They look like the perfect things! Congratulations and kudos, again, and bravissima for all you've accomplished on RU-vid and in your beautiful life. XOXOXOXOXOXOX!!!

@midtownfarmgirl5494 4 месяца назад

thank you :)

@EpicMrMustache 4 месяца назад

Off topic, but is that a bulbasaur in your cabinet? ❤ So cute lol. I've recently found your channel from the Clutterbug podcast and I love your videos!

@TheOrganizedSoprano 4 месяца назад

It is! Grass Starters 4Lyfe!