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Stop chasing girls (how to ATTRACT instead)

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So many guys WASTE their lives chasing girls instead of working on themselves to make girls chase them instead. This is a common mistake among men and today we're here to talk about how to improve this bad habit and what you should do instead. Watch the video and let me know if you learned something new!
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@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta Thank you for watching and have a great week! -AC

@havoc3894 10 месяцев назад

Alex this video will be my daily motto. Thankfully I have been following each and every step. Cause i realized i was wasting time chasing girls (really overweight 0/38k on dating apps) So i decided im going to attract and do something about myself with fitness and grades. I will say one thing that needs to change with men, when I was fat alot of people were saying "be yourself and confident I've seen so other fat guys have girls all over them!" Nah i hate that statement so much because it makes you comfortable with food and will not make you change physically for the better! So i stopped taking that advise and made my self go to the gym 3-4 times a week to increase my fitness. Its been working out lost 60lbs! Im still hoping to find a girlfriend since they are hard and picky, but I feel better, look better, and a lot more confident!

@DankVader4 11 месяцев назад

What i love about Alex is, he never shouts or shoves those tips down our throats. He is like a wise big brother to us.

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much!

@ikramkamal12 11 месяцев назад

Alpha m crying 😂😂😂

@tirthshah1179 11 месяцев назад

@@alexcostaI like that you try to read our comments too Alex!😍❤️

@hitek3139 11 месяцев назад

Did someone ask?

@DankVader4 11 месяцев назад

@@hitek3139 No. Just like nobody asked you to reply.

@theunrandomaryan1756 11 месяцев назад

Despite of knowing him since 2020, started following him straight this year, and seriously this guy has changed me a lot as compared to the me an year ago Thank You Alex ❤

@asifbepari7359 8 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Alex, I was been suffering from all these issues now I got the clue why things aren’t working out for me be it selecting the garment, styling hair or chasing girls

@maxkoch6399 11 месяцев назад

Your Videos Keep me motivated to get better everyday, thank you!❤

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Let's do it together 🤝

@abdulalimmahir 11 месяцев назад

The thing about keeping those habits and exploring new passions just perfectly matched with my timeline 😊

@stevewill4633 11 месяцев назад

So true, I let this happen to me before when dating, easy to lose yourself. Never stop self improvement.

@vinitnarule9419 11 месяцев назад

Lucky to have you , great teacher !!

@nweditor875 11 месяцев назад

Great lession video I use to be chasing girls then I got to a point where I went back to school invested in myself now got my AA done, got a better job out of state own a dog that I can take to the vet not stressing about it and I am way more happier with myself and confident have a job that I am very thankful to have.

@MosekiMasibi-qu9wm 11 месяцев назад

Sometimes you just gotta focus on your grind and the right things will fall into place 💯🎯💵💝

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Facts!

@Meshakdann 11 месяцев назад

Just don't care, don't give them attention.. they'll flip out.

@lezginpatriotic7735 11 месяцев назад

Absolutely

@CasualCasimir 11 месяцев назад

I agree with you but disclaimer…This only works if the girl already likes you….

@Meshakdann 11 месяцев назад

@@CasualCasimir even so, just don't care. You don't have to do anything for a girl to like you.

@himansh3615 11 месяцев назад

@@Meshakdannbro spitting faxxx......

@CasualCasimir 11 месяцев назад

@@Meshakdann I see your point

@Boywithmilliondreams 11 месяцев назад

Alex I have been following you since long time but I want to say that this is one of the best video I have ever seen in your channel and it actually impacts very much in men’s life of you read this no need to reply just like oh this comment 😊

@Aaron_933 11 месяцев назад

Again. To show you Alex every time I get ur push notification I watch your videos. They help me so much. Thank you so much for your advice it actually helps!!

@mistymusic5961 11 месяцев назад

Alex Love from my deepest heart You're the reminder and booster for the boys nowadays❤

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Thanks a lot man, thank you for watching!

@pain.497 11 месяцев назад

Yup been doing this for a couple years now and went from being ignored to taken interest in.

@YuvrajSingh-wr8ig 11 месяцев назад

Alex love your content Watching your content from 2016-17 ❤❤

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Thanks for sticking around so long, I appreciate it!

@CommonPerson0 11 месяцев назад

I was 320lbs to 195lbs best choices I ever made for myself. I look good I feel good. Time is the precious things we have. It you let it go it gone forever. 20 and 30yrs is ours prime. Also stop using dating apps it horrible met girls in public places. That how me and my girl dated.

@some_random_guy03 11 месяцев назад

The thumbnail is crazy 🤣

@TSierra 11 месяцев назад

You lose money chasing women but you don’t lose women chasing money.

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

OOOf

@Zeeshan12368 11 месяцев назад

You can only get selfish, desperate and clever women with money.

@Aaron_933 11 месяцев назад

Keep up the great work!!

@Munchunkumar00 11 месяцев назад

Thank you so much Alex . ❤❤Loves from India 🇮🇳🤍

@undeadarkhantheblack 4 месяца назад

You're right, we should do what we like and improve in things we do. My problem is, I improved so much in what I like to do that majority of girls are not feeling good enough for me. Even if you just mention only "part" of things you can do or did, its still huge DHV for them :-/

@leninfranco9328 9 месяцев назад

This is the reason I still follow Alex,he keeps it humble. The day he starts acting like certain RU-vidrs I'm unsubscribing.

@Alkablazer 10 месяцев назад

Thanks Alex, this is something I needed to hear

@okiedoggie 11 месяцев назад

big thanks to this man.

@nchou646 11 месяцев назад

Love your content, self improvment is the most important thing in life. May I ask where you got this T-shirt? The color is amazing!!!!

@theregularboy997 11 месяцев назад

Keep up the good work my brother

@partheshsoni1905 11 месяцев назад

Alex is the wise older brother I didn’t have ❤

@aciuschristophores7789 11 месяцев назад

2:29 WOW sweet setup. Can you make a video showing your setup, what computer, monitor, keyboard you use?

@juanderuano8969 11 месяцев назад

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

@juanderuano8969 11 месяцев назад

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

@juanderuano8969 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

@mikesavio25 11 месяцев назад

Thank you Alex I needed help

@Rash_s_1 11 месяцев назад

awesome vid alex ! 👌

@MillionaireHouseholdFinance 11 месяцев назад

Haha! That's a good one! Let's see if everyone follows this advice!!!😃

@kelvinoke6414 10 месяцев назад

Thanks bro ...I love ur contents..... please continue the good work

@philpernice4722 11 месяцев назад

As a guy in his 50s thats not looking for marriage or kids I decided to stop chasing women its not worth the drama that comes with it you ever meet a girl who has an entourage of friends ? Not fun

@phillyfan-182 2 месяца назад

You’re like the older brother figure we all need

@Bryson.Stephens 11 месяцев назад

Great advice Alex!

@sekharmoyye 11 месяцев назад

Please make a video or a short on how to reject politely without hurting feelings or sentiments

@sekharmoyye 11 месяцев назад

Thank you 🤍

@ayanchatterjee2664 11 месяцев назад

Informative as always ❤

@bsoul4256 11 месяцев назад

Make a video on what to do when a girl looks at you and smile and also the approach process

@CloudPuffs420 11 месяцев назад

damn that add was smooth, great vid, thanks

@woahitsraj 11 месяцев назад

Man I think there is a huge disconnect here. Of course you should focus on your career, social skills, mental health, and hobbies, but going on dates and meeting girls is a skill of its own. I know tons of guys that have great careers and social skills but go on zero dates because they don't prioritize and focus on it.

@trungbui2343 10 месяцев назад

Exactly. People always say things about improving themself but sometimes they just turn into an old man with zero love experience. Well, don’t be desperated but should put an effort to it. Nothing will come if you don’t prioritize it.

@archie2.8 10 месяцев назад

Zero dates is MUCH better then waste time on low quality girls who don't deserve your attention. I know MANY men, who dating with only few girls and now they all have a good families.

@nemesis4035 8 месяцев назад

You have a point, but you missed Alex's. He's not saying to not go on dates at all, but to not make that a priority of your life

@sib1212 8 месяцев назад

@@trungbui2343y women can't date men if need?😂😂😂 Y men to do 1st step & getting rejected 😂😂😂women have zero confident that's y they always need to chase them from men😂😂

@petrruzicka295 11 месяцев назад

I used to chase girls but never sucesfully. Then i started watching Alex's fashion videos. I still unsucesfully chase girls but men lemme tel you I look great

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

How do you feel?! 💪

@ShivamKumar-ch7tk 11 месяцев назад

Girl like ugly boys this is the fact

@mhmh8345 11 месяцев назад

I hate dating apps

@adamjobs 9 месяцев назад

Deja vu

@ZHwilderness 11 месяцев назад

One of the best videos on youtube ❤❤❤

@arjuxnnn 11 месяцев назад

Hey man, its so motivative. Need your videos everyday to get charged.⚡

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Thanks a lot man!

@subbingcontent1980 11 месяцев назад

We need a collab with Brett Maverick and Alex!

@lucifer5829 10 месяцев назад

I read somewhere that “if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't, then you still have that beautiful garden!” So I’m building a nice life and i might attract butterflies with similar interests!😂

@alexcosta 10 месяцев назад

Love this angle!

@lucifer5829 9 месяцев назад

I appreciate you for reading out our comments and working hard to give us tips! 🤍 Keep shining brother!

@pavankumar-eb1yg 11 месяцев назад

Thank you bro

@abdulhadikhan2005 11 месяцев назад

love you big bro

@risadul_islam_99 11 месяцев назад

Bro your always correct ❤❤

@JARSH04 10 месяцев назад

Lets start... 🔥

@eliasflores1377 11 месяцев назад

the thumbnail is a masterpiece

@akshaykhandka616 11 месяцев назад

Loved it bro...knuckle bump

@faizmasood5461 11 месяцев назад

Lots of love from Pakistan Alex💚 Love your content and it always helps us to get better and better🫡

@addyaddy3876 11 месяцев назад

Thank you my big brother lots of love from india ❤❤

@131948 11 месяцев назад

So be the bus driver...got it !

@thakurvlog4004 11 месяцев назад

Can you please make a guide video on complete glowup in a month

@Travelsfirst992 11 месяцев назад

hey Alex can u recommend a few books for self development

@shockwav3715 11 месяцев назад

That thumbnail though 😂

@Vaas4game 11 месяцев назад

Grande Made!!!!

@vigneshboodhoo1053 10 месяцев назад

Hey alex loved your necklace,could you tell me where you got it from

@nived6435 11 месяцев назад

Can you please do a video about complete diet and workout plan for a male model lean body?

@DarrinSK 8 месяцев назад

Literally none of this works. Double my income, pressure hobbies, hit nature, working out... None of it ever made a woman more attracted or approach me.

@WhyNotMihirVlogs 11 месяцев назад

Big fan sir❤

@hardcoregameing1491 11 месяцев назад

the thumbnail is best part of the vedio

@nikey6422 11 месяцев назад

I like how he supports a no-fade haircut

@SaurabhKumar-cx4oq 10 месяцев назад

@alexcosta Sir I desperately want to know how you maintain your wardrobe and your shoes collection and how you kept all of them so clean all the time

@IndyShepherd 2 месяца назад

I stopped chasing girls when I went to college... Not one girl talked to me for 4 years.

@GamerzWorldTamil 11 месяцев назад

Thumbnail 😂

@Bablu_podcast 10 месяцев назад

Over things problem

@mosharrafrafi4609 11 месяцев назад

Man, i fold my tee sleeves and they stay for a while and then they start to get ruined. Some tee hacks would be helpful, bruv.

@vicepresidentmikepence889 11 месяцев назад

00:50 Did he say " attracting the white girls"?????

@petrruzicka295 11 месяцев назад

I think he said "right" 🤣

@MukhitdinT 7 месяцев назад

Good

@andreimihaila2730 11 месяцев назад

Will you make a what’s on my iPhone video? With the 15 pro

@ivkoandonov 11 месяцев назад

hi Alex, I have a problem with my hair, I used to have very thick hair but I didn't maintain it well. I washed it with hot water and shampoos every day and applied gel, now it has become thinner. Could you help me somehow?

@mathieunolet8236 11 месяцев назад

Thumbnail goes SO HARD

@alexcosta 11 месяцев назад

Haha thanks man

@longbeach562idk3 8 месяцев назад

Feel like nobody ever wanna fw bc I feel ugly I get no follow back from girls 😢

@TarnishedWretch7 11 месяцев назад

this video is not for me i like men, especially chasing young boys

@manav8101 11 месяцев назад

any whats on my iphone video soon?

@user-dj6ml8pb9g 6 месяцев назад

It’s not that I chase girl ,but there is a particular human,who I love her most but I m on position to judge a character she is 24 still her character is worst and I just want to be good for her want to see her ,ahh if she is hurt I feel pain but she don’t care .i just writing here to feel calm

@mohammadharis1271 11 месяцев назад

Morning and night routine 2023

@zane-x4705 11 месяцев назад

Alex you need to improve your thumbnail game buddy, great video though, thanks

@osagie4751 11 месяцев назад

What book can one use in upgrading his communication skills?

@JanneKuronen 11 месяцев назад

How to Win Friends and Influence people by Dale Carnegie has very good principles to live by, of course you sometimes forget them depending on the situation even if you read the book many times

@osagie4751 11 месяцев назад

@@JanneKuronen thanks man

@johnnyblaze9158 11 месяцев назад

I recommend ‘How to talk to anyone’ by Leil Lowndes 💯

@keithdrury7767 11 месяцев назад

We're not all str8 pal.

@Im-a-rock 11 месяцев назад

So don’t watch. Or do. Do whatever you want

@silentassassin3132 10 месяцев назад

Alex coping hard after his breakup 😂 . Bro don’t become an incel now

@maddihudson8982 11 месяцев назад

Men should stop chasing girls. Men should have a baseline income, that is to say financial stability, having their own house, then a car, being independent also.

@dinmohammad1439 11 месяцев назад

Love from Bangladesh

@theripaatu2085 11 месяцев назад

pls like been watching your vids for past 4 years

@saumyameena2008 11 месяцев назад

1st Alex love from India

@janekristeneorden3652 11 месяцев назад

Main goal: Invest in yourself focus on improvements and achieving goals that you wanted to be a successful ✨ Thank you Alex I really appreciated your work esp those high-value men in this world