I’m 66 and retired last year and live alone (and love it!) I have always been pretty disciplined so I have a daily routine for cleaning and I’m a minimalist. I try to get 8 hrs sleep, practice intermittent fasting, walk a mile outside each morning and Pilates classes twice a week. It really helps me to be structured. I get up early as I did when working. Thanks for this great video 💕
Your daily structures sounds amazing! Super important to support your ideal lifestyle with your structure. We appreciate you watching and striving to be your best - you're an inspiring example for others 🙏💕
Same but no Pilates, weight exercise every other day and walking. 64 here. I too get up same time as when I worked love the early morning peacefulness especially not having to get in the car and go to work. Clean uncluttered house, clean body , stress free financial life. Gonna really enjoy this time of life . I know it’s great because the days go by so quick. Never experienced a quick day at annoying 9-5 schedule. God bless you enjoy a healthy life.
You have SO hit the nail on the head! I woke at 6am and was out the house for 6.30am (without even having an alarm clock!) for nearly 40 years. Then I retired and I just CANNOT drag my ar*e out of bed before 9am most days, probably because there’s no REASON to get up that early any more…… I know all the health experts tell us how much better it is to rise at 4am etc but to my mind, that just makes for a VERY long day!!!
The loneliest I ever felt was when I was married.. I’m now 53 and single..went back to school at 50 and just started a new career working from home..I love living alone
It takes a lot of courage to embrace change, especially when it involves such significant life transitions like going back to school and starting a new career. It's interesting how you've found more contentment in being single and living alone than when you were married. It just goes to show that happiness isn't one-size-fits-all. It's about finding what works for you, what makes you feel alive, fulfilled, and at peace. Working from home can offer a unique kind of freedom and flexibility. You've got the space to be yourself, to create your own rhythm, and to shape your environment in a way that suits you best. It sounds like you're thriving in this setup! And as for loneliness, it's not about being alone or with someone. It's about feeling understood, valued, and connected, whether that's with a partner, a friend, or even just with yourself. So, if you're enjoying your own company, then you're on the right track! ✨
When married, were you the husband or the wife ? I could not guess from your comment ! I think women cope better when driven to live alone when older...Men tend to find it more challenging.
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovement Yous said : " And as for loneliness, it's not about being alone or with someone. It's about feeling understood, valued, and connected, whether that's with a partner, a friend, or even just with yourself " People who have a connection with God don not feel as lonely as those who don't. If you feel the 'presence' of God you are never alone. Good people find comfort in this .
Me too , I am 75 , divorced for 25 years, I loved living alone, do whatever I want , got into line dancing 4 days a week and swimming, meet lots of people, best years of my life 🥳🥳
I had a vicious, incompetent "mother" by 14 I was the family slave.. I married a weirdo I could not get away from... When I found out he was killing patients...the nightmare of trying to stay alive to get him and his best friend investigated..was actually a huge wake up call... 3 out of 4 siblings turned out like psycho maw...stole everything.. So... being alone is a GOOD thing for me... I have been alone and desperately lonely ALL my life but did not know why I felt so badly... I wish I could find a few people of similar values...but MANY people are SO crazy...I would rather not go through that again. Social media helps a lot...I wish I had a little more connection..but people who have been savagely abused really can appreciate the safety of aloneness.
I'm almost 70 and live alone in a remote widerness in Western Maine for 20 years. I have no outside support. I Often don't go to town or see another human for a couple weeks. Music, nature based artwork and Photography are my passion. I'm also 12 chapters into writing a book about my 47 years as a Professional Mountain Guide. With all of that, their are times I ache for the Human Voice.
Your lifestyle sounds incredibly rich and fulfilling, with your passion for music, art, and writing. Yet, it's understandable to yearn for human connection. Your experiences are valuable and you have so much to share. Keep going with your book, it sounds fascinating!
I'd love to hear about your nature based artwork and your book. I too am writing a book and love nature and photography (I'm much younger than you but during extreme isolation of the pandemic, nature taught me so much and I felt much more connected to what was around me. Inside flowers fascinate me! Keep writing and I hope you get to publish your book, of that's what you want to do...
I understand that ache you speak of. Good news is 1. You sound physically fit from being a guide. 2. You have artistic talents-that is HUGE. 3. You are writing a book about a full life you have led. That is beautiful.
I can speak from experience. I am 65 years old. When my husband died nearly 18 months ago, my world turned upside down. I’d retired a few months earlier to be his caregiver. After his death, I felt I’d been dropped into the middle of the ocean. It’s taken a great deal of effort to save myself from drowning in deep sorrow and stark loneliness.
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. ♥️ It takes immense courage to share your story. You are not alone in this journey and if you ever need someone to talk to, please reach out
There's a big difference between living alone in your 20's and living alone in your 60's! By that age, you are no longer working and seeing people all the time, plus many of us in this age group have lost many family members and friends. Its much more isolating than you realise, and I know now what people mean when they say you 'become invisible'..
It's true, aging can sometimes feel like a journey into uncharted territory, especially when you find yourself living alone after years of being surrounded by friends, family, and colleagues. But even though the landscape of life changes as you age, it doesn't mean you have to fade into invisibility. Quite the contrary! This can be a time of exploration, self-discovery, and new connections. Take this as an opportunity to rekindle old hobbies or discover new ones. Join clubs or groups that interest you. There are countless communities out there filled with people who share similar interests and experiences. The point is, you're far from invisible. You have a wealth of experience, wisdom, and stories to share. And there are people out there eager to listen, learn and connect. 🤗
agreed. When she said she was 40, I stopped watching. Because to know what someone is going thru at 60 is way different than making up things you did in your 20s.
I totally understand where you're coming from. There's a world of difference between being in your 40s and experiencing life in your 60s. The concerns, insights, fears, and joys can be worlds apart, and it's tough to fully grasp that without living it firsthand. But here's the thing: while I might not have hit the big 6-0 yet, I've spent countless hours talking with, learning from, and supporting those who have. As a retirement coach, my goal isn't to pretend I've walked in your shoes, but rather to share the wisdom, experiences, and advice I've gathered from those who have. Think of me as a relay runner in the race of life. I'm not running your lap, but I'm here to pass on the baton - the shared knowledge and insights from those who've run before. And hopefully, that baton carries a little bit of motivation, inspiration, and guidance for your journey ahead. So while I might still be a few years away from understanding the 60s personally, I'm here, ready and eager to support you in any way I can.
I'm 60 and really enjoy spending time by myself. There are times, however, when I crave more human connection. The key word here is CONNECTION, not just being around people. I feel discouraged in finding human connection as I feel like, most of the time, I end up doing all the work: making the invites, coming up with plans, checking in, actively listening. It is hard to find people who are fun, mindful, and interested in/capable of true connection. I find that most people are too self-centered; i.e., their focus is to be seen and heard. They're not really interested in seeing and hearing others and I end up feeling drained.
Your sentiments echo the feelings of many. Craving deep, genuine connections is a universal human experience, especially as you grow older. It's disheartening when the effort feels one-sided. But it's often in our most challenging moments that we discover your true strength and resilience. Consider this a journey of self-discovery, where each encounter teaches you something new. There are likeminded individuals out there who also yearn for meaningful connections. Don't lose heart; keep reaching out, keep listening, and keep sharing your wonderful self with the world. Your tribe is out there, waiting to connect with someone just like you. And it's perfectly okay to enjoy your own company. Cherish these quiet moments of solitude, for they offer a unique opportunity to reconnect with yourself. Stay strong! 🌟🙌
Omg omg! This is exactly what I think. I'm 64 and now widow since August after 22y marriage 😢 I'm very lonely even though i had to move into an apartment. I'm trying not to go crazy bc I've got a disability and my husband would help me alot
68 here. Exactly. Most people are so passive 😟 The only thing they want to do is eat out (gets expensive) and talk talk talk. I’ve looked into volunteering-“no volunteer positions available.” So I’m turning into a hermit of sorts. 😶🌫️
I can't compare living alone in my 60s to living alone in my 40s or 20s. It's a completely different life, physical situation, and mind space. It is truly "alone."
You're absolutely right, each stage of life comes with its own unique experiences and challenges. While I may not have personally lived through my 60s yet, my role as a retirement coach has given me valuable insights into the different aspects of this life phase. I've had the privilege to walk alongside many individuals navigating their 60s and beyond, learning from their wisdom and experiences. My aim is to use this knowledge to provide guidance, support, and encouragement. Hope this video helped ❤️
Finances absolutely play a role in how we experience retirement. But a good life isn't solely defined by the size of your bank account. It's also about the richness of your experiences, the quality of your relationships, and the joy you find in simple pleasures. Yes, money can provide comfort and security, but there's so much more to life!
I'm on disability and I have everything I need. I go to thrift stores and have bought expensive like new furniture. It's also fun buying collectables and other things for my house. I budget and I'm doing well. My home is almost payed for and it was worth it being frugal. People come over and ask me if I'm rich. I'm not trying to look that way so I tell them I'm not. It's all what you make of a situation.
Having enough money to indulge in the things and activities you love will certainly help in combatting loneliness. If God willing, I will want to buy myself a good adventure touring bike and travel to see the world without having to worry about my finances.
Agreed. For one thing, the money you spend of health care expenses is very different. When I am sick now, it takes much more money and much more time to get better. My energy levels when I am sick or injured is quite different than when I was 40 and 'worked through' having a broken rib or pneumonia.
You're absolutely right! Life at 40 and in your 60s can be as different as night and day. Each decade brings its own unique experiences, challenges, and joys. And while I may not have walked in your shoes at 63, I'm here to lend an understanding ear and share the wisdom gathered from many others who have.
I am 60 and have lived alone for most of the last 25 years. I am never lonely. What faces us at 60 is far different than at 40 so I am sorry to say that you have no validity on this subject. At 60 you start to think about what you are facing in the near future (retirement, death, loss of friends and family, illness, to name a few) and at 40 you cannot possibly know how that feels when it pretty much consumes your life.
Thank you for sharing your perspective so candidly. It's always enlightening to hear from individuals who have walked the path and experienced the journey first-hand. As a retirement coach, I don't claim to fully understand every individual's personal journey or feelings. While I may not be 60 yet, I've had the privilege of sharing numerous conversations with people in their 60s and beyond. These discussions have given me insights into the concerns, challenges, and opportunities that come with aging and retirement. And you're absolutely right. The mindset at 40 is different than at 60. Our priorities shift, our perspectives evolve, and we begin to think about aspects of life that perhaps didn't consume much of our thoughts before. Retirement, health, loss - these are serious, profound topics that deserve attention and understanding. What I hope to bring to this space, even as someone younger, is empathy, guidance, and a listening ear. I aim to provide tools and resources that can help make navigating these concerns a little less daunting. ❤️
I was single and lived alone at 40 and 60 and I think her 7 points to help with loneliness are valid and helpful for both. Sure you might be in a different place and focused on different things. She isn't proposing to solve all your problems here, but to give you pointers to help with loneliness.
Money is important, but it's not the be-all and end-all of life. It's a tool, not a goal. It's a resource we can use to craft the life we want, to ignite the passions that set your soul on fire.
A certain amount of money is necessary. It allows freedom of movement and alleviates stress from paying bills etc. However, I personally know some happy people with very limited $$ and some miserable rich people
I live alone as a 60 year old retired widow. I read, attend craft days and other programs at our library and a local church, walk for an hour at the Rec center , use weights at home, garden, visit older friends who are home alone or in a nursing facility, do Bible study on RU-vid, ride my bike, attend free music program outside in our town, go to the movies.
Wow, you're truly an inspiration! Your zest for life and the variety of activities you're involved in are simply amazing. You're proof that retirement isn't about slowing down, but rather about embracing life with open arms and a heart full of passion. 🥰
When you are in your 40s you are in your peak earning years. In your 60s you are often limited in your earning potential and may be struggling with inflation. It is hard to have much of a social life on a limited income. If you have already established friendships, they may be content with a cup of home brewed coffee and a walk but the fact is, most things cost money now and not within the reach of a single senior.
It's true, the transition into retirement often involves navigating new financial realities. But value isn't always about dollars and cents. The richness of life comes from experiences, relationships, and personal growth. Sure, a night out on the town might not be as frequent, but that cup of home-brewed coffee with a good friend, or a peaceful walk in nature can offer priceless moments of joy. And who knows? This could be the perfect time to explore low-cost or free activities in your community, or even pick up a new hobby. We have a list of over 100 things to do in retirement and most of them are free 👇 bestnextchapters.secondwindmovement.com/101-things-to-do-in-retirement-free-ebook-yt
Community centre activities only charge $50 membership fee a year ( of course it varies, but usually inexpensive for seniors ) with at least 10 activities to choose from every day , all run by senior volunteers. Get to meet a lot of people.
@@rubychung750 I'm not american. In my city they have a seniors membership that is about $50 but then you pay program fees on top of that. The membership gets you a discount, that's all.
@@georgesontag2192 The fastest growing segment of homeless people are seniors. Why? Because pensions do not get indexed to inflation unless you were a government worker. Also healthcare bills and prescriptions add up. Property taxes and insurance go up higher than pensions. Food has gone up 30% in the past 4 years. Financial planners tend to underestimate costs. I laughed at mine when I was told I don't have to work any more. Glad I never followed THAT advice!
Love the alone time, 64 and retired since 61. I had enough people and forced relationships at work. Worked heavy labor in construction had my fill of macho smoking, chewing tobacco, drinking fools in my life. This alone is God’s gift for me. All good points you make here. Don’t need them all but they are generally good.
I am absolutely loving my life at the mo. I am 68 and feel the best i`v ever felt or been. I still have my youngest son who is 26 living and working at home. I was married young at 18 pregnant and so ignorant and innocent. I was divorced in my late thirties but fell pregnant in my early forties unplanned with a new partner who has not shared out r lives and has since died. I have two older sons of fifty and 46 but feel so free and contented with life. I have no desire or need for sharing my life with anyone but my son. Life is good and i feel at my best. I went vegan 11 yrs ago for ethical reason and my health improved within weeks, (mental and physical ) and i would describe myself as now as being the best iv ever felt or been. When we are young we think we need a man or partner to support us, We under estimate our strength, both mental and physical for some reason, but until we go it alone we really come into our own and find our true strength.
Wow, your story is truly inspiring! It's amazing to see how you've embraced life with such vigor and positivity at 68. Your journey, from a young bride to a confident, independent woman, is a testament to your strength and resilience. Stay vibrant and keep sharing your wonderful experiences with us. You never know who might be inspired by your story next! 🥰
One more crucial thing is a regular scheduled shower and personal hygiene time. Which include brushing flossing and gargling, nothing worse then an old person who smells old and wears old out of style clothes. A fresh dab or two of nice soft perfume for a lady or a nice dab of cologne for men, doesn’t have to or most often shouldn’t be old spice lol. A clean body using body wash like axe or something fresh . And a nice upright intentional posture for as long as you possibly can physically do it. One more thing a little pep in your step. Don’t have to try to act younger than you are but a as young of a version for your age is cool.
@@marianfrances4959 unfortunately I knew younger ones too. No excuses for them. Us old people are slowly deteriorating away naturally so we do need to try a little harder and if retired have plenty of time to work on it.
Remember what you said 40 years from now, when you are in that position of an older person and not working, lost many of your friends, maybe divorced, health issues.
I am 60 and have living alone for the past ten years. I'm not retired. Recently I went back to grad school to become a Mindfulness and Transpersonal Counselor. Between grad school and part-time work I keep busy. I also go hiking and biking regularly and attend a dance class twice a week and Yoga on Saturdays. I do get lonely from time to time. Journaling helps and going for a walk in nature usually grounds me. Thank you for this information. 🙏🏼✨️🌺
Your journey is truly inspiring! Embracing learning and staying active, both physically and mentally, are fantastic ways to make the most of this chapter in your life. Remember, it's okay to feel lonely sometimes - just know that you're not alone in this journey. ❤️
I’m 71 years old and single all my life.. I get up and walk for at least an hour every morning either at the community center or around the local lakes in Minneapolis…
Hey there, thanks for your comment! You're absolutely right. I may not be 60 yet, but I've been fortunate enough to work with many vibrant and resilient individuals who are living alone past 60. They've shared their experiences, challenges, and triumphs with me, and it's been a journey of discovery for all of us. So, while I might not know what it feels like to be 60, I do understand the concerns and aspirations of those who are. And I'm here to support and inspire you on this journey ☺️
absolutely! once you get sick, your realize how important having someone being concerned about your well being is so important. Plus, there are all the little mundane unimportant things to share with another person, that friends would not have as much time for. Counting for someone and being counted are important for well being.
Thank you for your comment! You're right, I'm a retirement coach in my forties and I haven't personally reached 60 yet. But, that doesn't stop me from helping you plan your golden years effectively. Think of it this way: I'm a guide on this journey. While I haven't walked the path myself just yet, I'm equipped with the right tools, resources, and knowledge to help you navigate your own route confidently. Every day, I work with people who are enjoying their life post-retirement, learning from their experiences, and applying those insights to help others like you. I hope that you still found the tips helpful 🤗
The fact she is only 40 and not 60 is manifested when she spoke of the importance of decluttering and failed to mention the risk of FALLING, a major risk factor many seniors face when living in a cluttered environment.
I’m amazed that some one with 0 experience has so much to say .I’m 70 , been an athlete all my life and I know that I’m 100 percent more fit than probly all the people on the this blog including the presenter. People who live together live longer period . Like the Bible says if a person falls there spouse will help them up. Ww3 is starting good luck!
I am 68 and i love living alone and it is something i should have done when I was younger. I have learned so much about myself and especially about the results of my decisions. I used to live with family and i appreciated them. But now i say a prayer quite often when I come home to my place. I get to choose whatever I like.
It's wonderful to hear your story and the sense of empowerment and self-discovery that living alone has brought you. At 68, you're standing strong in the prime of your life, embracing solitude not as a sign of loneliness, but as a testament to your independence. Love it 😍
It’s a real challenge. I live with 19 cats but still miss that human personal connection. You are amazing. I like this video and will watch your other videos, hoping to learn something new. Thanks for inspiring me.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing a bit about your life with us. It sounds like you’ve got quite the lively household with your 19 furry friends! While pets can fill our lives with joy and companionship, it’s completely understandable to yearn for more human connections as well. I'm thrilled to hear you found some inspiration here, and I hope our upcoming videos continue to provide you with new insights and ideas 💗
60 in March...isolated and lonely.Avoid most people as energy vampires or sexual predators.All family died.Find peace in nature and fresh air self care and love.Would rather b alone than be abused or controlled by narccistic men.Not invisible yet as determined i never will be makeup haircare..very important for the self esteem.Not ready to give it all up yet..Look at Joan Collins married a younger man makes the best of herself at nearly 90! What a woman ❤ go ladies!
First off, happy early birthday! Your 60s are a time of new beginnings and self-discovery, and it's clear you're embracing this journey with strength and determination. I admire your resilience. You've faced tough times, but you continue to find peace in the beauty of nature and the simple acts of self-care. There's something incredibly empowering about choosing solitude over toxic relationships. It takes courage and self-love, and you have ample amounts of both! Your spirit reminds me of Joan Collins - always vibrant, always fabulous, and never letting age define her. She's an icon who knows her worth and isn't afraid to show it. And clearly, so are you! So go ahead and rock your 60s, just like Joan rocks her 90s 💪❤️
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovement Thankyou for your positive support Cyn it means alot to me. I will give it all my best shot.You are Amazing too! 🙂❤ Thankyou for your love this day x ive subscribed love
Maybe you should think about giving suggestions for living your best life in your twenties, or living alone after 35 or 40, something you have first-hand experience with. It's hard to see you as an authority on the subject from reading a book or what other seniors have told you. Although I appreciate your effort, you are far from 60. When was 40 I couldn't even conceptualize the changes I would face at 60. Now that I'm here things have happened in my life and body that have truly surprised me. I live alone and have for 28 years. I love living alone and dancing to the beat of my own drum. It’s really all a state of mind.
Thanks for your response, I hear you. In these videos I’m sharing some tips and tools that have helped students and clients in my programs and private coaching sessions throughout the years since 2018 (the application is research-based and universal yet the outcome is unique to the individual). Just a sidenote- I don’t recommend replicating anyone’s life or experience (and certainly not mine) as the answers people seek are found inward. I’m grateful to be a practicing retirement life coach and love helping this audience. So great to hear you love living alone and are dancing to the beat of your own drum! 💕
I am 59 and I started to live alone 8 mths ago after my son moved out. I don't like living in an empty house. I miss my sons company. I have health issues which makes it difficult for me to keep a clean house. I am in a social group called meet up and do activities with my social group almost every day because I don't like being alone in my house and I need to be with other people. I also go for walks along the beach almost every day .
Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It takes courage to embrace these changes and it's amazing to hear how you're actively making life fulfilling and engaging for yourself. For those days when the house feels a bit too quiet, perhaps consider introducing elements that bring you joy - it could be a favorite piece of music playing in the background, or arranging your space with comforting items that hold fond memories. As for maintaining the house, it's absolutely okay to ask for help. There are services available that can assist with household chores, making it easier for you to manage your health and well-being. You're doing an amazing job, Sheila! 😊
Given that I'm a retirement life coach, I've had the privilege of working with hundreds of older adults. Combining their experiences, my research, and approach, I aim to help older adults thrive in every aspect of their lives
I'm 78 years and I think all she has said is very relevant and helpful. As for me I've basically included most of those suggestions in my lifestyle for the longest while. A person's mindset about their personal well being can determine the quality of their aging life. I have contemporaries who sit and literally plan their funeral,on the contrary,I plan my life, because I'm living. When I die,the living will take care of that,but life is for living. Thank you for sharing your helpful tips,especially for people who are hellbent on thinking loneliness.
I realized I didn't like being alone after being divorced for 20 years. 4 years I met Rocky and he has a attitude but he's pretty clean. Hes also affectionate and sweet. Hes my cat and that's all I need. Im to busy to be lonely. Never was so happy the last 20 years.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It's not always easy to navigate life changes like divorce, but you've shown tremendous strength and resilience ❤️
I did not see anything in the video about volunteering in organizations. It is a good way to get out of the house, interact with people, and feel better about yourself. I recommend delivering meals for Meals on Wheels. It serves a vital purpose and everyone likes to get food.
Great point! Volunteering is indeed a fantastic way to stay engaged and give back to the community. 👏 Thank you for sharing your experience with Meals on Wheels - it's an excellent recommendation. However, I'd like to emphasize that it's about finding the *right* volunteer opportunity for you and not following someone else's advice. It's about discovering what would bring you the most joy and purpose
I have lived alone my entire adult life. I am 65 and not yet retired, but work from home. I moved to a new state a few years ago and that's been the hardest. But I agree with everything she says in this video. I will have a structured plan in place when I retire. I have been working on my sleeping and eating habits too. I attend events outside of home to try to make friends in my new state, but this is not that easy and it takes time. I have lots of hobbies, love to read etc, so for me if I could just find a new friend or two, I would be fine. I think she could add having friends/people. I do have family near me, so that does keep me from being lonely too.
It's wonderful to hear that you're proactively building a structured plan for your retirement. Moving to a new state can indeed be challenging, especially when it comes to making new friends. But remember, good things often take time, and with your positive attitude, I'm confident you'll soon find those new friends you're looking for. ☺️
You're absolutely correct, and I appreciate your honesty. In my 20s, I experienced living alone, and while it was indeed a significant period in my life, I'm fully aware that it doesn't equate to the experience of living alone in your 60s. My experience in my 20s taught me independence, resilience, and the ability to enjoy my own company. But as a retirement coach now in my 40s, I understand that being on your own in your 60s is an entirely different chapter, one that I respect deeply. This phase of life might bring with it a certain solitude, but it also presents an opportunity for self-discovery and growth 🌟
I am 55 y and i love be alone. I was married 18 y and after i separated to be free, like a bird. And i love it!! It is the best time of my life!! I think i will never feel alone, because i always find something to do.
The joy you've found in solitude is a beautiful reminder that life's best moments often come when we embrace change and chart our own course. It's so wonderful to hear 🥰
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What you’re saying is true, yet because of the age difference and generation, the times, the people 60 and older have experienced a totally different lifestyle and culture that is impossible to explain unless you’ve lived it. And for some, we’ve made some tragic lifetime decisions that can’t be changed and that are still being felt with. There are answers for everything and I appreciate your excellent ideas and efforts in wanting to help those older than you. ❤️
Your words truly resonate, and I couldn't agree more. Each generation has its unique experiences, challenges, and defining moments that shape its perspective. And while we may not have lived those moments ourselves, we can certainly learn from them. You're absolutely right, some decisions leave an indelible mark on our lives, and the repercussions can be felt long after. But every experience, even the most difficult ones, teaches us something valuable. They shape us into who we are and equip us with wisdom. And you know what? That's the beauty of life. Thank you for your kind words and for being part of this conversation. Your journey is our inspiration. ❤️
It can be so disheartening to feel unnoticed ❤️ But there's a world full of people feeling just the same way, waiting to connect. What if you took the helm and started a hobby club, or joined an online community? You'd be surprised how many folks are looking for companionship.
I appreciate your honesty, and I completely understand where you're coming from. Age does bring wisdom and unique experiences that can't be replicated. But remember, wisdom can also come from learning, understanding, and empathizing with others' experiences-not just our own. So while I may not have personal experience of being 60 or living alone at that age, I've spent countless hours talking to, learning from, and sharing stories of those who do. I take their insights and advice to heart, and my aim is to offer you the same wisdom they've shared with me.
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovementI’m in my late 60’s and think you have very good advice for older people. I’ve watched a lot of videos and find yours to be the best. You have great advice and have been helping me a lot with starting retirement. Keep up the great positive work.
I live alone but have a LAT relationship -Living alone together Perfect I am always there for her and vice versa. I love living alone and we share a dog. Big suggestion- Have easy and quick access to a good hospital. The older you get, the more likely you will need it. Kids, grand kids, reading, travel, exercise, dog walking,volunteering: I don’t know I ever had time to work!
I am 75 , divorced and lived alone for 25 years . I loved it , get to do whatever I want. I am lucky I got into line dancing 4 days a week and swimming , party more than in my 20’s ( too busy working and raising a family.) Meet lots of people . Best years of my life .
So a person who is 40 is telling a 60 pplushow to thrive even though she doesn't live alone. Also, how about an environment that is not echoing as it us so distracting . Moving on....
Hi there, and thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts. I can totally understand where you're coming from. After all, experience is indeed a great teacher. However, as a retirement coach, my role is to gather, analyze, and present information that can help individuals navigate their retirement years with confidence and joy. While I may be in my 40s, my advice comes from extensive research, personal experiences, and the shared experiences of those who have walked this path before. I've had the privilege of working with many incredible individuals in their 60s and beyond, and their insights have been invaluable in shaping the advice I offer. As for the echo in the video, I appreciate your feedback. It's always important to ensure that our communication is clear and easily understandable. I'll definitely take this into account for future videos. Hope the tips were helpful at least 😊
I'm 61 retired almost 2 years. Thank you for the thoughtful video full of valid points and suggestions. Just want to say that some of these comments are just terrible. As a former social worker, I had clients well past my own age that needed my help and resources. They learned from me and I them. Ms. Meyer is contributing to society and developing her empathic skills. Wisdom can be obtained at any age. Some of us older folks need to knock that chip off the shoulder. We don't know everything.
First off, a hearty congratulations on your well-deserved retirement! 🎉 Learning is indeed a two-way street. It's not about age, but about open hearts and open minds. Yes, we bring our own experiences to the table, but there's always room for another serving of knowledge. As a former social worker, you've seen firsthand the power of empathy and understanding. You've made a difference in so many lives, and that's something to be immensely proud of. Thank you for your kind words 💗
It is hard to listen to at 40 year old tell us 65+ retirees how to survive and thrive when we are living alone. We already made it thru 6+ decades, school, working, marriage, children planning for retirement and all of her knowledge is BOOK LEARNING NOT her own EXPERIENCE. (20+ partying and living alone is not 60+ living alone because the "Partying years are so 1980s". It is a bit much and I think we older adults, if we have made it this far we can figure it out ourselves.
I truly appreciate your candid feedback and respect the wealth of experience you bring to the table. While my age might not match yours, my goal as a retirement life coach is to offer insights from extensive research and expert opinions. Yet, I fully acknowledge there's no teacher quite like life itself. And that's where you come in. Your insights, your experiences - they are invaluable. I hope this platform can serve as a space where we learn from each other, share stories, and navigate the journey of retirement together. After all, every chapter of life has its unique story, and it sounds like you've got an incredible one to share.
Thanks for your suggestions. I really need to incorporate these behaviors into my daily life. I’m 78, living alone, and definitely lonely. One good habit I do have that I think you might add to your list, is walking. I walk every day, if at all possible, about 30 minutes. Walking is something that most able people can do. It helps in so many ways, mental and physical.
You're absolutely right - it's a fantastic habit that has numerous mental and physical benefits. It's a great reminder for all of us to incorporate more movement into our daily routines. You're doing amazing!
I am very happy I find your channel, it is truely wonderful. I also have a point I would like to share, that is, to find a purpose for your life. I retired in 2018 and I started a RU-vid channel in 2021 about poetry which is the passion of my life but never get a chance to do anything about it. I find it is so fulfilling. It was hard in the beginning because I did not know a thing about YouTubing. But after three years of hard work, I am so glad that I started it!! Thank you so much for offering such wonderful materials!!! Thank you!!🥰😍🤩🥰
Hi! I am your new subscriber and I am so glad that I came across your channel. I agree with everything you said. As an elderly, I am very active and busy with different activities all week. I do my daily walks, then I go to the senior center to attend aerobic class for seniors. I live alone by choice and I do not feel lonely at all. By the way, I like your pendant. May I ask where I can buy one like that? My youngest daughter likes those kinds of jewelry. I want to give her something similar to the pendant you're wearing now for her birthday next month. Thank you for your vlog!!
Thanks so much for watching and striving to be your best - we need more people like you inspiring others! My pendant is from a local art festival in Laguna Beach - it's turquoise embedded in silver, hopefully you can find something like that for your daughter from a local jeweler or handcraft artist who sells their stuff online (like Etsy)! Sending you love, keep going 🙌
I am approaching 60 and what’s become abundantly clear is the need to keep pursuing things even if we do them alone. We can self isolate and that can prevent us from enjoying these years where are health is good and we probably have a bit more time to engage with our “bucket list”. I am hyper aware of how fragile health and mobility can be as we age.
Your words ring true on so many levels. As you approach your golden years, it becomes more crucial than ever to keep engaging in activities that bring you joy, fulfillment, and a sense of purpose. Because aging isn't about slowing down, it's about moving forward and making the best of this new chapter 🎉
I've been on my own for my entire life. I don't agree that you'll have bad health if you live alone. Having less responsibility no baggage no commitments is a blessing.
It sounds like you've crafted a life that's truly your own, embracing simplicity and independence. Retirement is a wonderful time to enjoy the peace and freedom you've cultivated. Here's to savoring every moment of your well-deserved relaxation and the adventures that come with it! 🌟😊
So glad to find you! I’ve been trying to figure out how to structure my life. I am disabled due to osteoporosis, walking is very limited. But I need ideas on how to do more than move from bed to recliner. 😊 Thank you!
Hello there! 🌟 I'm thrilled you've found us too! Given your situation, gentle, seated exercises could be a fantastic way to start. Chair yoga, for instance, has been a favorite among many-it's gentle on the body but incredibly uplifting for the spirit. It can help maintain flexibility and reduce discomfort, all from the safety and comfort of your chair. Here's a helpful article to get you started 👉 secondwindmovement.com/chair-yoga/
I'm 62 retired my religion/ faith,,,my home,,,my small circle of friends// family,,my partner ( we live apart) all keep me busy,,this is the best life ever!!!
I'm in my 40s 😊 In these videos I’m sharing some tips and tools that have helped students and clients in my programs and private coaching sessions throughout the years (the application is research-based and universal yet the outcome is unique to the individual).
Happy early birthday! Turning 70 is a monumental milestone, and while you might feel alone, remember, your story is far from over. It's a chapter waiting to be filled with new adventures, connections, and discoveries.
I will never ever trust a woman again.I dont hate them I rather have my car..Relationships are so awkward.I was never any good with women.All they did is use me.I live a lonely life.I am like Benny Hill.He was a loner.A very funny man.Good men get used.
Hey there, it sounds like you're going through a bit of a rough patch, and I'm genuinely sorry to hear that. Relationships can indeed be tricky, sometimes as confusing as trying to assemble a flat-pack furniture without instructions. But not all women are the same. It's unfortunate that you've had some negative experiences, but don't let that paint your entire outlook. As you journey in life, you encounter different people with different intentions. But everyone is unique, just as every relationship is unique. And hey, there's nothing wrong with being a bit of a Benny Hill! He brought joy and laughter to many, and there's immense value in that. Our lives are filled with different roles-some of us are comedians, others are listeners, caregivers, or adventurers. Each role is valuable and appreciated. It's okay to take some time for yourself, enjoy your car rides, relish in your solitude. But don't close the garage door on the possibility of companionship just yet. You never know when you might meet someone who appreciates you for the good man you are. The road ahead is always open. Keep your eyes on the horizon and your heart open to possibilities. And as for those past experiences, consider them lessons learned on your journey. After all, even the best drivers sometimes take a wrong turn. 💗
Lets be honest here - If your alone and a male after 50 then the majority might as well get used to the fact that your going to be too unattractive to meet anyone your going to find attractive (unless your into old women ) so your going to be alone anyways so you might as well forget trying to not be alone with a partner unless your very good looking for your age and tall and or have high status or wealth . Women have an easier time of it though .
I understand your frustration, but it's essential to remember that labeling all women or men based on a few negative experiences isn't fair or accurate. Being over 50 doesn't automatically make you unattractive, just as being tall or wealthy doesn't automatically make you attractive. Attractiveness is subjective, and it varies greatly from person to person. You're not just a man over 50; you're a man with a lifetime of experiences, stories, and wisdom to share. That's something to be proud of! And there are plenty of people who would find that incredibly attractive. So, instead of focusing on the negatives, why not focus on the positives? Embrace your age, your wisdom, and your life experiences. Use them to your advantage. You might be surprised at how many people are attracted to authenticity, confidence, and positivity.
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovement Hi and thanks for your detailed reply . Your a young woman and to be honest can’t really understand why you would have the desire to produce a video about a subject you haven’t directly experienced yourself but appreciate you did . But as an older man of 55 if your looking to date younger women from say 30-50 and your not particularly tall or attractive for your age and generally speaking if you don’t have wealth or high social status no matter how much wisdom , experience or knowledge you have it won’t compensate that much unless you get lucky . I know having wealth etc isn’t the be all and end of it and personal qualities such as humour , experience , kindness etc do come into it but you have to get over the first hurdle of acceptance before you can demonstrate those qualities and as an older guy looking to date younger what you have to overcome firstly is that most , in fact , the vast majority of younger women would much prefer to date guys around there own age and those that do have daddy issues and would consider an older guy most these younger women can choose from a large dating pool of those older men so because of this they are going to pick those men that can show them a much better lifestyle and security than they currently have . Now in terms of older women , generally speaking, if they are single or have become single particularly if they are over 45 then you’ll find a lot to be happy with there solitary life as they have become accustomed to being alone or they just tend to want to hang out with there children from previous families or ,if they’ve never been married, with there cats and dogs and careers and also in most cases the physical desire to meet men diminishes as most will have reached there menopause by then and even if they do want to they tend to have a vast amount of men to choose from eg on dating sites etc so even these older women are more likely to become very picky which is understandable . You’ll also find that the majority of men who are over 45 if still single by that age tend to stay that way and that chance tends to increase as they get older . Just doing a quick Google search if you look at the statistics it states that over half of men in the uk where I live are single .
I hear you loud and clear, and you're absolutely right. It's easy to dish out advice from the sidelines without truly understanding the unique challenges and feelings that come with being in your shoes. The wisdom and experiences you've gathered over the years are invaluable. However, as a retirement coach, I believe in the power of sharing and growing together. Think of me as a guide - hope you still found the advice helpful 😊
Living alone at different stages of life is different at each stage. At 40-50, one is normally still active and healthy. When you are 55-60, health issues start cropping up and becoming a nuisance. After 60, one sees less of one childrens' faces but more of the ugly faces of diseases.
Thank you for your honest insights. It's true, each phase of life has its own rhythm and challenges. The vitality of our 40s and 50s can gradually give way to a slower pace and health concerns in our 60s and beyond. But let's flip the script a bit. Your golden years can also be a time of profound growth and rediscovery. Living alone in your 60s isn't just about managing challenges-it's about seizing opportunities. It's about celebrating the freedom to live on our own terms and embracing the joy of solitude.
I lived with other people from 18 through to 63 years of age - partners or flat mates or kids or adult kids My first 4 months of living alone were very lonely Then I got the hang of it and love it ❤ Church New friends Bible studies Ask people out for coffee or lunch - don’t wait for others to ask you Invite them over Join the gym or senior citizens Invest in friendships Share with others BE A FRIEND to others & listen not just talk I still work & volunteer & remain interested Walk or swim or go to dance classes Invite your neighbours over You name it - the world is there You choose
It's wonderful to hear that you've found joy in living alone after an initial period of loneliness. Your proactive approach-engaging in church, making new friends, and inviting people over-is a great example for others. You've shown that being active and reaching out can open up a world of opportunities. Keep enjoying your walks, swims, dance classes, and all the other activities that make your life rich and fulfilling. You're proof that retirement can be a vibrant and exciting stage of life. Well done! ❤️
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way! You're much stronger than you think, and I'm here if you ever need to talk. You're not alone in this journey. 💪💖
Age does bring along a unique set of experiences, insights, and wisdom that might be missed by someone younger. But as a retirement coach, my role isn't to fully understand your life but to guide, motivate, and inspire you on your journey. My advice doesn't come from age, but from a place of understanding and empathy towards the concerns and dreams of individuals navigating their golden years 💕
I don’t think anyone can understand how long term loneliness can impact. I’m a therapist who has lived alone for 20+ years. I’m almost 64 and I am struggling with a sense of loneliness that I have never felt before. If depression has taken hold and just being tired of being alone, losing confidence etc it makes initiating anything very difficult. I can see where you’re coming from but if we’re already treading water it’s difficult to change mind set and habit and even when I do that I’m aware that it’s always looming. And I am self aware.
Loneliness, especially long-term, can indeed take a toll. But it's never too late to invite change into your life. Each day brings a new opportunity, a fresh start, to break free from the patterns that hold you back. It might seem daunting, but small steps can lead to big changes. Reach out to an old friend, join a community group, or even adopt a pet. And therapy isn't just for your clients - it can be a lifeline for you as well ❤️
You maybe too self aware! This is a sign you are depressed as you mentioned above. Ruminating about one’s life stage can be awful. I believe you I have been there. Have you thought about getting treatment for your depression? Also try and write 10 things you are grateful for everyday. 12 Step programs are extremely beneficial for learning how to let go of the past and learn to be in the present. So many books on mindfulness and meditation are worth it!
I feel if the financial stability was there living alone at 60 wouldnt be so scary i sont see a clear path to stop working ans although my work is rewarding to me and keeps me very social it terrifies me when i retire and venture out to so other things ive always wantrd to do but nrvrr had time the money won’t be there Very scared
Sharon, your feelings are completely valid and shared by many, especially as you approach new chapters in your life like retirement. It's understandable to have concerns about financial stability and the changes that come with stepping away from a rewarding career. Your work not only provides a sense of purpose but also keeps you connected socially, which is incredibly valuable. The transition into retirement and pursuing those dreams you've had to put on hold can indeed feel daunting without a clear financial path. However, it's never too late to explore strategies that might help secure your financial future and give you the freedom to enjoy the things you've always wanted to do.
I am thankful to have found your channel. Just lost my husband of 29 years 2 months ago. Doing everything I can to tamper my loneliness and sadness. I have faith I will get there. Thanks for all these tips.
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Losing your partner after 29 years must be incredibly difficult. I'm glad our tips are making a small difference. Keep holding onto that faith-step by step, day by day, things can get brighter. If there's anything more I can do to help, please don't hesitate to reach out ❤️
Trust you will get there and you will. Give yourself heaping helpings of self love and be your best friend. Walking in nature helped me but time is what it took.❤
God knows what is best for us, our souls, our eternal salvation....He is always with us and we are never to feel lonely whether alone or amongst people....With our bodies getting weaker, we learn to live with limits, and are able to focus on that inside us on which we might have never done otherwise.....we focus on what is eternal and will last forever and get to prepare for real life after this temporary one...
What we aim to do is inspire a positive outlook and demonstrate that solitude doesn't necessarily equate to loneliness. Sometimes, it can be an opportunity for self-discovery, a chance to pursue new hobbies, or simply enjoy the peace and quiet that comes with having the place all to yourself. That being said, human connection is essential. We all crave companionship, shared laughter, mutual support, and meaningful conversations. That's why it's so important to keep reaching out-be it to family, friends, neighbors, or community groups. So, let's not view living alone as a sentence of loneliness, but rather as an opportunity to reinvent our lives in ways we might not have considered before.
I quit at 1:11 "I don't care how old you are." Honey, things ARE different in your 60s. I'm pretty sick and tired of "Age is just a number." NO, it isn't. And that's perfectly fine. How often do you think about your death, sweetheart? Because older folks HAVE to plan, take out a pre-need, keep finances transparent and organized, and think about what junk we're bringing into the house that a child or someone else is gonna have to pitch or dispose of "after." How much do you think about your gray hair as a signal of frailty to a potential criminal or scammer? We don't have that same 20s energy. We don't have that same 20s TIME ahead of us. And we are older and wiser (sometimes sadly) about a heck of a lot of life things that you in your situation can only read about.
Hey there, I appreciate your honesty! Age brings about changes that we can't merely shrug off with some catchy phrase. It's a journey, filled with unique challenges and joys, and I apologize if my words seemed to downplay that. Your 60s are indeed a time of change, contemplation, and yes, planning for the future in ways that may not cross the minds of those in their 20s or 40s. And you're absolutely right, age does bring wisdom. Wisdom that comes from decades of experience, of triumphs and failures, of love and loss. That's something that can't be replicated or replaced. As a retirement coach, my goal is not to minimize the realities of aging but to help navigate them. To provide guidance, motivation, and support as you chart your own path forward. I may not have all the answers, but I promise to listen, to learn, and to do my best to understand. I hope you found the tips helpful 💗
You’re not missing anything, and you’re not weird. Some people like living alone and some do not. Neither one is weird. I am like you. I love living alone. Please don’t let someone else’s opinion steal your joy.
for me, its not simply living alone. its suddenly after 40 happy years with a partner you are alone and your children and colleagues and friends, have their own lives to live so you truly alone.
Hello there, and thank you for sharing your feelings so candidly. It's completely understandable to feel this way after such a significant change in your life. Retirement can be a time for rediscovery and new adventures, as much as it is about reflection. You've spent 40 beautiful years nurturing relationships and now, it might be the time to nurture yourself. It's okay to feel lonely sometimes, but don't let it define your retirement years. You have a wealth of experience and wisdom to share, and there are people out there waiting to learn from you and grow with you. ❤️
Retirement is a time to explore new horizons, and for some, that might mean traveling to different parts of the world or even starting a new relationship. Whether you're planning to retire in your hometown, travel the world, or start a new relationship, the most important thing is to make sure it's a decision that truly resonates with you.
I'm 67 and living my best life! My mantras are evolution and encore. Using my career capital in public relations and developing my creative agency. Still discovering exploring and learning. Make it happen and forward motion.....baby! Life is always a creation of your own😊
What a fantastic outlook you have! Your energy and enthusiasm are absolutely contagious. At 67, you're not just living life, you're rocking it! Your journey is a beautiful reminder that learning doesn't stop at any age. Every day brings new opportunities to discover and explore, whether it's a new skill, a new place, or a new perspective. And you seem to be embracing every single one of those opportunities with open arms. Stay fabulous and continue living your best life! 😊
I don't mind living alone but just worry if I get sick who will help me as on a budget and couldn't afford to hire someone to help with chores or Healthcare??
Joyce, your concerns are entirely valid and shared by many. Living alone can be liberating, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. But remember, you're not alone in this journey. There are resources and community services available that can provide assistance, and sometimes, they are just a call away. Local volunteer groups, non-profit organizations, and even neighbors can be a source of support. And while we can't predict the future, we can certainly prepare for it. Regular health check-ups, a balanced diet, and a little bit of exercise can go a long way in maintaining good health.
I will be 70 in April. I stopped practicing law at 66. My wife of 33 years died a few months ago. I now live alone. I walk 5.4 miles at 5 am 4 days weekly, practice Taijiquan daily, do 100 pushups in the morning, do all my own house and yard work, grandpa Uber my small grandchildren, native plant and vegetable garden, study Special and General Relativity. I am just under 5’10” (2 inches shorter than I used to be), I weigh 182 pounds, have a 33 inch waist, and wear a 46 long suit coat. I have my wife’s dog, our son’s box turtle (she is about 40 years old now) and my daughter in law’s salamander to care for. I miss my wife but I am not lonely. I have always been a person who has enjoyed a lot of time alone. Your skin is beautiful for 40. Like Black people, Asian skin ages slowly. I am Black and most people think I am in my early 50s. They are stunned when I tell them my age.
Firstly, let me express my deepest condolences for the loss of your wife. It's clear from your words that you had a strong bond, and I admire your strength in moving forward with such positivity. I love that you've embraced your role as a "grandpa Uber" and care for your family's pets. The love you have for your grandchildren and these little creatures shines through, adding another beautiful layer to your rich life!
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovement I was my wife’s home hospice primary caregiver. It was the most profound experience of my life. I was the last person she saw. I learned so much.
❤❤1980. I would surf Huntington Beach pier. It was called the white ghetto. There were so man drugs it part of the culture. today, I dont drink, do drugs and been clean since 1984. I still stuff HB pier north side. I am 60.
@@CynMeyerSecondWindMovement i lost a friend Anthony Rossi. We were surfers which I remember going to his house and his Dad open the door. The lock on his Dads face.. He started to cry……. Anthony Mom came out and said, Anthony hung himself. I still remember that , I stopped all pot and stopped going to Huntington Beach Main Street the white Ghetto…. Yes, I still surfed but I would surf at cliffs or balsa Chica, I stayed away from the white ghetto.. Frank Martinez Downey California
You don't anything about living alone. Especially when you are 70 and over. You aren't anywhere near that age. So don't even think you know what its like to be alone.
I appreciate your honesty and your perspective. You're absolutely right, I haven't lived the same experiences as you, and I don't claim to know exactly what it feels like to be in your shoes. Each person's journey is unique, and I respect that. However, I want to assure you that my aim is to provide support, encouragement, and inspiration based on what I've learned from countless conversations with older adults navigating their retirement years alone. I've witnessed their resilience, their courage, and their wisdom. It's these shared experiences and stories that guide the advice and insights I offer. ❤️
If live alone some thing your disabled we are not, they wish they were us I am well educated and well travelled and eat lovely food yes 3 people loved me but their dead noe its just acquaintances and random meet ups
Living alone does not define you, nor does it make you any less capable. In fact, it sounds like you're living life on your own terms and embracing every moment of it 👏
i want to know WTF retires at 60. i'm late 50 and no way in hell could i retire. i guess you have to be really rich to retire at 60. i am busy with 3 jobs running back n forth to check on parents who retired from military in germany. retiring is not an option. teaching older adults IT and doing finance as day job.....
Retiring at 60 isn't a reality for everyone, and it's definitely not just about being rich. Many people continue working into their later years for various reasons, whether it's financial necessity, personal fulfillment, or family responsibilities. It sounds like you're juggling a lot with multiple jobs and caring for your parents - you're doing amazing work! Everyone's path is different, and it's all about finding what works best for you and your circumstances.
Stay connected? It’s difficult when the 25% of 60 year olds living alone are excluded by the the remaining 75%🙄As people grow older it becomes more difficult making new friends.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us. 😊 It's true that with age, certain aspects of our lives can become more challenging - including staying connected and making new friends. But please remember, it's not impossible! Just like a fine wine, friendship can take time to develop, and sometimes the most rewarding relationships are those that have been given the chance to mature. Don't let numbers discourage you, the 25% and 75% are just statistics, they don't define you or your ability to build meaningful connections. There are plenty of ways to meet new people and foster friendships - please check out out other videos!
I am 55 love living alone And no parasites will get my money. My will will be drafted exact until then pets, work, bargains, garden, travel, good sleep, peace, nice food, upgrade housr may move one more time Saving for retirement, less clutter, new experience, skin care, health carr Doing what I want, classes etc
I live alone ( I have a cat ) I bank and pay bills on line I have my groceries delivered I shop on Amazon when I rarely get a hankering to waste money I have a service cut my lawn/weeds I pay them online I watch church services on livestream I can't remember the last time I left the house 😊
It sounds like you've got a great system going on, managing life's necessities from the comfort of your home. While it's wonderful to enjoy the calm and solitude, remember that it's also important to occasionally step outside, breathe in some fresh air, and feel the sun on your skin. Even a brief walk around the block can do wonders for your mood and energy levels. So, go ahead and open that door - the world is waiting for you! 😊
I do many of those things. There's a answer for everything if you search. I also don't drive much either because of a disability. I do go to the dollar store and grocery store close by and talk to people there. I guess being in a small town helps.
For the most part living alone is very lonely and there is a dead feeling. I have been divorced 18 year and have a boyfriend who is dying. Life is sad and I do not feel like doing much.
I'm truly sorry to hear about the emotional challenges you're facing. It sounds incredibly tough, and it's understandable to feel overwhelmed and sad. 💔 Even small steps, like a walk in nature or a chat with a loved one, can bring moments of peace and connection. You're not alone in this, and reaching out for support is a sign of strength. Sending you warmth and care as you navigate through these hard times.
Anyone can live good at 60+ as long as they have money. Money is the key. If you retire and you’re not only alone but broke… forget it. It’s a recipe for stress and disaster. I know, I live it.
It’s true that financial security plays a significant role in retirement, but it's not the only factor in living well past 60. If you want to know more, check out this video on the 5 rings of retirement 👉 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-q_sPlCaM_tw.html
No. 5. wirh whom? can you afford to keep an animal and who will look after it when you go away? i mentioned four days ago to the lady i am having a Bible study with, that i am really struggling and yesterday, to my sister, that i am feeling down and nothing. one cannot force onesself on people. over sixties, higher chance of faling and difficulty with recovery and higher chance of illnesses, such as heart attack, strokes and cancer. loneliness - the equivalent to smoking fifteen cigarettes. the loss of one's provider = financial difficulties. the loss of one's protector, means that one's safety is at risk. one's world becomes smaller - my late husband would be the designated driver. due to financial circumstances, i do not have a car, or a home nor am i able to eat as well as u did when my husband was alive. much of the same, is true for the lady i had lunch with today. and neither am i able to dress as well as when my husband was alive and he chose and bought my clothes for me. and then there is the tiny matter of people, perhaps being threatened, by the possibility of 'husband stealing' so please don't over-simplify things and as a forty year old, I think that you are far removed fro a sixty year old's situation.
Life changes drastically after a loss, and it's not easy to navigate all the new obstacles alone. But so many people are going through similar struggles, and finding a connection can make a big difference. Stay strong and reach out whenever if you need to talk. 💛
You are funny what do you know about living alone in your 60s living alone in your 20s is a lifetime away from living alone in your 60s. I have no idea why you think you are qualified on this subject! You cannot believe how much life is going to change by the time you reach 60. Why don’t you talk about living alone in your 20’s since you can relate to that. No amount of education or degrees can Prepare you for what’s coming! I wish you the best.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and I absolutely hear where you're coming from. It's true, the experiences of living alone in our 60s can be vastly different from those in our 20s, filled with unique challenges and transitions that only come with time. While I may not have reached that season of life myself, my role as a retirement coach is grounded in listening to, learning from, and supporting those who are there. Every day, I'm privileged to hear stories, concerns, and aspirations from incredible people navigating their 60s and beyond. These conversations, combined with continuous research and education, fuel my commitment to providing meaningful guidance and support ❤️
I like the idea of the video but that constant beating drone in the background was uncomfortably not music and disturbing the message. I could not listen.
With the exception of preparing my coffee every morning and feeding my dog twice a day, I have no routine. None at all. I put everything off. I have found that the less interaction I have with others the better off I and they will be. I wish that wasn't the case. There's just so much craziness out there and I have a zero tolerance policy for it.
Establishing a routine, even a small one, can sometimes help bring a sense of stability and control. You might start with simple, enjoyable activities that bring you joy or peace-like reading a book, taking a short walk, or practicing mindfulness. It’s great that you have your morning coffee and feeding your dog as part of your day; these small acts can be the foundation for building more structure. Remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time and seek out interactions that uplift rather than drain you. Your well-being matters, and finding a balance that works for you is key. Keep moving forward, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need support 💕
