Stop looking outside of yourself for the answers, start looking within and you're realise a lot about yourself. Look within the very place where the questions began.
I used to have this mindset, but I grew out of it years ago. When I talk to men and they put women on a woman on a pedestal. I walk away from them. Normally because that man isn’t practicing body game, his finances aren’t stable, and his priorities aren’t in the right place yet a woman is your primary focus. I can’t support it. Great content as always Unc Rom and proud of your recovery!
Definitely was my problem. Probably let so many decent women go because they weren’t perfect and checked all of my boxes. Then when I found the one I wanted; it never worked. 🤦♂️.
Uncle Rom this is what thinking about last night when I was chilling alone. I had this deep thought about the idea of finding a "soulmate" and one thing I told myself is that it is concept that doesn't always correspond with reality. Many of us have fallen for BS when believing things that are not in tune with reality. Not to mention the amount of bad decisions one makes when we believe things that are usually outside of reality.
@@mikelowery711 I do think that there is a soulmate for anyone, but I debunk this mentality of clinging to the idea of soulmates. Reality is anyone can be your soulmate when there's real alignment, it's not just One person out there that can be your soulmate. We need to get out of the mentality of believing that your soulmate is just one person, that's an illusion.
We have a saying in Taijiquan: “ When the student is ready, the teacher will come.” I found this to be true in my dealings with women as well. Keep teaching these young guys. They desperately need you.
I got 2 girlfriends and im looking for my 3rd one I can’t get enough ion care to make it workout with any of them because ima continue to have multiple women anyways I didn’t know i had it in me but I do 💯
Me and a homeboy was just discussing this. The consensus, work from within bruh. I was like yo on the real 17-20 years of your life you had a gf and none of that shit worked out. Growth is key for self meaning your own personal goals and things will fall in alignment. And another suggestion take up some hobbies within social settings, take a trip from time to time on your own. Soak up some culture, dining and mental peace time. Life short too short to be sitting up home beating yourself up plug and playing what you could have done better. Retrospect and flex. You only get one life. Make each day count
Thank you, this is great advice. I like that your advice is practical, applicable, and realistic. This is a breath of fresh air from some of the other content I have seen on other platforms.
Thats heavy fam. A lot of times we need to be realistic but at the same time keeping a balance making sure we are not settling for any woman that comes along.
Thank for the video Uncle Rom im currently on working on my body game making huge improvements seeing my self esteem, confidence, being who I am as a man just the tip of the iceberg. Working on mindset, goals etc. once again ROM thank you for these fire 🔥 videos! I needed this as a young man 💯
I've only been with 2 women this far in my lifetime unc . I've had girls and women Literally attempt to throw themselves on me but I was either too slow to catch on or genuinely uninterested. You're Completely Correct because both women taught me Something: My 1st/bm/ex: What Not to tolerate in a woman and how to better carry myself as a Leader /Man. My 2nd/ One nighter/ Who I THOUGHT was "The One": She Taught me that Just Because a woman is Intellectually compatible,Peaceful and older doesn't mean she's Emotionally ready/Stable for a Relationship. They say "The 3rd time's a Charm" but like you said The question isn't "Is She "The One" but Rather: "Does She fit into my life naturally? " or "Does this make sense?" Even better, "Am I Ready and Deserving of a Great Woman and the Responsibility that comes with her??" I'm on a life mission to get my own shit together so what's TRULY "For Me" can come naturally when I come into Alignment. Great Observations Unc! Always Respect your Wisdom. 💯
HELLO THERE, Uncle Rom! Glad you shined a light on this. I think there’s many “ones” because we can be compatible with more than one person. Great video. Peace and blessings!
About actually finding The One... When you actually do find her, and you all like each other mutually, it's brutal when you have to fire her... The best thing is that you learn that what you want actually exists...
Great insight, this is really great to remember to stay grounded in self-truth and self-direction (mission). So even when a potential “one” comes along, I don’t get caught up in their physical and emotional appearance. Just keep building. One love.
The thing that gets me is the ONE “SOUL” MATE. Just think about it. How ironic that the ONE is in your city rather than in China somewhere making iPhones, or in an India slum? Seem similar to religions where the One always comes from the same religion or race despite billions on the planet. Either way, you statically will never find the perfect one. “Seasonal” is the best expectation, some short, some long, but i wouldnt marry because seasons change.
