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Stop obsessing over our children's happiness | Abigail Shrier | The Reason Interview 

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Abigail Shrier is author of the best-selling new book Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up. She argues that the mental health of Gen Z-people born between 1997 and 2012-is a mess because an infantilizing therapeutic culture pervades every aspect of their lives.
0:00- Why do kids have no interest in growing up?
3:37- Do kids see too many doctors?
4:10- The difference between adult therapy and child therapy
7:48- How many children are in therapy?
9:32- Therapy in K-12 education
13:00- Who is Elizabeth Loftus?
16:35- Has every child been traumatized?
18:05- What is trauma?
20:33- Who is Viktor Frankl?
24:20- The redefinition of trauma
28:20- How to understand what our ancestors experienced?
30:44- Are we delaying adulthood?
32:04- What happened to after school jobs?
34:06- Is social media making kids sad?
37:02- Why do parents surrender authority to experts?
42:36- Are we done with the cult of experts?
48:38- How to be a good parent
50:16- How to fix mental health at school
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Shrier stresses that she's not against psychological counseling and help per se, but she believes too many unqualified and misguided people are causing far more problems than they solve.
Her previous book was the controversial Irreversible Damage, which looked at the rapid rise of girls identifying as transgender. We talk about the roots of today's therapeutic culture, the extent of the problems it causes, and how parents, teachers, and young people themselves might find a better way forward.

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Комментарии : 54   
@agatamars
@agatamars 22 дня назад
This woman is amazing. So much wisdom, brilliance, knowledge and common sense.
@lugnutlarry1764
@lugnutlarry1764 Месяц назад
Agree 100 percent, my kids happiness was down the list to things like health, safety, a grounded perception of life, education, and basic life skills. My Gen Z kids are both doing great. Both moved out at 18, 6 and 7 years ago.
@Sandy-of6gq
@Sandy-of6gq Месяц назад
I don't necessarily agree with everything she says and I'm not a fan of anecdotes as evidence but I think her overall argument of not being automatically fawning over therapy for everyone and everything is very valid.
@The_Infinite_Squirrel
@The_Infinite_Squirrel Месяц назад
Another great interview. I'll check out the book and discuss it with my therapist next week.
@francisjo3
@francisjo3 Месяц назад
Good one!
@MasterPuppets206
@MasterPuppets206 Месяц назад
Great conversation. As an adult, my inner child needed to hear this too.
@MollyOKami
@MollyOKami Месяц назад
I have pet mice, animals known for being "nervous wrecks," and I have some of the most bold & happy mice out there because I force them to play & explore away from the safety of their cage. By being weaned into taking chances, they've become quite bold, which gives them a feeling of power over their environment & excites them to explore even further. Granted, I still have to limit where they go to a point, but they're always excited to have a new area exposed to them or even meet new people & animals because they know that I'm keeping an eye on them but not stopping them from trying new things that may make them happy. We need to do this with kids.
@markhouseholder
@markhouseholder Месяц назад
Nick is a great interviewer….
@52Shinebox
@52Shinebox Месяц назад
Incredible job by Nick. I watched a bit of Rogan's interview with her and Nick's prep and insights offer so much more to the viewer. You can tell she enjoys it too.
@fritzpieper6098
@fritzpieper6098 Месяц назад
Best video this year!
@TWillige
@TWillige Месяц назад
It's like Carl and Darryl said about Alexandria. We're weak from lack of adversity. We've grown up in an entitled world that has made generation after generation weaker and weaker.
@juancuelloespinosa
@juancuelloespinosa Месяц назад
18:20 i've totally noticed this with baby cousins of mine
@linuxguy1199
@linuxguy1199 Месяц назад
I think the issues we're seeing today are more to do with opportunistic job security, you mess up the kids, the more therapy they'll need. Same reason dentists recommend fluoride treatments to children who have little to no dental issues, despite it being widely ineffective (due to the fluoride added into water, milk, etc) and very expensive.
@theymightbeuptown882
@theymightbeuptown882 14 дней назад
Happiness is largely an adult pursuit. Assimilation and the adoption of values are what K-12s mostly find themselves preoccupied with. It's there that they need the most support. Of course, happy parents and a mostly pleasant, nurturing home base will go a long way in forming what happiness looks like for them when they come of age.
@GettingSchwiftyy
@GettingSchwiftyy Месяц назад
I never even considered the idea that therapy might even cause a significant amount of built-in harm. But maybe I had had it, but the memory was removed. 🤔🤔🤔
@kmeisenbach1
@kmeisenbach1 Месяц назад
Great show! Thank you.
@meganwilliams4588
@meganwilliams4588 Месяц назад
My sister had memories “uncovered” from being SA’d as a child when she was 21. We know it didn’t happen due to multiple witnesses present at the time she was claiming. She is deeply hurt that none of her family believes her. We know it didn’t happen but in her mind it did. She is truly traumatized by it! She goes to a therapist every week to this very day to manage her trauma.
@hanagloriaedelblum5693
@hanagloriaedelblum5693 Месяц назад
Becoming your own loving and disciplined parent may be the hardest challenge to overcome in today's permissive world.
@IAmInterested-cc4hr
@IAmInterested-cc4hr 25 дней назад
Her book applies personal responsibility and our society prefers to see responsibility as external. If you don't like a foreign war sit down and cry to make an institution do something instead of joiningnthe foreign legion. Also, if you are medicating and applauding your child for overcoming their adhd "as well as they can" despite them being an abject failure you don't want to read something that says actually lots of people who werent diagnosed are out there with the same problems and outperforming your kid without the special treatment at school.
@killingjoke90
@killingjoke90 Месяц назад
👌
@gaystrangeraly7528
@gaystrangeraly7528 27 дней назад
You don't give insulin to non diabetics. You shouldn't give every kid therapy.
@charlesovenstone2558
@charlesovenstone2558 Месяц назад
no one can speak for an entire generation.
@JasonFrith
@JasonFrith Месяц назад
Nonsense. She is speaking to observable and measurable trends within a cohort.
@TWillige
@TWillige Месяц назад
Of course not. Every person is different in their experience, but some things are observable by anyone who is paying attention.
@micahkilpatrick9924
@micahkilpatrick9924 Месяц назад
I'm going to contrive a deep history of trauma to explain away my fat belly. It's not my strict diet of Mountain Dew and pizza that's making me fat. My body is keeping the score. Trauma.
@DannyBoy443
@DannyBoy443 Месяц назад
She isn't 100% right about the adults in therapy. Some adults need more guidance in knowing what IS and IS NOT healthy or worth even talking about or working on.
@robert5897
@robert5897 Месяц назад
May god bless Nick Gillespie!!!
@grawakendream8980
@grawakendream8980 26 дней назад
she's completely off-base in her thinking because i have a hunc that her underlying mindset is to excuse ineffective support methods which range from negligence to abuse.
@charlesovenstone2558
@charlesovenstone2558 Месяц назад
she makes some valid points but her thesis is riddled with holes/ it snot truth its like most things opinion.
@grawakendream8980
@grawakendream8980 27 дней назад
she sounds like someone out of touch with the concerns of young people of today, seeing them as threatening, and having developed an entire discourse on why their feelings & concerns don't have a lot of validity, and are contributing to the downfall of society. leans fascistic, if i didn't know better
@ChoveChuva-mn1ks
@ChoveChuva-mn1ks 21 день назад
Imagine thinking your elders who think your spoiled are fascists
@PlasmaBurns
@PlasmaBurns Месяц назад
why am I sub'd to this channel? Did you guys buy this account and change the name? All you put out is kosher propaganda. im out.
@nvytebhygtvbvtyebr
@nvytebhygtvbvtyebr Месяц назад
What?
@adalette
@adalette Месяц назад
@@nvytebhygtvbvtyebrthe interviewee is jewish and op is antisemitic
@Nemerson74
@Nemerson74 Месяц назад
What?
@hanagloriaedelblum5693
@hanagloriaedelblum5693 Месяц назад
What?
@Edit-nk6nb
@Edit-nk6nb Месяц назад
Oh jesus christ, not Abigail Shrier...! Unsubscribed for even suggesting her bile is legitimate.
@markkavanagh7377
@markkavanagh7377 Месяц назад
Book an appointment with your therapist.
@francisjo3
@francisjo3 Месяц назад
What will we ever do without you?! Please come back!! No? Guess I'll just have to cry myself to sleep.
@adalette
@adalette Месяц назад
Don’t you think someone can be wrong, even bigoted, in some areas, but still have important things to say in others? This interview isn’t even about trans issues, Shrier’s take on which I’m presuming to be the bile you’re referring to. (I’d agree, btw: Irreversible Damage was horrendous piece of moral-panic-mongering.)
@Saeronor
@Saeronor Месяц назад
@@adalette If Hitler ever said "Breathing is good", he would be killing people even today.
@xwarrior760
@xwarrior760 Месяц назад
@@adalette Probably like 80% of the subscriberbase agrees with Abigail on trans issues.
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