Guilt used to be a Tool that ruled my life for 25 years ( I'm only 42) I lived my life on the sidelines while everyone around me did as they pleased! It's funny! During this level up process I feel NO guilt at all giving someone a HARD NO. Not answering my phone. And Never wasting time with any Dusty men or women! Heck, if I get up early and invest in myself EVERYDAY , there's no freaking way I'm accepting sub par from ANYONE!
Nisha Mack, I'm the same age as you and Shera has opened my eyes and changed my life. I'm leveling up and making moves. I wish I had all this wisdom 20 years ago 😊😊
Same here. I was the typical "nice" lady who put everyone else first. Not anymore. I've always been cute, lol, dressed nice and kept my figure tight, but I slacked off with how I allowed people to treat me. I would say, "As long as I have what I need." I was always worried about the budget. LOL. Yes, SheRa has even helped us married women because the game never ends. Men remain the same. After watching a few videos, I was asked what I wanted for my birthday and I said a European trip and got it. I love to travel and have gone on some amazing trips since then. My house is laid too. It is never too late. You are worthy.
So I just cut off a guy before the date because I just felt that he wasn't worthy of my presence. Long story short he didn't have a career yet, he asked me what my job was, and he wanted to build.
I've noticed that too. Posts about your travels, and pictures of you at high end places with positive people, as well as positive, uplifting quotes, etc. Dusty men tend to stay away from happy women that they know they can't do anything for.
Great, I always tell other women, who you are make or break you. and its important to practice. My SD from first date noticed how well mannered, classy and intelligent I was, just to mention. He complimented my dress. asked some infos and since then, he find pleasures in buying Self portrait dresses, why? Because I wore one. Women need to show value to get value. ( Men are visual). I'm glad your trick is working. Keep it up and Happy Sugaring. xoxo
Yasssss. I been watching your videos for the last 2 weeks and I’ve been leveling up. I’m married and ever since I’ve been on my level up ish. My man has went over and beyond for me. He been showing me so much love and been calling me every chance he gets when he is at work. This information is soooo right on. Thank you and everyday I will only become better and stay leveled up. I’m such a believer of take care of yourself and that man will take care of you. After 3 kids it’s hard to get back to that level but it can be done. Thank you for all the game on all your videos. Oh and most importantly he thanks me daily for wanting to be better. He loves me for me but he thanks me for wanting more.
Dear Shera, I've been dressing better, learning hair and nails and makeup, and I feel good about leveling up. Thing is, after all this effort I feel sick of dealing with men, dusty or not. I just want to be happy with myself and I don't really care about finding a guy to pay my bills. I have learned a lot from you, Ms. Mikki, and all the sisters here. I know enough to know not to waste time on a guy who can't/won't pay my bills. But I really am sick of The Game. I love you all and I wish everyone good luck.
Cassondra Hunt yeah, it's just that all this effort in improving my looks make me realize that NO MAN is worth this much trouble. If there is a guy out there who can and want to pay my bills, great. But I don't want to waste my breath looking for one. I like looking good for me. At least this channel reminds me to not date any dusty.
Continuous Self-Improvement Personally, this channel has me asking the question of why I need a man at all. I have a job. I pay the bills. I cook for myself and my child. I clean the house. Why do I need a man if I am able to do all of that for myself?
Continuous Self-Improvement I just find the prospects of dating so daunting and cumbersome. Hell, I am not really partial of the men in my age group. All of them thirty years old and they act like they are thirteen.
Okurrr go back to be being weak. Lmao. Men need to add to your life. Ask your father, ask your uncle, ask your grandpa. These men will all tell you get with a man that can do something for you! Periodtttt.
God it's so sad to see idiotic folks try to attack Ashera's appearance just because they are unable to deal with their own shortcomings and insecurities! Y'all trolls need some self love!!
LA is the worst place. A guy can be crusty, old and ugly and still look at an attractive woman like "what you got to bring to the table?". No chivarly either.
Brown Diamond see baby girl I like you honest woman there's nothing wrong with the reprogramming side of the game I had to reprogram myself and I'm a better man for that I like you honest woman I could do something with an honest woman are you Emotionally Available life is beautiful take advantage have a wonderful day my beautiful black queen
Oh SheRa this is one of your best videos. Girl everything just clicked. I will post it in the facebook group later on today that I am in with you. Thank Youuuu Yessss.
Speaking of classy, your hair looks so sleek and classy, I love the raven color. My natural color is same as your I've gotten much more compliments on my natural color than when I used to bleach it & highlight it up. Your right about honesty sandwiches lol. I definitely do what I want now and don't give a hoot. Confidence is so important. Play by your own rules, do you and watch em flock ! Men don't really want those doormat women for long term anyways. Maybe to use up. Than they come to women like us for the real deal. Stay wise ox
Joseph Hughes Yes, Shera is a true gem. Not only is she beautiful; she’s smart and teaches women to find their worth. I only wish I found her channel years ago.
The Glamorous Witch beautiful lady I know sometime we get in to our emotions and say things that we don't mean but we all family here forgive and forget and keep it pushing
There 7 continents in this world. And, u name it from countries to cities where people can choose with whome, where, when, what and how TO WORK. We are never stuck, just let them know that.
I'm single, but a wife thinks I want her husband. This is totally untrue, I done nothing with her husband not even talk to the man. The insecurities of his wife has told over to her niece and she came up to my children in the church tell my children she thinks I want her husband but this is totally in her mind. Am I responsible for her feelings. I walk with my head up and I have to much respect for myself to do a thing like this. I'm angry and upset cause this is not the 1st time this has happened to me. It's a hurtful and lonely feeling to know someone feels that way about me. Please advice I'm tried of running away, I want to be married and tried dating to many time but have not found the one. The longer I stay single the more these women think this way. I love them so much, even with them hating me.
No ones ties another back, the world became ONE. And, each ethnicity has created its own reputation due to the common and same repetitive practices in societies. Really, there is no where to hide except fixing the BIG MESS. Certain things will not be fixed.
Militant KANE That James is obviosly a pussy and imbecilic. No Woman on earth can enslave me for money just like this bitch does to the woman wrapper !
Beautiful, dark, rich and creamy smooth lady. You are universally beautiful, even without make-up you are more pretty than me, Rihanna, Beoncé, any pale-face, only Janet compares.
