If you don't know what it's like to go through something similar you'll assume she talks about because she misses him. This is part of her healing. I went through an almost similar experience and all I wanted to do was talk about it, it was a part of my healing. I had to allow myself go through it, feel every emotion, every chest pain, vent about it to people I trusted, their responses gave me comfort. Now I'm okay I barely even talk about what happened let alone mention his name.
Hi Ninja. You are not going to believe this. I stay in Swakopmund Namibia and i was listening to this(without earphones 🎧 ) whilst taking a walk. 1 old lady passed me and i tried to keep up with her because i normally walk slowly, i dont have a big pace. So i guess she was also listening 👂 now. All the way until the video ended. Then she stopped and asked me, what was that story you were listening to, i then told her its one girl who is a RU-vidr and she is going through a divorce. Oohh u should have seen the hurt on her face. She was like mmhh ive been listening, she is going through a lot but God is going to bless so much. And she took you name and said she is going to subscribe. Its only that she didnt have her phone with. You are touching a lot of hearts Ninja.
I was trying for 2 years , in those two years we had 2 miscarriages. Then there were people telling me that I won’t fall pregnant easily cause my period pains are massive. 2years later I’m a mom to a baby boy. God’s timing and God’s plan sthandwa sam.
Ninja u are not barren God did not let you have a bby with Mr B because he knew your future was bigger and brighter. Mr B was just for you to become stronger and wiser for your future hubby. God saved you shibubu!Amen
I love the way you unconditionally loved your husband. That kind of love is rare. I pray that God send someone who can love you with the same energy 🙏💕
This guy was low-key resentful and hating on you, because of his own insecurities, he is still very upset that you got away, he was not done hurting you. Hence the dragging of the divorce.
It can never be said you didn’t try Owamie .. you loved that man with every fibre of your being and did so proudly and unapologetically . And I knw someone somewhere will come along and wipe your tears and appreciate the wonderful woman you are . 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Lalela mtase,, umgosi wama celeb sowubamba ngamanqampunqampu emzini yabantu but la ekhaya sicela the unfiltered stories that hasn't been told by anyone b4 plus we are learning life lessons from these stories.
I don't even want to lie and say I'm here for learning anything...I'm here to listen to izindaba wethu...healing looks different for all of us ...do you Owamie 💕
Plot twist: Owamie gets a new boyfriend and she actually gets pregnant but the ex still struggles to get kids meaning he IS the problem. That’s the best karma 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Even God is in support of divorcing a husband who cheats. I don't know why people will wanna make anyone feel bad for leaving or label you as weak for not trying to fix it.
So many women are struggling with fibroids, endometriosis and Pcos. Please ladies make sure you go to the gynaecologist if you suspect something is wrong.
They honestly tell all their business, even before they cheat they use their wife’s “inabilities” against her by spreading gossip, family members / side chicks …it doesn’t matter …a man who cheats is not loyal and can’t protect his wife.
husbands are so quick to blame the wife for not having a child before consulting the doctors, so sad that even your mother in law was quick to blame you Ninja
Every woman he cheated with. Actually fell for you not him. He was able to fund them with your money. You kept him afloat and he got big headed. I was in the same situation and I have pcos. Moghel fell pregnant and she thought she won. When I left the funds left. Lord if you can see her now. Ke sono.
@@sabamakedah7910 sometimes God and our ancestors block us from having children with men like this. See your gynae change diet exercise phuza amanzi enjoy your life just be happy. The rest is in God's hands
... At that timey friend's girlfriend acted bitter on my about her boyfriend 😂 married as I am, I managed to calm her doen instead of acting like all unmarrieds that claim that all married women are bitter 😷 Anyhoo... Rest Portia Phiri - Rest 😁
Not Owamie disturbing my movie time, now I have to pause my movie and watch this bcos i won't be able to focus on the movie knowing Owamie has a video on😂
The Bible directly tells us that no matter what our plans, the Lord's plan is what will come to fruition. I guess God knew that you will divorce and He didn't want you to have a child with Mr B.. Stay blessed ninja😘
The same Bible in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 👇👇 "To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife."
@@bongiwemashiyane5056 it also teaches us to forgive one another. The man was remorseful and confessed and accepted his mistakes. Forgiveness simply means trying to stay positive and not allowing the offender's actions to bring you down. It i's a process. ... It's okay to take time to forgive a person after a divorce. Forgiveness is based on your attitude, not on the actions of others.
It takes “ balls of steel “ to be so candid and authentic. You know it’s of outmost importance To be real as people, these are real loves, real people with real challenges. God bless you Owami
Mr B was a wolf in sheep skin. A whole enemy masquerading as a friend. I don't know how you continued loving that man despite his numerous betrayals 😤😖
Mr B is just TOXIC. Pity there are so many more ladies lined up to catch such a man just to have a man. So sad indaba yabafazi This is 1 of the reasons why i respect Owami for leaving this man. He was gonna even discuss your short comings and how you dont satisfy him to his side dishes. Next thing u wud find yourself getting disrespectful calls from them
first of all, you look all sorts of amazing 🥰🥰🥰. Secondly, I will never ever miss a story time from you. You are such a great storyteller. Thirdly, God's timing is and will forever be perfect. Lastly, may the good Lord continue blessing you, adeke itafula in front of your enemies. You are loved ❤❤❤
Do men ever understand that playing with our heart , love and emotions is a serious harm to our bodies to the point that that this should be considered a serious crime because do they understand that doing such can cause you to even die because of the trauma and the hurt, to them it just a game 😩😩Tjoohhh Amadoda ayingozi worse than a poison snake I tell you 😩
Men will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. What you allow continues. So dont point fingers, do whats best for you. Its your life anyway!
Owami, Owami my dear, you can feed your dog the best food because it’s in its nature to feed from rubbish bins, you can’t stop it from toppling bins in the neighborhood. You did your best. I’ve said it before, Mr Bin (pun intended 😂), is already suffering. Very soon you’ll get the news that he walks next to his shoes. Love 💕 and light 💡 to you on your beautiful healing journey.
You have gone through it I am am learning alot. But I remember you where a little hard on Lerato one time. It also teaches us to be humble and good with one another. We honestly don't know what people are going through. I am learning alot from your story lines. And you are very brave. Wishing you well sweetheart
I always say women who do not know the pain of wanting and trying for a child are blessed, that pain cuts deep coz you get to a point of not even knowing who you are but ke we hold on... Hang in Ninja 🤗
There's something us African People are ignorant of. And that is knowing that God gives children. Many times other couples are fertile but seize to carry pregnancy. Prayer and humility to God brings blessings. Your husband though, he was pressured by his family and ended up thinking about it a lot. And also, knows our hearts, He knew that man was playing his games and that your marriage wasn't meant to be. I believe that, the day a good man comes your way and love God and you, you will dfntly hold your Bundles of joy. Don't give up keep praying. Gynaecologist will only take your money. I come in peace from Cape Town ❤
This is so true. I can attest to this, only God can release such a blessing in your life in His perfect time. ❤ I've been in serious long term relationships before and I was never able to get pregnant because these people and relationships were not good for me but at the time I didn't understand, I thought something was wrong with me because one of the ex's had a child but when I got into a relationship with my current partner, it was completely different, he's perfect for me and we were able to fall pregnant. ❤ This tells me that God was actually protecting me.
Ok ninja, I am by now going to ask you to do one of the stories while doing your make up hle. Always, always on point and you know your skin tone so well ✌♥️👌🥰
I know exactly what you are talking about. My ex and I tried to conceive for over 5 years and it never happened. He had a child from a previous relationship and I did not have so basically I was the "problem" I was even told that "isibongo siyaphela" because he was the only son kubo and he had a girl child from a previous relationship, so I was supposed to bear him son's so to grow his surname. I did every fertility test, took medications but he failed to do his semen count, and I took all that blame until we broke up, but because God is God...........hmmmm.😊😊
Girl, be grateful you didn't fall pregnant with this guy, as bad as it might sound, be thankful to fibroid for that period of trying. God will definitely give you kids, when you meet someone who's worth having kids with.
Thanx young cc for sharing, what you went through is the very same shit i went through, i think God is using you to show me that its not me alone who went through what i went through....i must stop feeling sorry for my self and moveforwad....
What! He was going to get her to come to your house?! That's disrespectful on a whole other level. Cheating is not 1 lie. It's multiple lies to cover your tracks. It's a whole betrayal 🤧. I don't think I'm built to handle such betrayal 😪
Hi Owamie, have you tried checking Narcissistic Personality Disorder. These people are so hard to leave with, manipulative, deceit, cheating, greedy etc. Very difficult and dangerous at the same time
I cannot imagine of what you must be going through and I love that you're sharing about it so it can leave your body and soul, for some kind of healing. You'll do just fine without him. ✨✨✨✨✨💕🙏
this is really deep, I can relate to this subject, my ex did exactly the same thing to me, the worse thing of having an ex is the day when you break up he knows all your secrets, I really hate that there's someone out there I use to know, who knows so much about my life, I can remember he use to threatened me if I don't agree to give in to his demands about money or giving him my car he would expose things to my family about me, bear in mind I use to keep things a secret to protect my family and don't want to worry them with my issues, I also went through health issues and decided i'm gonna keep it to myself and not worry my family by telling them, I was living in a different country I knew they would worry, so the minute we separated Ex went and told his whole family and everyone who he knows knew me all my secrets, and his side chick as well.
Im so sorry. Dont let it get you down or stress you out that it affects your health. God protects and defends those who cannot defend themselves. All of the bad happening to you will work itself out for the better, and you will be amazed at it in the end. Keep it moving sisi. Good things are on their way.
Sending love ninja ♥️ pls be careful of these helpers in future pls I'm here asking myself how on earth was that woman so comfortable talking abt you to your helper 🤔 n ur helper comes back to spill the beans to you🤔 I had a helper who wld tell my husband everything that happened when he was not around...N the worse part was when I found out she told my hubby to leave me she has a beautiful daughter he can take her🤦♀️
Why was the helper so comfortable talking to your husband like that. He does not have boundaries himself, most houses no matter how nice the husband is, the helper cannot be there telling stories to him about anything. If he had put her down the first time, she would have never tried it again.
I'm glad you're making these videos because there are always these evil spawns in the comment that are like you didn't fight enough for your marriage when they don't know what they're talking about
My sister how i so wish u become a marriage counselor because u have been through a lot in yo marriage. M so grateful that u r nw speaking abt yo difficult part u went through,what i know is that in God there's no burren instead u r a blessing n encouraging people who went through like u. Accepting the gift that God gave it to u n never blame God either yoself,ngithi loku okuhle okwenzayo kusho ukuthi unezingane eziningi n ubusisekile kanti baningi obasizayo ngesimo ondlule kuso. Lots of blessings are still coming to u 🙏🙏🙏
I won't lie, I'm not someone that follows entertainment/ news channels (intentionally so). But I've always known Owamis channel I just never watched but watching her carry on and push through everything and be so honest about everything is inspiring. We deal with things, we go through things and we carry so much shame but uThixo carries us through.
Can we please get a behind the scenes Owami Your game has changed sis and the investment will pay off. Not a youtuber but I am just intrested in seeing that part
