Stuff We Never Talk About: 10 Questions to Gender Equality | Cut 

If possible, y’all should do this again, but with 3 generations (like son, father, and grandfather) It would be cool to see how they differ!!

Can we see girls talk to their dads about the same things?

"That's becuase she's a great cook. she loves to cook" "did she?" HA! GOTEEEM!

I think Cut should make videos like these at least 10 minutes, it was really interesting to listen to everyone's dialogue and I was upset when it ended so soon.

if a man was insecure about me making more money than him I don't think I'd marry him because I'm going to school and working hard just like him so I'm not going to accept a lower wage just to make him comfortable :-)

6:00 *"I want to be standing on the right side of history"* this made my heart so happy

Damn that Japanese man was talking forever without any subtitle changes

The young Japanese man who said he wants to be standing on the right side of the history. I salute you!

"I want to be standing on the right side of history". feel that.

Can we get more multicultural discussion from Cut? I love getting a less US angle on these kinds of subjects.

Red sleeved baseball tee is so tense he's going to break his teeth off. Haha his jaw is so tightly clinched the whole time haha

That’s because she’s a great cook and loves cooking. Did she? Silence Don’t think that father had ever stop to think if his wife actually like cooking or he assumed she did.

The Australian Dad and son in a red shirt had a weird tension going on

‘I like to be the heart of the household’ O_o ‘Do you?’

This was so insightful, especially the one pair where the dad constantly thought he contributed more heart to the family than the son ever felt was realistic.

"if my future wife wants to work, i think she should. It's her decision."

“Boys don’t do ballet” is an odd stereotype. Most ballet performances I went to have male performers, albeit often a smaller number than women. And who’s gonna play the prince in Swan Lake if there’s no boys doing ballet?

See..this is why I love cut. Simple as that.

I don't understand how men don't like , and don't accept when women get more money than them ?

"yeah but if you wanna make more money than your wife wouldn't you want her to get paid less for the same job?" i felt that. i think a lot of men have the same mentality of knowing its a stupid pride thing but still wanting to earn more money without realising what it truly means and what the consequences are.

I liked this a lot! I hope they do a version with women or a multi generational version.

I feel like a lot of ladies now have full time careers, to earn, but are by many still expected to also be the heart of the household. Tough job.

I feel like when men are asked these questions they say the answer that should be said but they don't follow through.

That table is from Ikea and I got the same one

Interesting that all the dads are convinced that they’re the “heart” of the household while they handed off most of the childcare to their sons mothers.

You should do this but father/daughter duos, my dad has 4 daughters and no sons, and I can guarantee his perspective is very different

Makes me count my blessings for my dad every day. Tried to walk me through a lot of important issues in my life equally with my mom, wouldn’t just say “go ask your mom” but would be incredibly invested. Incredibly supportive and proud of what I’m pursuing in my life, cooks the best food (sorry mom 😂), teaching me how to take care of the house

If men *could* breastfeed, they would. It would be a societal norm.

The way he said Alrighty first question😂😂❤️❤️

That japanese dad coming in the cut with some fresh steez though

do a lineup where someone is guessing their ACT/SAT scores!! it could be cool

If I'm being honest I would prefer if me and my future wife/husband could just both work part time. Instead of having one work full-time and the other take care of the house, two part time would be awesome.

“Speaks for eternity in Japanese” Subtitle : “your generation is more old fashioned than ours “

That Japanese guy with the bun...ermahger!

I'm a 25 girl, unmarried, and was very happy about this until I realized the down side. It's like living far from your family - yes, you feel independent, unrestricted, and able to live for yourself. But with age, you realize that living for yourself is entertaining, but not fulfilling. You don't need to rush into marriage, and when you're married don't rush out of the marriage. But the journey of life spent with another gives you something precious that can't be bought. That companionship, even if it ends badly, is better than ending alone. When I was younger, I looked at all the divorce out there and misery and hatred between exes, and I thought “I'm not going to make some one miserable, I'm not going to spend my life with someone I hate” …well, that's like saying “I'm not going to drive a car because of all the accidents.” Thats not the answer - the answer should be to wear seatbelts, take precautions. My resolution SHOULD have been “I'm going to love my spouse, for whoever he is, and I'm going to give him my best.” Instead, I chose to live for me, and that's who I got …just me. Find someone to love, and give them your best. Like an ocean voyage, it may not last forever but at least you gave it your best shot. And there may be many perils and storms, but atleast you survived them with someone. The relationships that I've had were very special to me and I wish I had gotten married. Instead, I married my “independence”. The people that get divorced and hate each other, they didn't know how to love, they were selfish - it wasn't “marriage” that created the misery, it was their unwillingness to love each other. Love is willing to accommodate (not a reluctant willingness, but an eager willingness), even when you don't really want to. Even when there's no gain from it. Even when the other person is annoying, or stinky, or exhausting. And when you can love your spouse like that, chances are your spouse will, too. And yes, it's POSSIBLE that you might love a person who doesn't, or can't, love their spouse …and that is sad. It really is. But I'd rather go to the Olympics and fail, than never go at all. Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful and is not conceited. Love is not rude or self-seeking. I'm waiting for the right one. If you agree with what I said, then contact my whatsapp: +447901380061 I travel around the world, and my love won't be limited by district. Never Ever Part As Lovers.

oh men men men, not feeling comfortable if the women makes more money. such fragiles egos

men to need to work on their self esteem/ego issues, how does making less than your spouse make you feel shameful? Yall playing on the same team...

Love what you guys are doing. Its some of the best content on RU-vid imo. But plz put some borders on you subtitels.

I love this video!!! and found it so relatable (good to see some aussies in it) ** thats where in from**

My Dad retired when I was 11 due to health reasons and he’s been the one taking on all the caring roles whilst my Mum is the ‘breadwinner’ nobody every questions it and it works better with their respective dispositions.

I love the fact that all of the fathers thought they were (and able to be) the heart AND the breadwinner of the family at the same time lol

Wow the first dad seemed delusional

I'd like to know what the question was that led to the answer the video started with. Whatever the question was cutout altogether and they never refer to ballet dancing or anything like that again

women should be payed the same amount as men. PERIOD

Lmao the guys face when his dad said no to would you breast feed

The gender equality issues in Australia are some of the worst I've seen (I'm Australian btw) . The stereotypes are strong and the need to fit into these masculine vs feminine structures are still so valued - if not, even more recently. It's actually odd for me to see this open dialogue between the fathers and sons since I would've expected the fathers to scoff at some of the questions or try to deter from really answering. So I applaud these sons for challenging their dads!

Very interesting concept, big thumbs up for including different cultures! please remake it with more provocative questions and women, too. 👍🏼

Good to see the Indians...being one, it's kinda funnily relatable😁

If I'm doing 6 years of Med school, my husband better not be uncomfortable with me making more money than him/equal amounts of money. Don't understand men who are uncomfortable with that at all.

Australian guy is soo handsome 😍 the one in the white shirt with pink sleeves

People get paid for the hard/valuable work they’ve done. So if a woman and a man are doing the same job (and neither is a bad employee who just goes to work everyday play computers), why should the woman get paid less? My mum was often the best employee of the month in her company before she retired, and I would be pissed to know if she earned less than her male colleagues for the same work (although she was probably paid less...). But at least that doesn’t change my equal respect for her as a working mum to provide for the house and my education. Nowadays it’s getting harder and harder for working-class women (who also marry a working-class man) to become a full-time housewife. So if a woman has to work and takes on the impossible task of balancing work/housework/childcare (hopefully along with her husband who’s not too “uncomfortable” with doing dishes and changing diapers), she better gets paid adequately or otherwise the household is just gonna get poorer and poorer...oh wait, that may just be what the ruling class wants. A poorer and weaker working-class. Never mind then.

I grew up with a dad that made far less then my mom. It never even occurred to me that that was weird or that it weakened my dads masculinity, because it didn’t seem like it.

I've got tears in my eyes. I expected this to be full of Americans telling a narrative I've already seen all over the internet. But instead I got my Aussie blokes questioning how they can help to make a difference when it comes to equality, and really seeing that shift in just one generation. Truly gives me hope.

Notice how the one of Australian father and son were not in the thumbnail, I wonder why that is?

What's the point of having a dad in the home if he isn't taking a major part of raising a child?

Could you upload english subtitles on your videos?

Lmao when the dude was like ‚i think we did it equally‘ and his son was like ‚no mom did way more of the housework‘ it‘s always like that. My dad does the dishes once and that gives him enough pride to use it as an argument for the next entire week while my mom sweaps the floors and cleans the bathrooms lol

In my country all women work. There’s no such thing as a breadwinner here. Both bring money to the table and both do house chores equally.

You know why people who aren’t married are free? *Because they can be whatever they want of the household.* 😌

Dude with the bun and nose ring is FOINEEEEE

This was so freakin interesting! You guys really work hard on standing out with your content

I really applaud Cut for doing such great visual anthropological work!

Tense convo. But definitely necessary for those fathers

Loved everything about this! different cultures, different generations, inportant topic: hope theres more!!!!

Loved this! I'd like to see more videos like this. Hearing the opinions of others is always fascinating.

I love this. I loved being able to hear them speak in their native tongue, not have them speak in English/translate. We need more of that. I feel like in America we rarely consume content where there is someone speaking in another language. Yet in other countries people watch American/English content all the time.

It's sad to see the fathers think of themselves as the heart of the family but then hear their son think the opposite. And then immediately afterwards is the bit about the son telling his dead he wish he worked less and spent more time with him :(

It is actually unattractive to me to have a partner that is seeking to live a life without work. I would hope that my spouse has a drive to do something with their life instead of trying to piggy back off of me.

Would love to see women and men from the same cultures talk with an interviewer about career expectations for the different genders, and if there was a distribution of work difference between genders. I did this at school once. It was very interesting.

"I would feel uncomfortable with [the woman earning as much money as me]." Ooh, the hypermasculine insecurity.

Would love to see more videos like this with even tougher questions!! It's really important and interesting to challenge normative views and actions, thanks for making this video :)

We as men often say we want equality in the household, but the actions speak for themselves. Chores suck. But someone's got to do it. And if not us, as men, who else?

That dad with the bomber has a cool jacket

The guy with the mini ponytail is cute

Cut always has the most interesting content

i’m a girl and thinking about wearing a suit to a school dance...

OMG. I HAD TO DOUBLE CHECK THIS WAS A CUT VIDEO WHEN I HEARD AN AUSSIE ACCENT OMG THERES HOPE I CAN BE ON THE CHANNEL ONE DAY ❤️

Funny how all these men said they thought they were the hearts of the households, but their sons all said otherwise. Some said chores were split evenly, their sons were like 'actually, no, mom did that.' Every one of the first generation men know what's going on in the media, and all they were trying to do was stay ahead of the times. Saying it doesn't fix it; if that was the case, the issues would've been gone a long time ago.

Daaang where the alcohol at for THESE questions. Lmao. Awkwaaaaaaard!

“I wouldn’t be comfortable with her making more than me” That is the reason why we have a gender pay gap to begin with

The answers to these questions can never be generalized. Each relationship to their own. If the women wants to work a full-time job, let her, divide up the childcare/chores/whatever. If the father wants to spend more time with the children (than the average dad), let him, work it out with your husband/wife. It's about communication and compromises.

Ignorance is bliss right? ..........Marriage is a partnership, let it be 50-50!!!

You should do a video on "what is rich to you?" Ifeel like everyone describes "rich" as a different amount depending on their life experience

This video shows how women suffer in their lives and and how men's lives are better 💔

I need this to be longer!

White shirt with red sleeves australian and man bun japanese were SO attractive i can't

I literally just found this channel today and I love it, awesome content!

wow Cut, u guys come up with the most interesting and thought provoking videos im really in awe and respect.

Well I just learned that "hmmmm" means "let's see" in Japanese. Fascinating.

the son who did ballet and relationship with his dad reminds me of billy elliot !

My dad didn’t have a job when I was growing up (still doesn’t, I’m 16) zand my mom is still the breadwinner of the house, like fully and when I told my friends that when I was younger they thought it was so strange. But I never really did because my moms always been the head of the household and my dad was always the stay at home dad and cleaned and cooked while my mom worked all day. :p

In fairness, a lot of fathers are the primary bread winners of the household, and if you're middle class or lower, you have to work a lot just to survive. This seems to be overlooked a lot, not necessarily in this video, but in the topic of childcare and raising kids

I am so grateful to my parents for the education they gave me . I was equally raised by my mother and father , they both did the domestic chores (and so did I) , they both worked, they both took care of feeding me and my brother, they both entertained us , they both taught us about sexuality and other topics when we were of age . My father can cook a six course meal and my mother can fix any engine , and vice versa because they also taught each other and taught my twin brother and myself as well . I am married to a Japanese born and raised in Japan and hell was the childhood different ! Though we are the same age . We have 5 kids which we are raising equally though it is a bit different since we are both males . And don't start with the that's why you are gay . My Identical twin brother turned out straight .

Love the mateship between the father and son from Australia :)

Red sleeved baseball tee- heeeyyyy how you doin’?

Now u can watch the video (again)

My dad, who's a baby boomer and a solid 13 years older than my mom, has always had the mindset of "women raise the children and do housework, men make the money and do yard-work every once in a while". Ever since they got divorced though, and split custody evenly, he's had to do all the cooking and cleaning and whatnot for his house. He even told me awhile ago that he thinks he would have made a pretty good stay at home dad, and I respect him a lot for that.

i like how casually they threw in different languages, and didn't make a big deal out of it, they just gave us subtitles and left it at that. i want more multi-lingual videos.

That first guy reminds me of Paul Mccartney

What’s the dude with the pony tails @ 😍