These days, a wolf comes dressed in Gucci and drives expensive German cars to sell themselves to be trustworthy when in fact, they're predators. Be careful sisters.
Ditto. That's the sad truth cause women often judge a man by the brands he wears and car he drives and assume the man is a decent and well off "potential". Ku rough
True..why do you have to prove something? Us women have a gut feeling or an intuition, its always right, we just need to pay more attetion to it. We know when something does not feel right or when things dont add up.
Girl!!!! This guy use to send me locations even but when he asked me to register his business because he didn't have an ID I was like NEVER! And then it was R3000 loan my mind said RUN!
🚩 Over explains his business interactions/aspirations 🚩 Insists on you coming over soon after you meet him 🚩 Shows off unnecessarily 🚩 Speaks about large figures often 🚩 Love bombs from the get go 🚩 Asks for financial favors very early on 🚩 Doesn't tell you about himself, focuses on you mostly
@@chabalichabali8714 I don't think you understand what this lady is saying... we have choices nobody said anything about "have to" etc she simply said it's a choice and if that's what she wants/chooses so be it! Who said she doesn't have... means haysuka man
Ladies and gents let's open our eyes and ears and address any red flags, even the ones we think are small. I was told that a man who truly cares about you would never ask you for money, they would rather get it elsewhere than put you in that position.. in my opinion relationships are more than just nice cars, houses and big bank accounts..
Becareful of any man with money foreigners or not. Yes alot of them obtain it from dodgy means but don't overlook your local men, guy probably comes from long standing gintsa family. Shuu it's wild out there, if your man cannot explain how he gets his money run.
Apparently South African women are desperate, hence being targeted by Non SA and SA men, sad though. Guys money should not be borrowed. Pleae be careful.
@@sithatshabangu1390 True. Is that how they call it "Love scam". God you have to come now, things are out of control 😢🤞. And sometimes apparently they can be taking videos while you busy in bed and when you want to be stubborn they threaten you about it, imagine appearing on porn movies guys, life has become so scary in mojoloville nowadays days. Women need to be careful really.
Thank you for opening our eyes sister, I always suspect this Nigerian guys spending lots of cash on this slay queens... I'd be like 'no one can spend his hard earned cash so recklessly!
I almost got scammed in a similar way. I also drive an SUV. A week in, the Congolese man asked me to take up a phone contract (iPhone) in my name and he will give me monthly repayments. I refused, literally said no. A week later he asked for R150k to give some official as kickback for his minerals to be certified. I still refused to help him. 2 days later he said a 'friend' in Mpumalanga will borrow him the money but he needs petrol money to drive there...R1500. That's when I knew I had to run for my life. Lol oh the only thing he managed to get from me is R30 mtn airtime🤣🤣
I almost got scammed R2000 by the so called ancestors, I told them I don't have money and I was told to go and borrow and I emmediately blocked the guy
Thank you for this Owamie, I nearly got scammed also 8 months ago by "my boyfriend " ,we had been dating for 6 months and the guy is a divorced south African living alone in a big suburban house and I had visited him several times everything was going smooth.....🤔 until he started telling me that he needs a new car as his old one "needs attention " he was busy telling me that he doesn't want to go to the bank as his ex wife was threatening to contest the divorce so he didn't want to lose the car so now he wanted me to go get the loan and said he was gonna pay it back I was like 😒....but I played along telling him that bcz I have an existing loan I'm not able to get the 85k he wanted then the guy started being so stressed and not calling anymore he only checks my posts and sometimes tells me that he misses me..lol .....it was nice being with him but imali I'm sorry mtase angdlali kanjalo.
Name him😂😂😂 could be my ex husband. He drove cars he couldn’t afford and never lasted even for 6 months with each car in the past 2 years . He had been swindling women 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow!!! Owami eye opener...Thanks girl My colleagues sent me yr video when I told her about my so loving guy who wanted my to make a plan help him some cash you are a star.
Welcome to Gauteng Maboneng.Finding love in Gauteng is such a struggle because it’s a did eat dog world. Be glad it’s only R2000, I was scammed Ninja. This guys go to an extent of marrying you, make you sell your house and run away with your money. Keep spreading the awareness because these people work as a syndicate
Thanks Owami, this is something women we need to be careful about , these scammers know how to play with our feelings then they swipe our bank accounts
I have been with my man for over 5 years but I have never even borrowed him money,even when he says “Ow I need money iam so stressed bla bla bla” I always just ask “shame so what you gna do”I don’t trust men at all 😂😂😂iam so glad you came back to your senses
Are you sure we’re not sisters? 😂🤣😂🤞🏾 mina the minute a guy says “Can I?” Already I dont have, even if he knows my pay day lol. I dont have it! Yhoooo abafana guys👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 the guts though?!
I'm 25 and I'm not looking for a broke partner also, yes I can afford to take care of myself and I'm also expecting my partner to be able to take care of themself. So I don't blame you.
Owami my Ninja, thank you for creating awareness. Not to name anyone but ladies around Midrand - Carlswald, Kyalami, Crowthorne, Waterfall and the likes areas, please be careful of a Congolese guy. Tall dark, handsome, charming. He creates different versions of stories “minerals being held at the border” his cellphone number ends with 8443. Unfortunately we can use people’s names. A lot of women around midrand are victims of this scammer. There are different versions of his story. PLEASE PLEASE, be careful ninjas ❤️
This guy from Congo scammed my cousin, they got married at home affairs, and then the guy 'died', and when my cousin wanted to go to the funeral, some one from his 'family ' called her and told her she must not come and if she dared to she would be killed. After the 'funeral ' they came and took everything claiming it was his. Cut long story short, a year later, my cousin saw her 'dead' husband at the mall minding his own business and when she confronted him, he denied knowing her, and and his 'name'. The trauma she's in up to this day
It's funny how a "businessman" doesn't have simple 2k. If he really had a business why couldn't his business associates assist him and surely he supposed to have a good credit record he could've made a loan himself. And he could've asked those people who is selling to to give him deposit so he can get their products. 🤔
As a congolese myself firstly I'd like to appologize for that experience you had owamie. I swear we're decent human beings,I dont know what the hell that guy had going on! Congolese or not, have zero tolerance for scammers. Love your content btw
@@minniekay240 exactly , that should be pinned to persons character and not origin. no matter the origin it should not be tolerated. This time it just happened to be congolese, tomorrow might be 1 from egypt , the next might even be your own neighbour can do you wrong.
@@bathabilebovungana4445 what God damn thats crazy, never heard of him but I'll look into it. Look im not justifying anyones actions, all im saying is anyone can literally do this. Being congoleses myself I do know lots of decent ones most are. I guess its a one rotten tomatos spoils the rest kinda situation. Lets be safe out there and use discernement
Thanks Owamie for sharing this❤️. My sister got scammed 300k by a foreign man in 2019. Never asked which African country was he from. Also in some shady businesses, very sweet, always there for my sister, loves God, etc. My sister was a permanent nurse at a government hospital. Dude got her to resign and took every sent of her pension money. My sister almost committed suicide. These scammers targets vulnerable women and in most cases they don't just approach you on the get go as in like the first time they see you. My sister was in a terrible period of her life. I believe they studied her for some time before putting their plan in motion. When she went to the police around that time there had been number of people reporting similar incidents. This happened in Free State. Sisters we have to be very careful about men we meet.
They take advantage of your kindness by giving you so much attention and affection. They know that we want men who will love us. South African guys also do the same. Let's becareful out there. ❤
One thing about Owamie. She's a good story teller. I just wanted to watch the 1st 5 minutes but I'm still here neglecting my work because wow! Girl can tell a story
My first question to him after he asks for money IS "don't you have friends? " why ask for money from someone you have just met. That's the FIRST red flag. And photos and videos mean nothing... Shuuuu men will humble you!
Exactly, an honest man will try everything to make sure a woman he just met doesn't know if he is in such a pickle.. The fact that he had guts to ask a "stranger" for all this money is weird....where are all his friends and business associates.. Mxm nonsense
@Valerie K my thoughts exactly. It’s always the first thing I think. Then it adds up that’s why they don’t have friends because they ask money from people!!! Nothings irks me like a grown man who can’t sustain themselves or solve their own problems without involving a “love interest”. I lose interest same time.
He never went to congo. He had videos in his fone. He lied abt minerals, he lied abt everything. Men use love to get whatever they want cz they know tht women are hungry for love.
Can we see the face please. There's 2 who tried that on me and cos I'm not too trusting I don't loan men money, broke men pretend to be loving and having businesses, before u know it they come up with stories. Thanx Owamie for warning other women.
They also do the same thing even here in Europe, not all of them, I dont want to generalize, but the majority do this. I have ladies I know who have fallen prey to these scammers. You always working most of the time, this guy will be the nice guy who"ll do all the household chores, cook do everything. Meanwhile, he'll be milking you. Open your eyes ladies. You cant work your **s off for a scammer from that region to loot your money. No no. Thanks Ninja for this ❤❤
Nna my name is "i dont have".. Even if he wants coins i never even check my bag i just say"i don't have " and it would be him to remind me that but i gave you coins at the parking or toll gate. 🤣🤣
They are definitely a syndicate. he probably went to the garage with the sole purpose of picking up a woman and scamming them. They are called love scams and are well thought out.
Apart from this obvious scammer, I’ve never understood why these guys always have this heavy approach when they’re trying to get you interested in them. They exaggerate how much money they have, there’s always a “business” that they have or they claim they’re building houses. Yet umuntu has nothing to their name, one I met had 6 phones and 3 laptops when I asked why kuthwa “ you obviously don’t understand business” 🤣😩😂 that was my cue to exit the entire situation so 🤮
@@lindiwemailula9930 definitely, make it worse he didn’t want me to see his surname on his doorbell. He met me outside when I was leaving I was like “oh what’s your surname?” This fool actually put his hand over names so I couldn’t see. Moral of the story be careful especially with west African men who are boastful
I saw your video a few days ago and I thought, "no ways my Congolese guy would never". Guess what, he did😭😭😭. It was something small but it made a huge difference and his attitude towards it just ended it for me. He has this mind control thing going on. Like everything he says, you must agree with. I don't know how I didn't realize this sooner. His eyes were so enchanting almost like I was under a speel. I swear that guy uses something 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞
You are so right ninja men are lazy this days and we pick that up with this question they ask this days '' what do u do for a living'' nna I breathe for a living men are out there falling inlove with girls because of their carreers and bank balances even South African men.... U did good my ninja for fighting for ur 2K
This video is going to have more views as scammers will come here in a huge number and see how you ruining their evil way😜. Foreigners are dangerous especially those who are from West Africa. I can't mention them. Bo Mr "I like your nyash" Becareful, be warned. Danger, Gevaarlik, Ingozi, Kotsi.
Your lucky because you survived the brainwash part of it because you would have given your money easily and effortlessly you must thank the almighty God Yong pas op girl these people are dangerous 😳👍
You’re so right 🤞yhoooooo she’s lucky indeed! The brainwashing part is real and people always think a person is a fool and unbelievable until it happens to them 😭🤣
My dearest sister, rule number 1 background check. Number 2 have the vehicle license plate number checked, contact the Property Record’s Office, in California it’s the County Clerk’s Office to verify property ownership (NEVER GIVE A MAN MONEY except your husband) and make sure his so called sister is not his WIFE!. The games people play are real and damaging.
I met another Congolese also,he told me that he is staying at Brooklyn Congolese embassy,he is expecting millions from home ,so he wants me to keep those millions ,we will buy farms and properties , currently since it is his last month on that guest house he wants me to organise a big house to accommodate him and his cousin 😂😂😊I said no I scared of millions
One thing about me I don't jola ka chelete. I'm stingy like that. These stories are the reasons why we fear Congolese and Nigerians so much. I'm not saying we are saints here in South Africa
And by the way those guys at the service station,he was complaining about,the Nigerians,he did not liked?,they were part of the movie,that is what u call Extras in a movie.😅😅😅
These guys be really having the time to do all this dirty work🙄 evil Thank you so much Ninja for sharing and opening our eyes🙏❤️...ohw and you look amazingly beautiful Owamie
@@OwamieEntertainment May God deal with these Congolese scammers. I had the same experience. The guys actually took me out for lunch. Told me the same story. He told me he need 5000$. 🤣🤣🤣. I ate his lunch and blocked him.
He should call his friends or family for money not s woman he's trying to date. A real man is embarrassed to even ask, especially that early in the relationship.
Laughting so hard at the title without even watching 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Saving this for later this evening to make it my movie. Clearly the Congolese knew nothing about that Venda eye that darn showed him flames 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ladies this how we stand together against shameful men! Thank you Owami for sharing. I have no doubt you helped many women out there. Especially the ones that are getting back into the dating game like myself. We need to know what's out there.
Honestly speaking from where I am standing, I play far away from our brothers from other countries, no offense, no hate, no xenophobia. Most of our brothers from ka nthlele are the worst scammers though I don't dispute the fact that some of our SA brothers are scammers. I would rather I get scammed ke bana ba mobu🤣🤣🤣🤣. Lastly ladies, let's use multi lockers on our wallets please.
@@machingachembe2789It’s not about being careful, it’s about feeling safe that the law is on the honest tax payer’s side. We complain about crime everyday in SA, this is no different.Whoever defrauds should be allowed to be named and shamed . So whether scammers are all over is irrelevant, all I’m asking is why is the law, any law for that matter but because I’m from SA, particularly SA law protecting scammers?
Amen 🙌🏾 to men being providers singashaun we work hard for this bag then someone comes and thinks you’ll just hand over your hard earned cash 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️
Thank you Owamie for being your sister's keeper, we need more women like you, one guy tried the minerals story with me once in Germiston but I was not interested, it was a different approach all together, I was going to get shares in the deal by first providing transportation for them and then myb buying shares later on 🙄
@@OwamieEntertainment Serious babes.. your lucky he didn't yet "dickmatise" you. Youll get paid and take your whole salary to chance after millions and a dream of a scammer... Midrand stories are scary!
Of cos it’s not his apartment and I’m sure he borrows cars to impress ladies. What pisses me off the most is that, they think SA women r desperate for men, nxa!
Ghana men also, selling my friend 'gold' worth R250,000, via a 'UK' online 'white' 'boyfriend'. The 'gold' was ----don't laugh! 1ton! 1 ton that was gonna be shipped from Accra to Johannesburg! That was in 2014, she's still sitting with a 'tracking number'! 1ton? Size of her car? Gold without any licence? She's a stubborn 'you are jealous' kind of friend! So when we told her a 1ton of gold for R250k was unrealistic she didnt listen! We found name of that gold seller in scam alert. They use whitemen pictures on their social media profiles. It would be whitemen who are so loving chocolate women.... Be careful!
Mina I once borrowed an ex of mine R400 lol till today. I got over it because he used to buy me food everytime we linked up. 😂😂R2000 yona nka screamer gore. Later on I found out mo guy was married 🙄 pretoria men will really stress you shame. I found love in Limpopo 😀
I stopped watching your story time during the day I now wake up during the night and take some snack coz I don't want any disturbance 😍😍😍.. I was once scammed by a whole doctor ke mna😭😭
If a man are sweet talker you can believe in them ones they start asking you for money you must run as fast as you can and they are good at scamming people especially women thanks Owami for sharing your story with us
Oh my goodness! A guy you just met asks for you to help him pay to fix his car? I have met such and my response was a swift command “ LOOSE MY NUMBER “!
Thank you Owamie... That man is a scam and he probably has been doing that to a lot of other woman out there... Please report the matter and thank you for helping us be aware of that
Thank you for this story. Glad you saw through him before losing too much. Those boys from that side are notorious. Though a good friend was scammed by a guy from here so that "talent" is widespread now.
Thank you for sharing with us, I agree with you Owamie, I have also made a decision to never give a man money🤞🏾... A man who asks for money from a woman disrepects the woman and himself.
