Stop Blaming The Victims (ASMR) 

Right you are, dear friend. I wish I could listen more to your philosophy but you're putting me to sleep with your wonderful cadence! ;))

I LOVE the fact that you build to the satire. A nice long set up, then a seamless segue into the crazy. Very well executed. Very good asmr trigger as well.

I guess I now know why we name hurricanes- for the attendance sheets in Hurricane School, of course. Hazel? Here. Sandy? Here. Katrina? Here. I bet that class really blows.

Gahhh your voice always does it for me. Thanks so much!

you can tell that the majority of people commenting on this video are American because they aren't understanding the sarcasm and satire in this video! he's saying, for example, a rapist knows it is wrong to rape but that isn't going to stop them from raping so people need to protect themselves the best they can from being raped, it's not victim blaming it's just common sense

yeah i like these kinds of videos. Very interesting to see your point of view on things makes it more personal and special :) Thank you.

You should definitely do more videos like this(: I enjoy hearing what you have to say . I also think you'd make really great life advice videos .

You are the only person I can get tingles from even when I'm in an ASMR immunity spell! :) Thank you!

This made me smile (and relax) :)

Absolutely love your channel! And I agree with you xxx

Personal responsibility a novel ideal! Love the video

Wow, what an awesome and beautiful voice you have. Very relaxing! I agree with the message in this video too. Subscribed! ♡♥

This is like... Awesome. I got the message you were trying to send out. Love it.

Very interesting, you should do some more videos like this about the world. And great asmr too!

THANK YOU. I spent the first few years of my life in New Orleans and watched my childhood home sink into Pontchartrain on the news. Hearing the things people said just repulsed me. Also, you have a wonderful voice for ASMR. Instant sub. And now I'm going back to the video, but I had to get that off my chest first.

Clever satire, I'm surprised that people are confused as to your message. It's quite clear to me that the point you are making is that offering advice to people on how they can minimise their chances of being raped is not 'victim blaming', it's just common sense. The counter argument that we should instead be telling men (assumption that all rapists are men) that rape is bad works on the ludicrous assumption that men don't know that raping is bad. No man rapes somebody because they 'don't know' rape is bad. If somebody is raped (man or woman) then it is obviously not their fault they were raped. However, is there more chance of stopping that rapist if the prospective victim takes action like not taking drugs around strangers or walking alone in dark alleys at night or just pointing out to the rapist that actually 'rape is bad'. Obviously the former.

Luke - been following you for about a year. Love your videos. I think one of the best is your 90 minute epic answering all those questions. The audio (as with this one) is top draw due to your mic. The trouble with a lot of ASMR videos is that people just use crappy recording equipment such as phone etc and it gives off a really shitty background noise which just kills it right off the bat. Would you be able put together another question/Answer video in the future and also a more in depth video on your Fragrance collection. Keep doing what your doing Phil

this video is not only very relaxing but very funny XD

Your qualities and your voice make you a very respectable human being, I like you and your videos a lot

are you like trolling? lol

Right on!

The animals eat humans because they're hungry. Same reason we eat them. The bear doesn't know a difference, it saw the bbq and ate it, then saw the human and thought, "Hey, more food."

I couldn't help but to laugh a bit. Loved the video dear! Very smart :p

Your RU-vid name reminds me of a Dave Chappelle joke: Calling all cars, calling all cars, look for a black male between 4'7 and 6'8, between 120 and 380 pounds, wearing Nike's GET THIS MAN!!

So good and relaxing 😌i can never explain victim blaming to a person that victim blames right in front of me …. But I know I feel sick than

Thank God I read the comments and realized you weren't serious lol

We must train the hurricanes! lol relaxing and funny, great job!

You must be trolling. You absolutely HAVE to know how connected this idea is to rape. Now I'm just trying to figure out what your actual position is, because the impression I'm getting isn't one I want to think you have. I'd actually love to have a discussion with you about this, but it seems that you aren't acknowledging the rape angle.

And by the way, now that I'm actually listening (and I'm not done yet) I am confused because I missed a big portion of it but now I'm laughing. So what. is. this. ;P

I see what you're doing there. I thought you sounded a little crazy telling the hurricanes to behave, but I get it lol.

...you did it again mister! thank you!!!

you are a kind great person with a fantastic voice :) peace dude and hugs

LMAO, this video was hilarious! Thanks BMA!

I was the victim og a robbery turned stabbing, in central Copenhagen. The perpetrator sliced me in the forehead, my right arm and stabbed me in the butt and stomach. When i told my friends what had happend they asked if it might had been my own fault. I lost 1.5 pints of blood, and allot of people wonder why i just cant trust people.

I personally find it hard to not say "OK its kinda your fault" if the government says evacuate or you're going to die, yet you have a hurricane party in your garage.

I wish I knew your name so I could properly thank you for this video. Also, your eyes are amazing! ^_^

If there was an ASMsmaRtest award I would nominate you for this video. So smart without being pretentious :) you got me thinkin'....

Is this real or just playing? Also I really love your channel! I want to marry your voice!!

Thank you so much !!! I was living in Biloxi during Katrina! I ended up going into a coma after I got thrown 100 yards into a school down the road when I ran outside and started yelling at the hurricane to leave me alone. To this day I don't trust hurricanes

Haha! This is brilliant.

I really shouldn't have watched this after having a few drinks. Took me a minute to realize you weren't off your rocker. :)

Run to my reccomended just in time. This situation we’re in currently is complicated, and the riots are inexcusable. But it comes from suffering.

Took me a minute to realize this was sarcastic :P

I really can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. Can you clarify because a lot of comments asking the same thing

Yeah, teach them sharks

OK... I'm so lost here. How are we supposed to educate the wildlife? Is he trying to say that the victims should be blamed sometimes? Because then I agree with him

you had me up until.....Educate the hurricanes to SWERVE!!!! Haha too funny...

You are so beautiful . Love your eyes and your voice. So angelic .

Animals are just as important as human beings. They don't function in society but they function in the ecosystem and they are earthlings just like us. They have just as much purpose. Humans are actually animals, too- just more intelligent. lol I'm telling you off when your trying to make a metaphorical point.

This is amazing asmr! But my only issue is that all of these scenarios are logically impossible. You cant teach a hurricane anything because it is not living. You cant teach animals to not eat or attack humans because they cannot process language. You cant turn off being drunk or high instantaneously. All of these are simply impossible. I do agree with you that victims are blamed way too often and i love your asmr! I just thought I'd share my thoughts. Hope you have a great night. :)

How the fuck are we going to talk to weather? Good tingles though!

Lol! Your crazy but still relaxing!

Hey luke, i LOVE your videos, but how can you think that it is possible to train serval, wild animals in a large are to behave non hostile towards humans? even if it was possible, the cost and scale of the task would be so expensive and monumental, it wouldnt be able to happen. thats why there are warnings, so that people know better than to put themselves into clear and OBVIOUS danger. sometimes the VICTIM IS ALSO THE PERPETRATOR. thanks for making your videos, keep on trucking. Henry

This guy is crazy

its funny how many people didnt get the intention of this video. you should watch it till the end before blaming him.

lol this is great

I have a black bear that lives in the woods behind my house and I feed that thing every day and it don't get ahhhhhh

Humans are more important than other animals? Have anything to back that up?

A lot of interesting, and logically disconnected, apologies for rape in this video. Throw out the examples of hurricanes and animals, because they're inapplicable. If you need me to further explain, I will, but I won't insult your intelligence by biting on those. What people advocate education for men regarding sexual assault and what constitutes sexual assault, they are trying to protect both women and men alike. While YOU as an individual may know what constitutes rape, there are countless others that are unaware that enthusiastic consent is required to engage anyone in sexual activity. If a person is in an instance where they are otherwise incapacitated and unable to provide consent, there are many people that are not aware that if they use this as an opportunity to have sex that they are breaking the law. What a person at a party may see as an opportunity to have sex may in fact be rape. Their parents may not have educated them to this fact, and in our culture where having as much sex as possible is encouraged among men, friends aren't likely to provide you with this information either. But you know what women are inundated with from birth? To protect yourself from the big bad monsters that are men. They are shamed, blamed, and otherwise made to know of the supposed culpability they would have if they were sexually assaulted. The ironic part of this video is that about 90% of the population takes the backwards view that a woman's clothing, location, level of impairment, social status, employment status, etc. are pertinent to the issue of "was this woman raped or not?", when the reality is that the minutia is irrelevant. The credibility of a woman upon making an allegation of rape is immediately seized upon with arbitrary attacks against her character and life choices that are immaterial to her "deserving" the outcome. Meanwhile, men all over the world at every minute of the day are raping women without the slightest idea that what they are doing is, in fact, raping women. Not every rape is an instance of a stranger hiding in the bushes waiting for a woman in a short dress who appears drunk to walk by so he can seize her. In fact, more than half of rapes are committed by people that know the victim. That is to say, know them enough to trust them that if they are in a vulnerable state that it is unlikely that the perpetrator would use that situation advantageously. The jails are FULL of men who thought they were going to engage a person in consensual sex without realizing that their potential partner was unable to give it or that "no" really meant I do not approve of your advances but I am fearful so I will comply. But hey, what was she wearing right?

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Lol we need to educate the hurricanes :) you need to be employed by Obama and home defense because that was awesome. And the USA actually have a system that controls the weather so the content isn't actual that weird. Love your videos, from an old skool whisperer xx

What if a child irritates a dog, the dog bites the child and is thus put down by the authorities. Who is the victim and who is to blame? I don't think it's as black and white as people like to think.

EDUCAAAAATE THE HURRICANES NOW!!!!

Ok, I'm seriously NOT trying to be a dick - and I love your vids, btw - but this is supposed to be funny..right? lol, "Make it illegal for the wildlife to attack human beings". Either way - awesome, I love it!

bahahah that was pretty funny :))

Lol lol lol!!!! Seriously though.....f*ck mountain lions.

So are you joking or what man cuz come on train the sharks not to eat people

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What about those who make false accusations? What percentage of rape cases involve false accusations? A very non-trivial number. I dont have the data to hand, but I want to say it is around 30-40%. Right now Dartmouth College is persecuting a young man found not guilty of rape, a case involving a third party who said the sex was consensual, but that the female party felt remorse and decided it was rape later. But Dartmouth is still claiming a "rape" happened and is making the young man's life a living hell. He has been denied all due process on campus, and Dartmouth gas instituted formal policies to deny men due process in such cases in future. They will not even have the right to face their accuser in campus proceedings. This is the kind of environment feminists want to install across the country. And claiming one cannot scrutinize the victim only perpetuates this very alarming trend. Most rape cases are far from cut and dried. Most come down to "he said, she said." Prudence must always be obeyed, we don't to see alleged - ALLEGED - victims unnecessarily traumatized, but we must always keep in mind innocent until proven guilty and the rights of the accused. Chanting a mantra of "don't blame the victim" serves to erode some of the most vitally necessary rights in a free society. It is a short walk from talk of "not blaming the victim" to denial of due process and public trial by virtual lynch mob. The "rape culture" garbage being pushed on college campuses is just feminist agitprop. Meanwhile, these same feminists ignore the sexual slavery and hideous treatment of millions of muslim women. Because "rape culture" isn't about true concern for women, it is about instilling leftism in many young minds.