That's everybody's fear. I own a software development agency, I write books and it might seem like I have smth to say, but I'm always having this fear of... like... uhm, okay, I cannot talk for hours about my business, it's boring to people, right? And I cannot repeat myself, right?.. But... a long road starts with a single step. Everything needs but a beginning. You've got a lifetime of experience behind your back, and there might be people looking for the advice you can provide. Think about WHO you can help, not WHAT you can talk about. Good luck! 👍
That's why I am so hesitant to find a job, because I really don't like having to prove myself to anyone and personally I'm more of a self led person, if in a group than I'm either the leader or we're all equal and no one is the head of the group.. but I won't be someone else's follower ever. Working on some small business ideas behind the scenes.
I was so scared to start my cooking channel (worried i looked dumb on camera and people would make fun of me because its very niched down - vegan) but it has been one of the best decisions ever. At 570 subs I already landed a brand deal which is so shocking to me lol. The unknown is scary and fearful but also the possibilities are something I CRAVE. I love seeing what can happen and what doors open when you try something new. Its addicting. And once you get the ball rolling you feel on top of the world.
Ginny Williams after a short glance at your channel I wanted to let you know I subscribed bc of seeing the playlist “dairy industry exposed” , it’s so awesome to see a like minded channel and person! What are the chances! Me and my channel are plant based so will def be watching your stuff!♥️💜 keep it up pretty lady!
Sis you gotta learn to laugh at them and keep in mind majority of the people on this platform are KIDS. Don’t let these little kids that never paid a bill in their life affect you 😂
We agree with the other comments! Your purpose and platform can be developed anywhere- video, writing, talent showcasing - just be your own biggest fan. Those who are mean may not have support or love themselves. Remember your voice and talents are the examples for the next person in your very shoes. 🙌🏾
I had interest to learn and trade the financial market because my job wasn't paying so well. My friends discouraged me. They told me that i would lose my money. What i did was to hire a regulated broker who handles all my trading activities while I pay 25% commission.
Currently, I earn not less than 27, 0 0 0 every month. My friends who discouraged me already join the trade and they are all doing well. Don't let NOBODY tell you, you would fail. There's no harm in trial.
@Mirela Rosa lol..that's what I earn only from trading. I have a full time job and from my savings from online trading, I bought a restaurant, a small restaurant though with some real estate properties. I just hope that motivates someone out there never to quit.
I’ve been an entrepreneur for 5 years and this year I’ve been getting request to speak on panels and literally turned them down when I was first approached. I said no because I didn’t trust myself and didn’t believe people really wanted to hear what I had to say. I definitely thought about the worse case scenario. That helped me calm my nerves and realize I actually know what I’m talking about. Love this Erin!!
Greetings! I bumped into your channel by way of virtual trunk tour.. I'm working on a project.. I'm impressed at how grounded you are.. that will take you far. The enemy does use FEAR to try to turn us around and the other weapon in his arsenal is DOUBT.. It has the power to get you tangled up, tied down and RUN. When I was participating in my first book fair it happened to me. First I was positioned in the wrong genre then it seemed like I wasn't getting anyone at my table... then God whispered to me.. I'm going to send you who I want you to meet and behold a woman came by, picked up my book, started reading it... She was from a bookclub. She purchased my book. God works in Great Wonders! That was 2008...I just published my 5th book last year and a completed the series, "Sleeper Awake! " Belief in God cancels out the enemies plot of Doubt. God always sends me who He wants me to meet and vice versa.. Believe All Things are Possible when you Believe! 🙏
Omg, "your life is bigger than any one experience " .. That part just slapped me across the face. I so needed this. I have my one foot in and the other out. That fear of failure is real dream stealer. This video is everything.
Also, in regards to my 'big' fear.. I think I've let the prison of previous failures and disappointments hold me hostage for much longer than was necessary and I realised I could not afford to do this any longer. I stopped myself from trying/doing anything because I allowed yesterday to feature a bit too prominently in today. I am not nearly where I want to be, but I know if I can't be faithful to myself I cannot hope to be anything else to anyone else. So I got to do this.✊
I’m late but I was/am scared to go fully into designing clothes. I’ve been watching you and a couple of other bloggers on RU-vid and today I finally applied for my llc 🥳
Word!! To be honest I was always (and still am) such a private person so I am still shocked at these two steps I made. RU-vid and starting my own business. I am still trying to figure out what snapped inside of me to step out of my comfort zone. I wouldn't say I am a fearful person but it just wasnt me...but here I am nevertheless. Thanks for the vid. It will help lots of folks.
You are so inspirational! I have watched all your videos! Having a young black female as a reference point like yourself has really motivated me to start my own channel! I hope I can be inspiring and influential as you at some (even though our content is slightly different) keep doing what you are doing! 💛
I've been scared to start my own official business, but after watching this and getting inspiration I've had the courage to register a business name! You said start somewhere and here goes 😉 Thank you Erin. Love you from Botswana (Southern Africa)💓😍
My biggest fear is of course failing but failing and having people see it/judge it. There certain things I can fail at and be fine with cause it life but it’s the judgement from people that keeps me from wanting to do certain things
the quote about failure sounded like you were talking directly to me, i failed when i studied biomedical technology and that failure redirected me to change my discipline and go into nursing and now i am doing so wonderfully well!
My biggest fear is failing. That my idea is not good enough. That people will not be as passionate about it as I am. That I will get consumed and overlooked by others in the same niche as me... whew! That was a lot and very hard to say out loud.
That first step in starting a business is so scary!! Kudos to those that are starting and pushing forward. Lean into that fear, breathe and step into action.
I have the fear of judgement. The fear of people thinking that I don't fit a certain aesthetic, which would make me look stupid. I have have several businesses that i do well in but not consistently because i am always in my own head about the content. Your videos have helped me sooooo much. Thank you once again!
My biggest fear is simply failing. I see myself at a different level but I'm in uncharted territory. I'm 27 and I have recently completely changed my plan for myself and my life. I just know that I have more to offer the world. I spend soo much time thinking of great things but I struggle to follow through because of my fear of failing and not getting any support. I just started my RU-vid channel and that in itself was a step. But even with every video I doubt myself. This was a very uplifting video. Thanx for all of the advice! I've learned soo much from your content throughout my journey to become an entrepreneur.
Girl this is such an amazing video!! I definitely needed this as I’m getting ready to launch my new author mentorship program that teaches people how to write and publish their stories of impact! Thanks for this girl!!! It really helped!
My biggest fear is my passion not being my paycheck. & by paycheck I simply mean the way of providing & fulfilling my wants and needs. So I sit on my gifts and overthink and say I'm not feeling inspired when really I just let fear derail me. This was my wakeup call. In 5,4,3,2,1, I Step Out of Fear & Into Faith.
OMG you were spot on. I just started my new business about 2 months ago & I cried for 4 or 5 days. I was so afraid to put my product out there & I felt like when I tried to explain the was that I was feeling to my husband he just didn't understand so there for I didn't feel supported. I wish u would've found your vices a lot sooner. Thank you.
Godly proud of you Cuz! Thank you for being a blessing to so many. May God continue to enlarge your territory and give you the desires of your heart. Much love!♥️♥️
I love love when Beth and Randall would do "worst case scenario" before doing something. I find so much value in that series, as much as I do your channel! Thank you ❤
My biggest fear is speaking with potential customers about my business. I'm afraid that they will ignore or make fun of me when I pitch in on my business. My anxiety goes through the roof and I talk myself out of it because I don't want to be looked as having a "little business".
Look at you now! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 That is amazing! You have to talk to those who get it and gravitate to you. You don’t have to try to impress others for something you’re passionate about because your light will shine through. When you connect with people and show them why your product is great, you will see a shift happen in your own attitude. We have been there and anxiety can be a burden if you allow it. You are above it. Walk and talk like your big business exists. Success looks different to different people. Remember you are excellent and your business has to be ran by someone! We would love to promote it.
So many people need to hear this. Overthinking is so real. Awesome job sharing how to overcome this fear, Just focus on "the next thing" and move forward.
My biggest fear is putting myself out there and getting no feedback. I want to make videos to help and encourage other young moms such as myself as well as anyone else who may be inspired by my journey. RU-vid and the internet in general has so many people discussing the same topics in their own way, and I am afraid I don’t have ‘IT’ to make people want to like and subscribe to my channel when I start. This video has allowed me to take a better look at myself and identify what’s delaying my start to something new. I will start implementing that five second rule, because my fear and my nerves... they are definitely holding me back. I even got the ‘bubble guts’ typing this comment 😂 I have been binge watching your videos since I found you, and like many others, I am grateful for you and all of the information you provide. Black and goal’d 🤞🏾 oh, and new subscriber 👋🏾
Thank you so much! I'm launching my business on May 1, 2021, and believing God to be in business as an entrepreneur over the next 2 years thus retiring from my current place of employment. Your testimony is inspiring and motivating. May God always bless you. ~ Virginia
Realistically speaking we all have fears in entrepreneurship. But since I’m in the process of manifesting I’d like to claim that “I have no fear!” :) I have no fear! I will keep going no matter what. I will be successful and I will make a difference! Amen ❤️
OMG I am crying because of appreciation for your advices that I needed to hear so much but more because your energy it's so supportive and uplifting and heartwarming. Thank you.
I’m scared that no one will buy my products.... but I’m starting to learn that if one person even if it’s my mama, buys a product then I’m happy. I’m tried of letting fear hold me back!
Awesome thanks nice informative video, my biggest fear is not having a partner in life. A partner to build something great as one kinda like in a form of family. A female that we can support each other dreams and motivation. I strongly believe if a person is an entrepreneur their better half must hold the same beliefs. Having balance at home is very important when maintaining business and responsibilities. Erin I wish you the best your time is well appreciated.
biggest fear is beginning AGAIN. And the inability to recognize when I'm burning out. These rules helped me make sense of how to move forward! I have hope and action steps now. Thank you Erin.
You know your value. Don’t allow fear to stop you from doing what’s necessary. Your clients will see the value in you if you see the value in yourself. You got this sis!
I love this video! I am eight months in and still learning and growing. I still face fear and this week has been a struggle with focus but I know that it's only temporary and will try these tips! Especially that countdown!
Shantel Chambers it is only temporary! We loved these tips too as a great reminder. We have to remain empowered through our experiences. Especially as women! - Shanetta
This was perfect for me today Erin. My fear/reservation is that I'm always wondering do I have enough to do this? Like am I going to get questioned about (well how do you know?) What makes you an expert. My EXPERIENCE, that's what. its interesting that I say this because I have been the same in my career as well, and I have learned that the hard way. Man, its like I needed to say it out loud to get it. Saying that fear is natural is real, but so is pushing through that thing good get to your greatness. Thanks E!
Erin, thank you so much for these videos and your support! My family doesn't support me so, it's nice to have you in my corner. You are helping and changing so many lives! ❤️
Hi Erin love your content im a marketing student and love how you teach people about enterpreneurship in an easy going and simple mode and i would love that you do longer form content maybe even a podcast (please do a podcast) for people like me that prefer longer form content that we can hear trough the day
Hey! I needed this! My biggest fear is failing, and just doing something different that’s not apart of my regular life. Starting a business is a change, I’m afraid of change, I don’t like it but I want to start a business. You have some great techniques that I’ve used to help me get through for years! Thank you!
Ok sooooot I loveeeee about your videos is how calm you are and I need that so bad. So many videos with people yelling about how they get up at 3, reading and turning on the treadmill for two hours straight and I'm like I'm not doing none of that! Again you do a phenomenal job!
My business is just getting off the ground with an LLC and my biggest fear is is just putting myself out there and being pregnant right now. But I've gotten this far 20 weeks now but trying to talk to people about my community and bettering it and have people listen to me I feel is a even bigger fear in itself.
*I was about to go to bed and then I got the notification! This is so timely! Thank you for making this video just for me. I'm still learning how to courageously take new grounds in spite of the fear. Loads of love from a Nigerian RU-vidr ❣️*
I had such a ruff week at work and getting things done to launch my business. So i got in my car and searched for this topic. I cried on my way to the craft store and listened to what you had to share. I'm not giving up today. So I'll go home, refresh and work on my project. Thank you sooo much for the pep talk!!!
My biggest fear is that what I create is not going to be good enough. For who? I don't know, I just know I worry too much about the wrong things at the wrong times. Keep up the great work, Love your content!
This was suuuuuuch a good video! Thank you so much!! I’m not an entrepreneur but I do have a passion project I’m working on on the side and I can definitely see these tips helping me to go ahead and finish the project. Thank you so much!! Biggest fear is after putting so much time, energy, effort, money, and other people’s talents and resources into the project, no one responds to it. Maybe a couple friends out of pity, but that it has no lasting effect. One thing you said in the video is already helping my mindset though. What’s the worst that can happen? That people only respond out of pity and the project has no lasting effect. But also, I know from a past “failure”, I was redirected to doing this project. So now I’m thinking in terms of.. if my biggest fear does come true, this could just redirect me to what’s after it.
This is so incredible you shared this because rejecting in a major fear people have. No one wants to be rejected, but that’s how you find your true trip and audience! No one wants to lose money either so learn as much as you can! We edit our videos, audio, travel and do as much as possible on our own. It’s best that way for people to know your true passion, product and content. Then before you know it, you’re spending here and there plus catering to the people who are showing up. We’ve been in that space but the reward of our passion projects and main projects have afforded us happiness in what we do. That’s above money! Your time should equal happiness and once you’re out of that fear comfort zone, you will be right on the other side with income and happiness from that. 🙌🏾
Hey Erin my biggest fear is lack of action. I want my mom and 2 sisters to get into a business together because i feel we will all have our best interest at heart to build family wealth, but I get discouraged because ideas flow from the mouth but no action is taken and i dont want to regret getting into business with family and it being more of a burden than a success. Love your Channel thank you for the shared gemz!!!!
Kelsey Medley Wow! We just had to stop and tell you that you have a very sweet heart and considering the wealth and success of your family plus the next generation is amazing of you. Never let anyone change you from being that kind and considerate. Secondly, we have been where you are and still have dreams for relatives. We had to sit back and be honest about their work ethic. You’ll see that there will be some you can’t work with a few that you can. Ultimately you have to know your limits, theirs, and set concrete business roles AND expectations with them. Keep working on you because we’ve been there and most times, it will always be you who will actually have to be the first willing person to set the example for them to follow. They may have fears too.
my biggest fear is hiring/delegating tasks in the long-run (i've been in business for 1 year) but i believe its time to outsource tasks so i can focus on running things outside the business and not inside the business 🙏🏽
Thank you, Erin! I am so glad that I ran into your video. I am nervous, scared... all that. I think being on social media for me is intimidating especially when you have good ideas that you want to share but you’re not sure if people are going to react well to them. Like you know they’re good ideas but you’re still learning and growing and what if people are impatient and they don’t want to see someone who doesn’t know what they’re doing. I’m at that point right now. So I did start just doing it. I started that and I’m still nervous but one thing I am learning to do is when I don’t know something or understand, I research it. I think that’s what’s holding me back but... I will definitely take note of everything you said and push through ❤️
in the beginning of my business i wasn't afraid at all it's all excitement but now since i took long i saw professional people better than me, i felt so scared and disappointed of myself and i felt like i don't know enough and i took a break bc i'm afraid i disappoint my clinets with the service i give
Thank you so much Babygirl!!! I'm 51 and I've had a few small businesses that were good but I had to stop due to medical reasons. Now, I am the manager, marketer, book keeper, literally everything for my husband and two sons new small business that doesn't require physical labor and I'm terrified that I wont get any customers for them. I've been busting my butt online on Facebook, getting flyers, word or mouth and cold calls. It's pressure washing and painting so it's a competitive market. We live on my $759 a month disability and their side jobs and we're barely getting by so we decided to start a legit business. Oldest son got the LLC and insurance but we're so tapped dry that we're working with minimal equipment and little experience. But we're still pushing ahead. I had an investor that was supposed to help with a small $1000 loan that would really get us going better but haven't heard from him again so now my fear is rising and my anxiety that we're not going to make it is sky rocketing. Landlady's raising our rent again in January and we can't find anywhere else to live for $500 a month but that's gonna hurt us on our other bills. We literally pay rent, phone, car insurance, electric, and water. That's it and we're struggling. Don't eat out, don't buy or do anything, don't even have a cell phone. I'm so scared we're gonna end up on the streets if this don't work. I feel like it's all on my shoulders to market our business and find customers. The guys work hard and they work good, I don't want to let them down. Thank you for helping me lift up a little better. *hugs*
This is a great video. As someone who has experienced real highs and lows on my entrepreneurial journey (created Crowdcube's most share startup which had to close due to the unexpected death of my business partner), overcoming the fear is one of the biggest ways to meet triumph and disaster and treat those two impostors just the same. Thanks again for making this Erin.
Because of this Video i'm now watching all your RU-vid Videos. so far i'm on video number 67. as of now i see you have around 123 videos.so Godwilling by tonight i will finish all of them.you have exactly the right information i was searching for.Thank you Erin
This helped me out so much . In February I got called a scammer when I didn’t recieve products that I paid for in China due to corona virus and people tarnished my buissnes name and it hurt me because I wasn’t financially stable to immediately get refunds and I was communicating with the people who ordered for me never blocked or hid I just didn’t know what was going on and neither did my vendors at the time. So I’ve tried staying positive and but more lashes but my promo sucks and I just feel like I need to start over 100% because that name I had is tarnished on fb and I hate that people in my own city would even think I would do something like that but you give me hope with your words I really needed this. God is speaking through you to me this very moment and I appreciate it more than you know 🦋
My biggest fear is not knowing everything and not being one of the best in a new arena. My brain is always Trying to protect me and I’m always rationalizing why it’s a good idea not to follow my heart.
I have a constant "impostor syndrome" about my business ideas :( I keep thinking I might not be good enough to pursue them. My friends and family are constantly saying: Are you sure you know what you are doing? You've never had any experience doing that. So I always give up on it :(
Sometimes ain’t no Plan B. I’m from Detroit I live out-of-state. Support can enable you or inhibit your growth. Living out-of-State I had to learn that nobody cares. I’m glad I was able to see people true colors
Definitely nervous putting myself out there bc of fear of what others think but life is short and my time is precious. So I relaunched my channel and have been consistent. Thank you for your videos :)
Fear is definitely holding me back and I care waaay too much about what the people around me are thinking or may think when I start. I don't like the space that I am in mentally. I want to just START!
Never feel like you don’t know enough. A lot of people walk on eggshells scared to do something because they are unaccomplished, not wealthy, or whatever reason. I don’t have that problem. I don’t care about looking crazy, sounding crazy, or not doing everything right when starting out. Some people I went to law school with scared to start their own law firm because they are scared they can’t run a law firm and don’t want to make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. You will make mistakes. Humans make mistakes. If you not making mistakes- check your pulse. All that matters is you learn from mistakes and have a willingness to fill in the gaps in your knowledge. You’ll never be 100% ready for anything. After studying for hours, I never felt fully prepared for many exams in law school. Sometimes you gotta go fully prepared or not. I think one of my biggest fears is set backs. I’ve had so many setbacks when I made an attempt. So I feel like tryin again it’ll be another setback. However, I’m learning to continue to grind during hard times because there will always be something! If you stop, you’ll never get there. Push through the pain.
This was a blessing to watch thank you Erin💜 My go to reminder is a verse Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
My biggest fear is starting a business that I have passion for but people are so much into it that got me thinking “if I will make it” I feel really scared😫
I'm scared of looking stupid. I am taking my first class in Entrepreneurship and I will be creating my own business, but even in telling the class what my ideas are, I'm scared of looking stupid if I don't follow through, if it fails, and even just if the idea doesn't resonate with them.
Something I started doing this year when confronted with fear, is saying to myself: "Imagine what great things are on the other side of this fear". This is helping me a lot cause in the past I would let fear cripple me and keep me from making business moves that I would've been benefiting from by now
What is my fear??? I don't have enough confidence in myself. My writing skills aren't great or how much is this going to cost. On the other hand, what do I have to loose? I have a great ideal I just need to push myself more 🙏🏾
We’ve been there with the confidence thing. It’s crazy how it can kind of paralyze you. And when you have ideas and a lack in writing, get together with someone who you can give your writings/typed samples to and get their feedback. Great things to note would be the content - the purpose. Who are your writing it for? What should the tone be? What is the end goal of the writing? And so forth. Keep that passion going and groom your grammar skills. We love to use Grammarly. Keep those ideas flowing Kim! Don’t allow fear to stop you. You are above it! 🙏🏾
Love you gurl!!! My biggest fear..... not having an audience that will support my channel as an older woman!! I'm young at heart and full of life. hint hint over 55 . I believe that I am at the half-time of my journey. And, the best is yet to come!!!! xo
Sis I’m so dam scared to start my business I found your video when I searched business owner anxiety 😥 and now I feel a bit better watching this. I will look into E Brand!
I have been working on my Business and my Personal brand and I can admit that the fear of failing is my biggest fear. This video like all the others I watched was very helpful.
I'm a late bloomer and fear is the culprit. I don't regret my journey to where I am today, but if I didn't allow fear to get in the way, I would've been further along. BUT my journey created my network for women who are just like me! It's never too late to conquer fear! Thanks again Erin for ALWAYS droppin' gems! Get your generation on the right track. :-)
I make a to do list BUT my first 3-5 I aim to get done if not 4-5 I pick up on my list where I left off. I guess I do that because it’s the way I do my leadership courses for middle/high schoolers. What we don’t finish we pick up on the next day. If nothing else I make sure some form of daily list/ reminders are done before I go to bed 😃
Starting a business is not the hard part. The hard part is gaining support. I suffer from a mental illness. Schizophrenia and depression. Starting a business have been a strong desire for me. I'm an introvert and sometimes I don't know what I need to do to improve my products. I could come up with a name for my business and make labels for my products but my products just sit here because I have no support and don't know how to fully put myself out there. I wish that I had a little guidance and people in my corner and it's very frustrating. I continue to pray because I'm also in my wilderness and isolation.
Omg god sent you straight to me this morning, i have been going back forth with fear all weak because I had a couple of fears but you checked every thing that was on that list with that being said my biggest fear right now WAS starting a RU-vid channel
Yaaasss! Thank you for sharing girl. I definitely needed the affirmation. Thank you especially for the permission to think of the worst case scenario and having a plan in case it happens. Ain't nobody got time to be out here pretending like things don't flop sometimes despite all the " positive thinking " we may do 😅
