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We all need to take responsibility over our life and not put unfair expectations on people. We can't expect things from people that they aren't capable of. We have to make sure that we keep the power in our own hands, don't give the power to influence your life to anyone who doesn't deserve it.
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Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver and author of The Greatest You: Face Reality, Release Negativity, and Live Your Purpose. Trent has collaborated with powerful voices over the years including Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Tom Bilyeu, Gerard Adams, and many more.
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@anitafreeman6181
@anitafreeman6181 3 года назад
If someone shows you who they are believe them!!
@teresadorta8039
@teresadorta8039 3 года назад
Amen
@gjugjudarling3627
@gjugjudarling3627 3 года назад
....every bit of the 365 24/7 to view
@phoebeomalley3052
@phoebeomalley3052 3 года назад
I totally agree.
@rochellemcryans2825
@rochellemcryans2825 3 года назад
Amen💯
@shirleymeador9956
@shirleymeador9956 3 года назад
🌻⭐🥀shame on you.. shame on me🤗🐎🐎🐎
@firstladyofyoutube2249
@firstladyofyoutube2249 3 года назад
I look at how people treat other's, it an indicator on how they will treat me.
@popularloner4279
@popularloner4279 3 года назад
Facts
@lighttheway5088
@lighttheway5088 3 года назад
Well said
@bazahlopez4210
@bazahlopez4210 3 года назад
Very well said
@jacquelinerobinson5021
@jacquelinerobinson5021 3 года назад
Exactly!!
@juliechurch1799
@juliechurch1799 3 года назад
That's good idea. Cos they might do it to you if they gossip to you or bad behaviour
@letsgobrandon3007
@letsgobrandon3007 2 года назад
The same person that broke you cannot fix you. I love you all. Stay strong.
@LilB.
@LilB. Год назад
Facts! Never let someone show you more than once they don't love you anymore... 37 yrs, just .... gone....
@lasheemaford8318
@lasheemaford8318 2 года назад
Lord, he's speaking DIRECTLY to ME!!!! I take full accountability for letting ppl hurt me!!!
@sharrelldupree28
@sharrelldupree28 2 года назад
Amen
@sterlingpless9280
@sterlingpless9280 2 года назад
You got to run past them let them go... Give them what they want let them have their own life.... Be nice but just go off.... At this point in life being nonchalant is the way to go...
@kingdommindsetleadership
@kingdommindsetleadership Год назад
So do I !!!! 🙌🏽👌🏽🔥💯 AMEN PRAISE THE LORD !!!
@stacymilner7698
@stacymilner7698 3 года назад
"Nobody can break your heart twice without your permission". I had never heard that before but that struck a chord with me. Very wise words
@anyascott8583
@anyascott8583 3 года назад
I agree with you 100%
@Summerrains67
@Summerrains67 3 года назад
Can't give permission when you've seen the first time guard that heart💯❤️
@nicoletrent4703
@nicoletrent4703 3 года назад
@@Summerrains67 it make me wonder what is wrong with me to except having my heart broken over and over and over again. Smh
@emmanuelmjomba1101
@emmanuelmjomba1101 3 года назад
Awesome
@marykiio304
@marykiio304 2 года назад
I agree 💯💯 sure
@denishagarrett3041
@denishagarrett3041 3 года назад
Damage people , hurt people ......you can’t fix someone who’s broken !!!!
@whitewitchqueen
@whitewitchqueen 3 года назад
Only they can as you have to yourself were all broken on some level but some will never change until life breaks them they get angry and change
@britneythomas4407
@britneythomas4407 3 года назад
Period
@uniquep2760
@uniquep2760 3 года назад
Jesus Christ can fix you🙏🙏
@SummerGlowFurCatHolySpirit
@SummerGlowFurCatHolySpirit 3 года назад
Amen
@KE.T500
@KE.T500 3 года назад
@Denisha Garrett you're so right!! I know now my recent ex girlfriend is "damaged" and I can't fix her. I've tried so hard to help her see things differently...we would argue n fight alot. Even when I showed her the truth about something, she still would not believe me. Instead she would believe and say the opposite all the time. She has manipulated me so much and broke me heart. I know now who she really is! :-(
@bastardomalo3441
@bastardomalo3441 3 года назад
Its because you really want to believe in others goodness. And your heart always pays the price.
@whitneyr3407
@whitneyr3407 6 месяцев назад
😢❤
@SaraSundBerlin
@SaraSundBerlin 3 месяца назад
Very, true it always haeto me 😢
@jomassey4207
@jomassey4207 3 года назад
"If I cut you off, chances are you handed me the knife". I've got to say goodbye to someone who has stolen from me.....she has changed over the past 3 months. I have to let her go, even though it is hard.
@lkn9816
@lkn9816 3 года назад
We fall in love with people for whom we expect them to be or wish them to be, but look past what they really are.
@trineseDMVbeauty
@trineseDMVbeauty 3 года назад
Sooooooooooo True!!!!
@maryannrao6445
@maryannrao6445 3 года назад
I need to watch this onr every Day!
@popularloner4279
@popularloner4279 3 года назад
Truth
@andreasanandres6633
@andreasanandres6633 3 года назад
yes I agree with you !
@ladykay4506
@ladykay4506 3 года назад
Yessssss
@ciaracaryse
@ciaracaryse 3 года назад
came in just in time..i’ve literally been experiencing this with friendship and relationships..ppl are so cruel and full of themselves now..
@themilkaint4free
@themilkaint4free 3 года назад
I understand where you are coming from totally. I pray as we release those not qualified...GOD will bring the real ones...Straight up! This message is on time.
@ciaracaryse
@ciaracaryse 3 года назад
@@themilkaint4free thank you so much !!
@TReneeJ
@TReneeJ 3 года назад
That’s a fact. @Ciara B
@xxcellence7172
@xxcellence7172 3 года назад
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them" Maya Angelou
@staceyphillips4839
@staceyphillips4839 2 года назад
Show me who you are please!!! R.I.PMaya Angelou
@roseasher9487
@roseasher9487 2 года назад
This is probably the wisest thing Angela mayu has ever said. Not a big fan of her new age beliefs but she got this one right!
@xxcellence7172
@xxcellence7172 2 года назад
@@roseasher9487 I haven't read her new beliefs. I'm afraid of NEW peeerrriiiaatt these days.. 😳
@adrianne8612
@adrianne8612 2 года назад
i needed this comment♡︎♡︎♡︎
@wendypope9668
@wendypope9668 2 года назад
Guard your heart, protect your peace, protect your life
@andrewcampbell-young8426
@andrewcampbell-young8426 3 года назад
Depend on yourself because at the end of the day yourself cannot let you down. Trust yourself and only yourself.
@georgelopez6172
@georgelopez6172 3 года назад
Yes
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786
@momsmushroomsjodyfoster5786 3 года назад
Actually we can let ourselves down, I’ve done it. There’s one who never disappoints me His name is Jesus
@moniquecourtney1207
@moniquecourtney1207 3 года назад
Well said✌
@popularloner4279
@popularloner4279 3 года назад
💯
@whitewitchqueen
@whitewitchqueen 3 года назад
Correct
@eugenejohnson5589
@eugenejohnson5589 3 года назад
Observe How people treat themselves 🔑 .
@theamarie2674
@theamarie2674 3 года назад
Exactly! 💯 The way they treat themselves, is how they're gonna treat others.
@JennMartinello
@JennMartinello 3 года назад
1000%
@madelinebigio7565
@madelinebigio7565 3 года назад
Yesssss so true Amen
@mstiff6234
@mstiff6234 3 года назад
Facts
@gorillanotion1024
@gorillanotion1024 3 года назад
I needed to hear this The person I believed who was a decent was not worthy of my respect. I got betrayed because of my poor judgement. Putting him in a position that he didn't deserve.
@mekotaylor7142
@mekotaylor7142 3 года назад
Stumbled across this at a time when I really needed to hear this the most ♥️😭.thank you
@ms.gracefullybroken8724
@ms.gracefullybroken8724 2 года назад
👋me to love👋
@krysm33
@krysm33 2 года назад
Honestly me too. I’m not sure why or how this was “recommended to me”, but I’m so grateful that it was.
@madyva
@madyva 2 года назад
Me too
@nlrrln6881
@nlrrln6881 3 года назад
Guard your heart. Protect your peace! 2021... Change is necessary! Sometimes people have hidden agendas. Watch, listen and learn. They will always show you.
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 3 года назад
@nlr rln I Will Most Definitely Keep My Eye's & Ears Open , Take Care Be Safe & Stay Blessed❤️
@nlrrln6881
@nlrrln6881 3 года назад
@@bettabelieveit34 Thank you! I appreciate your kindness! Be Blessed!❣️
@madannanoble3986
@madannanoble3986 3 года назад
Your definitely right I'm going through a heartbreak
@nlrrln6881
@nlrrln6881 3 года назад
@@madannanoble3986 I've been there. Distract yourself with things you like to do and time will do the rest for you.
@alesiaholloman3710
@alesiaholloman3710 3 года назад
Love this
@trevorfrayne6418
@trevorfrayne6418 3 года назад
I wish someone told me this decades ago. Let people earn more trust, one level at a time.
@champaynesworld3558
@champaynesworld3558 3 года назад
Strength up bro
@robertosavy3018
@robertosavy3018 3 года назад
Aman,Aman, Aman
@andreabarnes5879
@andreabarnes5879 3 года назад
Amen to that.
@robertosavy3018
@robertosavy3018 3 года назад
@@andreabarnes5879 yes
@AbbysalWarrior72756
@AbbysalWarrior72756 8 месяцев назад
Foreal tho
@sianapolydore1684
@sianapolydore1684 3 года назад
Never rescue a snake,it's their nature to bite u.. I learn the hard way. Thank you Trent may God continue to bless and keep you to inspire us broken ppl.
@charliehustle4833
@charliehustle4833 2 года назад
Fact 👑🔥
@evettehogan2540
@evettehogan2540 3 года назад
I needed to hear this today. I’ve met this guy and he told me he didn’t want a relationship with me but then made me video of how much he missed me thinking about me more than I’ll ever know. I just walked away
@jacquelinemeier-boucher8192
@jacquelinemeier-boucher8192 2 года назад
Kudos!
@michellesouth1988
@michellesouth1988 2 года назад
Run Queen 👸🏼✅
@insha7556
@insha7556 2 года назад
Aww, it's tough but so are you!
@drewvalenz2721
@drewvalenz2721 2 года назад
Im kinda in the same situation but im the guy in this case. Its because he has been so hurt before and when he tries to be in a relationship and move on he thinks that he is going to get hurt again so he holds back. Hes scared thats all. But he does miss you when he says he does. Its hard to explain but in my situation i told the girl to go and be happy with someone because i feel like i am holding her back with me not being ready yet. But she insists on trying to wait around for me but i feel bad i wish she would just move on because idk how long its gonna be until i am ready
@tabi1010
@tabi1010 2 года назад
@@drewvalenz2721 why wouldn’t you pursue the girl, how could you let her go be with someone else if you like her? I don’t get that. I could bear to see the person I love be with someone else
@jerseygirlinvermont
@jerseygirlinvermont 3 года назад
Straight up! I've had unfair expectations of a person in my life. I see, now, that this person isn't capable of being in the position I have placed them in. That's on me, not them, because even though I see their potential; they are either unwilling or incapable of changing.
@michaelokeke4976
@michaelokeke4976 3 года назад
I’m teaching myself that as well with some relatives and some friends too. When people show you who they are, it’s best to trust your gut feeling when something isn’t right. That’s why you gotta cut them off and do you
@atlantasfaithsmom
@atlantasfaithsmom 3 года назад
Same here.
@devotheambivert9875
@devotheambivert9875 3 года назад
💯
@whatsittoyouname8171
@whatsittoyouname8171 3 года назад
You said that so very very well. You spoke my mind.
@andreablevins527
@andreablevins527 3 года назад
I'm in that situation right now 😔 I'm emotionally and mentally tired!! I can never do or say anything right. I try so hard but it's not good enough. I'm a prisoner in my own home 💔 I choose to not go anywhere without him or my little girls cause when I would leave by myself to go to the store I'd come back to him having an attitude with me and talking to me like a dog. He lives in my home and pays for nothing smh I'm going through so much and have been for over 3 years now. He's very disrespectful to me especially when he doesn't get his way. I wanna believe he'll change, I wanna believe he truly loves me, etc.. but I'm still waiting to feel those things from him.
@preciouslebohang752
@preciouslebohang752 3 года назад
This is exactly what I'm going through. I've been with this guys for five years. Did everything for him. Gave him support. Gave him a child. This guy has cheated on me multiple times and when I find out about the things he does. He never stops. He just continues cheating. Now I see I've been giving him chances to hurt me again and again. It's all on me. I've been expecting him to be the person he's not. He's a serial cheater . That's all. I'm about to stand up and stop him from hurting me. Thanks Trent. Your videos are building me.
@alimoore8990
@alimoore8990 3 года назад
Get into Derrick Jaxn work!! He is on RU-vid.
@faycarterwithouttheerealta4645
@faycarterwithouttheerealta4645 3 года назад
U go precious 💖 lov U and yur baby first afta GOD run from that cheater dont let him hurt u anymore im soo proud of u it starts n yur Mind then u speak it now just do it BOOM 💥💥💥
@lisacartner971
@lisacartner971 3 года назад
Going through the same thing.
@MiSs120100
@MiSs120100 3 года назад
Going through same thing....
@love_notes8727
@love_notes8727 3 года назад
Yes ma'am. Leave that situation because you will suffer in the end. Take care of yourself first and then your child.
@adrianne8612
@adrianne8612 2 года назад
i’ve tried many of days and nights thinking my pain they were causing would end, that one day i would see happiness in life again, but i’m going to start accepting that’s who they are
@bubbleblossom101
@bubbleblossom101 2 года назад
He is SO RIGHT!!! I do this all the time...put unfair expectations on people and keep going back and getting hurt again...walking around bitter and broken so I get it and i'm going to do my best to change course...thank you Trent( much love for the post)
@katherinehedrick9108
@katherinehedrick9108 3 года назад
This message was like a hard slap in the face.. But I NEEDED it to stop giving toxic people chance after chance and giving them a top place in my life ! 🙏✨❤
@mzsunflower4238
@mzsunflower4238 3 года назад
Me too!!!
@SI-kr1sf
@SI-kr1sf 3 года назад
They cannot have the VIP seat view in your life, they must be sent back to the regular seat with other outsiders.
@torokopita2763
@torokopita2763 3 года назад
I did this mistake hoping to see dem changed but at each time I was their prey if someone shows you his real face trust him.
@Reallyct
@Reallyct 3 года назад
@@torokopita2763 I made the same mistake
@kokhotoms1620
@kokhotoms1620 3 года назад
I am with you on behalf of your statement.
@mzdankmuzik
@mzdankmuzik 3 года назад
Never rescue a snake...its in his nature to bite you!
@magneticfavor9500
@magneticfavor9500 3 года назад
Whew Lord
@sheambitious29lachelle17
@sheambitious29lachelle17 3 года назад
Amen! Not qualified
@mzdankmuzik
@mzdankmuzik 3 года назад
@articia harrington Well that sounds all good n heartfelt but you missing one important key factor.....with all due respect you ain't Jesus! But you will need to call Him when you get bit. Js🤷🏽‍♀️
@mzdankmuzik
@mzdankmuzik 3 года назад
@articia harrington First off this is my post so dont comment if you cant handle facts. I don't know why you feel judged by my comment, that must be something internal going on. Anywho I'm not here to chop you down, that was not the intent. Secondly.....well good luck with that, I wish you all the best 🙏🏽
@carlabrown7212
@carlabrown7212 3 года назад
I’m xcj
@andrewanderson6548
@andrewanderson6548 2 года назад
When they ain't qualify for the position don't give them the promotion. I hear you brother👏
@jessicacombs9410
@jessicacombs9410 3 года назад
His eyes are staring into my Soul
@missthabi
@missthabi 3 года назад
Nobody can break your heart twice without your permission
@elizabethbailey950
@elizabethbailey950 3 года назад
FACTS
@vikkara2043
@vikkara2043 3 года назад
💯💯💯💯💯
@jeanetterangata192
@jeanetterangata192 3 года назад
True
@apollosingleton8970
@apollosingleton8970 3 года назад
Thats real
@marisolfigueroa5905
@marisolfigueroa5905 3 года назад
AMEN TO THAT!👍✌
@roseaviles9414
@roseaviles9414 3 года назад
So tired of forgiving and waiting for someone to change themselves and blaming me for their toxic behaviour.
@funeegrl07
@funeegrl07 3 года назад
Their options are either blame you or blame themselves. And rarely are they able to see themselves as the cause, so the only other option is you. Be blessed dear.
@MM-nn4vz
@MM-nn4vz 3 года назад
I agree honey keep going you smart god got you remember that
@prettyme8927
@prettyme8927 3 года назад
Girl you better say it. I’m with you on that.
@kittygatotv3885
@kittygatotv3885 3 года назад
god says to forgive them. he will be your defender.keep been sweet and do not tarnish your soul. let them go its the best revenge!
@prettyme8927
@prettyme8927 3 года назад
@@kittygatotv3885 Amen... You definitely said a mouth full. Letting them go is the best revenge.
@fembot521
@fembot521 3 года назад
My husband died a few months ago at 44. I’m young with two kids and my expectation was that people would support me. Guess what? Very few people were there for the long haul. What a great video and thank you for spreading this message. I could have saved myself a world of hurt. My husband was always there for me and I can’t expect someone else to replace him.
@spacetorebuild_withteevee9287
@spacetorebuild_withteevee9287 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear that my dear, all will be well.
@s.p.baughman7885
@s.p.baughman7885 2 года назад
When I had everything i had lots of friends ..when I had nothing they were long gone .When my life fell apart with loss \pain \suffering only God was there..
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427
@luxeeventsbymerandallc2427 2 года назад
Same... Im stuck at my parents with a 2 month old, 1year old, 2 year oldand an 8 year old and have no support. My mom doesn't live here she is a travel nurse and mydad can't handle the kids. Im actually a nurse, an lpn, and trying to find child care because honestly my friends and family cant help. I'll figure it out I did before when it was just me and my oldest child on our own in a new city....just takes time...
@mia_f
@mia_f 2 года назад
Good luck with everything 🙏
@marthamoreno1539
@marthamoreno1539 2 года назад
I’m so sorry for your loss! You will get through this. The people who love you the most will be there for you, the rest will fade like video says. God Bless you and your family, God will send the right people to help you, pray 🙏🏼
@shalomnhika654
@shalomnhika654 2 года назад
Straight up...don't put unfair expectations on people
@hereyezonskies
@hereyezonskies 3 года назад
We have to change ourselves and take our power back.
@angelsamspence3508
@angelsamspence3508 3 года назад
Yes
@breonnaw7708
@breonnaw7708 3 года назад
Exactly!
@devotheambivert9875
@devotheambivert9875 3 года назад
He's speaking facts. Having high expectations of others is imprudent and unwise.
@martinamccline1314
@martinamccline1314 3 года назад
Yesss cuzo 🗣
@sheliaalexander2794
@sheliaalexander2794 3 года назад
I can say that you are absolutely right I did exactly just that, accepting someone who constantly cheated. Happy single 2 1/2 yrs
@eleanorelaborates7084
@eleanorelaborates7084 7 месяцев назад
Straight up! I am done with people saying they enjoy me in the community and then kicking me out. People keep lying to me
@earthangel4971
@earthangel4971 3 года назад
When someone shows you who they are believe them ~Mya Angelou
@faliciarisaac1428
@faliciarisaac1428 3 года назад
You got that right
@faliciarisaac1428
@faliciarisaac1428 3 года назад
Amen. Amen.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 года назад
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
@sweettoothmarie7304
@sweettoothmarie7304 2 года назад
Exactly!! 👏
@alishaondemand
@alishaondemand 3 года назад
That’s Maya Angelou. When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. That is so much easier said than done, but it’s FACTS.
@teresadorta8039
@teresadorta8039 3 года назад
Yes
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 3 года назад
AMEN!SORIGHT! YES INDEED!! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!
@Speak.s5218
@Speak.s5218 2 года назад
It's only hard because you making it hard.
@faithfulbright3829
@faithfulbright3829 2 года назад
Yep, yep, yep!
@angelacavon4073
@angelacavon4073 2 года назад
Yeah…I tried that 6 times and all I got was betrayal when someone showed me who they were I believed them but it didn’t work out…🖤
@vernasingletary7116
@vernasingletary7116 11 месяцев назад
Family will hurt, you over and over again, when you cut them of you are the bad one, so be it let them go.
@allenruff5487
@allenruff5487 2 года назад
This video touch my heart so much I understand and I agree thank you so much for your understanding there's no more room for people who are inwardly Unworthy of Your Love
@lindalambert9802
@lindalambert9802 3 года назад
Please pray for my daughter! She was sexually abused when she was little and told the family when she outted the person at 23. She's now 52 and has been married 5 times and they ALL still love her and she just can't be with anyone. She is so damaged and hurt it's difficult to watch her every day! She's the sweetest person and is so hurt and can't handle anyone trying to love her. Please pray for my child, thank you so much!
@joannagipson12
@joannagipson12 3 года назад
@linda lambert Prayers for your daughter 🙏 ❤ 💓 💗
@delanneyyoung7476
@delanneyyoung7476 3 года назад
May the almighty heal your daughter from the inside out in the name of Jesus
@JayWCleaning
@JayWCleaning 3 года назад
I pray your daughter gets better
@Ms.HoneyH
@Ms.HoneyH 3 года назад
🙏🕯️🛐📿🤲😢
@prettykee6467
@prettykee6467 3 года назад
Ima pray for her
@WisdomStartsInside
@WisdomStartsInside 3 года назад
I always try to remember the saying - ‘when someone shows you who they are, believe them’. Sometimes we see the potential in people that they don’t see in themselves. - straight up! -
@gaillujan6431
@gaillujan6431 3 года назад
Straight up 1 💯❤
@OpulentAristocrat
@OpulentAristocrat 3 года назад
Yesssssss!💛
@nanamimi3382
@nanamimi3382 2 года назад
Took me 10 years with a family member. I miss them. Life is less stressed
@patriciaprather4319
@patriciaprather4319 2 года назад
WE LOVE YOU TRENT SHELTON..SO TRUE AS ALWAYS..YOU ARE SO RIGHT... AWESOME JOB 👍
@MIRAISHOME000
@MIRAISHOME000 3 года назад
Don’t expect nothing from others and keep moving ..if you have to be alone to do so then let it be
@rosario7491
@rosario7491 3 года назад
💎💎💎
@queeniequeen5455
@queeniequeen5455 3 года назад
Exactly
@BuddaGheeski
@BuddaGheeski 3 года назад
I'm an empath and tend to overthink, when someone says or does something hurtful to me with or without intent I feel it, whether I know them or not. I'd be hurt for like a minute or two. I realized that it doesn't hurt, that's just the feeling of disappointment from me thinking that you'd know better than to do or say something of that nature. So its never hurt I feel, just disappointment.
@melgood8
@melgood8 3 года назад
So true. ❤️
@moonsbeautifulsoul9666
@moonsbeautifulsoul9666 3 года назад
I'm the same way, so your comment resonates deeply with me..
@BuddaGheeski
@BuddaGheeski 3 года назад
@@moonsbeautifulsoul9666 Facts, just learning to innerrstand that however someone makes me feel most likely how they feel about themselves or whatever caused them to feel that way. It's always deeper than what it appears. Im glad you can relate 👍
@moonsbeautifulsoul9666
@moonsbeautifulsoul9666 3 года назад
@@BuddaGheeski Very well said!! Just last month I was the recipient of some very harsh & unnecessary words, from a person I've been nothing but kind to. After the situation exploded on a group text simply because I was asking clarifying questions about an upcoming girls trip. I quickly realized that what took place was way deeper & had to do with something I had no knowledge of.
@glory2jesus11
@glory2jesus11 3 года назад
True
@wendycrosby419
@wendycrosby419 2 года назад
True Talk! “When people show you who they are the first time BELIEVE them!”
@ginatrevino2390
@ginatrevino2390 Год назад
How true. I took an guilty for going back and being hurt over and over again. Now I'll walk in the love of Jesus but not be stupid either.
@patriciaearley4177
@patriciaearley4177 3 года назад
I'm not expecting anything from anyone. I just keep my distance and go about my own life✌
@signomoran
@signomoran 3 года назад
I cried so hard watching this...., I really needed to listen to this message :(
@unapologeticallyme7664
@unapologeticallyme7664 3 года назад
Me too
@albertamantey8758
@albertamantey8758 3 года назад
Me too
@crystallicorish7919
@crystallicorish7919 3 года назад
I really needed to hear this also..I jus experience a situation n trust me huh...god u no I needed to hear this tonight
@dvandervan
@dvandervan 3 года назад
STRAIGHT UP! YOU SPEAK THE TRUTH & NOTHING BUT FACTS AND GENUINE TRUTH.
@smartchick649
@smartchick649 2 года назад
Today’s friend is tomorrow’s enemy. Never tell people anything that can get you in trouble. Keep it to yourself.
@vickiekeeton3658
@vickiekeeton3658 3 года назад
So true they're not your true friends. I asked God to remove toxic ppl from my life. But I knew I had to change my ways also.
@kadijatumvkargbo5564
@kadijatumvkargbo5564 3 года назад
Been in a two years old relationship thought me to love myself. It’s hurt for me to walk away cause I still love him, but at the end of the day, am glad I choose my peace over everything.
@claudiahaave9756
@claudiahaave9756 3 года назад
❤️
@fast4life_journey736
@fast4life_journey736 3 года назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Here_some_inpiration
@Here_some_inpiration 3 года назад
Your strength is empowering
@jesulapierre9185
@jesulapierre9185 3 года назад
I am dealing with the same thing
@kadijatumvkargbo5564
@kadijatumvkargbo5564 3 года назад
@@jesulapierre9185 it’s gonna take time but things will fall into place gradually. Sending you hugs 🤗
@mariapass4962
@mariapass4962 3 года назад
Never rescue a snake it's in his nature to bite you. Well said very true
@donalddavis6689
@donalddavis6689 5 месяцев назад
Real Facts!! I Been Hurt!! We All Been Hurt In Life!! But!! We Have To Suck It Up!! And Keep It Moving.
@winnersway4864
@winnersway4864 3 года назад
"Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes." Ephesians 6:11
@keelyross5127
@keelyross5127 3 года назад
Amen 🙇‍♀️
@Itzayanae
@Itzayanae 3 года назад
Amen 🙏
@yolandarobinson1837
@yolandarobinson1837 3 года назад
Amen
@Shontise_Shonie
@Shontise_Shonie 3 года назад
Praise god ❤️
@maureenpeterkin2267
@maureenpeterkin2267 3 года назад
I pray that every day 🙏
@victoriahanke1990
@victoriahanke1990 3 года назад
What an incredible young man you are. I’m 73, and I totally appreciate your message. I’m so happy I found this message today! Thank you dear. Amazing, and you have a beautiful day. Beautiful message! You be Blessed. 🕊🙏♥️🙋‍♀️
@Kristinaproskow-woodcock-hr1px
@Kristinaproskow-woodcock-hr1px 2 года назад
Straight up ...i watch you gives me strength
@adriennetynes4064
@adriennetynes4064 2 года назад
Out of sight young man. So true.
@JeffRobinson65
@JeffRobinson65 3 года назад
BRUH!!! You speaking TRUTH! I did the exact same thing for YEARS! Once I finally let go of the expectations, forgave them, but mostly forgave MYSELF. Once that happened, I found inner peace and have been able to have fair, balanced friendships. It has changed my life and my relationships FOREVER!!! Thanks for this video
@kattyparks7960
@kattyparks7960 3 года назад
Amen
@queeniequeen5455
@queeniequeen5455 3 года назад
Amen
@AnybodyCanFarmOG
@AnybodyCanFarmOG 3 года назад
I'm an old lady. It took me so long to learn that, like 56 years! I've been practicing this for about 3 years. You're so far ahead of the game Trent. Thank you for this video, it's wonderful to have validation to how I feel & what I've been doing. Those kinds of people won't let go easy. 'Make the world accept your greatness!' I LOVED THAT!
@andikamaghardene3075
@andikamaghardene3075 3 года назад
Awesome!
@LIFE7able
@LIFE7able 3 года назад
So True, even your own older children.
@terencefoodstampmcstimmiet5372
@terencefoodstampmcstimmiet5372 3 года назад
IMO it’s unfair to use the word “unfair”, especially when your expectations get systematically lowered to the point where you are willing to settle for the bare minimum and you fail to get even that. It’s not unfair to expect balance and give/take in a relationship whether they’re capable or not. But,depending on the person, it can indeed be UNREALISTIC, that’s a whole different ball park.
@aS-qu1vp
@aS-qu1vp 2 года назад
Dead on
@Zye7Nov99
@Zye7Nov99 3 года назад
Facts💯. I needed to hear this right now! Coincidence is Gods way of remaining anonymous
@ntroxell83
@ntroxell83 3 года назад
Ur phone is a form of a I. It listens it feeds u things
@kokhotoms1620
@kokhotoms1620 3 года назад
GOD brought me here too, I live with a narcissist that is upset that I am getting stronger. But it still is no walk in the park putting up with this type of person.
@annawelch4346
@annawelch4346 3 года назад
Some of my friends and family members are toxic . i am done , Lord knows i tried . i have to stop being giving to ppls that are not worthy of my time and energy . i hear im your family , yea , ok , but i been selfless . im done , time to move on , guard self at all costs . sometimes strangers are more kind then family . Respect urself , love ur self , push on . Stop ths blame game . 💯
@nicolebakoussis6852
@nicolebakoussis6852 3 года назад
Yes i agree totally
@BRenee-pn6iw
@BRenee-pn6iw 3 года назад
Yesssssss.
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 года назад
Relatable, each time I cry bc I feel hurt in my heart. Right now once more I'm so angry again holding myself back other wise I will rent him he's an asshole and being dismissive to me bc I told him I wanted to hug him. He replied: you can't now, I am tested positive for Corona. Okay I understand his point but my pain is the rejecting attitude as if he dislikes me. I replied: I just said it bc I care about you, u will hug you in my thoughts.. His reply : Please my leg is hurting bad I'm not in a good mood. Me: I'm just being sweet to you take it as a medicine. I will leave you alone then. His: thanks I'm going to cry under the shower and move on. Removed his number. I feel pain bc he tends to reject me in a rude way without any feeling but he also doesn't want to lose me. I have to make up my mind now. I mean I understand if he's ill and concerned needs some space but it's the way you communicate it. I can't change him and the way he interacts. Anger is often a sign that we are mistreated. Emotions have a function. How do you switch of the flow of love in your heart It feels like he's attached to me like a siamese twin. I'm so angry 😡and hurt. Confused as well if it's me. No. He's simply on another level but I would never tell someone I like to leave me alone when I would feel bad or had a situation. I'm also feel he treats me like the last important person in his life. Enough is enough. I have to let it, him go. I ever chased him. He normally contacts me. I just spoke to him from my heart bc I missed him. I'm writing it here bc I need to get it out other wise I will send him an angry test.
@michelewalker4711
@michelewalker4711 3 года назад
Yep
@teresadorta8039
@teresadorta8039 3 года назад
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 your better than that and you can and will find a friend who vaules you those kind of people have no place in our lives,those kind don't deserve to be in your presence, God bless you always
@laragarcia3309
@laragarcia3309 3 года назад
Expectations r resentments in the making !!! Know ur worth !!!
@skinni_the_P00hBear
@skinni_the_P00hBear 2 года назад
This popped up out of nowhere, but it's like you've looked into a part of my life and told me exactly how to handle it. Subscribed. Thanks my dude 🙌🏾💛🥺
@roseaviles9414
@roseaviles9414 3 года назад
BADLY NEED THIS ADVICE AT THIS MOMENT. I KEPT GIVING CHANCES TO PEOPLE THAT CONSTANTLY HURTING ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN. AND AFTER FORGIVING, THEY DO IT AGAIN. AND THE CYCLE JUST REPEATING.
@lindaramirez5550
@lindaramirez5550 3 года назад
Spend time alone like take a walk think about God how he can do what our true hearts desires I know haters will never win don't let people get in your mind. Feel it 100%
@tevys_wrld
@tevys_wrld 3 года назад
Just stop. Cut ties
@phillipmorales4925
@phillipmorales4925 3 года назад
Stay strong and keep your head on swivel you will be OK I promise
@prettykee6467
@prettykee6467 3 года назад
Me too I seem to hurt myself this way straight up ty
@phillipmorales4925
@phillipmorales4925 3 года назад
@@prettykee6467 keep your head up you are worthy
@jennyleighbeauty
@jennyleighbeauty 3 года назад
Trent this video made me cry. I'm going through a break up and I was lied to, spoken down to, disrespected and still had hope for this person to change. And nothing changed. It brought tears to my eyes because I grew mad at myself and said " I allowed it" so now I have to forgive myself. It just sucks so bad when someone says they love you but yet they aren't showing you they do by changing their poor habits. Thanks for this video. Pray for me. 🙏🏻
@marisolfigueroa5905
@marisolfigueroa5905 3 года назад
God Bless you! Keep moving forward to better things. I wish you the best! 😊✌
@tiffanyarguello7655
@tiffanyarguello7655 3 года назад
You have such a beautiful heart; make sure to guard it... continuously. Sending a prayer up for you.
@jennyleighbeauty
@jennyleighbeauty 3 года назад
@@tiffanyarguello7655 thank you so much for that. I appreciate you. ❤🙏🏻
@breonnaw7708
@breonnaw7708 3 года назад
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@gaelebalemodiakgotla9118
@gaelebalemodiakgotla9118 3 года назад
This is exactly what I needed to come full circle 🙏🏽❤️
@user-ru6sf6qe6b
@user-ru6sf6qe6b 4 месяца назад
Nobody can hurt your heart without your permission that has happened to me too many times for trusting people I should have never trusted! Straight up!!!
@octaviawilliams3159
@octaviawilliams3159 3 года назад
I've had to disconnect from my sisters because of them taking advantage of me. I was born a giver and they knew it. The chosen one is looked at as the black sheep in the family.
@unapologeticallyme7664
@unapologeticallyme7664 3 года назад
Yes ma'am
@madelynnazario8361
@madelynnazario8361 3 года назад
I can definitely relate to your situation...its sad when your family do this.
@wooguyd139
@wooguyd139 3 года назад
I can relate
@alexisstarr7825
@alexisstarr7825 3 года назад
Can totally relate
@Winniec4047
@Winniec4047 3 года назад
The story of my life
@michaelokeke4976
@michaelokeke4976 3 года назад
Wise words brother Shelton 💪 💯 It’s like the old adage “Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me”
@sophisticatedmm3632
@sophisticatedmm3632 3 года назад
Precisely know when to bow out
@faycarterwithouttheerealta4645
@faycarterwithouttheerealta4645 3 года назад
Amen,, there's another old saying "fool me once shame on U,, fool me twice it ain't gonna happen ",, BOOM!! 💘
@karinsmith7613
@karinsmith7613 2 года назад
Big kiss for you Trent for speaking a phenomenal TRUTH! Because we love somebody for the little boy he used to be, and is not any longer. Have to be watchful! Not set ourselves up for let down.
@roseasher9487
@roseasher9487 2 года назад
Amen Trent! Over the weekend I allowed a situation that I kind of knew was going to happen but hoped then got hurt and discouraged then heard you and checked myself Trent you woke me! I'm going to guard my heart and not allow people to use me anymore I think sometimes we think because we're Christians or they're your family we have to put up with it I'm not the Lord spoke to me this morning already and then somehow I stumbled upon your video I thank God for you trying to tell me the truth 61 and finally learning and taking my life back
@tiawanawiggins
@tiawanawiggins 3 года назад
He is so correct. I’m so hurt in this moment.
@sb1234ist
@sb1234ist 3 года назад
Same here. It’s cool tho we will get pass this amen
@shonanderson8841
@shonanderson8841 3 года назад
Praying for your healing
@MoBay876rc
@MoBay876rc 3 года назад
@@sb1234ist me to but its light at the end of the tunnel 🙏🏽
@wandahollis299
@wandahollis299 3 года назад
Me too
@mikalove9987
@mikalove9987 3 года назад
Lord heal your child in Jesus name amen
@queeniequeen5455
@queeniequeen5455 3 года назад
I finally realized that if a person shows you who they are believe them
@ms.gracefullybroken8724
@ms.gracefullybroken8724 2 года назад
FACTS
@Saywhat579
@Saywhat579 2 года назад
You are right brother, don't waste your time, wasting your time trying to repair someone who's already broken.
@pamelajackson1317
@pamelajackson1317 2 года назад
Can I get a WITNESS? We always trying to change someone, we need to change self!!! Speak the truth brother!
@jenncharles619
@jenncharles619 3 года назад
"Start trusting people for -who -they -are"
@trent.prince2424
@trent.prince2424 3 года назад
I use to allow and tolerate alot but now I put my faith into the Lord and myself to be better by not putting up with nobodys bullshit.
@marisolfigueroa5905
@marisolfigueroa5905 3 года назад
I agree 100% 😊✌
@tylaminabrown3765
@tylaminabrown3765 2 года назад
Yasssss Trent this message changed my train of thought and this message helped me put a 5yr relationship which was dead by the time I seen this I was over it!! Thank u Trent!!❤️
@choosen2preach320
@choosen2preach320 Год назад
Amen thank you God told me to apologize to that person and let them go
@acaringtouch1131
@acaringtouch1131 3 года назад
Thank you for this. I try to give my all in friendships and family-ships. Someone once said stop crossing oceans for folks who would not cross a puddle for you. Love the comment "stop putting people in roles that they are not capable of filling". No truer words spoken.
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 3 года назад
@@bertiehobbs1563 Same Here I Agree as Well❤️
@arlenecollier2011
@arlenecollier2011 3 года назад
Facts! If we ignore what we continually see in others, we choose to be fools on purpose. Guard your heart at all cost!!!! Walk away if necessary.
@freyacastillo732
@freyacastillo732 3 года назад
):
@jeanmcnish9201
@jeanmcnish9201 2 года назад
Oh my Lord!!! You are so right!! It's my son and his family!!! Thank you young man!! This is so true!! Stay blessed!!!
@amandasquires3875
@amandasquires3875 4 месяца назад
You gotta meet people where they are and not where you think they can be. It's taken many years but I've come to accept this about 8 years ago. Still rings true. If they say "I'm toxic.... I'm a heart breaker... I've lost so many friends." etc.... believe them. You can still stand by them and support them to be a better person but you don't have to have them be an active participant in your life on your level when they haven't reached it yet!
@kaiakeniayubs9695
@kaiakeniayubs9695 3 года назад
We are responsible for letting people treat us that way, we already know who they are but we still expect a lot from them and give them that opportunity to run over us.
@chapter46blessed98
@chapter46blessed98 3 года назад
Message 💯 no one can hurt you twice without your permission! The realest thing yet Guard your heart and peace #Straight-up ✊🏽✊🏽❤️❤️
@TamNguyen-rx1co
@TamNguyen-rx1co 2 года назад
Maybe there is second time, because the person has learning disability
@betsymcmurray727
@betsymcmurray727 Год назад
This is spot on TRUTH!!! I have not mastered it by any means but am working on it and needed to hear this today. Will listen to again and probably again - trying to get it into my thick head! Thank you for sharing!!!!
@berlionx
@berlionx 2 года назад
Thank you! The truth in a nutshell. So seldom was a mirror held up to me so directly.
@faithstone8737
@faithstone8737 3 года назад
I always pay attention to how one treats the mom in the family. Step, adopted or blood. That's a game changer.
@larryatchley8116
@larryatchley8116 Год назад
You are so right no matter how hard you try some people will never change God is the only one that can change people heart love you Cynthia
@ilovetosingx3670
@ilovetosingx3670 Год назад
Amen 🙏 to that !! & I’m going to stop letting people hurt me & I trust my intuition & my discernment & I’m a changed chosen one woman 👩 . I’m not allowing them to hurt me anymore . I’m not the same person anymore & I transmute my enemies drama 🎭 & yes I saw people for who they are & yes I pray 🙏 for them & I hope for there change & yea I’m not who I use to be & I’m guarding my heart ♥️ & I’m protecting my peace & I’m protecting my life & I’m going to stop putting unfair unspectations on people & yes it will make my life so much better for my peace & I forgive myself & yea I’m not who I use to be . & I did stop giving them the position , I did walk away from the wrong people & God is protecting me & I’m not having the wrong people around my belongings & I love ❤️ the new an improved me & yes I grew for the better & I set healthy boundaries with myself & yes this message touched my heart ♥️ Trent . ; - Kim 👩🙏❤️😇
@tessa1212
@tessa1212 2 года назад
Thank you for making this video. I really needed to hear this. I kept setting myself up for disappointment and I just needed to let go of that title and redefine the relationship.
@mariacaballero116
@mariacaballero116 3 года назад
This message came to me in perfect time in my life. I've been so sad and heartbroken for several days. Thank you. God bless you
@marthamoreno1539
@marthamoreno1539 2 года назад
I’ve been this way lately, hope you are doing better
@henrythomas9080
@henrythomas9080 2 года назад
You RESPONDED to the right one he will help you through what ever you going through
@misslady6176
@misslady6176 3 года назад
Right allowing a person to further damage your heart after they hurt it once
@trulifetab
@trulifetab 2 года назад
Straight UP! This is powerful and I’d like to give a shout out to my best self for transforming and looking for the love of Christ before loving myself or anyone else! Thank you Trent!! 🙌🥰
@susierodriuez3087
@susierodriuez3087 2 года назад
God first from now 🙏 🙌
@TiRockstar
@TiRockstar 3 года назад
I feel this! This year has been such an eye opener for me.💔God take the wheel please. I wish I heard this years ago.
@michaelamitchell1603
@michaelamitchell1603 3 года назад
Girl me too. I wish I would’ve knew that in middle school would’ve saved me a lot of heartache & pain. 😭
@irvinjr41
@irvinjr41 3 года назад
hi ! i'm Irvin. Where are you located ?
@lori4414
@lori4414 3 года назад
Am telling u I always see these videos too late
@TiRockstar
@TiRockstar 3 года назад
@@irvinjr41 Florida
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