STORYTIME: I WAS TRACKED AND STALKED BY MY NARCISSIST... 

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You shouldn't call her "my narcissist" because that makes her attached to you and that's what she wants. Instead, call her 'the stalker' or the 'the narcissist' so it creates a disconnect.

Make sure Cam is watching out for himself too. This kind of stalker can go after your partner/family. Remember anything you file with police can help, but you have to stay vigilant. We're praying for you.

I’m all for you getting a restraining order against her. This is INSANITY! 🤦🏾‍♀️ Praying for the safety of you and your family. 🙏🏾

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As someone with BPD I’m glad you pointed out how her actions and the actions of people with BPD that you know are completely different because people tend to misconstrue what BPD actually is. We will distance ourselves (due to us self sabotaging and pushing people away bc of our emotions) before we ever result to threats, stalking etc. I hope that restraining order is a wake up call for her and doesn’t cause her to spiral. Sending you love and protection 🩵 that girl needs psychiatric help IMMEDIATELY.

Get cameras and 24/7 security THATS so scary but you’re highly favored and protected spiritually! God has your back ❤

I’m glad you decided to go to the police Paris! People like her are unhinged and it’s best to expect the worst possible outcome will happen with a person like that. Keep documenting, keep in touch with the police about her, get cameras for your house, and just please stay safe Paris❤

You went about the situation as best as you could, but baby girl needed a fade. You have a whole child & she went as far as tracking you? Anybody could’ve gotten your info, ain’t no telling who she be around. We don’t een play like that.

That’s so scary smh

Make sure you are aware of your surroundings at all times. This is not a good situation to be in, this is nothing compared to how things can escalate. Please connect with police.

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That codependency is real and you gotta do what is best for your safety. You did the right thing. I have a friend who i cut off but she keeps trying to enter my life SMH

Looking good hun. Praying for you & your family’s safety🩷🫶🏽❤

I filed a police report on my stalker just to have something on file. Honestly that helped make him back off quite a bit. He ain’t fully gone but he don’t send me 100 voice memos a day detailing what he would do to me

Stalking you being a priority before cleaning her earbuds is crazy.

This is insane, she is insane. Glad you are taking action because this isn’t ok

Hey Paris, narcissists always use “threats” just to manipulate their victims knowing that their victim is a good kind hearted person and doesnt want the narcissist to harm themselves or others. Usually these threats are empty but if she does harm herself just know it has nothing to do with you. I really hope you get a restraining order against her, friends or not, nothing she did was appropriate and a massive breach of personal space and safety for you, cam and your baby. Im sending you lots of love and prayers❤

No fucking way, this is the type thriller of plot you see in the movies. Paris please please please stay fucking safe omg.

That’s sooo weird, but that’s exactly how narcissists move. They are stalkers!

You're right about a lot of things in this video. In this situation, it's not a case of "borderline personality disorder" but simply "personality disorder." Big difference! Persons with a PD exhibit narcissistic, psychopathic, or sociopathic behavior. Stalking can occur with either category. A restraining order is the right decision. (My background is psychology - now retired. I've done considerable work in the area of domestic violence awareness, including dealing with stalkers.)

Caribbean raised here ✋🏽🇻🇨. You're definitely on point with calling your friend's mom " mom " its more mannerly and respectful

So sorry you and your family are going through this!

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This shit really making me look at comments trying to find the imposter lmaooo

This is so insane! I will be praying for your safety, especially because you and Cam have a child the whole situation should be documented to the police. Girl I work in Toronto and I hope I never run into this girl!

girl first off, i am glad you are taking so much action to stay safe. you're super smart & i am sending sooo much protective energy to you n your family.

Wow Paris I’m so sorry this is happening to you! I’m proud of you for filing a restraining order, you have to do what you have to do for your safety! Air hugs to you 💕💕💕

Honestly, I’ve been cleansing from consuming to much media, & being strict on what I allow myself to watch. I’ve been passing on many of my usuals but I love your energy & I clicked as soon as I saw🥰

I’m praying for you & this sick person. I hope you continue to be safe, & happy even through these occurrences🙏🏽

I work at a big store with a girl just like this narc. She has a little clique of women that follow her around. I heard her snapping at one the other day saying "You CANNOT be nice to ANYONE! Thats what your sister's problem is, I bet she's nice to people! You can't be nice to ANYONE!" And I just felt dread. She always snaps at people for taking her cart or device (they belong to the store, not her; she's being immature and no one stops her. Who goes through life like that? Every time I see her in the room, I walk out until she leaves even if it makes me late for my tasks. I cannot stand her. And ofc she's friends with HR so no point in trying to do something about her mean behavior.

Well narcissist always stalk .and they commonly attend and shop at places near their supply. Learend this the hard way mt self and with help of my therapsit

Not the ali express airtag 😂 but seriously, I would report her too. This weird behavior always escalates.

13:09 "It's giving Netflix documentary and I don't want to be the star of it." 😂

that’s so scary I can’t imagine going through that. Be careful Paris I’ve seen cases that involves stalkers and it’s very dangerous

When you file make sure you get an order of protection and restraining order once you make the police report you have to go through the court to finish the process please finish the whole process and also make sure you write the exact dates and times you see her it will definitely help

Please invest in a 🔫 if you can. If that ain’t your speed or Canada laws say you can’t, please get something. Crossbow, mace, 🔪, 🗡️ or something. Please document EVERYTHING. Get your law enforcement friends involved. Stay as SAFE as you can.

This is crazy stay safe❤, And I recently met a dude who stalks his bm. He said he’s going to buy an AirTag to put on her sister car and follow wherever they go. I tried to convince him that he’s not crazy and to leave her alone but in reality he is crazy. Glad we cut off contact. And I hope his bm gets away.

As for the video before this one, a girl did close to the same thing to my sister. When my sister finally asked why she was doing this to her the response was unimaginable! She said, "BECAUSE I WANT TO BE YOU!".... Like wtf? 😳 She has stalked our entire family for decades!! Go look up "Randy's law." That is her twin sister! 😬 Your stalker isn't weird, she's straight up psychotic like ours! Good luck and God speed Paris! 🙏

Be safe, I don't want to scare anyone but some people who act like her can result to violence in the end.

paris you should change your patterns. don’t go to the same grocery store or places that are closest to your home, i know it’s an inconvenience but it could keep you safe… also try considering getting a restraining order against her, because god forbid she hurts you or your family. thirdly, please be aware of your surroundings all the time & maybe carry self defense weapons that are legal in canada like pepper spray, those keychain sticks or a stun gun if they are legally allowed where you live. i really hope you stay safe. ❤

Girlllllll I’ve been there and that person was my mom. Best thing I ever did was go no contact and run for the hills!!!!!! So toxic and isn’t worth sticking around.

Girl I feel you! I had to call the police and get a no contact on the narc I was friends with! She wouldn’t leave me alone! And she still tired to this day to call me and get others to stalk me. They truly are stalkers and sick! Make sure to get the authorities involved

I have noticed that slot of these people are here in Canada, MAD AS HELL AND LIE AS HELL!!! Who stalks people like that??? Lil narcisha, go get your life stray and leave the girl alone, not everyone wanna be friends with escapees from hell.

African culture too… SA/ Zimbabwe (Africa) we call our friends mums mom! So it’s just respect ❤

I’m genuinely scared for you after hearing about the air tag omg 😮 I’m sending u positive vibes to get out of this situation safe

How do you avoid meeting people like this?

I love your story times Paris 🩷

Paris if you havent already please invest in some ring cameras or something of the sort 😭 Shits scary and I don’t want anything bad happening to you and your beautiful family

that’s insane bro…

You don’t need purplegarden. Just Pray and read your bible. Jesus is all you need.

This is giving true crime , please stay safe

Hey Paris I hope you and your family are safe up there. I'm praying for you all Be safe.

praying for your safety 🙏🏻

I cant stand ever befriending any weirdo like that especially a woman at that when we we’re strictly Dickey

Gurlll Im so sorry you are going through this. She is Weird 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

It’s giving Netflix documentary 😂😂

Hey Paris I hope you’re ok. The wildfire smoke made it to Chicago and it looks terrible outside.

First video I’ve watched of yours, I am praying for your safety and sanity 🥰 I’m also following you because I like how you story tell

That is absolutely terrifying….

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I’m sorry this is happening to you

Oh my gosh Paris. BE CAREFULLLL. These stalkers are no joke. If you've been looking to move, soon might be the time. I pray you don't need to though. But like seriously if you have the means... The red flags warrant moving.

This is crazy, I once had a best friend that was secretly in love with me, lied about being SA’ed 5 times all in completely random and different scenarios. Lied about her family being held at gun point, only for me to call her house and have her mom pick up the phone. Every time I tried to leave from her car when she dropped me off she cried for hours so I would stay. Threatened to unalive herself on the phone basically every single night for months. Weirdly lied about having eczema to copy me bc I have it. Manipulated me into not trusting her family so that I wouldn’t tell them what she was doing and saying. Even pretended to have multiple personality disorder and “switched” WHILE DRIVING several times. It got so scary. Until I reached a turning point, every time she said she was getting off of the phone getting ready to unalive herself, instead of blowing up her phone telling her how much she shouldn’t do it and is loved, calling her back to back to watch her until she fell asleep so I knew she wouldn’t do anything. Instead of that I just put my mind at ease and said “give it to God”. And eventually he gave me an out, I stopped texting her, but she lied on several different occasions to get my attention by saying that she had cancer, that her dying grandmother’s last words were that we should make up as friends(she was literally fine), even after some time passed and she was dating this girl, she had the gf texting me and trying to involve me in her problems. Having people like that out of your life is like having a YACHT lifted off of your shoulders. You breathe easier, you’re happier, less stressed, you see that life doesn’t always have to be filled with drama and tears. That would be a sad way to live again.

“A” narcissist not “my” narcissist. Don’t claim them!

This is crazy ness,this person need to leave u alone and go live her life,it’s just sad that people like that is out there.

This is why my old ass still use wire 🎧 🤦🏾‍♀️😩💀🤣😳😅

omg thats scary i wish the best for you and your family

I have bpd and I’m glad you didn’t say she had that, it definitely not the same

Praying for you and your family safety 💕

Hey bestie 💖🔥🥰 and the simple fact she not caring about the cookie safety either

Hay Paris!!! 🫶🏾Miss your videos!!❤

Love you paris i watch every video when it comes out, this is TatumTaylor all the way from South Africa🇿🇦, Cape Town, once again you make my day and im inlove with your videos and Specifically Storytime, they're fire🔥🌹❤️👌Keep going

It’s giving peaches from “You”

So good you are getting a restraining order! I hope she doesn’t try to spy from a distance, you’re so strong Paris. That’s really difficult and distressing to deal w.

The way i would’ve threw them airpods in the river😭 thats so crazy please stay safe Paris❤

she needs to be in jail

Thanks for letting me know I need to get more info in the other video! BRB💋

girl move, change your number, do whatever you gotta do to stay safe!

Hey Paris hope you and your family are safe in Canada right now with those fires and air quality right now, much love ❤️

her behaviour seems common for people with terrible mother figures. i was the same before my mom got help. she has a lot of deep rooted mommy issues

Love the videos and keep up the great work Paris

Why are people so unhinged these days 😩

When would there have been a time when she coulda swapped the airpods without you realizing? Ugh so weird😩

Not only does she need a therapist and a psychiatrist, she also needs a hefty dose of Jesus. Imma pray for her lol . And stay safe paris seriously if you don't have cameras get them and report everything !!❤❤❤

This just took a scary turn

OH NAHHHH😭 mannn you’re better than me bc shawty would’ve gotten cussed out on multiple occasions

ngl, i thought everybody call their friends mom mom 😭

That’s scary. Praying for you and your family Paris, this isn’t ok.

13:26 It's not easy to get a restraining order. You have to prove physical violence or harm is happening.

I’m so sorry you’re still dealing with this smh.

LMAO FOR EVEREVERDENCE

Paris off topic but you’re glowing 🥰 very very beautiful

Thats crazy make sure you are safe please !❤

Paris please visit us more! I miss you being active! She definitely sounds creepy. Please be careful and watch what you say so you don't manifest it accidentally.

even if she did have BPD (which i highly doubt) that doesnt make it an excuse to be a nutcase. im glad you went to the police. her mental health is important but not as important as your safety, you have a husband and child to think about too. i wouldnt risk it whatsoever. she needs therapy not someone to stalk for funsies.

BPD is a spectrum disorder, so her having BPD can still make sense. And because Narcissistic personality disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder are both cluster B disorder, they have a lot of overlapping traits

I knew this girl wasn’t done with Paris

I can’t believe she rly driving past your house in that bright ass red car like she rly got no shame

I used to read for purple garden. I miss it!