4:38 the best true concept ever If someone really cares about you If someone really loves you, they will never ever move on quickly and easily with someone new
This is very true. I’ve heard this out a man mouth that they weren’t happy w/ the new person but staying for different reasons that had nothing to do with loving them
He was married twice. Then he confessed to me that he was engaged TWICE!!!! So much betrayal … he dumped me at the end of 2022 … he was with her ASAP … and she moved in. He lives 2 houses from me.
But even if they were communicating and rocking with the rebound or new supply for a few months, before leaving the current relationship, they STILL have a low chance of that new situation becoming long term.... Because remember, the one that left the relationship, is STILL taking their bullshit to the new
My ex and his partner broke up because she went back to Germany. I met him a month later and now I think I was the rebound. We were together for 5 years and then he decided return to Germany himself and left me. He has now gone back to his German ex whom he was with before me. So I doubt she is the rebound. It was me. I was so hoping he would come back to me, but he told me that he is 100% committed to her. I feel used and I am devastated 😢
Found out my 2nd wife of 4 years was "innocently" texting and calling a married man non-stop for about 6 weeks. He lives about 4 states away. Says she met him 25 years ago and hasn't seen him since that day. She left when i found out almost a year ago. We signed papers end of October. I believe he got a divorce also. I hear from a friend she's in love and thinking of marriage in another year to a guy who doesn't live in the area.
Every video says this exact same thing. People around me say this in my everyday life. I know this has to be true but I can’t bring myself to believe it. The girl I was seeing at work, started seeing someone else at work a couple weeks after distancing herself from me while never being honest about wanting out. One week after our split they started holding hands. Two week after they move in together. We work so closely, I’m expecting these two to get married and I’m gonna get constant updates on everything.
he rebounded with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. she looks like me and we have same name. despite him being with her he kept following unknown girls on social media. that made me realize he’s not more serious abt her than he was abt me. now he seems to have found yet another girl. only six months have passed since our breakup. she’s a walking red flag and will teach him a lesson.
That works out all the time! I’ve witnessed it! Not to mention the person who left me is happy and in love and it’s been 2yrs! Both ppl just have to be honest, realistic and invested even in the hard times. Now… did he ever love me, no! Did any of them live the original person? No! Are the ones I’ve witnessed happy in the “rebound.” Absolutely! Does it get talked about as much as rebound failures ? No. …. So get more experience or more sample sets before speaking so matter of factly.
What if they were having a double life? I guess in my case it wasn't a rebound for them. But it was a whole other relationship they had behind my back.
If they had a double life and relationship going on, they were never fully committed to you in the first place. At that point, it isn't worth thinking through their actions because they don't represent the kind of partner you want or need.
There's never a set time. People heal and move on at different paces. But typically, 2 - 3 months is common for someone to heal enough and gain clarity to move on. The aspect to pay attention to is how that person is living on their own that shows they're ready for a new relationship.
It sounds like you both had a codependent relationship dynamic that continued past the actual committed relationship. It seems she's found someone she feels comfortable letting go of you to pursue. But she will more likely run into problems at some point as neither of you had complete time to yourselves before entertaining new people. You need that time to just focus on you. Take advantage of this time and do that for yourself. Don't focus on dating. Focus on building autonomy and being ok by yourself FULLY. You'll be much better for it later and give yourself a better chance at a great relationship. She's most likely setting herself up for failure right now.
@@LosAcieRewired its weird cuz like i said broke up a year ago but we still saw each other regularly. Talked everyday. Said i love u. We were last intimate last summer. Then she supposedly meets this guy this January and its blossomed into relationship. She blocked me on fb today. And yea i agree about the codependency
