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Striking Your Sexual Match | MarriageToday | Jimmy Evans 

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Jimmy Evans tells how to become one sexually, emotionally, and spiritually.
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@regularguysmokingfood
@regularguysmokingfood Год назад
After my wife and I had read chapter 7 Servant Rules of your book Four Laws of Love she said “well it says right here that we can’t change your spouse’s love language and since mine isn’t physical touch you will have to just accept it”. I can’t explain how deeply this hurt my heart. I’m the one who has had to beg to get her to even read marriage books. We have a wonderful roommate or “relative” relationship but I didn’t date a roommate or my sister. I wanted a lover who wanted me romantically but during the 1st year of our marriage I went from lover to brother. I have held on for 27 years but I don’t know how much longer I can. It hurts so bad. It’s hard for me to believe that God expects me to stay after she has gone against our vows or at least the intent of some of them. I went to counseling for 6 months but she refused to go. In the end the Christian counselor said that I either need to just accept it or separate. He said it doesn’t justify dating or marrying someone else but he doesn’t feel I’m required to stay under the same roof with her intimacy abandonment. I hurt so, so bad. What do you recommend? Thank you so much
@arieskauhi
@arieskauhi Год назад
Massage her feet everyday for 3 days. Then on the 4th day work your way from the foot to the calves, on the 5th day move even higher till you get to the sweet spot. But above all, don't do it for sex do it to please your wife.
@JMKrech
@JMKrech 3 года назад
Awesome message!
@shirleybryant1411
@shirleybryant1411 2 года назад
Thank you so much
@jessefoster2832
@jessefoster2832 Год назад
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13
@SnookOnTheFly
@SnookOnTheFly 3 года назад
15 years of marriage and still can’t get on board with the basic fundamentals of what makes a marriage a marriage.
@hedgemist691
@hedgemist691 2 года назад
Some of those in the audience don't look convinced.
@supplantermusic9413
@supplantermusic9413 3 года назад
Jesus is Lord
@daniellewelbon5432
@daniellewelbon5432 3 года назад
Amen
@jessefoster2832
@jessefoster2832 Год назад
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 года назад
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
@wouldntyouliketoknow1496
@wouldntyouliketoknow1496 3 года назад
The only issue is usually intimacy creates feelings, even if it is with a platonic friend. That would usually lead into a relationship. Marriage and relationships are possible. Jimmy Evan's does some amazing videos about the needs of men and women. Noone is perfect, but we all have someone out there who will love even our flaws❤
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 года назад
@@wouldntyouliketoknow1496 There are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
@wouldntyouliketoknow1496
@wouldntyouliketoknow1496 3 года назад
@@icysnow57cold64 I wasnt trying to argue. I'm sorry. I was just simply stating that usually intimacy will bring more feelings into the situation. Intimacy was made for marriage. And like I said jimmy does a great show on the laws of marriage, and it is 100% correct. There are laws in marriage, but very little people follow them. I think relationship would be much better if we did follow them, and do it the way god intended. Everyone is capable of a healthy marriage and relationship. ❤ sorry again. Good luck!
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 года назад
@@wouldntyouliketoknow1496 There are a lot more risks and dangers to romantic relationships than they are to platonic relationships. Why do you think most fathers and brothers don't act the same way towards their daughter's or sister's platonic male friends as they do towards a potential boyfriend? It's because they know there's a much higher chance someone could potentially get hurt in a romantic relationship compared to a platonic relationship. No matter what, a lot of fathers seem to hate it whenever their daughter has a boyfriend (even if he is a good guy). There are even shirts made for daughters that say "I'M NOT ALLOWED TO EVER DATE" and shirts made for fathers that say "DADS AGAINST DAUGHTERS DATING". I have also heard many fathers on the internet say that they hate the idea of their daughter having a boyfriend someday, and are completely against it. So it seems to me that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to date and be in a romantic relationship with a guy. The same thing can be said about brothers and sisters too. No matter what, a lot of brothers seem to hate it whenever their sister has a boyfriend (even if the guy is a good guy). And I have also too have heard many brothers on the internet say that they hate the idea of their sister having a boyfriend someday, and are completely against it. And so it seems to me that most brothers (like fathers) don't ever want their sisters to date and be in a romantic relationship with a guy. So it seems that most fathers don't ever want their daughters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and it also seems that most brothers don't ever want their sisters to find love and be in a romantic relationship with someone, and so to me, it seems that a lot of fathers and brothers don't ever want their daughters/sisters to have a husband someday.
@icysnow57cold64
@icysnow57cold64 3 года назад
I don't blame them though for thinking that way since romantic love and romantic relationships can be a bad thing for someone since a broken heart can cause a person a lot of pain, and there's a lot of risks of someone getting emotionally and/or physically hurt in a romantic relationship. Platonic relationships don't have that many risks or dangers in them, and that's why most fathers and brothers don't make a big deal about their daughters or sisters having platonic male friends, but make a big deal when they have a boyfriend (or potential boyfriend). Most fathers and brothers usually like their daughter's or sister's platonic male friends, while they usually dislike their daughter's or sister's boyfriends (or potential boyfriends). So that's another reason why platonic relationships are better. So those could also be other reasons why the concept of romantic relationships isn't a good thing because of how protective fathers and brothers tend to be whenever their daughter or sister dates someone since they are afraid that the boyfriend will be a pervert that will make their daughter or sister uncomfortable (also break her heart or abuse her).
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