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This is shocking because in Your old videos when you were still married(with Your brick wall background) you would say things like “ He takes care of the finances, he’s so good with money ntonton”. Yohhh you were an amazing wife o fitlha mathata a lelapa la gago. Glory to God for removing you from that situation of a married. ❤️
Owamie, it's like you're telling my story. The events may not be exactly the same, but my ex was like Mr B. That boy put me through hell!!! He financially and mentally abused me until I said enough is enough. Last I spoke to his mother, she said he was crying over me. Good! 🤣 That domkop deserves to feel all the pain he caused me. And as for me, I'm enjoying my independence, freedom and money alone!!!💅🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🥰
I hear people saying she should stop talking about her ex husband and move one. People do story times about their ex's nothing new here. This is probably a way of healing to her, talking about it and letting go. And to some of us its eye opening. I hope you completely heal Ninja and get well from the flu Love love love.
I think I now understand this is not just healing from ur divorce, this is healing from years of emotional and financial abuse, the cheating was just that lightbulb of eventually deciding to leave this situation. Good for you
This was blatant emotional and financial abuse. I'm so sad that you felt that cheating was the only justification you had to leave him because that means if he didn't cheat you would have continued to endure this. I hope women learn that they can leave - even if their partners aren't physically abusing them or cheating on them. Your unhappiness is always enough reason to leave a relationship.
This story is too familiar 😭😭😭😭😭. I am triggered! These experiences we think we have healed until we share them. Next thing lump in the throat. Mnxim! Big hugs Wami!
The more I watch Owamie's story times , the more I understand her stance with finances. At first I was like haibo, why is everything about money ? 😅 It all makes sense, she has beeeeen understanding and it backfired. Thank you for sharing personal parts of your life.
Exactly soo true. But i truly am so happy that she has freed herself from that guy because there are alot of women who stay in such marriages with financially illiterate partners, unambitious men & men of no means and it literally delays them in life & they end up not going after their dreams, following their passion etc... Yes money is not everything but at the end of the day life needs money so let's not fool ourselves. Stay away from men that have nothing going for themselves & that need to be built up by a woman. You are not "bob the builder" a man must come already assembled, ambitious & goal oriented. Marriage is also not a guarantee but choose wisely & date as high up as you possibly can.
Owami has been through a lot and then there’s this stupid girl here that bullies her because of HER AUTHENTICITY, HER TRUTH, HER PAINFUL STORIES that are helping our next generation so they can learn from her mistakes but this miserable broken narcissist bully has a problem with her UNPROVOKED, chiiillllee I can’t 🤦🏻♀️ thank you Owami for sharing this ❤️❤️
Love must be tough. But it’s so difficult to let your man struggle on his own without helping out and involving yourself in his financial mess! I think most of us interpret enabling as love. 😩😭
When someone is not meant for you, the universe will trigger them to just mess up and hurt you until you get the message and release them. ❤ uthandwa'ndim Ndlovukazi...what a journey you've traveled
The universe is not involved here. People are selfish. It's very important to pay attention to a person's character and decide upon that assessment. The universe holds the galaxy as well as our planet. We women need to learn to do our due diligence when it comes to dating and vetting men otherwise Pudra will dominate us.
What’s worse is in the vlogs he made it seem like you were blowing money, in some ‘No honey don’t waste money like that’, kaaaaaaaanti! A swindler. Sorry mama
Owamie "Kedibone" Netshivhazwahulu 😂😂😂 Stay blessed shem...you were sucked dry to the driest in that marriage....anyways its sounds like you valued faithfulness over everthing....anything can be a deal breaker more especially financial issues...a lot of couples are scared to discuss money shem...Money is the backbone of raising a family shem it alleviates a lot of stress.
I stayed 10years in my marriage because I kept on saying to myself "atleast he has never cheated on me" I even hanged on to the fact that cheating is something he will never do lol lol, but in all 10 tens psychological abuse, lies, devaluing, smear campaign against me, gaslighting, passive aggressive, kept on growing until the last humiliation and I knew that, it was just enough I will never die a silent death here, I divorced him and I'm now happy and at peace
He was your Karmic partner. He came into your life to teach you life lessons, help you build your character and make you stronger. Most of us go through similar things, they are shitty but like it or not we should be grateful to these karmic partners because if it wasn't for them we wouldn't be this strong and wise.
This hits hard, as young as I was 11 years ago I took care of him, everything wS about him because he filled up gabs I had, after 5 years of dating we had our first child he started devaluing me, abusing me as confused as I was I always forgave him, I started working after graduation he started controlling me manipulating me financially, he was a mama's boy who always was at the side of his mom's tenders so he ddnt feel the need to work. So I relocated and he followed me, I was paying for EVERYTHING. My family over saw this and I kept PROTECTING HIM AND HIDING HIS INABILITY TO PROVIDE FOR HIS KIDS, STILL HE CONTINUED TO ABUSE ME MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, BODY SHAME ME In a kidding way, he would be envious and DONT ALLOW ME TO GO Home we ended up having another baby she's turning 2 this year, this man was talkative had no chest he would share my ideas with his mom my plans and everything and he would say he wNts me to do everything with his mother, his mother used my name into opening an account at telkom but I closed it eventually coz she couldn't pay sometimes. His mother ddnt like Me because I came from a poor background but they eventually accepted me when I graduated and worked and took care of their grandchildren. So this year we broke up in February because we argued and I caught messages of him bad mouthing me to his mother saying I thnk I am better than him, he will abandon his kids and get someone better coz I think m better than him and m exploiting him, his mother was like "yes do it son come back home so you can help me with my tenders everything goes well if you are beside me" . I chased him out of my rented room for the first time in my life after 10 years of abuse because I was shocked. And yes he left. This happened after I prayed asking my ancestors to help me remove people who abuse my empath nature and those who witchcraft must scatter and I threw coins. The same night I chased him out. The week after I heard he has introduced someone else at his home his 32 and he is now dating a 22 year old little girl. This little girl is his moms friend daughter. This little girls moms doesn't approve of this. 3 months after we broke up he came back asking me to meet this girl and he wants us to get along, TALK ABOUT GUTS AND CRUELTY TO GET ME THROUGH SOO MUCH TRAUMA AND COME BACK TO SPITE ME AGAIN
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Listening to all these stories from Owamie, really shows that we women can put up a front, coz everything from the outside looked all sunshine and roses 🌹
I'm actually so glad you're doing this. I'm I'm my 20s, and because of these kinds of stories I can now spot 🚩in guys. I wish more of the older generation would be as open about their experiences so we(young adults) would avoid making the same mistakes.
For some reason this story time reminds me of my brother, sometimes I wish I could tell his girlfriend to run and never talk to him. He is my biological brother same mom same dad, but as a woman it’s so painful to see her going through all that drama and financial abuse and more… All I want for the poor girl is for her to move on and find a man that will love and respect her.😩😩😩
My mom went through the same thing with my dad. Luckily for her their relationship was short lived They both went their separate ways and got married my step-dad (the most loving and yet peer pressured man) passed away 2008 My dad got divorced this year because he didn't grow up and never learned his lessons
Thank you for this story, I am learning and also confirming my beliefs when it comes to having a partner that is financially stable. I hope the world realizes that you're not 'hating' on your ex or being the bitter ex, but that you're teaching us your ninjas. Stay strong.💪
Cheating should be a Deal Breaker for everyone who loves and respects themselves, it frustrates me when Owami feels the need to always explain that for her cheating was and is because of how the world is full of LOW SELF ESTEEM woman who sees the need to attack her for living a cheating partner because they don’t want to be the only ppl being stuck in their own miserable relationships 🙄 Owami you don’t have to Ever feel guilty for doing something needed to protect your heart and your sanity because I can see this stupid Internet attacked you for doing something that is Right because doing Wrong is more fashionable these days 🙄
Owamie your story times are the bomb, I won't lie. Bless your heart for sharing these personal stories with us, you have no idea how many people you are actually helping by not repeating the same mistakes you have been through. I really appreciate selflessness character we love you ❤
Your ex's characteristics are like my mum. Always people pleasing, always borrowing people money, always expecting too much from people but she's deep in debt. I pulled her out of so many situations yooh gosh... The month she passed on she was deep in thoughts I feel like she borrowed someone alot of money that she regretted. Her highblood just went up and died after 4days. Now I'm super careful about everything and very selfish with myself.
Queen Ninja I can relate to this story. I was in a relationship with a person who showed me several times that he does not care and I was on denial. I just did not want to see it and admit it that they don't care. Many events happened and I choose to overlook them, because I loved them so much. Yes love does blind us......I was prepared to give up everything for them......... I wanted to go back, because I loved them so much more than myself and emotions and feelings. I thank God and myself for realizing it....... Thank you Owamie
These story times and your experience is a reminder that when you attach to a person who is going through karma and you try and save them, you also go through what is meant for them
Thank you Owamie for these honest conversations. It makes some of us evaluate their lives. Some are the Owamies in their relationships and some are the Mr B. Thank you for the lessons. ❤️
That's what abusers do. It was not your fault ninja. The saddest part is most marriages are like this. Married women are the providers, supporters and mothers of their husbands💔
Hey Owamie, I’m newly married (young) and I found your channel at the best time ever (late last year) I’ve been watching you ever since and girllll I’m taking down some notessss. Your very entertaining and I’m just loving how independent and strong you are!
Most of these men have no love they all narcissistic, it all based on their own selfish needs and egos, men feed on admiration from the streets n that what they want reason why her stupid ex fell for everyone who played him, even when a man takes a wife or a woman he does it because of he’s own convenience, it absolutely has nothing to do with you, 99% of these men are like that, that why woman need to learn and love and support each other instead of competing and fighting with each other because of men that don’t even love us, there’s nothing wrong with being single as long as you have friends and family members that love you, but we are conditioned to believe we need men, we don’t need these stressing depressing things, we can do better on our own 🙄
Ninjas since we are confessing, my domkop ex once called me in the middle of the night saying he was getting arrested and he needed money for his family to pay the family of the man he assaulted whilst out drinking. Nami ngamunika dom kop move, kanti he wanted to buy clothes for a 6 month baby I didn’t know about 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 All I have to say is if onyaka gobona spooko, give a man your hard earned money
This story reminds me of mine, we were not married, we were in a serious relationship oh so I thought. He stood me up on the first date, he apologized and I forgave him and gave him a chance, I was stood up for everything thing else after that, set up appointments for meet ups and not come and not even explain himself and blamed me when I got mad.... I paid a heavy price for forgiving him. I left because I felt I wasn't important and there was someone else. I also put up with him because in my mind I thought he was faithful, I was always also waiting for him to mess up all the time....
There’s no such thing as a “serious relationship babes” it’s either you are married or dating. That’s how men dupe and swindle many of you into being exclusive with them and focused and serious about them while they are playing the field, using your and your resources with no intention of ever committing and marrying you 😂🤣
Thank you so much Owamie for not only letting us in but for the lessons we get from your storytimes 💜💜🌻🌻shuu I kid you not they have saved me from making what would have been the biggest mistake of my life 💜💜🌻🌻thank you sis💜🌻
Yoh Owamie, you have been through a lot, you deserve all the success, money, love and happiness this world has to offer and more, as a young lady, your storytimes are really helping me become a wiser woman. Thanks for sharing ❤️🙏🏾
Thank you Owamie for all the life lessons. Look at you now you beautiful, glowing and doing so well. Keep telling your story, it is your story after all. Own it and it is part of healing❤️
My Ninja I love your stories 😍😍😍more than our PAPARAZZZ🤣🤣🤣....everytime I'm watching there's something to learn.....I feel like this guy never loved you Owamy...but imisebenzi yakho 😥😢
I hope and pray that Mr B could sincerely and honestly apologies to Owamie because all she did was to sincerely love that man. But his pride will never allow him
First of all your wife is nice! I'm sorry for all the trauma you went through. Men are really teaching us to love ourselves more. To put ourselves first, cause they do that without a blink of an eye. You are beautiful and strong Owamie. Stay true to yourself
'when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time' - this hit home and is such a simple lesson but so difficult to heed to when you're in love. Yah neh, life.
Yooh guys you will think that bad things are happening to you only.... until you hear from others, thank you Owamie this is therapy just to listen to you and other ladies commenting hear I feel better
Haiboo 🙆🏻♀️😳😳i feel like he didn’t really love you ey. This running away when shit happens makes that clear. The marriage was just for convenience for him. Wuuu the way i used to watch yall channel thinking that all was good in the hood.😩😩i am shook. You are strong owami and you really did love this man.
I'm thanking God for your life with every story time you give. The amount of unsavoury people that you were exposed to. Continue to grow and heal. I thank God that you're alive 💕 and you're looking more and more beautiful. That you poured yourself out at least that way, you will never question anything about who you are. Siyakuthanda Dali.
I am proud of how far you've come Owami, you allowed the bad reshape you. I used to see your videos on Tiktok of how many is important in a relationship and this video explains it all so well. Because you have seen the worst and experienced the worst because of being optimistic when it comes to a person thinking they can change and be better when they were shitty. All the best with what lies ahead. Makwande.
Don't worry Owamie I understand you very well cause also with me cheating is a no no cause I feel like if you haven't been caught you will be continuing making a fool of me
