Stop Being So Loyal | Trent Shelton

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Stop being so loyal. Remember this! Stop being loyal to the things that aren’t loyal to you in your life. Nothing can continue hurting you without your permission “what you tolerate is what you deserve.” Make sure to share this with someone that needs to hear this message.
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Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver and author of The Greatest You: Face Reality, Release Negativity, and Live Your Purpose. Trent has collaborated with powerful voices over the years including Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Tom Bilyeu, Gerard Adams, and many more.
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@juliabaling8888 3 года назад

Loyal to the LORD and we will never regret anything till the end of our life❤

@erinevers27 3 года назад

Ooooooo I like your style girl!!!! Naaaailed it!!! 😊😊😊😊

@808jumpman7 3 года назад

Facts!

@1766584 3 года назад

In Jesus mighty name👏🏼🙏🏼

@Garandmasthumb 3 года назад

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@1766584 3 года назад

@Vads Thompson 💯TMH don’t even won’t us calling each other fools, so u know He don’t want us acting like one neither.

@bestill2456 3 года назад

“I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to your disrespect.” 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

@squirrelchaser4life521 2 года назад

HELLZ YEAH!!!

@gempath5533 2 года назад

Truth!

@msann4890 2 года назад

Bea Still, hour comment is so true.

@adrieanaleary4875 Год назад

Amen!🙏

@Whisper2069 Год назад

I am totaly stealing this quote, its Perfect!

@Reallyct 3 года назад

"some of you are so concerned about other people feelings that could care less about yours" I needed to hear this

@patriciamena2097 3 года назад

Amen and Amen to that brother in Christ Jesus ❣️

@chelseaspringer982 3 года назад

PERIOD, True!!

@edithhewitt9372 3 года назад

At this point in my life I needed to hear it too. I got told at my job to get over PTSD wth

@Reallyct 3 года назад

@@edithhewitt9372 smdh I can’t believe they said that to you.

@bobbycalderon4071 2 года назад

That’s me

@Nickkinicole 3 года назад

I almost committed suicide November 16th 2020. I'm 34. I lost my first child, my horrible ex left me and took everything, my nail business failed, have no job/income, my family left my side and I no longer wanted to be here. I've been loyal to everyone and everything that had crossed my path.. I got depressed and definitely lost myself. I had to admit to myself that I allowed myself to get here.. that and this pandemic made me lose everything 💔I forced myself to get out of bed and even struggled to wash myself. Now that my vision is more clear, I choose me. I'm going to give my loyalty to myself. I'm going to lose weight for myself. And then I ran across this video.. I didn't know that others felt like me or even when through what I do. I definitely needed this Trent. Thank you.

@Nickkinicole 3 года назад

@z237Az217 thank you ❤

@nessauk2786 3 года назад

Sweetheart stay blessed x beautiful lady

@spencerw.4877 3 года назад

Happy you changed your mind Sis. The world is awaiting your sunshine. Shine bright in this dark world by His grace. Blessings to you!! Stay prayed up.

@QueenOfPrinciple 3 года назад

You are beautiful and blessed. You have blessed with so much, and even when you loose you can still be blessed. As long as you have life you have more hands to experience the fruits of your labor, better life and God will ensure you get back what you need. And the lessons you've picked up are priceless. I'm so happy to see your presence on here. Know that you are too valuable to end your own being in this world. We are gifts from God due to our gifts. Our existence blesses others. Love ya!!!

@strawberriesblueberries2258 3 года назад

I’m so sorry about that. I’m glad you survived. All you need is God.

@southernsoul152 3 года назад

Can we just take a minute and lift this man up in prayer! 🙏🏽 How blessed are we to have him preaching all this wisdom!! 💕 Bless you, brother

@TrentSheltonVideos 3 года назад

Thank you!

@lbrown4662 2 года назад

I appreciate you Trent..Peace n Blessings from Toronto Canada!!!

@tracymoffitt 2 года назад

Amen!!🙏🙌❤

@stayreal5083 3 года назад

The loyal people are the ones who watched this video.

@tarajohn1188 3 года назад

Agreed!

@melligean8318 3 года назад

Truth

@bellamichelle6248 3 года назад

❤️❤️❤️. Why it so hard to say “no” or leave BC you feel bad for someone else(who doesn’t appreciate you) ?

@stayreal5083 3 года назад

@@bellamichelle6248 because you are a Loyal person.

@xfairy3800 3 года назад

I'm so numb

@perfectlovenofear8060 3 года назад

Never BE an option...Never BE a doormat...Never BE abandoned a second time.

@toniechantelh9615 3 года назад

Amen...its a process

@SexiPlaygirl1983 3 года назад

Girl....yesss

@reginaalmaraz7561 3 года назад

100%

@symone2179 3 года назад

🙌🏾

@nakalandacaroline2575 3 года назад

Gud tr🤝,man I hv learnt alot 4rm yhue.Maybe yhuo heaven sent

@isaiah4123 3 года назад

Your destiny isn’t tied to the person who left, they’re just a part of your history 🤝

@rhondagraves5983 2 года назад

Or the person who left you

@rhondagraves5983 2 года назад

When you loved them more than anything

@moniquejohnson2465 3 месяца назад

Truth

@CatherineSTodd 3 года назад

8:00 "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, then adjust my boundaries to your disrespect."

@CatherineSTodd 2 месяца назад

Here I am back again, 3 years later. I have begun taking baby steps and now am tryng to take the BIG ONE. Get rid of ALL OF THEM that hurt me and show disrespect and never GIVE BACK. It's all up to ME. "Just say NO" and MAKE THIS CHANGE!

@ladyann7001 3 года назад

"I would rather adjust my life to your absence than adjust my boundaries to your disrespect." That's fn brilliant. Thank you.

@Lilly-ev7ll 3 года назад

Absolutely 🙌

@jessicavalley7469 3 года назад

Exactly

@railyellis610 3 года назад

Deep deep

@wtfwho975 3 года назад

Well said. Ill take that note.

@leandradaniels4796 3 года назад

Heck yes i thank you nd u was speaking to me nd i appreciate ur message nd thats real!!

@ericwalker6546 3 года назад

People’s hearts have gone cold for one another. Narcissism is the order of the day.

@barbaralynch3015 3 года назад

Totally agree - it's so blatant.

@brandibeerbower1553 3 года назад

That's a fact.

@Lilly-ev7ll 3 года назад

Truth 😞

@ericwalker6546 3 года назад

@@Lilly-ev7ll Revolutions tells us how cold it’s going to get before the wrath.

@amberlatham7005 3 года назад

Our system allows it

@OliviasRomanticHome 3 года назад

Preach 🙌 Just so you know you’re helping me get through the toughest time of my life thank you for these videos

@micasasucasa3829 2 года назад

Same here Olivia. I would pray for you.

@victoriae9837 2 года назад

He is saving my life.

@BlairyBlair222 Год назад

I am being loyal to my workouts. I am being loyal to my health. I am being loyal to my education. I am being loyal to empowering my kids. I am being loyal to my peace. I am being loyal to my dog. I am being loyal to nature. I am being loyal to my TRUTH. I am being loyal to my positive affirmations. 😌 thank you trent. You are amazing 👏

@Billy-vn4vd 3 года назад

You got to stop being loyal to the things that aren’t doing anything for your life

@trenettamcdonald9714 3 года назад

HELLO!! I refused to be a doormat.

@tamarag9981 3 года назад

🔥🔥🔥

@bbjr2374 3 года назад

Does that mean I have to stop smoking cigarettes it is unhappy and unhealthy! Any feedback?

@miamiairgaf 3 года назад

PRREEEACH!

@mistafire9264 3 года назад

@@bbjr2374 that's exactly what it means.

@wogbornagain 3 года назад

Quick heads up, NEVER be LOYAL to DISLOYAL INDIVIDUALS💯💯💯

@marysbite 3 года назад

But how u wil know

@33ladyRAM 3 года назад

@@marysbite - pay attention to their actions...listen to what they say but a person actions will always show you their character.

@marysbite 3 года назад

@@33ladyRAM thanks dear

@bellabella4943 3 года назад

Yes I learn the hard way!

@wogbornagain 3 года назад

@@bellabella4943 We all did but NO MORE💯 I always thought that by me showing loyalty that I would receive loyalty back but the COLD FACT is that MOST PEEP don't even know how to be loyal because they have ALWAYS been DISLOYAL their ENTIRE LIFE🤔

@rachelbeal8475 3 года назад

Being loyal has destroyed me. I blame myself! I thought that’s how you showed love! I was loyal to everyone but myself. At 48 years I see how this was a disservice to me. Family,friends,jobs! I pray God gives me the strength to rebuild myself and move forward !

@yasmeenmohammed9044 2 года назад

I was the same

@micasasucasa3829 2 года назад

you will !!!! God bless you. I am 49 and I am coming out of there.

@carolorber6009 2 года назад

No blaming, no shaming ; we can only move on when we are strong enough.

@healthreviewsplus 2 года назад

It shows love, I believe that. But it's hard to tell who deserves it or if it'll go sideways (yes, pray). Move on, don't regret b/c Romans 8:28 AND 29, James 1:3,4 trials can do good 'work.' Jesus knew when to walk away from people... Hebrews 12:3 Peace.

@lorrainefisher7361 3 года назад

You can’t heal from a toxic relationship while you are still in it. Too many people are so afraid of being on their own that they stay even when they know they shouldn’t. This young man has it down pat.

@cjaedaveigh 3 года назад

I’m watching this on my birthday . In tears . Sitting in my car in the rain . After eating dinner by myself after being stood up . This was meant for me to come across . I’ve been hurting for quite sometime and now it’s unbearable

@melligean8318 3 года назад

If no one else told you today let me remind you, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, SMART, FUNNY ENOUGH!!!! YOU ARE A WINNER!!!! YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS YOU!!! Inwill pray for you to be delivered from your pain. Please remember, You are a priceless child of God!!!!

@nitajordan6201 3 года назад

Happy belated birthday 🎂 . Thank God you saw another one!! You have so much to be thankful for, that might have been a blessing in disguise for you to enjoy the one who gave you life!! Be blessed life is a blessing and so are you!!

@anthonyjmorris2501 3 года назад

Happy birthday

@tashigee8664 3 года назад

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!! BRIGHT STAR!!

@olivianichole288 3 года назад

Hey I know it's late but....Happy Birthday❤

@luckyme7611 3 года назад

I’m always loyal to the wrong person or thing🥺 it hurts a lot

@sidneywilder6675 3 года назад

So true 👍

@kelvin9nicejohnson235 3 года назад

We're one of a kind dear. Let’s stop ok

@luckyme7611 3 года назад

@@kelvin9nicejohnson235 I’ll try

@drginawalker2260 3 года назад

I feel the same way

@PaulO-we1lt 3 года назад

Listen Sweetheart, you are the most important in life and none else. You and only you. You have to be happy. Purge people in your circle and make new acquaintances with new people. Guard your happiness. Keep few friends, but have acquaintances. Keep faith!

@billyrowe0064 3 года назад

I’ve been a people pleaser. I’ve been way too loyal. I am going to listen to this everyday many times a day. This is what I needed today. Very much. Thank you. From the bottom of my heart.

@DJBenito304 3 года назад

Totals

@alaskancourtney6500 2 года назад

“That’s not loyalty. That’s stupidity.” Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

@p6207 3 года назад

I’ve been loyal to long.......to people who don’t appreciate it and don’t respect it. Thank you I need it to here it aloud!

@erinevers27 3 года назад

Get it girl!!!!!!! 💪💪💪💪💪😘😘😘😘😘😘🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

@agathagilbert9077 3 года назад

Amen Lord please help me this is needed in this perilous wicked world 🙏🙏 hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah and amen in Jesus mighty name amen ♥️ Pamela God bless you and your family have a wonderful day 🌄🌄🌄😊🌈🌈🧡🧡💛😍😍😇😇🤲🌅🤲

@jamescrocker4253 3 года назад

I have got my pride now and don't want to get loyalty

@jamescrocker4253 3 года назад

I have one

@taherajones3693 3 года назад

Me too

@nitajordan6201 3 года назад

You better say that again “ when you’re at your rock bottom and loyal to wrong individuals , those people will not be at rock bottom with you “!!!

@Lilly-ev7ll 3 года назад

This is so true 😭 I'm at absolute rock bottom and the only person I had left in my life that I thought would be there isn't. It's the hardest thing to accept when you literally have no one else so have no choice but to face it all alone 😞

@nitajordan6201 3 года назад

@@Lilly-ev7ll You are never alone, this is the time to allow God to come in and show you true love. He is a healer, deliver and most of all faithful! I was in a place all by myself and that’s when I saw God first hand and I love him more than anything in this world!!Words can’t begin to acknowledge his grace and mercy in my life even when I don’t and didn’t deserve it!! Try God truly try God!!

@Lilly-ev7ll 3 года назад

@@nitajordan6201 thankyou, I'm trying to allow God to fully take over in my life now. It's hard! Thanks for your kind words ❤️

@zackzettler4425 3 года назад

@@Lilly-ev7ll ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-KSGTo_laeCs.html

@Lilly-ev7ll 3 года назад

@@zackzettler4425 thankyou, the words are very true 🙏

@jenniferbemo7038 3 года назад

I lost my son to suicide 2 years ag. it is refreshing to hear someone speaking out on these things. Thank u so much

@veronicaatkins4417 2 года назад

I’m so sorry for your loss😥

@amandadickinson4794 3 года назад

I needed to hear this. I have an addiction to a person that im too loyal to that isnt loyal to me. Staying down for a person thats bringing you down isnt loyalty its stupidity

@meljolly1213 3 года назад

When people show you who they are, believe them. Time reveals everything. I am a walking testimony that you should NEVER mask your own pain to protect anyone else because you will come out losing in the end. We ALL are a work in progress. In life, we must ellevate mentally spiritually and emotionally. You cannot lean onto your own understanding and you should be connected to the main source in order to get that clarity that Trenton was mentioning. I was born and raised in a high poverty area and I have three college degrees but those things became distinct once the Lord gave me the discernment that I was missing in my life. We all deserve FRUITFUL workplaces, education, relationships, friendships and even family members. Let's not forget about them no good relatives that we ALL have. Stay true to God and yourself. Cali Luv...

@jaleesa00 3 года назад

Thank you for this.

@SexiPlaygirl1983 3 года назад

A whole word sis. We all deserve FRUITFULNESS.

@2envymelucci681 3 года назад

Your awesome and encouraging.. God bless

@hermanlucaslucas846 3 года назад

Jajaja girl you are funny...those no good relatives dont we all have them unfortunately 🤔🤛

@mistyjordan7147 3 года назад

Not today, Devil. I released mine before he went to work. Put that chain and lock back around my heart to him. I'm loyal to my Father in Heaven, loyal to myself, and my daughter. I've noticed, the more I love mysrlf, the more I glow. The more I grow and escalate the more he congradulate me with with hate and envy. The problem is, I don't know how to be disloyal. People just don't know how to be loyal to me. I refuse to loose myself to someone that doesn't deserve my loyality. Thank you for confirming to me what I need to do. God bless you. 🥰💜💯🙏😇

@priyankasharma9902 3 года назад

i removed te cancer and i have never been healthier and happier ... loyalty to the wrong people is disloyalty to yourself!

@markwhittaker6866 3 года назад

PREACH! Stay strong and stay blessed.

@MaralinThomas 3 года назад

This is so me!!! I’m so loyal to my husband and he’s definitely killing me emotionally and mentally!! I lost myself in my marriage! 😔

@dezzydisaster2113 2 года назад

Same

@donnagreen4966 3 года назад

I'm in a long distance relationship and, I've been completely loyal with him.I have men who would love to be with me.In the beginning everything was great.Now he barely give me any time.He give me mixed messages hearing,just what your saying.Im at my end ready to walk away.

@legenddamenace9279 2 года назад

Sis as women we know intuitively or subconsciously from the jump that it's not a good fit but we tend to try and force things . I'm guilty of this too but wen I let go of that illusion I met my best friend/ lover / fiance everything isn't always perfect but in my heart I know he's perfect for me and I for him . It would have not been possible if I hadn't stepped out my comfort zone❤️ and released the illusion of love and found real true love 😳

@iolanisjourney4828 3 года назад

"That's not loyalty, that's stupidity" oh that truth cuts deep! 💔

@brendanewsome66 2 года назад

You’re right, I’m stupid when it comes to my kids, but I’m done. Thank you Trent

@aallday9623 3 года назад

I'm literally in tears! Thank you so much I needed this clarity. So wonderful when God speaks through a person!

@megand.3951 3 года назад

In this moment, I needed this. If anyone is a believer on here, please pray for me. My husband no longer wants to be with me and I’m hurting. Update he is now dating my married sister

@reginalbayardjeudy7039 3 года назад

Wao

@firstladyofyoutube2249 3 года назад

🙏❤

@brokenperson4208 3 года назад

I love ya for who ever you are and I pray I anyone who needs it I got your back and idc if no one has mine it's fine

@quickmaz 3 года назад

You have my prayers Megan. I know it hurts, but with time, you'll be good.

@MainGirl-dl6oh 3 года назад

So many men, so many People, don't realize how good they have it. He will regret losing you! No one will ever be able to take your place! Isk you but I bet you are a great person, Amazing person and there will never be another YOU, use this time to do you and what makes YOU happy, he will one day realize the grass isn't greener on the other side, he will realize his biggest mistake was to ever take you for granted and I hope and pray when that time comes you will be so happy and healthy you can say, im good!❤

@SheezFubar 3 года назад

I've been suffocating myself mentally and emotionally hiding behind a smile trying to make others happy and comforted. I'm desperate for the courage to gain that strength to disconnect. I want to be ok with being me on my own without needing someone else's approval. Thank you Trent. I needed this

@kendraheard8240 Год назад

You can do it...I believe in you and trust me you will have the greatest peace...God Bless you!

@SheezFubar Год назад

@@kendraheard8240 Thank You for your kind words.

@bre7360 Год назад

just give it to god and he will handle the rest god be with you and praying he heals you amen❤

@SheezFubar Год назад

@@bre7360 I really needed to see this. Thank you for reminding me.

@sallylara1102 Год назад

This guy speaks through my soul 💯🙏🏽

@tylaminabrown3765 2 года назад

Let's get it!! It's rehab time!! Amen!! Hello Trent and Trent followers!!❤️

@dawnnicolas7617 3 года назад

Thank you. I left my ex fiance, narcissist, drug addict. I was loyal to a fault and all this did was hurt me in so many ways. Thankfully God helped me break my ties with him. I allowed him to use, abuse, cheat, lie, manipulate and I am now free. I pray for him daily, but I had to learn self love and self respect.

@hermanlucaslucas846 3 года назад

We can pray all day but it's up to them to want to make a change been praying for this person for 20 years and they still are on a destructive path

@dawnnicolas7617 3 года назад

@@hermanlucaslucas846 This is true, however, I will continue to pray because its the BEST thing I can do for him.

@iambaileypaige 3 года назад

@@dawnnicolas7617 and it helps you heal. 🙏

@tinawelch2259 3 года назад

I left a toxic relationship 2days ago. .He straight dogged me to the point where I felt so stupid and frozen to where I wanted to die.. My faith and knowing that God didn't make any mistakes I am a child of God 🙏 changed my mind. I got in my car with my Bible, clothes and coffee kurig😂 and integrity to freedom and God's promises.. I don't have a place to live or a job yet, but I have Jesus Christ in my ❤️ and there is no one more loving and trustworthy that will ever come close. Thank you Jesus Christ for leading me to this video message. Godbless Trent.

@lovelyroses2314 3 года назад

I need your courage!😊

@melligean8318 3 года назад

@@lovelyroses2314 ask God for strength and courage. Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to continue INSPITE of fear. You can do ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST, WHO STRENGTHENS YOU

@christhomas6199 3 года назад

The Lord will restore your life,. keep moving forward and don't look back. Don't take them back!

@justmeblessedup 3 года назад

Now this just made me cry ! Tears dropping as I am typing! I am praying for more strength!! Because this loyalty I have with my girlfriend has been having me feel the same way! I lost almost everything now except my apartment and Imac. Almost myself. But now I am doing my youtube channel and I am trying to focus on myself! I wont be hindering myself no more ! I pray I pray I pray ! I PRAY FOR ALL OF US !! Listen to one of my youtube videos ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7gwWJzweKFc.html

@yeriposadas8549 3 года назад

You got a PayPal or something?

@zovuyocele2554 3 года назад

Listening to this whilst laying on a hospital bed in for treatment. I must say, me being loyal to the wrong person has landed me in this situation. Never again and thank you for the affirmation 🙏🏽

@JeffJarstad 2 месяца назад

I understand going through it myself but God is good

@soniasohi5013 3 года назад

I literally said that yesterday to myself. Loyal to the wrong ones and ignoring right ones 💯 We choose to suffer 💯

@sharonadams4424 3 года назад

The thing is we be Loyal to the wrong one because for one Deception...No one is going to show there a## on the way in the door..but many will show it on the way out....

@HD-xb9mj 3 года назад

STOP BREAKING YOUR OWN HEART❤

@HD-xb9mj 3 года назад

I know it!! First step?

@cartesiajones1598 3 года назад

That's so true( especially women) cause we always give men or young men " the benefit of the doubt " giving them chances after chances but have we ever thought if they would do the same for us? We as women need to learn our self worth and love our selves more than we love a man or young man.

@melluques8475 3 года назад

Cant believe I’m learning at my age from this young man. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@zoeiiseda246 2 года назад

Me too, and I'm 57.

@kristenmarie9248 2 года назад

@@zoeiiseda246 Me too. ❤

@legenddamenace9279 2 года назад

We are here to learn the cycle is never ending ! My 7 yr old son schools me everyday ( I'm 44 yr old) 🥰

@djsherrard8904 9 месяцев назад

I have hung onto this for 2 years and I am so glad I did. Today is 9/19/2023

@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 года назад

The truth hurts but when you giving over 110% in a loveless relationship its so hard to walk away after 21yrs i was at my lowest but this is a great support to touch soul.

@erinevers27 3 года назад

Self love!!!! I swear by this! When I did the work, put the time in, stayed single after the last heart break....took a journey if you will. I focused on figuring how to truly love myself....I stood up for her. She deserved soooo much more. The things I allowed and accepted....I also apologized to myself. For allowing that all to happen. Always settling for less. Those were choices. I kept making choices to accept that. Not consciously, but just the same. I have more love happiness and peace today, than ever before!!!!

@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 года назад

@@erinevers27 god bless you 🙏

@erinevers27 3 года назад

@@andrewcampbell-young8426 RIGHT. BACK. AT. YA!!!!! Wish you whatever sets your heart on fire!!!! 😊😊😊😊

@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 года назад

Blessings to all you 🙏

@saram4934 3 года назад

Exactly ❤️

@angelinadefina5102 3 года назад

I have no solid family unfortunately never did!!

@angelinadefina5102 3 года назад

@Torrean Spencer thanks so much for the love ❤

@angelinadefina5102 3 года назад

@Torrean Spencer its going to be hard to communicate on here

@angelinadefina5102 3 года назад

@Torrean Spencer didn't get it

@libertyordeath1789 3 года назад

I know how you feel and I'm sorry you gotta feel that way

@angelinadefina5102 3 года назад

@@libertyordeath1789 thanks been going through since 9 its just getting worse

@brittanygarbey2371 3 года назад

No APOLOGY NEEDED!!!!!! Your words are so Powerful right now. YOU HAVE JUST SAVED A LIFE!!!!!!!!!

@clairelouise1794 10 дней назад

Oh TrentShelton my heart...when I watched this!! You are so right! Thank you!

@Dd-po2ij 3 года назад

Believe me I'm done it's ok to be alone. And at peace. Bless everyone I'm going to be loyal to me I'm going to be my own friend. ♥️

@anitafreeman6181 3 года назад

So True, I have been loyal to the wrong man for 28 years...

@Garandmasthumb 3 года назад

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@mmommo-hx4dx 3 года назад

37 years (watch Tony Gaskins too)

@WhatisLifeAbout 3 года назад

8 years... I need out for my babies.

@sarybear84 2 года назад

I have been carrying all these unnecessary weight in my life. Today I will start letting go of things that serves no purpose in my life. Thank you so much. I needed this.

@adag-5038 3 года назад

0 tolerance to BS. My life is to precious. So is yours!!!!!!

@tracycaldwell1736 3 года назад

We don't control what people think about us, ever; however, we do control what we think of ourselves.

@teggypooh 3 года назад

Truth!

@danielamoah6953 3 года назад

You're right for using that word "stupidity" No need to apologise It's called the "Truth" Be blessed Bro

@LoLuvLo 2 года назад

Don’t apologize for things for what we really need to hear. It may hurt but we need to hear the truth!!! I’m so thankful I’ve waken up and are starting to see everything for what it is. I’ve fought to get myself out of dark places I am not going to allow myself to go back to it! I’ve battled it to much

@miriamwalker9950 3 года назад

You're a God-sent Trent Shelton. Thanks for the word. So true!

@KatSNAILS 3 года назад

This was for me. I’m so lost I don’t even know what I really want anymore.

@Dd-po2ij 3 года назад

Bless you so much You are going to make it through this process. Take time with yourself If you're not sure about something Just say no until you are sure.♥️

@Garandmasthumb 3 года назад

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@gloriacasey9947 3 года назад

Me to sooo depresed getting old alone nothing to live for really dont no what to do no strength left

@gloriacasey9947 3 года назад

Me to soo depresed dont no what to do anymore disabeled

@gloriacasey9947 3 года назад

Feal like I'm dieing a slow death

@quickmaz 3 года назад

I was in that boat like Trent says, depression, low self esteem, suicidal thoughts.... All the bad stuff. My world was very dark, but i know there's a light at the end of the tunnel. I have friends that having the same situation that i was in, and they're still there, having a bad life, but for some reason, they're taking it everyday knowing that it's wrong. Loyalty to the wrong person is very bad. Why would you still stick around to a person that no longer wants you and shows you in your face that they don't want you??? If they don't want you, time to get on!!

@stefanbernhard2710 2 года назад

Amen to that. Screw loyalty to toxic employers

@nanou9984 2 года назад

thanks for this words. and they drain and confuse you bigtime . i finally decided to cut them all out and felt great inner peace ever since.

@xxLyriqsxxx 3 года назад

It's like he was talking to me directly and I know I'm not alone. He's right, this needs to be shared.

@RoZaye007 3 года назад

Loyal brings you to death at times

@honesty2476 2 года назад

Amen! my two adult daughters are draining! they donot live in my household which is even better! but I’ve cut them off, learn to love at a distance and protect your mental health. Fam or not! my happiness comes first!🙏🏾

@maritalong395 2 года назад

I'm just screaming!!!!! Sayyyy it!!! Finally somebody thinks like me!!! Thank you for allowing God to use you!!

@libertyordeath1789 3 года назад

I use to be the type person to help people even though I am in need of help myself until so many people have done me wrong but now I have 3 beautiful daughters to keep me going

@angelagholson4988 3 года назад

At 46 years old 2019. I gain the power within to say no more. Oh and believe you me it will start with those thats the closest. Children ,Mate ,Parents, Sibling.

@nakiabarber2846 3 года назад

Six years ago I found myself and it feels great. I was loyal to the wrong person. I'm doing me mow.

@amazinggrace2608 3 года назад

Amen Trent you are so right..time to let things and people go to protect my peace..they were never going to give me the same in return..When God removes you from a toxic situation..stayed removed..he has a better plan! ❤

@edchavez6101 3 года назад

Loyalty is earned,must be nurtured and when abused revoked! I've got over 5 decades in this life and no matter how bad things get remember there is a tommorow.

@theprimebrandontaylorradio8045 3 года назад

Found this at the right time, I’ve been way too nice...

@viveehazley2250 2 года назад

I am a 62yr old woman who loss my husband Apr 2022!! I'm really hurting because what you said is so TRUE and sometimes the TRUTH hurts, when you find out who you thought WAS., WASN'T. AND WHO YOU THOUGHT WASN'T, REALLY WAS!! I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW DEEP YOU TOUCHED MY MIND, HEART, AND SOUL!! KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO BECAUSE YOU ARE ESSING MANY!! I LOVE LEARNING MORE ABOUT LIFE THROUGH A YOUNG PERSON'S VIEW!! YOU HAVE GIVEN ME STRENGHT TO BE ME THANK YOU AND "GOD BLESS YOU, SON"

@jessicamashauri3209 3 года назад

it is stupidity sure no need to apologize, sometimes we are blinded by addiction we think it is LOVE

@WisdomStartsInside 3 года назад

I learned the hard way by being loyal to the wrong people and jobs in the past. I’m thankful for the experiences because they have helped me learn and grow.

@patriciawatkins8248 3 года назад

I want to breakdown and cry, but l am standing outside waiting for the bus!!!

@truthteller113 3 года назад

Thank you! This is absolute truth! I have always prided myself on being loyal. In the last year, I've let a lot of these toxic people I was loyal to go. It was the hardest & best thing I've done for myself.

@dyannelove3957 3 года назад

Suicide, thank you Trent, I needed to hear this. Just a month ago I slit my wrist , and have tried overdosing in the past.I have wanted to die for a LONG time. But I am now trying to live for ME now. Love Ya Trent, your the best!

@n.a7649 3 года назад

Diane, your life is worth more than anything you can ever imagine, please don't choose these options to end the pain you face, instead look for solutions and try your best ,

@michelleevans5622 3 года назад

Awesome! This is why being connected to people rather than attached is so healthy. If you know people are disrespecting you walk away and wish them well. Karma has a way of dealing with people and their bad behaviors.

@Feber2001 3 года назад

I'm too loyal for the wrong people. I hate myself for it. I don't know how to move on and realize my self-worth

@Sweetness8338 3 года назад

You just have to rip the bandage off. It may hurt initially, but it will heal in time.

@unbroken96 3 года назад

@@Sweetness8338 bro plz can u explain in simple words.

@alid6060 3 года назад

You have to start by repeating this phrase, '"I am good enough. I am worthy." It replaces a weakened self worth with confidence. It really helped me.

@alleykhat1984 Год назад

Loyalty have an expiration date... we need to understand that

@kendraking3609 2 года назад

So so very true!!! Being loyal has killed me mentally. Emotionally and spiritually over and over again. And I take a stand right now and say I am no longer going to accept just anything or anybody in my life and in my heart. I truly have a bug heart I will help any and everybody no matter what. Mom just told me im like her. We are light workers for god. He send us broken people for a reason. Even though we are broken. I didn’t understand it at first but now I wanna put it to work. I wanna help I just wanna figure out how to help myself first.

@pennywarren2357 3 года назад

Thank you for always giving tough love! I’ve given away my peace for other people so long that I made myself physically ill. I have 2 autoimmune diseases because our bodies were never meant to live in constant turmoil. I remind myself often now that I don’t ever have to set myself on fire to keep others warm. Thank you for your passion in trying to save those for whom it’s not too late. 💔

@DJRenee 3 года назад

Yep

@bloyal1513 3 года назад

My name is B Loyal...this was 100% accurate. I always believed in loyalty with everything you do but hearing you speak I have a clearer perspective, thank you. I'm a strong women but yet so weak-I know ultimately it is my choice, no excuses. My Lord is my salvation. Trent, you are my angel that reassures. Amen 🙏🦋💙

@erinevers27 3 года назад

Not weak!!!! You love!!! You love hard! That is beautiful!!!! You don't need to change that! Set the bar higher!!!!! That's what you deserve!!!! Who will love you the way you love? That's what you deserve mama! 😘😘😘😘

@Garandmasthumb 3 года назад

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@lynamurungi4820 3 года назад

Im isaac kataryeba, trent shelton has helped me push harder most of the times when im falling hard. This video finds me in a time when i just got out of prison, i got there because of being loyal to the wrong people and making the right sacrifices for the wrong people. Thank you so much trent shelton! Its rehab time!!!

@fruitypopwhickle6806 2 года назад

Yep. I'm, "rock bottom" and they are nowhere to be found. My pain is turning into power and wisdom.

@soniafoster3117 3 года назад

This hit home so deep. I am currently in that situation between work and my friends and relationship.

@timahawk3220 3 года назад

U not alone sis. Don’t be discouraged

@karmaleona9398 3 года назад

Finally free😭❤I needed that Trent❤ It's high time I stop taking bullets for people who won't even take a punch for me 🥀

@tashigee8664 3 года назад

FACTS!!

@CherryBlossomBlyue 3 года назад

This!!!!

@2envymelucci681 3 года назад

True Story sis❤️

@bestversion1687 3 года назад

This Youngman is Enriched with Knowledge. Yeah when you speak up n out. Ur called crazy. Nah Nah crazy is Loving n being Loyal with the most disloyal situations

@lindapowell4437 3 года назад

Trent are u a preacher. This is so need ed to everyone people need to. Get this.

@ShayQ470 3 года назад

I most definitely needed to hear this message. It's been a long time coming, always have put everyone before me.

@capish88 3 года назад

Yea, It’s like the hero syndrome. Coming up the way some of us do . We’re groomed and taught wrong. Loyalty to disfunction. Haven not had the examples at a young age truly plays into us denying ourselves mentally emotionally and physically.

@ericwalker6546 3 года назад

Do not tire of doing good for in do time you will reap a harvest. This man is being used to deceive you in to stopping doing good so you won’t reap a harvest.

@ericwalker6546 3 года назад

@@capish88 you always have the Bible most don’t read it and ask the Holy Spirit to give them the wisdom of the Bible.

@Garandmasthumb 3 года назад

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@TheStylefanic 3 года назад

Thank you, I am with someone who didn’t even know my middle name, he tried to convince me I told him Marie. That’s not my name, after 12 years I deserve someone who knows my name. Total wake up call. Thanks for this video. 💕

@marilynmarilyn2755 3 года назад

You are so correct many thanks...repeat to myself that’s not loyalty that’s stupidity..priceless

@cgreen4395 3 года назад

TRUTH! But the hardest one to deal with is family.

@shawnsallee5626 3 года назад

💪💪💪💪💪👐🙌 IM 50. YRS OLD NO MORE PAIN REFUSE TO STAY IN TOXINS WORD TRENT LISTEN TO OUR BROTHER

@SChome100 3 года назад

I needed to hear this. This couldn't come at a more perfect time. I recently broke it off with this girl that was using me for my resources. I am learning to love being alone and to not devote all my time and energy into someone that doesn't feel the same way as I do.

@roomruler 3 года назад

Brother, u have a calling, an anointing. I think the best advice we can give each other is this "Stop swimming oceans for people who wouldn't jump a mud hole for u".

@jaysarawls3746 3 года назад

I just found Trent on here recently, I know this is not by accident. This is the straight truth!!!

@toddsellars4694 3 года назад

100% Facts. Always.

@elizabethstallings7910 3 года назад

I needed this today!!

@ginamartindale8095 3 года назад

Even when we hit rock bottom and we think it's the end, let us remember who is our rock to begin with. For God gives and He takes away. For God Loves and He makes a way, even when there is no way. Sometimes that way means pushes aside those who where blocking it, so that you can move forward... with or without them. Either way God's got you. Praise the Lord.